Sunday, July 24, 2016

What Awakening and Enlightenment Means To Me Personally

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

A reader asked me today, why I no longer feel empty, lonely or alone? What caused that shift in me and how does it change who I AM? 


I appreciate your question. Thank you!

Whether we are speaking about enlightenment, awakening, self-actualization or God Realization, the same holds true for all. When we become one with our High Selves, we no longer feel separate from The Divine or Source Energy. We feel complete. 

A quote from Edgar Cayce explains it well.


"Remember there is no shortcut to a consciousness of the God-force. It is part of your own consciousness, but it cannot be realized by the simple desire to do so. Too often there is the tendency to want it and expect it without applying spiritual truth through the medium of mental processes. This is the only way to reach the gate. There are no shortcuts in metaphysics. Life is learned within self. You don’t profess it, you learn it" (8092-1).

The feeling of being lost, alone, lonely or having a vast void or a deep, dark pit of despair to fill with sex, drugs, relationships or material things is totally and completely gone. I feel blissfully happy no matter where I am or if I am alone or with another. I see the God in everything. I experience God in everything and everyone.

What Happened?

Pain causes us to suffer. When we resist life, we suffer. When we resist or avoid our pain, try to do everything without the assistance of the unseen forces (Divine Mind, Source Energy), we cause the pain to become even greater. 

I experienced tremendous pain, as most people did in their childhood. When I stopped resisting and began to go with the flow, life became easier. I listened to and trusted my Guidance. When I did, I was rewarded. I wrote about how this began in my first book, Odyssey Victim to Victory. My first book details my journey from pain, suffering into the light of awakening.

Before Enlightenment.


  1. Strong ego. Everything was all about me.
  2. Easily offended when criticized.
  3. Overly emotional.
  4. I felt I needed to go out of my body to join God or Spirit.
  5. Ungrounded.
  6. Flighty.
  7. A lack of discipline.
  8. Felt the need to search for answers for the meaning of life.
  9. Attended many workshops and spiritual gatherings.
  10. Stuck my nose where it didn't belong.
  11. Need to be right.
  12. Stubborn.


After Enlightenment


  1. A sense of Oneness with all including God.
  2. No sense of separation from God and me.
  3. I stopped taking things personally. 
  4. People could make comments about me, and I was no longer offended.
  5. I felt fulfilled.
  6. I felt blissful.
  7. I felt serene and grounded deeply.
  8. A very strong sense of purpose to help others achieve enlightenment.
  9. Wisdom, a state of Flow, and communication with The Divine, plants, animals.
  10. A deep knowing of Truth - Certainty
  11. The ability to manifest miracles for self and others.
  12. Became humble rather than egoic.
  13. No longer need to be right. 
  14. Cannot lie.
  15. Held to a higher standard
  16. A Knowing that we can heal and harm ourselves with thought.

A Series Of Mystical Experiences

I struggled with relationships, money, addictions and food until I didn't anymore. I had a brief experience of Oneness with everything that was phenomenal in 2009. I was found in two different places at the same time (bi-location) in 2012 by my son, David. I felt myself de-materialize as I lay down to take a nap in Boulder, Colorado. David saw me that very day on a pool deck in Atlanta, Georgia. I detail a lot of these experiences in my first book. Another book on awakening is coming after my current book Happy Here, Happy Anywhere.

From Sick, And Depressed To Vibrant Health

I was negative and sick. My thoughts caused me to have Fibromyalgia - which I healed through loving myself. I had an auto-immune disease which I healed through loving myself. I was angry, depressed and anxious. I cleared and cleared my energy field several times a week and before each client I served. Each energy clearing lifted my spirits and cleared my negativity, beliefs that didn't serve me and my programming from before I was born into the present and future.

My depression and anxiety began to lift. My mind chatter cleared when I did mantras on a daily basis. My mind became quiet. I loved all of my flaws and faults. To the point of pissing off my son's girlfriend. She said my flaws weren't cute. I laughed!

I Tested The Waters of Religion


I tried out different churches from Presbyterian to United Methodist, Unity, Jain, Hinduism, Buddhism, you name it, I tried it. I found that no religion was my path. My path is the path of LOVE.
Instead of fighting with God, (Source, Creator) I aligned my will with The Divine. I asked every day, "What will you have me do today for your people, God?" I did it without question. I became obedient. 

I Let Go

I let go of pleasing others. I stopped worrying about what they thought of me or what I did. I stopped trying to make my children, parents and family happy. I stopped trying to control everyone. Life became easy when I went with the flow rather than attempting to push like a salmon swimming upstream.

As I became more loving to myself, my field expanded and drew more loving people to me. People I need to talk to just show up in front of me, or I see them with a glow around them.



Obedient?

