Friday, October 31, 2014

Jealousy, Rage and Senseless Killing

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters
Nancy Worrell and my daughter Ariel

Love is The Most Important Thing You Need to Know and Give

Jealousy is not True Love. Jealousy is an ILLNESS

Those who are closest to me, know that I have three adult children. My daughter, Ariel has just graduated from high school and decided after her father's death to attend culinary school in Denver. My daughter has had her share of sadness in her young life. She has had a best friend attempt suicide several times and another succeed. She lost her father in 2012 and then experienced the death of my two dearest friends within days of her father's death. 

I spent the past three weeks with family and friends in Denver and Boulder, Colorado. While in Colorado, I was delighted to be invited to attend two of Ariel's classes and meet some of her culinary class. Chef Dole was kind enough to allow me inside his beloved classroom - the kitchen. In the last of two classes, I had the opportunity to spend the whole evening observing and getting to know the students. One such lovely woman was Nancy Worrell. She is in the photo above cutting carrots so meticulously. 

Nancy painstakingly cut and measured her carrots making sure that hers were perfect. The class was graded on their "Knife Cuts." The exercise was timed. Under pressure to perform, most humans go into sensory and brain overload. We worry about being perfect. We try to do our best. Often we feel our best is not good enough. Which is where our self esteem takes a nose dive. Nancy struggled with her self esteem. 

When we don't feel good about ourselves, we attract others who are filled with self hatred, anger and rage. Jealousy often becomes a serious issue where low self esteem is involved. Addictions often compound issues of jealousy. When you couple jealousy with unbridled rage, murder is often the result. I write this out of caring and concern for those who are experiencing deep jealousy and rage. Please get help before you hurt another. Please get help before you strike a loved one. Please get help before you pick up a gun and shoot the one you think you love. 

Nancy Worrell, 22,  was shot down by her friend's room mate who worked as a security guard. Similar to Oscar Pistorius he was filled with jealous rage. He reacted without thinking. He also shot his room mate who was friends with Nancy, she was only 19. Two young women killed senselessly out of jealousy. Now I ask you where is the love? What is loving about shooting someone you care about? 

I sat this morning in horror as my daughter recounted the dream she had of Nancy on Wednesday night. Nancy was absent from class that evening. Ariel had no idea that Nancy was lying in a morgue, cold and bloody. In my daughter's dream: Nancy came to Ariel all dressed in black. They stood in the kitchen pictured above. Neither were in their school culinary uniforms. Instead they were both clad in all black. The rest of the class stood outside looking in the large picture windows watching. There was a mahogany coffin in the middle of the kitchen. All the tables had been removed. Nancy told Ariel to die her hair pink again and to stop crying. Ariel didn't realize that she was. Nancy said, "All was not as it appeared." Ariel remarked on the vagueness of Nancy's comment. 

If everything happens for a reason, then the only reason I can come up with is that I have the ability to exact change for others. Needless killing over jealousy need not occur. 

Get some help. Do it now. I work with people that have addictions, low self esteem and issues with jealousy. I am very good at what I do. Before you hurt someone you love, get some help NOW.

Here is my private e-mail. I will do one session for free. This is a $225 value. I charge $225 an hour. Which is a small price to pay for sanity, peace of mind and permanent lasting happiness. How much have you spent on cell phones, make-up, creams, clothing, video games, cars, therapy that did not help you long-term? Yes, I am a certified coach, certified Hypnotherapist, Neurolinguistic Programming Practitioner, Master Energy Healer. I became enlightened in 2012. What does this mean to you? It means my ego does not run the show, that I come from my heart. I don't take anything personally. I am compassionate and caring, but incredibly honest at the same time.

