Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Finding Love After Abuse and Rage

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Sometimes we don't recognize what we have till it is gone. Sometimes, there is such pain and hurt in a relationship that hatred, anger and resentment blocks us from seeing the love that is present underneath it all. When we sever a relationship through divorce or a break-up, it can be years before we let go of the hurt, anger and resentment. When we do, we might feel very differently about that person. This is one of those stories. The truth, from my heart. You know I am very open about the lessons I have learned. I hope that my sharing will help you so that you can learn through my experience. Recognizing the love that is present now, can save you years of pain, suffering and sorrow.


In 1995, I married Rich Resuta. There were warning signs, big ones that I ignored. He had huge anger issues. I was sure that I could change him, fix him and help him heal whatever it was that caused his rage. He reminded me of my father. Was it his anger, or the control? I am not sure. It was not long before I feared him.

Our wedding was romantic. My two sons took part in the wedding. It was important to me, that we were a family. Rich married my kids too. Adam was 15, David was 12 when Ariel was born. She was the apple of her Daddy's eye. He had never been married before and Ariel was his first and only child. Rich was 35 when I met him. My father had just passed away a month before. I was 41. 

Even before we were married, Rich's true colors became evident. He had intense anger, rage and jealousy. At first, the jealousy fed my ego. Later on, it became possessive, and exclusive of all others, including family. It was us against the world. The "us" against the world does not work. We need our families, both sides to accept our mates. We had neither. In fact, Rich had me so alienated from
2003, Alpharetta, Georgia
my mother that I uninvited her from our wedding. What I did not realize while it was happening that my independence was being eradicated. When I met Rich, I was a single mother and homeowner.  I had a career, making a good living (more than Rich made, which was an issue for him), with insurance and benefits. 


Rich was compelling and persuasive. He was a fitness freak. He ran daily and lifted weights. His degree was in physical education. He was a strong role model in many ways for my sons. It was because of him, that they became involved in fitness and running. 

Rich talked me into being a stay-at-home mom. After an event at a mall while we were shopping, I made the decision to quit my job. My sons needed me to be home, as did our new baby girl. Rich felt that if I was to be a mother, I needed to care for her, rather than work outside the home. He actually would not let me work. How could an independent woman become so totally dependent and weak-willed? Fear. Rich would get angry and threaten to punch me in my face. He often punched walls, or a door jams inches from my face. 

Rich implemented new rules for my boys. My oldest became quite resentful. Rich was not his father. I tended to be a lessez faire type of parent. With few boundaries. Rich was the opposite. He was authoritative. Adam and he butted heads often. One day when Adam was taking a particularly long time to get the dishes done, Rich told him, "Get in there and do the dishes or I'll plant you!" Adam retorted in his teenage way, "So plant me!" Rich literally flew across the room grabbed Adam around his neck and strong-armed Adam to the ground. Adam lay motionless on the ground while Rich tightened his grip around his neck. David ran up and down the stairs, yelling, "Call 911! Call 911!" My whole body felt like it was vibrating with fire. I was in abject terror. It reminded me of a scene with my mother and father, long ago. Now I understand how I attracted this abuse into my life. It was imprinted into my cellular memory. It vibrated out into the Universe and called this man to me. 

I screamed at Rich to let go. Rich did not remember a thing about this event. He did not remember his hands around Adam's neck, nor the fact that he would not let go. His anger turned into blind rage. He was tapping into a moment in time when his mother was beaten and punched in the face by her husband, when Rich was 8 years old. We both had similar imprints. Rich was never able to clear his. Like his father, he put me down and criticised me. I was a good cook, but his comments were always negative during and after a meal, never uplifting or empowering. Each angry outburst chipped away at my trust and love for him. I eventually became very shutdown and closed off emotionally.

Our marriage was not all bad. Rich helped me to see how I lived in self pity. He was the first spiritual partner I ever had. He was my soul mate. In soul mate relationships, we often have tremendous strife, conflict and growth. Soul mate relationships can be the most challenging. I now wonder why people are so enamored with this type of relationship, having barely made it out of mine alive.

Encouragement

Rich encouraged me to start a business. Had it not been for him, I would never have had the courage to branch out on my own
and start my landscaping business, For Heaven Scapes. He gave me my first landscaping job, working for a prominent fertility doctor in Atlanta. Rich even helped me brainstorm for the name of my business. 

Doing What We Say We Will Never Do

By the end of our marriage, not only did Rich use all the equity in my home, his building business went belly up. He became severely depressed. He spent his days in his office above our garage, while I worked my butt off in my landscaping business. When people asked later on if my husband was my partner, it angered me. Rich sat on his butt while I loaded and unloaded my trailer night after night.

He was physically incapable of working. I scrapped out his half built houses and scraped paint off the brand new commodes and tile flooring, trying to get his homes to sell. Four of his properties were returned to the bank. We lost our 4,000 square foot home. We went bankrupt after he insisted on building a home of his own, that we could neither afford nor keep. Although I had a very pleasant home in a beautiful neighborhood where Adam and David were happy, he could not live in my home, it had to be HIS.