WTF? If you were to see me as a teenager, or even as an adult, obedient wasn't my middle name! I am a maverick, a wild stallion without the testicles (well maybe just a little of them) a butterfly that flits from flower to flower, morphing every nine or ten years choosing a different field to pollinate. I have been told I am a contradiction. Wild yet calm, ecstatically happy yet serene. The truth of the matter is it doesn't matter what you define me as the bottom line is that I AM LOVE.


My Timeline of Awakening


The following events sparked tremendous growth in me and were part of my forward movement toward awakening. 

1959 - 1970 experienced tremendous pain, emotional abuse, etc.
1970 - Read Siddhartha and knew that I wanted to be awakened 
1970 - boyfriend drowned and visited me in spirit form
1975 -  God called my name
1979 - Met Bill Gates and moved to Maryland to be married
1981 - First son, Adam born
1983 - Moved to England had ridiculous wealth - miserable
1986 - Son Adam finishes the thought in my head - Light goes on
1986 - Came out to my family about molestation. No more secrets.
1990 - Recognized that all this wealth didn't make me happy
           divorced Bill Gates because I was miserable.
1998 - Interview Lama Surya Das for The Oracle Magazine
1998 - Read Awakening The Buddha Within.
1998 - Read Ram Das's books
1998 - Became a Hypnotherapist with The National Guild
2000 - Became a Georgia Master Gardener
2001 - Opened For Heaven Scapes, Ltd. working in the dirt daily. I            experienced a deep connection with the earth and animals.
2003 - Left a very abusive marriage by the skin of my teeth
2007 - Became certified in energy healing - started clearing myself
2007 - Advanced course on energy healing - began clearing others
2007 - Began Ascending daily - meditation practice using mantras
2007 - August mind chatter stopped. Mind became silent.
2007 - Traveled to India
2007 - Landscape equipment lit up with a halo daily see Odyssey
2007 - November 1 met Twin Flame Love at drum-making wk shop
2008 - January 22, John Armbruster died in my arms
2008 - Began to work on self-love and positive thoughts.

2008 - Awoke with the message that I was a Bodhisattva - I had                  to look up the meaning 

2009 - Flash of Oneness at a Global Event

2010 - Became a Oneness Blessing Giver in Black Mountain, NC
2010 - July, Found mold in farmhouse - lost EVERYTHING
2010 - Flash in my brain while toning causing huge shift
2010 - September moved to small apartment. Began to live simply.
2010 - Sept Studied The Akashic Records in Bali
2011 - Wrote Odyssey, became a certified coach and began
            INTO THE MYSTIC radio show on Voice America
2011 - Early October Received Guidance to move to Boulder.
2011 - October: Sold everything, including landscaping company
2011 - October 22nd moved with daughter to Boulder
2011 - Began studying Tantra
2011 - Began serious Gratitude Practice
2012 - Meditating remotely with friend Bill Lasiter several times              daily Permanent enlightenment or Sahaja Samadhi
2012 - May predicted Rich Resuta's death 
2012 - July 4, Rich Resuta died
2012 - Bi-located from Boulder, CO to Atlanta, GA my son David witnessed seeing me in the flesh on a pool deck he was cleaning.
2012 Recieved Guidance to write about sex
2012 - Moved to The Mojave Desert, California- Blissful 
2014 Wrote and published Orgasm For Life


Additional Resources

Manic Move To The Mojave Part II
Twin Flame Lessons
Sedona Vortex Tours - In Loving Memory




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 is a healer, sex, love, and happiness coach that clears limiting beliefs, blocks, and self-sabotage from the past so that you can have the life, love, and happiness you desire. A healed healer herself, she helps others overcome anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, guilt, shame, insecurities that block you from having healthy relationships and happiness. 

Connect with Jennifer to schedule your free discovery
session to see if her work is a good fit for your happiness. 


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Jennifer is currently working on her third book: 

Happy Here, Happy Anywhere:

The Step-By-Step Guide to Overcoming Anxiety, Depression, and Unhappiness Without A Prescription!


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Saturday, July 23, 2016

How Constant Criticism Leads To Autoimmune Disorders

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Imagine a newborn baby girl. This baby is perfect, with ten tiny fingers and toes. She has beautiful skin and a rosy complexion.

When this baby is born, it is yelled at for crying. Her parents scream at her when she needs to be held and slam the bedroom door leaving her uncared for and unloved.


When she is hungry her parents yell, "Stupid baby shut up!" Her parents tell her she is ugly, a waste of their time, an idiot and useless.  When her diapers are dirty, a perfectly natural phenomenon her parent tell her she stinks and is a horrible baby. Over time, this beautiful little girl begins to believe that she is stupid,  ugly, horrible, stinky, dirty and useless. Her immune system begins to shut down because she is useless after all. Most likely this girl will become a victim, and be raped or molested. She is, after all, a victim. 