You must come clean about your issues and be prepared to be honest, open and I will promise to be honest, open and compassionate for you. Jealousy is a disease. Low self esteem can cause depression, death and anxiety. It can cripple you emotionally. I know, I suffered in the darkness for over 20 years. I have been there. I felt small, less than everyone else and was abused, battered and disrespected by men who hated themselves. I have experienced every form of abuse known to man for a reason. That reason is to be compassionate, caring and loving to my clients. I have been gifted with the ability to see your issues. I am a catalyst. Just talking to me causes a shift to begin. Each conversation you have with me, more of the darkness moves up and out. Over time, your brain quiets, you become peaceful and loving to yourself. This takes courage to take the first step. Isn't it time you opened the door and let the light in? Isn't it time you allowed yourself the help you so deserve?

Thursday, October 30, 2014

Bring Me To Life!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Do you or your loved one suffer from sexual numbness? 

Yesterday I completed a two-day drive from Boulder, Colorado to the Mojave desert of California. Speaking of numbness, most of my butt was numb!

For the first day, I rode in silence. I listen to guidance in the quiet. After 10 hours, I began playing old CDs and found one from Evanescence, I didn't even know I had. Written and sung by Amy Lee, she said that it has many meanings. Amy Lee told a reporter that the song was inspired by her husband and long-time friend, Josh Hartzler. I listened carefully to the lyrics and found that the meaning could easily be construed as sexual.  

One line in particular, Now that I know what I am without, you can't just leave me.  My interpretation is that the author experienced an orgasm by accident and then realized what she had been missing - don't just leave me here.......   hanging! Now I know what I have been missing I want it each and every time.

To be fully awake, all of our body, mind and spirit must be engaged. If parts of your body are numb, you cannot wake up. This particular song has also been called incorrectly, "Wake Me Up Inside." It is a powerful song about awakening from numbness. (The lyrics and song are below this article.)  

Why some women can't have an orgasm

Being able to have an orgasm means you are fully functional. Numbness does not allow an orgasm to occur. When women who have been sexually molested, raped or traumatized sexually, most go into fright, fight or freeze syndrome. It is a natural phenomenon that protects the mind and body from trauma. Many young children have their sexual traumas blocked completely from conscious memory because it would push them over the edge to know or remember all the details. The freezing occurs when the sexual molestation causes sexual feelings to occur in the child. The child then says unconsciously, "This is not right, I have to prevent pleasure from happening!" The feelings are FROZEN inside.

Over 40 percent of women suffer from vaginal numbness. or sexualy dysfunctioin.  Even their clitoris can feel numb. Needless to say, numbness in one's sexual organs means sexual pleasure is difficult to non-existent. It can even cause pain to be experienced. Moving beyond numbness is what I did myself when I healed trauma from my childhood. 

In my book, Orgasm For Life, I give step-by-step details on healing sexual trauma. A couple can do this if they use love, compassion and are not in a rush. Breathing through the emotions that are lodged in the cells, helps to release them and are part of the healing. Eye contact and connection are important. Many men and women disconnect and disassociate when they are having sex. This occurs because cellular memory is present with pain. The pain can be emotional as well as physical. 

Many women experience pain during intercourse that cannot be explained. Perhaps sexual trauma occurred in childhood that they don't even remember. This cellular memory has to be released before orgasm can occur. Keeping eye contact, touching, other than just sexual touch and talking to the partner you are healing is important. I recommend you get my book from the link above from for all the details.

While researching information on Evanescence and their song, I found a forum where many women were discussing sexual numbness. I found it very sad, that there is not more information on the Internet to assist young people. Others on the forum were giving mis-information about the cause and how to heal it. Please send anyone you know who has vaginal numbness to my blog, or my book, Orgasm For Life

Below are instructions for a very delicate issue. Sexual trauma causes deep emotional pain. Keeping sexual trauma a secret increases the emotional and unconscious trauma. It causes further sinking of esteem, by saying that you are the bad one. You in some way caused the molestation or rape to occur. When secrets are kept, psychosis can occur which can present as low self esteem, bi-polar syndrome, Borderline Personality Disorder, Schizophrenia, anxiety, depression and promiscuity (and others). If you and your partner decide to heal this issue on your own, make sure you pair the physical healing with emotional healing through a coach who is healed and familiar with sexual dysfunction or sexual abuse, like myself. It would be helpful to watch the movie, Bliss with Terrence Stamp. This movie gently illustrates sexual healing from traumatic sexual abuse.


