How To Live Out Your Fantasies

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Did you know that 33 percent of women fantasize about having sex under the Eiffel Tower? 31 percent of men fantasize about having sex in the White House. Did you know that women who fantasize during sex are much more likely to orgasm? Fantasies can be exactly what you need to turn on the heat. How can we turn on the passion in our love lives using our fantasies? 

Have you read, Orgasm For Life yet? If not, you might want to. Sex under the Eiffel Tower, on an airplane, in the ocean off the coast of Bermuda used to be on my bucket list. I believe in living life fully. I believe in living the life that some people only dream about. Maybe that is why I am so happy. My bucket list is getting shorter and shorter every day. What is on yours? I want to hear from you below. Or send me an e-mail. I will read your fantasies on my radio show, All You Need Is Love.

Our fantasies may be erotic thoughts that we just fantasize about and don't want to experience. Some of us, however, might be interested in experiencing and living our fantasies. What types of fantasies turn on most people? You would be surprised at what the Durex Sex Survey found. Here are the top fantasies you could live out and ignite the fire of passion in your love life!

1. Sex in a car. I have to admit road trips make me hot. Maybe that is why I drive so darn much. Blowjobs while driving? Sex in the back seat? So hot! I did it with one of my husbands or was it two?

2. Sex in a pool. Whether it is a community pool or your private pool, sex in water is hot! There are places you can visit on retreat or vacation with your private pool.

3. Movie theaters. Sitting in the back of a movie theater and thinking about getting down? You are not alone. Even if it is to just begin to make out, you might want to rush home before the movie ends!

4. Sex outside. Love picnics? Maybe you love nature. Being naked outdoors is amazing! It is so completely freeing. Whether it is in the back of a pickup truck under the stars in the desert, on a blanket in a meadow, sex outside is amazing! Yes, I have! Desert nights under the stars are so romantic.

5. Be an exhibitionist. Brett Kahr found in his study on sex fantasies that 19 percent of people fantasize about being watched during sex. Another 5 percent fantasize about taking their clothes off in public.

6. Boss - co-worker sex. 56 percent of women and 61 percent of men fantasize about having sex with co-workers. Being dressed up in work attire can make you feel positive and confident. Having sex with your boss has to do with power. Power is hot! Have a desk at home? Why not try out the boss-co-worker sex at home?

7. The Voyeur. Many people get turned on watching others having sex. It is natural. Many people have the fantasy of being watched during sex. This is why porn is so alluring.

8. Watching Each Other Masturbate. Ew? Oh c'mon! Sex is natural! Remember George Michael said it is! This is a great way to change things up a bit and learn what each other really likes. Maybe you will learn something new!

9. French Maid. Such an easy one to re-create. Halloween stores

have these costumes for a reason. Try a French accent. Make it real!

10. Threesomes! Oh yes! Ooh la la! So many men have this fantasy. Many men would be delighted to have you bring home a friend to expand this fantasy into reality. I have been asked about this one. The answer is yes! This one is much more fun when you are the one in the middle!

11. Dominating. (Her dominating you.) Women enjoy having a man totally devoted to her, begging for it! Having her hold your arms down, not letting you touch her, could be very exciting. Many men like it when women take charge.

To create amazing sex, we need to discover each others desires. Creating new experiences and heightening our state of arousal raises the bar in our sex lives. Don't die with your dreams still in your heart. I certainly am not. Some of these things I experienced while living in Canada. Maybe it is the cold winters, or the short summers. I live an adventurous life and love what I do. What do you love about these fantasies? What interests you? I want to hear from you.

Shifting into sex and passion was a natural transition for me; someone who loves sex and who has healed addictions and codependency. In my book, Orgasm For Life I share what I

learned on my journey from sexual dysfunction to wholeness. I hope you'll read my books and discover your inner soul's purpose on your road to healing. And connect with me for deeper work, if you feel called.

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters now empowers women and men through her love and passion coaching. Using six modalities, the experience is different for every person. A lack of Self-love is the source of all addictions.

Loving the self is the greatest gift you can give yourself and the world. You can e-mail Jennifer here for your personal 30-minute FREE discovery session to find out if her work is a good fit for you. 