Our egos can cripple our relationships. So can rage. Abuse chips away at the love and creates fear. Love does not create fear. When I refused sex, Rich raped me. When I wanted sex, he refused. He controlled every aspect of my life, including my children. He forced me to send Adam to live with his father. You might ask, incredulously, where was my will? I was terrified. The constant threat of abuse had me crippled with fear. The threat of violence was always present. 

As soon as David turned 14, he left to live with his father as well. I felt like my world was crumbling under Rich's anger and control. It was. When I went off crying one night in my Ford Explorer, I parked in the parking lot of the middle school on a dark road. I sat crying in my vehicle. My weeping set off a charge which turned all the lights in the parking lot off all at once. It was the first time I really recognized my power. I stopped crying and the lights came back on. 

I wished that Rich would be hit by a bus. I wanted him dead. I could see no way of getting out of our marriage alive. I was
Looking miserable at the end of our marriage in 2008.
terrified of him. Ariel was terrified of him as well. She had begun stuttering and had other nervous behaviors as well. Her older siblings were gone. Her mother was a wreck.


My mother had concerns and asked what happened to me? Friends were systematically eliminated from our circle. Rich did not like having people over. He did not want visits from family members. He wanted ultimate control. It was what his father did. He adopted the same paradigm. He told me that as soon as my sons turned 18, out they must go! It was what his father did, he followed by example. 

Rich's control and rage became overwhelming. His anger scared me. He had guns that I was concerned about. When the comedian, Phil Hartman's wife shot him, I hid Rich's guns. I was in such fear that he would shoot my daughter and I while we slept. He was angry that I would not tell him where they were, but it made me feel safe. 
Adam, David, Ariel all in For Heaven Scapes garb

When I became a Georgia Master Gardener, I was offered a job as a lawn and garden manager in Woodstock, Georgia Rich told me I couldn't leave our daughter in daycare. I invited Rich's mother to come live with us, to take care of our daughter. I felt like I was imprisoned. Rich's mother acted like a friend to me, but when I confided in her, ran to Rich with the information. 

Finally, with the help of a friend, I found the courage to tell Rich his control was too much and I was done. I invited a family member to visit while Rich moved out of the house. I was so afraid that he would harm Ariel or me, in his anger. Our divorce was awful. He insisted on joint custody. Ariel cried every Sunday night with me knowing she had to spend the week with her father. He
Upon my return from India
was very protective of Ariel, but had no clue how to take care of her when she was sick. (There is so much more to this story that I write in my book, Odyssey Victim to Victory.) Rich and I met one day in Starbuck's. I asked him to allow Ariel to live with me full time, because the going back and forth was causing her too much stress. He was so angry after our discussion, he tried to run me over in the Starbuck's parking lot. People ran to my aid asking me if I wanted them to call the police. I was afraid of further inflaming the situation.


Fast Forward 8 Years

There are so many lessons learned from this relationship. We tried 7 times to reconcile. Rich could be quite sweet when he wanted something. As soon as I had sex with Rich, his old controlling patterns surfaced. I knew we could not be together as lovers. The love that was present early on, became more evident as we healed from the past events. Even though there was abuse,
control and many difficulties, we eventually became friends. We had a daughter and history between us. Once you move beyond the anger, you recognize the presence of the love, that never went away. It never does. It is just masked and hidden under the emotion and resentment. We often avoid our feelings by putting them aside. They eventually resurface and blindside us at the most unexpected times.

When I received guidance to move to Boulder, Colorado in 2011, I was afraid to tell Rich. My guides told me it would be okay. I had difficulty believing that this was true, but it was. Rich decided in the same week to move to North Dakota to work in the oil fields. I knew he would die there and was concerned for his well-being. I predicted his death, which occurred on July 4th, 2012. He died in his sleep with a smile on his face. He came to me that night, explaining that "a door simply opened and he walked through." I have experienced my own walk through the tunnel of light in 2013. I chose to remain here with my daughter and was backed quickly out of the tunnel. I still had work to do. I knew I was not done here.

Rich never stopped loving me, although his imprinting of family abuse caused his own issues with rage and abuse. Although he had deep patterns and trapped emotions that I did not know how to clear back then, he asked me why he could never get beyond his rage. The rage caused him to have HTP, (premature ejaculation). Premature ejaculation is caused by trapped emotions. It can be healed and remedied. This is part of the work I do now. 

The Moral Of The Story

Soul mate relationships are not always delightful. In fact, they can be the most challenging relationships that we experience. We attract those we have the deepest issues with. The relationship mirrors our issues back to us, to help us resolve ours. Our energy field reverberates out into the Universe and we are matched with people of similar issues. 

Rich was extremely possessive, jealous and controlling of me, but he was the one that had multiple affairs with clients, not me. Jealousy is a sign of deep self loathing, and low self esteem. People who have healthy self esteem are not jealous.

When too many issues in both parties are negative, the relationship implodes. Rich and I both had abuse and addiction in our family of origin. I had sexual trauma in my childhood as well. We were seen by two different traditional therapy counselors. In the first situation, when Rich was forced to look at his issues he became violent and threatened the therapist. That ended our therapy. The second instance, Rich was made out to be the good guy, I was the bad one. We also went to an energy healer who was an acupuncturist. I highly recommend acupuncture for many issues and clearing of energy, however it does not clear trapped emotions. In my experience traditional therapy keeps you stuck in your issues, rather than clearing the problems from the point of origin. 