If you trust your partner completely this work can be done with them. You need to have an agreement that if it becomes too painful you can say, "Stop." It will take sincere commitment, perseverance and courage to do this work. A Tantra healer can work on you, but many do not feel comfortable going to a stranger for intimate healing work. Some massage inside the vagina is required as well as the G-spot. 

Know that this work may take several sessions to clear everything completely. You can persevere and do it in one session, which I recommend, because you could easily throw in the towel and never go back and complete the work. It can feel very intense and painful both emotionally and physically. However, the end result is regular orgasms. The work is definitely worthwhile. I wish I had not waited to do this healing till I was in my 50's. I did not have all the information I needed to recognize that it could be fixed, or healed. I also did not have the courage and confidence to go through with it earlier. 

Coaching For Sexual Healing and Empowerment

Coaching for these issues is recommended and is my forté. Not only have I healed the emotional issues, I have also healed the physical and spiritual issues as well. I have a deep understanding for what you are experiencing. This work can also help you prevent cancer and other diseases from manifesting. Self love is the greatest gift you can give yourself. Why wait any longer? Joy and total fulfillment awaits you just around the corner!

  1. Begin with a sacred shower or bath. Intend that this session will be helpful, gentle and healing. This is a healing session only. 
  2. Arrange the bedroom with pillows, candle light and soft music if desired.
  3. Make sure the room is warm enough, or cool enough to be comfortable naked.
  4. Prop the person you are working on on pillows, under the knees and arms. Make sure she is comfortable, feels safe and secure. Close the door. Keep out animals.
  5. Ask her if you have permission to touch her. Always ask before moving to the next body part. "Do I have your permission to touch your _________. Sexual trauma occurs when touch happens without permission. Boundaries are crossed. This is a healing event. Permission must be granted before you move on.
  6. Start with non-sexual body touch, of arms, legs, hands and feet. "May I touch your breasts?"
  7. Maintain eye contact as much as possible.
  8. Tell your partner what you are doing as you are doing it. Communication is important to build trust.
  9. "May I touch your buttocks and thighs?" Begin massaging deep into the muscles in the hips, thighs (at the tops of the front of legs deep inside the muscle groups. This can be painful. Make sure your partner breathes throughout. Holding breath is natural when we are experiencing either emotional or physical pain. Breathwork is imperative for release. Breathe in AND OUT.
  10. The first session may take an hour and a half to two hours. Gently, but deeply massaging the tops of the thighs near but not touching the vulva. 
  11. With both thumbs located on the area called the sitz bones, gently push inward. This can be quite tender, but needs to be released to move on to the next step. Make sure your partner is breathing. Spend at least 10 seconds here. If the pain is too great at first, back off the pressure and then allow her time to breathe and repeat once more.
  12. Let her know you are going to be touching her vulva next. "Do I have permission to touch your vulva?" Using gentle pressure press down on the clitoris and have her breathe. Move to another area on her labia majora (outer lips). Repeat the gentle pressure with her breathing. This is meant to be a release rather than a turn on. You are not trying to turn her on, but release memory from the cells. 
  13. Make eye contact and let her know you are moving to her vagina. Ask permission to do so.
  14. With coconut or olive oil begin inserting one finger and massage the upper wall of the vagina. Sex will not occur during this session. This is ONLY a healing session for ONE person, the one you are working on. 
  15. Turn your hand upward, using a come hither motion manually massage the upper wall - or G-spot. You will be able to determine if you have the right area. It is spongy and will swell as it contains erectile tissue. It feels ribbed and is located approximately an inch to two inches on the upper wall of the vaginal wall. 
  16. Make sure that she is breathing and making eye contact with you during the G-spot massage. She may cry. It can be extremely painful. It was excruciating for me. I did not have an orgasm until my next sexual experience. So don't push her unless she can go the distance. An orgasm is not required. It would be a grand result of all this wonderful healing work, but it is not the end of the world if it does not happen.
  17. Ask her if she needs to be held? If she gives you permission to hold her, do so, without expecting sex. This is not about you today, only her. This is a healing. Hold her and allow her to breathe, talk or cry.