The Ladies Are Getting Bored!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Feel that sex is just ho hum? Maybe minus the HUM? If so, you are not alone. I just finished a radio show with Charlotte Howard on the Success and Beauty Show where the listeners are predominantly women. They are bored! Three callers asked how they could get their men to use a different position and do something different in bed. They complained about their partners being tired all the time and not interested in sex.

If you are doing the same ol' same ol and expecting your woman to be happy, I have news for you. You have to add some excitement. Make it thrilling. Read my book! I have plenty of ideas for different positions, dress up, roll playing (yes I know, it was intentional) erotica to read together and even fantasy ideas to use to make sex exciting again. You have got to wake up and smell the cold coffee. 

Listen up men! You need to change it up. Buy my book and get some new moves. Your lady is not happy with you! I am not kidding. Change can be scary. It can also build excitement and anticipation. We like excitement. We like movement and we don't like sex the same way day after day. If you think that having your woman lie on her back while you do the old hammer and nail move, every time, is exciting, it just isn't cutting it! You might be enjoying it, but your lady is looking at her watch! Women this goes for you too. If you just want to lie there while your partner does all the work, that doesn't work either. It takes two to create passion and excitement.

The time is NOW!

Choose something different. Get creative. You have a shower, a kitchen, a dining room table, a couch. There are plenty of rooms in your home. Use a pre-amble. Work up to sex. Begin in the living room. Move into the kitchen and then carry her up to the bathroom. Wait, you might want to use the stairs. Doing things in different rooms, in different areas of your home, in different ways can create some excitement. Remember how it was when you were dating? You didn't sit on the couch until you fell asleep, then stumbled up to bed. You made love on the couch! You kissed and held each other. You might have kept your clothes on a while longer. Try going back to those scenes that were so hot earlier in your relationship. What was so different? Can you re-create that excitement, even in part?

Heat things up in the kitchen! You have a counter, stove, table. Just don't turn the stove on! Things will heat up quickly enough without that inferno. Within the kitchen there is a refrigerator. You could take out some chocolate sauce and drizzle a little here and there. You know what I'm talking about. Chocolate is not just for breakfast anymore!

Remember what it was like when you were a teenager? You did it in your car, your parent's basement (well some people did!) It can feel a little naughty to have sex in your car. Even in your garage! The thrill of doing something that feels a little naughty can make regular sex feel a lot more exciting. 

Life is short. Make it exciting. Try something new. But practise safe sex, park your car first!

Why You Need To Read Orgasm For Life

Orgasm For Life is about love, relationships, communication and making sex sacred. Sex can be wonderful when it's great and horrible when things don't go well. I wrote this book to help men understand women better and women to understand themselves AND men better. Women can be confusing at times. One day we like one thing and the next day, we yell at you, "Don't touch me there!" Orgasm For Life explains the whys and wherefores. I demystify sex. Since I am a woman, and have had lots of sex I know what works and what doesn't. 

From a male friend who is in the middle of reading Orgasm For Life:  

A page turner, full of insight, but delivered in such a playful way!" B.L. Atlanta Georgia

"The chapter about oral sex for men is HOT HOT HOT!"

Women are different. What works for one woman might not work at all for another. Women differ from day-to-day because of our cycles, hormones and moods. We can be very difficult to understand. I have written this book in a playful, fun but informative way. I am not afraid of you, or sex or what people think. It is an honest, open look at men and women, relationships and the glue that holds our relationships together. I didn't say foundation, but I did say GLUE. Without sex, you are just room-mates. 

Orgasm For Life is funny, sexy, playful and full of inspirational wisdom. Written from personal experience with lots of stories from real couples, real clients. I interviewed hundreds of couples and singles and shared their experiences. 

If you are looking for a wise, sexy book to help you ignite the fire of passion while building intimacy, trust and mutual respect, Orgasm For Life is the book.

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a catalystic coach. She is different from other coaches in that she receives Divine guidance, she steps out of the way and does not filter the information she receives. She is authentic, compassionate and funny. She delivers information in such a way that you receive it easily. She seems to know you better than you know yourself. She gets who you are.

Her website is: http://www.JenniferElizabethMasters.com

Jennifer is a hypnotherapist, Shaman, Master Energy healer and also uses Neurolinguistic Programming, Past Life Regression. You can schedule your Discovery Session of 30 minutes HERE.