Trauma in our childhood whether it is losing a parent early, having alcoholic or addicted parents, being unwanted or unloved all help to create a background of negativity and feelings of being unlovable, unworthy and undeserving. Perpetuating these feelings with our thoughts continues to impact our psyche, body, unconscious mind and eventually our health.

My Personal Discovery of Creating Ill Health

When I began my healing journey, I began to realize that my negativity and self-loathing were killing me. My thoughts were hateful, filled with scorn and criticism. I was sick all the time. I hated myself and my body. I had repressed anger, constant bladder and sinus infections. I got colds, the flu and rashes all over my body.

I was depressed, negative, anxious; I had Fibromyalgia and Epstein-Barr syndrome, an autoimmune disease. My body was failing because I told it was ugly, useless and flawed constantly. I perpetuated what my parents said to me. I was a useless female that didn't deserve to go to college and would never amount to anything. I jumped from job to job and marriage to marriage. I was a perfectionist a people pleaser and a chameleon. I tried to be what I thought others would like. I was highly emotional and suppressed what I truly thought. I looked for happiness and validation outside of me.

What I Let Go Of To Heal


  • I stopped giving energy to things that didn't matter. 
  • I stopped focusing on what others thought of me. 
  • I began to change my thoughts from self-defeating, critical and derisive, to loving and accepting. 
  • I stopped being critical of myself and others, 
  • I stopped worrying about what others thought of me. 
  • I stopped being late. 
  • I stopped making excuses. 
  • I stopped complaining. 


I took responsibility for my happiness and my health. JEM

As I did my health began to improve. Little by little, I became happier. I stopped being the chameleon to be accepted, trying to please others and began to be authentically me. I became happier. My depression lifted without medication! My anxiety and worry eased and went away. I am now 61 and have no pain in any part of my body. 


Loving thoughts heal the body and the mind. JEM


What Helped Me Most

  1. I was diligent about changing my thoughts from negative to positive.
  2. I used mantras in the background of my mind to reprogram my mind. 
  3. I meditated daily.
  4. I became mindful.
  5. I stopped multi-tasking.
  6. I became disciplined.
  7. I witnessed my reactions to situations.
  8. I processed my emotions.
  9. I stopped watching the news.
  10. I stopped reading the paper.
  11. I moved away from my family that was toxic.
  12. I was watchful of being true to myself.
  13. I was gentle, nurturing and loving to me.
  14. I took care of my needs first, instead of the needs of others.
  15. I cleared my energy field several times a week and more if I needed it.

Constant criticism doesn't allow our body to thrive. When our body doesn't meet our expectations, we hate our bodies. 


We make statements about this hate which destroy cells and create illness. Perfectionism, control, and fear are what lead to critiquing our every failing. Instead of making your body the enemy why not make friends with it and love it instead?


Loving thoughts send calming signals to the brain.

 

Negative thoughts create incongruent thought waves and create acidity in our body. 
Imagine how it feels to have someone tell you how beautiful you are. Imagine how it feels to have someone pay you a compliment on how great you look. Now feel what those thoughts do to your body. Imagine what it would feel like to have only loving thoughts in your mind about your body. Loving thoughts create perfect, vital health. 


We can just as easily create perfect vital health with our thoughts. Unfortunately, our society, big pharma, and even the medical profession do not support the positive creation of vital health. What most people fail to recognize is that every illness, pain, and disease is created by our thoughts and emotions. 


Wouldn't You Rather Have Perfect Health?

Fighting cancer
Fighting disease
Fighting fear
Fighting problems

Are not the answer!


Because you are focusing on the problem rather than the solution.

Tap in and see what you feel. 
Breathe deeply three times to tap in.
Inhale slowly and completely.
Exhale slowly. 
Inhale again completely.
Exhale completely.
Repeat this exercise once more.


Fighting illness creates poor health. We can't fight anything and win. We have to love our bodies, make friends with ourselves to create a healthy body.

Positive thoughts about ourselves create health and well-being. 

Negative thoughts about ourselves create illness, and disease.


Suppressing anger creates depression. 

Believing that we aren't in control of lives creates anxiety.

When we think loving thoughts about our body, we create vital health. Negative thoughts create negative feelings about yourself and body. Constant criticism will eventually cause you physical pain to signify you are headed in the wrong direction. If you ignore your body's signs diseases are the next level of notification. Auto-immune problems and diseases are created by your thoughts. They didn't just happen!


People that are not conscious don't want to take responsibility for their health and well-being - they believe everything a doctor tells them and dutifully take the pills prescribed without question.

(I am not suggesting that you stop your necessary medication for diabetes or high blood pressure and other serious illnesses. What I am suggesting is that you look for natural remedies when possible to heal yourself.)