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is the author of two books, Orgasm For Life, and Odyssey Victim to Victory. Orgasm For Life is a witty, brilliant guide to sex, relationships and love. OFL bridges the chasm of opposite sex relationships with new understanding and candor. Direct, open and honest, Orgasm For Life will make you laugh, turn you on, teach you new ways to make love and make you a better lover, in the process. 

With understanding, humor and communication we create better relationships deeper connection and intimacy. Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a gifted catalyst for healing bringing her clients to a state of permanent happiness, clearing depression, anxiety and limitation. 

Her website is: Jennifer is teaming up with Linzi Levinson for a brand new and hot radio show on Boost Internet Radio Friday evenings in December. Straight Up Sex Talk is coming soon! Linzi's coaching website is:

"Bring Me To Life"

(feat. Paul McCoy)

How can you see into my eyes like open doors?
Leading you down into my core where I've become so numb
Without a soul my spirit's sleeping somewhere cold
Until you find it there and lead it back home

(Wake me up)
Wake me up inside
(I can't wake up)
Wake me up inside
(Save me)
Call my name and save me from the dark
(Wake me up)
Bid my blood to run
(I can't wake up)
Before I come undone
(Save me)
Save me from the nothing I've become

Now that I know what I'm without
You can't just leave me
Breathe into me and make me real
Bring me to life

(Wake me up)
Wake me up inside
(I can't wake up)
Wake me up inside
(Save me)
Call my name and save me from the dark
(Wake me up)
Bid my blood to run
(I can't wake up)
Before I come undone
(Save me)
Save me from the nothing I've become

Bring me to life
(I've been living a lie, there's nothing inside)
Bring me to life

Frozen inside without your touch
Without your love, darling
Only you are the life among the dead

All this time I can't believe I couldn't see
Kept in the dark but you were there in front of me
I've been sleeping a thousand years it seems
Got to open my eyes to everything
Without a thought, without a voice, without a soul
Don't let me die here
There must be something more
Bring me to life

(Wake me up)
Wake me up inside
(I can't wake up)
Wake me up inside
(Save me)
Call my name and save me from the dark
(Wake me up)
Bid my blood to run
(I can't wake up)
Before I come undone
(Save me)
Save me from the nothing I've become

Bring me to life
(I've been living a lie, there's nothing inside)
Bring me to life
Play the song below.