I had committed to healing my life prior to meeting Rich. I know I called him forth, after my father died to heal my past. After our separation, I did deep energy work and introspection. This is when I was guided to create the tools for my healing work in use today. I recognized that I was the common denominator in all my relationships. It was a big aha moment for me. I was not a victim, but a victor. This relationship dredged up my deepest darkest issues for me to see and heal.

Rich was a loving father to his daughter, however controlling and protective he was. He did the best he could. The fact that he worked

in North Dakota provided Ariel the money for her to attend college without school loans and debt.

Be Careful What You Wish For

Our thoughts are powerful. Did I wish Rich dead? When I was in the middle of the melee and the mess? Yes, I did. Did I cause his death. No. That I know for sure. I do miss our conversations and the depth of his understanding of me. My daughter will not have her father to see her graduate college. He has already missed her high school graduation. He will not walk her down the aisle, should she choose to marry. Although I know he sees and hears what is going on in her life, physically he is not here for her to hug, or talk to about her daily life.  Once we love another, that love is always present, although sometimes hidden under sorrow, pain and suffering. 

Death Prediction

Yes, I told Rich about the possibility of his impending death in May. He had an abscessed tooth that he had not taken care of due to financial issues. He came to me the week of Ariel's 16th birthday and asked me to intuitively check in for him. I told him that the abscess had cleared his gum line, but the infection had travelled to his heart. I also directed him to go back to his dentist to get a different antibiotic to treat his heart infection, rather than a broad spectrum antibiotic. When he called his dentist, he was told the antibiotic was fine. So much for medical advice and care. Sometimes, we need to trust the guidance we receive and fight for our own health. Rather than to entrust what another with our life and health.

Rich was an avid runner. Although fit, he ate ice cream every single night. Not just a small bowl, but a big heaping bowl. His favorite was Espresso chip by Edy's. He would often eat ice cream, but not allow Ariel to have it, which caused her great resentment.

He ran the Peachtree Road race 26 years in a row. In 2012, July 4th the day of the Peachtree Road race was the day he left his body in Williston, North Dakota.  






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The Morphogenic Field

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Sometimes the reasons we are attracted to one another escape us. Two people come together for a multitude of reasons, only one of them is to procreate. We come together from different backgrounds, countries and environments. Attraction seems to have no bounds. Relationships are infinitely complex. Sexual attraction is part of our experience, but of course, not the entire relationship. We must be able to relate on other levels. 

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When a couple is seemingly at odds with one another people come to me for help. Clearing the mutual energy field or morphogenic field can make the difference between a couple being able to connect, communicate and work things out, or end the relationship. Our entangled issues can cause us endless strife, where clearing of the morphogenic field of the couple can eliminate the disconnect, helping with communication on all levels.

Each of us has a morphogenic field, or energy field. You can sense it, if you are sensitive to energy. We often refer to it as our personal bubble. Depending on the person, the field can expand up to 15 or 20 feet away from an individual. My friend who passed away in 2012, Diana Davis used to say, she always knew when I was
arriving, because my field arrived before I did. She felt my presence before my car even drove down her street. Diana lived out in North Georgia near a top of a mountain. She was highly intuitive and evolved.

Each person's morphogenic field transmits how they are feeling out into the world. Which is why we can often tell someone is upset even before they begin to tell us what is happening in their lives. Sensitive people can also detect illness, distress, and other details from tapping into someone's energy field.

My daughter recently came to me asking for my help with her significant other. There had been two huge misunderstandings in recent months and her guy wanted nothing to do with her. After clearing their mutual field (I got his soul's permission first) they began to talk last night. Clearing their morphogenic field game them a chance that they would not have had otherwise. People going through divorce could use a morphogenic clearing, to allow the love that is still present to be felt, and understood. It would also allow greater communication and the possibility of reconciliation.

A women came to me from India years ago, who became a client. She wanted help, as her father was about to arrange a marriage and she wanted love, not just a marriage. This woman was intelligent, a homeopathic doctor with a successful business. I told her to break up with the man she was dating, as she did not love him. We worked together to increase her self esteem, so that she loved and accepted herself fully. Within weeks she met a man that she fell for, right before he returned to the United States. 

She was heartbroken. We talked multiple times. She asked if I could work with him as well. I cleared his field, after speaking with him and had a vision of the two of them being married. He had unfinished business in Virginia with his girlfriend. My client was afraid he would stay with her. I explained he was a man of honor, would she want anything less? She of course realized she wanted a man of good character. I told her how he treated other women was how he would also treat her. 

Over a three month period she came to me in fear that she had lost him. I would do another clearing for her. I told her to leave him alone. That if she hounded him in fear it would only send him packing. Fortunately, she listened and trusted me. When Awais returned to the States, he proposed. 

Then their troubles really began. Awais' mother did not like Falak, as she was a professional woman, a modern woman. She preferred a stay-at-home Indian girl for her beloved son. I did work on Awais's mother's field as well. Falak and she had several past lives which were causing issues for all three of them. Falak had taken away Awais's mother's man. She was resentful and angry with Falak lifetimes later. These energies stay in our bodies until they are cleared. 