Sunday, October 26, 2014

Feeling Like 18 At 60!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

On October 27th, of 2014, I turn 60. I am amazed. Not that I don't remember the passage of time, or all that I have experienced. It is an overwhelming sense of gratitude for the life I have, the work I do each day and the people I help.
I am happy, content, healthy, vibrant and feel like I am still eighteen inside. Only when I put my glasses on and stand in front of the mirror do I remember and see the aging process occurring. It is then that I wonder who it is that is looking back at me! I will not hide my wrinkles with surgery. Nor will I have a staple or band placed in my stomach. I treat my body as if it is my temple. I love and take care of it.
I know many others who like me, don't take Asprin, Advil or Aleve, not even when a headache occurs. We don't eat much sugar, wheat or processed foods. We rarely drink alcohol or do anything to our temple that would harm it. We love ourselves and are grateful for the lives we lead. The more gratitude we express, the better our life becomes. I recently was writing a thank you note to a couple who had been long-time clients. As I thought about this couple, my heart opened and expanded. At exactly this moment, my cell phone rang. It was a new client this same couple had referred to me because of the work I had done for them. How great is that? Expressing gratitude for the good in our lives is the very fuel which brings more of what we desire.
Living a life awakened is a beautiful thing. We are still growing, but the pain has diminished. The anguish that used to be so familiar is gone. The anxiety and depression, a distant memory that we only mention to those we know we can help. Even the trauma which caused our deep soul searching is something that we recognize as a gift. The lessons are the very thing that spurred us on to seek a better life. The wisdom gained along the path makes us feel very full and fertile, even though the thought of giving birth makes us roll on the floor in uproarious laughter. I remember when I was first going through menopause, feeling sad that I wouldn't be able to have another child. I love where I am. I love my empty nest. I would not change it for the world. Instead, I wait for grandchildren secretly, not wanting to pressure my adult children, the way I was. I want my children to live the lives they desire and love, rather than the one I want. I manage to keep my very opinionated mouth shut for once. I know they are each having their own personal life experience. I allow them to do so, mostly without my interference. I am afterall still a mother! I do have thoughts and feelings about what they do. I may voice them, but I don't try to shove my ideas or beliefs down their throats any more.
When we love ourselves through the aging process, we eat well, consuming organic vegetables and fruits daily, avoiding wheat, sugar and packaged foods. This way Diabetes, heart disease and obesity are diseases we side-step. Instead of aging quickly, we age slowly. Our thoughts also keep us looking youthful and vibrant. The more positive we are, the better our organs work. The slower we age. We think ourselves healthy, every day. Instead of looking 60, we look 40. The better care we take of ourselves, the more balanced we are. Living a life well beyond 100 is not only possible today, it is probable.
Retirement is not something we think about. When we do what we love, our work is our joy. Feeling passionate towards our vocation gives us a tremendous sense of fulfillment. We give back to the world and humanity through our writing, example and lives.
For me, it is my wicked sense of humor and ability to laugh at myself that gets me through any sticky situation. Just today, I checked. Backing out of a parking spot at Alfalfa's market, in Boulder, Colorado, I did not notice the car that appeared on my left, seemingly out of nowhere. Talking and driving maybe too much for me with my daughter and her boyfriend in my car, I was focused on our conversation. I live in the present. Rather than blame the woman for mysteriously appearing, I apologized profusely to her then laughed at myself for the near miss, I narrowly escaped. I am protected, guided and loved. I look forward to my next 60 years of giving, teaching and joy!
Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is the author of en men and women with deeper understanding, wisdom and humor! This book will turn you on, create passion and help you create deeper intimate relationships.
She is a life, love and sex coach with a focus on sexual dysfunction. Whether you are non-orgasmic, have erectile dysfunction or HTP, this book is for anyone with an interest in becoming a better lover, partner or spouse. If you are considering divorce, buy this book. If your marriage seems dead, buy this book. If you are confused about sex or how to become orgasmic, buy Orgasm for Life. it is direct, to the point and funny! If you feel unhappy in your relationship, buy this book. Orgasm For Life is available on

Happy Birthday
October 27, 2014 6:30 AM
Happy Birthday Jennifer, It's Your Day... Relax with your ‘feet-up’! .. Well done.

Oh!! Don't forget to keep inspiring us all being an ‘Outstanding Woman’. You really are so significant to so many - even people you don’t even know.

Thanks for being you and delighting us.

Feel free to use these wishes on your own testimonial page and tell the world what we all think about you.

Michael and Marianna Whitenburgh x
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The Dangerous Truth About Jealousy

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Jealousy is a relationship killer. It is a sign of insecurities, lack of trust rather than love. If you are dating someone with serious jealousy RUN, don't walk away. Jealousy can be a neurosis from severe inadequacy. It is NOT a sign of true love. 

From OJ Simpson, to Oscar Pistorius, unbridled jealousy can cause abuse, control and even death. When I was searching for photos to post within this article, I found hundreds of stories of murder, shootings, car accidents and battery due to jealousy. There is no doubt that jealousy is an unhealthy emotion. It is not a sign of how much you love another.

In the cases of unfounded jealous behavior, as with Oscar Pistorius, steroids and unhealthy emotions came into play. 

A little feeling of envy when you see someone get a promotion, or the coveted position you were vying for is one thing. Seeing another person who you view as better looking, more fit or has more than you feel you do, can also bring up feelings of jealousy. The thought, "What a bitch!" often comes up when we don't feel good about ourselves. 

The better our self esteem is, the less we covet what others have. Often what others have is not what we see on the outside. There is always more to the story.

When your partner looks at another with lust or desire, you can feel a twinge of control or jealousy surfacing. He might say things like, "She's not that attractive, or she's not as pretty as you." Comments like this divert their jealous partner's attention from the truth, that they were looking at another woman and think she is hot! 

Attractive women and men will get unsolicited attention from strangers just for being sexy. Expecting a person to turn off who they are is unreasonable. 

I remember being married to a man who was controlling, abusive and extremely jealous. I married this man even though he showed signs of jealous rage that were completely unfounded early in our relationship. I thought that over time, he would come to trust me. He never did. Instead, he became more controlling and jealous to the point of telling me what to wear and who to see. This is not healthy.   thought that his jealousy showed how deeply he cared for me. I was very insecure at the time, myself. The fact that he was showing jealousy buoyed my ego (my false self). It made me feel more attractive. His rage, gave me the sense that he cared and could take anyone out, if he needed to. In a twisted way, it made me feel safe. I have since learned to steer clear of those with control, anger issues or jealousy.

Signs Your Mate's Jealousy Is A Problem

  1. They tell you how to dress.
  2. They are controlling of who you see and where you go, where you work and even family. They may even call you to check up to see what you are doing when you go out with friends.
  3. They may move you to a place where you have no friends or family and refuse to allow family to visit.
  4. They may control what you say and how you act.
  5. They may tell you to stop sending out a sexual vibe.
  6. They may want you to stop being who you truly are.
  7. They will bring up the past repeatedly, not letting go.
  8. Can be irrationally concerned for your well-being.
  9. You may be afraid to leave them for fear they might hurt you and/or themselves.
  10. They feel inadequate around others.
  11. You may have to bolster their self esteem to help them feel better.
  12. You may feel like you are walking on egg shells.

Feeling spite towards someone who appears to have more, or looks better is unhealthy. It is a sign of low self esteem. The way to overcome unhealthy emotions is to work on your self esteem. Accepting who you are, the way you are is the first step. 

Women Jealous Of Other Women

Just this morning I visited a local Boulder, Colorado coffee shop for some Bhakti Chai. My daughter, her boyfriend and I walked in and stood in line behind two lean, attractive, Daisy Dukes (short-shorts) clad, college students. They both turned and scowled at my daughter. She had done absolutely nothing to either of them. I watched as they continued to turn around and sneer in my daughter's direction. When women with low self esteem see other attractive women, that they feel are thinner, more attractive, bustier or sexier, they feel insecure about themselves turning into woman hating bitches; sneering and sending negative energy towards innocent bystanders. All you have to do is be you, and you can get shot dirty looks, scowles, sneers and bitchy comments. Insecure women seem to hate other women. With women who are self assured, confident and love themselves, this rarely occurs.

My dear friend Diana Davis was a beautiful woman. She had a knack for attracting men. Before I became enlightened and was still working on loving myself, I brought a very attractive man with me to Diana's for a visit. Greg seemed instantly attracted to Diana. I was jealous of her easy way with men, that I lacked. I was also jealous of her voluptuous body. They were joking back and forth in a way that we did not. I felt less than her. This jealousy almost ruined our relationship. Diana never intended to take my guy away. She was flirtatious with him, but my imagination and insecurities blew everything out of proportion. I was sure she was sleeping with him. She assured me she was not interested in anything more than friendship with Greg. Diana is no longer on the planet, she passed away in 2012, from experimental chemotherapy for breast cancer. Knowing there would not be repercussions from my discussion, I talked to Greg, who remains a friend to this day. We had a very meaningful conversation about our families and the past. I asked him if he ever was intimate with Diana. He told me he never was. He was surprised at my question. Years after my awakening, I look back and see the way I used to be when I was so codependent. My insecurity got in the way of healthy loving relationships.