Falak and Awais
After I did the clearing of all concerned, they were happily married.  Although I was invited to their wedding, the timing was challenging and I was not able to attend. They traveled to California two years ago and we met in person for the first time. I told Falak then, she would have a baby very soon. She was delighted, as she was worried she would have difficulty getting married. They are now the happy parents of a beautiful little boy. Life is good. Without the energy clearing Awais and Falak probably would have had too many challenges to make their relationship work. A morphogenic clearing was what helped all of them live happier connected lives.


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I invite you to join me Wednesday evening at 8:00 PM EST - 9:00 PM EST for a group clearing of the blocks holding you back from receiving love, blocks to success and wealth as well as trapped emotions. This clearing will be 45 minutes in length, live and recorded. If you cannot attend, I will send you the recording to keep. Once your payment has been received, I will send you the link for the call. It will most likely be a phone in conference. If you are unable to attend, I will send you the recording link.

Listening to the recording will clear your energy field and that of anyone who listens to it. I caution you to NOT LISTEN WHILE DRIVING. It may cause you to go into a deep state of THETA healing. Many report falling asleep. Insomnia, anxiety, fears, worry and mental chatter will be cleared in the process. This is a great opportunity to see one small aspect of the work that I do for a nominal fee. My coaching clients pay me $150 for an energy clearing. Getting a full clearing for $20.00 is an amazing gift! If you would like a particular block cleared, you can e-mail me privately here: JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com  Below are a few testimonials from past clients. Jennifer has performed over 1,500 energy clearings in just 2014 alone.


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Praise From Jennifer's Clients

From famous authors to Spiritual leaders, Jennifer has worked with and continues to spread her light into the world. If you have the opportunity to work with this delightful woman, do it! Francis Stratton, Toronto, Canada

I am so amazed at how much time and effort and love Jennifer infuses into her healing work. I can't thank you enough for your clearings, advice, suggestions and the changes you are creating in my life.  J.S. Sydney Australia.



Just brilliant! A beautiful emissary of love and light... :) Robert Beno



Many thanks. Look forward to working with you again. A lot of what you said has really resonated and I do definitely feel lighter. I have had several clearings over the past couple of years but yours is the most comprehensive. Much appreciated Sharon



I worked with Jennifer as my personal coach for 30 weeks. She is gifted, compassionate and saw me, in a way no other human has. During that time, my life became happier. I know that a large part of this is due to the energy clearings that she did for me. NA, Georgia

Thank you very much Jennifer for the work you have done for me, it feels amazing and I did feel a lot lighter today without knowing you worked on my energy and aura. I am a lot calmer and more peaceful. I will come back again. Thank you, Ramona.


Amazing healing and changes. So gentle, deep and powerful. Feeling very light and clean. Thank you. M. Thacker

Thanks Jennifer! My income increased for the first time in a long, long time after your first clearing so I decided to do another! I look forward to even more abundance after this clearing. Wanda St. Hilaire


Wow she does a lot of stuff!!! very recommended!!! If you want a bunch of stuff cleared call her!!!! Brian Osiris

In March, 2012, I began coaching with Jennifer. For years I got my heart broken repeatedly and I didn’t know why. After several clearings, I discovered that I had past life issues that needed to be cleared to attract the love I wanted and knew I deserved.  Jennifer helped me to set goals and helped me realize my thoughts were focused in areas that did not support me. I found myself through Jennifer’s coaching. I became this strong woman that was buried deep inside me. I have found my confidence and inner power through my work with Jennifer. I knew what I wanted and Jennifer helped me to discover that I deserved it. After 3 months with Jennifer I called her to say HE had arrived! He was someone I had always known, but never noticed before. We started to really connect. It was like magic. It literally happened overnight. He is everything I have been dreaming of and I know this man is here for me forever. He is so into me and says all the things to me that I had prayed for.I am a much stronger woman and have learned so many great tools from Jennifer that I will continue to use every day. I’m confident, strong, happy, peaceful and healed (finally). Thank you Jennifer will continue to do clearings with you when things in life come up. Blessings Cindy McLelland. Knightsen,CA




Sunday, February 22, 2015

5 Ways To Keep Love Hot and Connected

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

When people are loving and connected, they are wonderful to be around. Watching how they interact can teach us so much about what works and what does not.  Couples who are connected touch each other often, have secret signals across the room and speak lovingly to each other. They don't nag or bitch about little things. In fact they let the little things go, as they know in the end they are not important.


It is very easy to get into a rut in our relationships. There are many ways that this occurs. Keeping love alive and connected does not happen when we blame, complain or nag. When we live alone, we have no one to blame for  the garbage not being taken out, or the clothes all over the house. There is no one around to clean up after us, or do the chores. We have to take responsibility for ourselves, and being happy.  In our relationships, we have to continue to take responsibility for ourselves, our chores and our own happiness. It is up to us to be happy. If we don't take care of ourselves, how can we expect anyone else to either?


Notice how the couple above, pictured are reciprocating their affection. He is holding her, as she is holding him. When one party does not bother to embrace, or give back, they are closed, often angry or resentful, blaming the other for the way they feel, rather than taking responsibility for their own emotional wounding. 

Everyone has hurts, pain and suffers at some point in their lives. Moving beyond that place of suffering and wounding takes some courage but can be done. Moving out of pain, suffering or stagnation is a choice. By choosing to be happy, hiring a coach to help us, can speed up the process. I did it without a coach, but it took me over 30 years. Sometimes, we need to take someone's hand and have them lift us up, ask us the questions that get us to think out of the box we have created for ourselves.

There is a big difference in couples who are connected and those who are not. Couples who are connected recognize that their spouse
is not perfect. They overlook their flaws and faults, rather than focus on them. They are accepting of their partner the way they are. They also have a grounding in the spiritual. Whether it is through beliefs, meditation, or spiritual practice. They connect through the spiritual. A spiritual connection deepens all other areas of the relationship. A connection with the community also upholds their relationship further expanding their love.

We need friends as well as our partner to have balanced, healthy, uplifting, nurturing relationships. When two people shut out the world, they have no one to fall back on, and their relationship will implode. We need a community, not just each other to survive and thrive. Relationships that exclude others are intensely codependent and often abusive.

If you do the following you will create more ease, togetherness and connectedness in your relationship. When we connect on all levels, continuing to expand with personal growth and spirituality daily, we avoid the trap of stagnation. We do not take each other for granted.

  1. Take responsibility for yourself and your own happiness. No one else can make us happy. Happiness is a choice, as is the choice to love someone. Choose to be happy and loving every day. 
  2. Give. When we give to ourselves, we will also be generous to our loved ones. When we are stingy with ourselves, with time, and energy, we will also be stingy with our love and acceptance of others. A generous loving spirit has an open heart. Is loving and accepting.
  3. Make eye contact with your partner. Many people in long-term marriages stop looking into each others eyes. They also stop kissing, hand holding and giving each other a squeeze every now and then. When you are making love, instead of closing
    your eyes, look at your partner. Watch them when you are on top of them. Open your eyes. With eyes wide open we see into their souls and connect deeply, rather than closing our eyes and shutting them out, perhaps even thinking or fantasizing about someone else.
  4. Meditate together. Pray together. Meditation can create a deeply connected relationship. Often we want to keep that personal, which is okay to a point. However, meditating together once a week or more, connects the two of you, grounding the spiritual into your relationship. Yes, our connection with God, The Divine, or whatever you call it is a personal one. Bringing your partner into your spiritual practice at least once a week includes them rather than excludes them.
  5. Learn, grow and play together. Taking courses together or apart can give us interesting events to talk about and share with one another. A cooking or dance class can expand our connection as we learn together. Learning adds a new dimension to our relationships. Remember when you were dating? You did fun activities together that bonded you. Staying bonded requires continued learning and growth, always onward and upward. We don't have to do everything together, but sharing some common activities is important. As long as we are in a physical body we will continue to expand and grow. If we are not expanding and growing, we are actually dying. There are only two ways to go here. Our brain
    will start to atrophy, just like our muscles will from lack of use. We are never too old to learn something new, nor is it ever too late. My 92 year old mother reads 6, count 'em SIX books a week. She also does puzzles and word games to keep her mind active. She is just as sharp, if not sharper now then when she was in her 30's. She is infinitely more intuitive, loving and kinder as well. It is NEVER TOO LATE!
As a caveat to this article, I had a brush with death on Friday. I tell this story because we never know how much time we have left on this planet. It can all be taken away in a flash! We only have this moment now.

I live 11 miles away from the next largest town. On Friday, February 20th, 2015, I drove into town to get my oil changed.  As I exited the off ramp, the light was red. I sat patiently, waiting for the light to change. I noticed that the homeless man that was usually standing at the corner was not there. My radio was off and my dogs were safely at home, which was unusual. I normally take my two dogs everywhere. The light changed to green. Looking straight ahead, as we do, I began to enter the subdivision. I felt the overwhelming need to look left as I inched into the intersection. As I did, I saw a white Toyota or Mustang speeding towards me racing to beat the red light, doing at least 65 miles per hour. If I had not stopped to check left, he would have broadsided me and I would have been killed. Just because we have the right to move forward, does others will be doing what they need to do. 

I was seconds away from the garage. When I arrived, I was so grateful to be alive, I shared my gratitude with the mechanic that was taking my information. He told me that a man had been killed in the exact same spot the night before, crossing the street on foot. He was 34 years old. The same thing happened to him. A car came from out of nowhere speeding at almost 70 miles an hour. I was not meant to die. I was meant to get a strong message. Every single day we have on this earth is a gift. Every chance we have to love, make love and share our love with others is also a gift. If you are not loving and giving, you are not living. If you have difficulty with love, anger, or resentment, or even feeling happy, isn't it time, you contacted me? How much longer are you prepared to be unhappy, unloved, or unloving?

The energy of that crash was still sitting in the intersection. Energies from past events get stuck in our energy field, our emotional body and spiritual body. If those stuck emotions are not cleared, they continue to reverberate causing us emotional crashes and sabotaging us and our relationships. 