Jennifer is the real deal. She is the author of two books, Orgasm For Life, being her most recent release. She awakened in 2012 and is completely self actualized. She is empathic, intuitive and a catalyst. What this means to you is that Jennifer will get you. She will understand you like no one else will. She has the ability to cut to the root of your issues quickly and effectively. Although Jennifer is compassionate and kind, she is honest, direct and doesn't sugar coat the truth. She has been where you are. Her wisdom, guidance and gifts are natural from connecting with Source energy. Just speaking to her via phone or Skype will shift you. Whether it is private coaching, an energy clearing you need, a hypnotherapy session or Neurolinguistic Programming, Jennifer is professional, loving, and authentic. To book your private series of sessions or healing appointment, her e-mail is

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

Your Emotions and The Partial Solar Eclipse

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

The sun, moon, stars and planets all have an impact on us, even if we don't believe in astrology. Tomorrow, October 23rd, we have a multitude of planetary influences that could impact emotions, relationships and our world. For many, the day could turn out to be very intense emotionally. 

Within a 10 hour period we will be impacted by three major planetary events that could potentially create upheaval in our lives. Being prepared and aware all day Thursday, could prevent you from saying the wrong thing to someone or many.

According to my astrologer friend, Cheney Hall, the sun enters Scorpio at 7:57 AM EST. Venus enters Scorpio at 4:45 PM EDT. At 5:57 EDT a new moon will be seen on the horizon at 0 degrees 25 minutes of Scorpio, with the added influence of a Partial Solar Eclipse. On top of all this sexy Scorpio energy, we are still feeling the effects of the Mercury Retrograde also in Scorpio.

Scorpio is a water sign. Water relates to emotions. Those like me, born under the influence of fiery and intense Scorpio, will feel the effects of the planetary energies present all day. Whether you are a water sign or not, Thursday promises to be an intense day all around. Pisces, Cancer and Scorpio are all water signs. You can also have an Ascendant in your chart that is a water sign, while being born under air, fire or earth signs. Even those born under other signs can be impacted as our bodies are comprised predominately of water.

The energy of Scorpio makes us dig down deep inside, confronting issues at our very core. This energy makes us face our inner personal truths and fears. Standing strong and facing these issues, rather than turning away and hiding our heads in the sand will allow us to let go of those old patterns that we have lived with for decades. These old patterns impede our ability to receive love, trust and thrive. It is time to face these inner-most fears and out-moded beliefs that keep us in the past. Now is the time to raise our vibrations, seek enlightenment (if you have not already achieved it), greater diversity and spiritual growth. The Universe is clearly showing us that it is time! Heave ho! with these old patterns. Dump the dark and dreary and more into the light. Have we learned our lessons? Are we ready to move onward and upward? Or do we stay mired in the muck and stench of the old emotional patterns?

Ready to move beyond denial? Today is the day to truly shed the weight of the past and lighten your emotional burden.

3 Ways To Move Beyond Old Patterns

  1. Look at the issues you keep repeating. Be honest with yourself. Write down your repeating negative patterns. 
  2. Make an INTENSE prayer and ask for help to remove these patterns. Being helpless and asking for help does more good than thinking you can do it all on your own. Get an energy clearing, or NLP session from me (NLP and energy clearings can give you a leg-up, or jump start you on your way to a new life.
  3. Focus on what you want. Your mind is powerful. Whatever you focus on is what you will bring to you. You are a powerful magnet.  Use a mantra like the ones below. A mantra is a repetitive phrase that accesses your unconscious mind. Mantras work best when your mind is in neutral (like when you are driving, stirring, peeling vegetables, painting, cleaning, putting on make-up.... doing repetitive activities). Mantras can help alleviate anxiety. 


  • I LOVE ME!
  • I AM SAFE, 
Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is the author of the funny, and insightful book, Orgasm For Life. Orgasm For Life will change the way you look at relationships AND SEX! If you haven't purchased your copy, you need to. It is a guide, with instructions, for oral, fantasy, erotica, role playing, giving you great innovative ideas for creating more passion and igniting the fire in you love life. It will help you think of your partner more lovingly and with more compassion. 

Written from personal experience, Jennifer shares her personal insight over 40 years of experimentation, living, loving and divorce to help you overcome stagnation, resentment, low sex drive and boring cursory sex. If Orgasm For Life does not turn you on, it is time for an EKG!