This is a perfect example of why we need to have our energy field cleared. I highly recommend that everyone get an energy clearing on a regular basis to clean up the debris that is hanging on causing issues in our lives. I have done thousands of energy clearings for my clients. In 2014, I did over 1,500 clearings alone. To answer your question, yes, I have cleared the intersection.

Want to try an energy clearing? Jennifer is doing a group clearing on Wednesday, February 25th at 8:00 PM - 9:00 PM EST. If you are interested in attending this group clearing, you will receive an audio that you can replay again and again. Blocks to receiving love, blocks to success and financial freedom will be cleared as well as trapped emotions. Although, I can't guarantee ALL your blocks will be cleared, I will clear over 200 different blocks and over 10 trapped emotions. This clearing will be recorded. My normal coaching sessions are $225 an hour. This clearing is only $20.00 for 45 minutes. The rest of the hour I will answer questions and add personal blocks that I pick up from doing the previous 45 minutes.

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You can invite your friends and purchase a clearing for them as well. Choose as many additional clearings as you like and I will send your friend or family member a clearing audio when it is completed and processed. Jennifer does energy clearings, hypnotherapy, Neurolinguistic Programming and Avatar work in
her coaching sessions. This is a great way to try out Jennifer's Master energy clearing at a nominal fee. You will receive an e-mail invitation, with the login once you make your payment. If you are unable to attend, you will still receive your audio clearing to keep and replay. Each time you listen to the recording you receive the same benefits as hearing it live!

I am grateful to you for being here. I am grateful to you for buying my book. If you have not gotten your copy, of this Divinely inspired guide book to having and creating the most loving, sensual and connected relationship, you need to. Buy it here on Amazon.com now! You will be glad you did. It will inspire you,
make you laugh and help you understand you and your partner better in a loving direct way. Orgasm For Life, the no holds-barred guide to creating passion and connection in your relationship. If you don't have one, e-mail me, I have the path for that too, through my Love Yourself Fearlessly course. I have yet to see anyone who has gone through this course NOT find love. If you have a question, or wonder if Jennifer's work is right for you, you can e-mail her here: JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com

Saturday, February 21, 2015

3 Signs You're Not Getting Enough

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Most people are not aware that they are dehydrated. When we are dehydrated, our brains don't function as well, our organs aren't able to dump toxins and we feel more tired. What most people are unaware of is how drinking fresh clean water, at room temperature helps sexual function.


For women, without enough water, vaginal lubrication can be difficult. Without natural lubrication, sex can be painful. Water keeps our mouth fresh, our bodies from becoming toxic, and helps combat fatigue between the sheets. 

Caffeine beverages dehydrate the body. Each soda we consume means we are putting our body in a deficit. With continued and long-term dehydration skin becomes lack lustre, our eyes don't work as well and we feel intensely fatigued. Most people don't even recognize their craving for water. As over time, thirst, which is a natural sign to drink more water is replaced with feelings of hunger. Many people eat when what their body really needs is water.

The more vigorous your bedroom workout is, the more water you will need. When we sweat, cry or ejaculate, water is needed to replace precious fluids lost. Depending on whether you have been in a deficit for a longer or short time, changes your symptoms.

Following are signs of dehydration - okay there are more than 3:

  1. Headache. This one is often misconstrued and many reach for a pain reliever instead of several big glasses of water. You might experience this early in the day, or even when you wake up. Have a big glass of water BEFORE your coffee, which will dehydrate you even more.
  2. Dry mouth
  3. Fatigue
  4. Flushed face
  5. Constipation
  6. Nausea
  7. Aggravation and depression
  8. Deep golden urine, which can sometimes be malodorous
  9. Chapped lips. The ones on your face, not elsewhere, silly!


The key is to drink water daily. How much? At least 8 - eight ounce glasses of room temperature water. Putting ice in your water, causes your body to have to heat it up to 98 degrees and can cause your body shock, weakening the immune system. Remember how being in cold temperatures can cause you to come down with a virus, ice cold water is like subjecting your body to ice cold outdoor temperatures, every time you consume it. Room temperature water is always best. 

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a sex, love and empowerment coach and author of Orgasm For Life. Her radio show will be airing soon on BBM Global Network, Tune In and Roku Box. She works with groups and privately to help you live the happiest, most enlightened life. She teaches meditation, and helps you find your path so that you will feel fulfilled and happy. 

She walks the walk and has been on a healing journey for over 30 years. She is a healed healer, with the knowledge that as long as we are in a human body we will always have something to work on. She wrote Orgasm For Life, because she was non-orgasmic for most of her life. She knew she was not alone. Orgasm For Life, is for men AND women to bridge the chasm between the sexes. Full of wit and wisdom you will not be disappointed. It will enlighten you, make you laugh and teach even you, some new tricks!

You can find Jennifer here: JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com


Or her website: JenniferElizabethMasters.com  


Thursday, February 19, 2015

Waiting For Your Soul Mate

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

You want to have someone to share your life with. You know you are ready for love, but can't seem to find it? Have you been looking through the forest of people out there, but are you unable to see the ONE that causes your heart to flutter, your pulse to quicken or you to KNOW, without a doubt that he (or she) is IT?


Those that have worked with me, know that one of my gifts is helping women get the guy. They may have dated, been married, had relationships in the past that either ended through death or didn't work out, or weren't what they wanted. I help you focus on you, get clear, laser focused while re-directing your thinking so that you are open to finding love AND (the key here) open to RECEIVING LOVE. Many women and some men are closed to receiving love. If you are closed to receiving love, you may long for it, but never find it. This gets cleared in the process too. 


I have done it, helped women find love with great success. Yes, I have a system that works. I manifest in the moment for myself. My adult children come to me on behalf of friends, asking me to manifest their wishes for them. Here is a link to some of the things I manifested last summer. Since then I asked for a free week in Colorado so my family could all be together at Christmas time. A tall order? Not tall enough for The Universe! It happened. 

When family members see the evidence, through their own experience that is proof. My son recently asked me to help his girlfriend get the exact car she wanted, "Mom, do your thing!" My daughter called me yesterday stuck in an icy parking spot in Boulder, Colorado, over 1,100 miles away. I told her to get off the phone and call a friend. While she was occupied, I said a prayer. Within minutes a guy she didn't know showed up with kitty litter and helped her get out of the spot. She called me back all excited, "Mom, you are amazing, it was like a miracle! It happened so fast!" My family knows this is how I live my life. Some things take a little longer, because there is something that we need to do, or heal before we get the guy or girl.

Here are some of the things you will get from my coaching experience.

  1. Happiness. What? Yes, if you do the homework, follow the directions, and stay with the course, you will find happiness. I did, and my clients do. 
  2. Shift your focus because the way you are currently thinking isn't working for you.
  3. Focus on you. I help you come to loving acceptance of yourself, so that others will lovingly accept you the way you are. How many relationships have you had where either you tired to fix your partner, or they tried to fix you. This never works out.
  4. If you keep attracting love that isn't love, is abusive, lying cheating partners, I help you by clearing those limiting beliefs that are stuck so that you can get into a new groove of receiving a healthy love, that is balanced, accepting and nurturing. 
  5. A better life. There is no doubt that when you work with me your life will improve in all areas. Go to my website and check out the testimonials. Set up a time to talk to me for 30 minutes for free, not everyone is committed to making the changes that will change their lives, but maybe YOU are.


A Personal Testimonial



I had been struggling with the feeling of not being loved, I felt unworthy of love. When Jennifer and I first worked together I was seeing someone that I didn’t love. I wondered would I ever find anyone for me? I wanted love, but it wasn’t happening. I was very sad, depressed and resentful. Jennifer helped me move through anger, depression quickly. I felt so wonderful after working with Jennifer that I could rise up and feel strong and empowered. I could again feel joy in 

myself. Right after working with Jennifer I met a wonderful man, Jennifer cleared the way 

 so that we are now married and just had our first child! Thank you Jennifer….. Much

 love and gratitude. Love u so much, hugs! Dr. Falak Shaikh, Gujarat, India


More Testimonials


I met Jennifer at one of her workshops that a friend recommended to me.  At that time I was searching, and wanting some help out of my deep depression and anxiety.
Keeping in touch, I joined her on line workshops, and eventually her coaching once a week.


One of my earliest coaching sessions with Jennifer, I felt complete trust, like I have never felt with anyone in my ENTIRE LIFE.  I told her my deepest darkest secrets, and she welcomed me into her loving space.  For this, I will never ever forget, and will be eternally grateful.    


She allowed me to be where I was, no rescue, no high expectation - no pat advice that I have heard over and over - not landing anywhere in me that could really grow.
Her advice was simple and doable, small steps to move forward - with kindness, and no judgment allowed me to open up.


The meditations helped me see my guides and myself in a new light.  
As I grew in compassion and respect for myself as a result from the coaching sessions, vast changes in me occurred.


I feel happier, more peaceful, more truly loving now.


In both my professional life and personal life, the changes though subtle, were highly significant:  I easily am present with people and they sense this.  If nothing else occurs, I feel that this is a huge gift, to be able to connect with people so that they feel heard and significant. N. A, Atlanta, Georgia, December, 2014


Jennifer is a catalystic life, love, sex and relationship coach. She is more than just a coach and author. She is awakened and self actualized. She is in constant contact with The Divine, connected with her Divine high self. Just talking to her will shift you. It is nothing that she DOES, but who she is.

She helps women (and some men) find the love they are seeking. She has successfully helped hundreds of women (and herself) wonderful partners who are exactly what they are seeking. She will teach you how in her Love Yourself Fearlessly Private sessions. She has an uncanny knack for cutting to the root of the issues quickly clearing the pattern so you get out of your rut. Her life experience is vast, giving her deep and profound wisdom. She is compassionate, caring and kind. However, her directness and ability to cut through the smoke means a better coaching experience for her clients. She has a large toolbox of skills from hypnotherapy to energy healing. She empowers her clients to self direct so that when their coaching experience is over, they are well on their way of using the tools given to continue to work on a daily basis on their own.


I met Jennifer at one of her workshops that a friend recommended to me.  At that time I was searching, and wanting some help out of my deep depression and anxiety.
Keeping in touch, I joined her on line workshops, and eventually her coaching once a week.