Jennifer's e-mail is

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

Understanding Why A Woman Says No!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

I am a guest author on Digital Romance. This is a great site with answers to your burning questions about dating and sex. I would love to hear back from you about what you want to hear about from me. 

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Friday, October 17, 2014

I'd Love You, If You Were Different

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

How often do we hear or think, "If only you were different, I could really love you?" Maybe you have children and your new partner does not want them. Perhaps you don't look the way your partner perceives their ideal mate should look. Or maybe it is something else.

It seems that most men have anger issues that they have not deal with. Some are controlling, or even jealous. Perhaps they put you down, or have addictions. What about the sneaking feeling that he is not telling the complete truth?

Women can be controlling, bitchy and outright confusing. Both sexes have our own share of issues. We are humans, and we are all works in progress. When we look at someone and point out their issues in our minds, what we are also doing is focusing on them instead of us. When we don't have addictions, anger issues and control issues, we will attract someone who also has healed their issues as well. As long as we have work to do on ourselves, we will continue to attract partners who will illustrate to us what work we do have to do. For example, if you have been co-dependent, you may continue to attract people who are alcoholics or addicts. Until we really are free of our co-dependence, our vibration continually attracts those who will help us heal OUR ISSUES. Loving ourselves unconditionally through the process is what we need to do. 

It is so much easier to look at someone else and say, "They are emotionally unavailable." If you have attracted someone who is not available emotionally then neither are you. It's okay. Not all issues have an equal match that is immediately evident. Sometimes women have a fear of anger, then attract a man who rages and/or yells. We need to overcome our fears. Self advocating, rather than shrinking away is what is needed. Stepping forward and addressing what is bothering us is key. Often we keep quiet for fear of retaliation. When we don't speak up about what is upsetting us, the issue will continue. When we don't have the issue, we will no longer attract this kind of partner.

What We Are Saying To Ourselves

When we look at another person and point a finger, we are focusing outside of ourselves, when the focus needs to be on ourselves. What is the source of this attraction? Do I have a similar match? Looking at your partner and saying, "You are the one with the problem!" is acting in denial. 

Side-Stepping A Problem

When we begin to recognize that we are the one with the insecurity, or the fear that needs healing, we need help. It is difficult to clear anxiety on your own. I did it, but it took me almost 30 years to do it on my own. One of the biggest issues that both men and women
have is not addressing a problem when it arises. We tend to keep quiet so that we don't rock the boat. If your boat is unstable, I have news for you: it is already rocking! Speak up. Talk about the issues AS THEY COME UP. Don't keep setting problems aside, as they will build a mountain of resentment that will be difficult to overcome. Ask questions. Don't be afraid. 

How To Speak Up Without Blame

  1. Use "I" statements. For example, "When you call me a piece of do-do, I FEEL bad. I would prefer it if you treated me with respect, caring and love."
  2. If someone does not accept you the way you are, tell them so. "It feels to me that you want me to change. Unconditional love, accepts me as I am. Do you not love me as I am?" No one is perfect, not even your partner. Acceptance is key. If they don't accept you, move on. 
  3. If your partner is not accepting you now, they never will. Non-acceptance speaks volumes about the person that you are with. Wouldn't you rather be with someone who does accept you? Ask yourself this question, "Do I accept myself, the way I am?"
Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is the author of Orgasm For Life. This fabulous high energy book will help you look at yourself AND your partner compassionately. It will help you bring back
the passion, create new ways of making love and help you understand what you both need. Jennifer works privately with people committed to heal, grow and evolve. If you have anxiety, depression, addictions, or are unhappy with your life, you have come to the right place. Jennifer has been where you are. She suffered from co-dependence, depression, anxiety, health issues and insomnia for over 30 years. She worked diligently on herself, developing in the process a plan that works. Healing and change does not happen over night. Jennifer is a cheerleader, guide, and Intuitive catalyst. Her work is transformative. If you have not done it on your own, call Jennifer now. She is available for a one-time session to see if her work is a good fit for you. (770) 480-5500. 

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