One of my earliest coaching sessions with Jennifer, I felt complete trust, like I have never felt with anyone in my ENTIRE LIFE.  I told her my deepest darkest secrets, and she welcomed me into her loving space.  For this, I will never ever forget, and will be eternally grateful.    


She allowed me to be where I was, no rescue, no high expectation - no pat advice that I have heard over and over - not landing anywhere in me that could really grow.
Her advice was simple and doable, small steps to move forward - with kindness, and no judgment allowed me to open up.


The meditations helped me see my guides and myself in a new light.  
As I grew in compassion and respect for myself as a result from the coaching sessions, vast changes in me occurred.


I feel happier, more peaceful, more truly loving now.


In both my professional life and personal life, the changes though subtle, were highly significant:  I easily am present with people and they sense this.  If nothing else occurs, I feel that this is a huge gift, to be able to connect with people so that they feel heard and significant. N. A, Atlanta, Georgia, December, 2014




Monday, February 16, 2015

Sexy Songs To Heat Up Your Love Life

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Music feeds our soul. Music can illicit an emotional response and change our mood. From one song to the next we can go from crying to feeling happy, or maybe even hot. Music can also turn us on. It is a known aphrodisiac. Sometimes we get stuck in a rut in our relationships and in our choices. If your love-life is dull and uneventful, make some changes. Add some rock and roll or some R&B. 


How about expanding your musical repertoire and trying something new or maybe old for a change.  Listening to the same music you don't expand your horizons. Why not play music that turns you and your partner on. I have chosen the sexiest songs for your play list. Everyone has a song that matches their sexual relationship. I thought it might be fun to light a fire under your proverbial butts in more ways than one.


Music can set the tone for your sexual play. It can change the mood with the flip of a switch. Playing the right music can make the difference between ho hum, and a real hummer!

Everyone has their hot buttons. Find out what your partner's is and crank up the heat! Music can light your fire faster than you can take your clothes off. Listen and feel what happens to you. If you listen to all of these.....  you will think somebody left the stove on! Have some fun with it. You might even remember some of your old favorites that really did it for you in your past. Try those today and see just how music changes your mood.

I want to hear from you which song best describes your relationship. This first one, is just a warm up. Some of us like to feel loved, not just desired.




Daryl Hall and John Oates were two of the sexiest white guys back in the day, in the music industry. From "Your Kiss" to "One on One." They still will turn on most women. 






One of the best known songs about wanting it fast! "Are you thinking of another guy? That's why you call me in the middle of the night...... I'm not looking for a love that lasts......"





Or do you have to take matters into your own hands like Cyndi Lauper, in She Bop? 



Or maybe you are like Van Morrison, who wrote the original song that King Harvest made into a hit. Are you dancing in the moonlight and never fight?




Exile had one hit that went through the roof. I Wanna Kiss You All Over. This romantic, rock ballad, will warm your body and get your mind in gear. "Show me everything you do, no one does it quite like you.....Love you, need you...."


Maybe you are "so excited,  and just can't hide it! I just can't get enough, and if you move real slow, I'll let it go......"



Newer to the scene is Adina Howard. Freak In Me.....  you can guess. "I'll take you around the hood. ... anytime of day.. 



I love the Pointer Sisters because they know what a woman wants and make no bones about saying.... I'm just sayin..... I want it all night, if we've got the time, I want a slow hand, I want a lover with an easy touch, not a lover that comes and goes in a heated rush..... "



Or maybe you are more like Roberta Flack......... "That's the time, I feel like makin' love to you....and in a restaurant holding hands by candlelight......  and I'm touching you, wanting you with all my might....."





Or maybe you are more like Donna Summer, in this hot Disco classic, I Love to Love You Baby....... reminds me of hot summer nights.... listen to the guitar riff at the end. If you can't have sex, at least get up off your chair and dance! Moving those hips can do a lot for awakening the sleeping tiger, come on, you know you want to. It is at your very core....



Marvin Gaye has always been a favorite of mine. "I can't hold this much longer, it gets stronger and stronger.....sexual healing makes me feel so fine, sexual healing is good for me..."




Reverend Al Green is an amazing musician, talented and smooth. You want to feel loved, have your lover repeat these words in your ears.... loving you whether or not times are good or bad, happy or sad....."




R. Kelly is talented, sexy and has it down. He sees nothing with a little Bump and Grind. 



Sexy, Barry White does it best. "My darling I, can't get enough of your love, babe. I don't know why. I get the same old feeling....across the room... I scream your name...... I can't get enough of your love babe."




Maybe you want a more direct approach, like Marvin Gaye. Let's Get It On! WOOOHOO! We are all sensitive people, with so much to give.... I won't push you baby, C'mon baby stop beating around the bush..... Let's get it on! You know what I'm talking about.... Let your love come out!"




Music can heat up a moment, or turn the heat down just as quickly. R& B artists have a knack for capturing the scintillating mood. I would love to hear your favorites. 


Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is an author, sex coach and empowerment coach. Her website is JenniferELizabethMasters.com  You can e-mail her for a private
discovery session here: 
JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com