Loving thoughts create congruency in the brain, like deep dreamless sleep, they heal our body and mind. Loving thoughts
alleviate anxiety and create happiness. Just like any new fitness or health regime, we need to practice thinking loving thoughts daily so that our brain will begin to make new healthy grooves and patterns. 


There is another way. Life can be hard. Honor your path and what you have been through. Heartbreak, sadness, abuse, struggle are all real and very challenging. You have done your best. Give yourself credit for what you have done and experienced. You have been through a lot. It hasn't been easy. Honor the journey you have been on. 

It is time to let go of suffering. Begin by forgiving yourself using the simple prayer of forgiveness here. This prayer is what I used to move out of shame and suffering. 

Forgive yourself for whatever you have done or said to yourself in the past that was harmful, mean or cruel. 


  1. Close your eyes.
  2. Breathe in slowly and completely to bring yourself into your body and the present moment.
  3. Exhale completely. Repeat twice more.
  4. Repeat the Ho'oponopono prayer slowly out loud until you have an emotional release or feel a shift in your energy. Sometimes this involves crying. Sometimes it involves laughter. Allow emotions come up to be released. Feeling your emotions fully is what is required to be happy and healthy.


Mantras To Heal You


Place your hands over your heart chakra

I love me.
I love my body.
I am safe. 
I am secure.


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  • be more positive 
  • and feel lighter
  • This event will raise your vibration  
  • remove negativity and blocks to receive love
  • remove trapped emotions that keep bringing what you don't want! 

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Jennifer
 is a healer, sex, love, and happiness coach that clears limiting beliefs, blocks, and self-sabotage from the past so that you can have the life, love, and happiness you desire. A healed healer herself, she helps others overcome anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, guilt, shame, insecurities that block you from having healthy relationships and happiness. 

Connect with Jennifer to schedule your free discovery
session to see if her work is a good fit for your happiness. 


Find Jennifer's books on Amazon.com


Jennifer is currently working on her third book: 

Happy Here, Happy Anywhere:

The Step-By-Step Guide to Overcoming Anxiety, Depression, and Unhappiness Without A Prescription!



© Jennifer Elizabeth Masters    All Rights Reserved. 
 

No part may be copied or reproduced in any form without the author's written consent.



Thursday, July 21, 2016

Overcome These 5 Negative Beliefs To UnBlock Your Ability To Receive Love

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters


Self doubt is one of our biggest mind traps. When we think we aren't enough we believe what we think. Every thought we think is like a prayer that we shout out into the generous universe and boomerangs right back to us what we are thinking to make us right. 


Shifting our doubts and finding something positive to think about ourselves will open our hearts and minds to the idea that not only is love possible, it is probable!


Our two greatest fears are that we won't be loved and that we will be abandoned. These themes play out over and over again in our lives in different ways.




1. No one will ever love me. (Belief: I am not loveable.)


2. I will never be able to find someone who loves me here. (in this town, state, country) (Belief: No one will notice me. I am unworthy of love.) 



3. There isn't anyone for me. (Belief: I am unworthy)


4. No one will ever love me when they see who I really am, if they do they will surely leave or cheat. (Belief: I am unworthy and abandonment.)


5. I am not worthy_______    (attractive enough, young enough, smart enough, sexy enough, thin enough, interesting enough, funny enough, or even datable). 



Is Your Head In The Sand?

Many people are clueless about what their issues are. They continue to attempt to have a healthy relationship with negative programming running the show. Unconscious programming runs without us being aware. It certainly did for me. My mother had Borderline Personality Disorder and was emotionally unavailable and cruel. Men cheated, lied and died on me until I cleared this issue - several different ways. (Read my example about Brenda below.)

Different Aspects Of The Same Issue

I have found in working with thousands of different cases that each person is unique in the way the programs are created and laid out. Like tracks from a song, there may be many types of abandonment that you are dealing with. 

If your mother or father was an alcoholic, or emotionally unavailable you may be dealing with abandonment and rejection issues. Even though years have passed, unless you processed and eliminated this program and the belief you will continue to attract people who will not be there for you emotionally or that will leave you physically. 

The truth of the matter is that all these limiting beliefs can be cleared. The past trauma and blocked emotions can be cleared from your field. The emotions of rejection, abandonment and not being good enough can be cleared in several different ways. Recognizing that you actually created it is part of the healing process. It takes a while to recognize that everything that happens is to move us forward into enlightenment, and feel the painfully. 

Don't feel bad. Most of us have feelings of being unlovable and unworthy. I had them too. Loving the self has to happen to be open to receive love. Once blocks to being abandoned, rejected, worthy, loveable are removed you are much more likely to find love. 

Brenda's Story

Brenda came to me feeling not good enough and empty. She had a loving partner and home but it never felt like enough. She felt that something was missing from her life. She was very unhappy deep inside.

Brenda's mother died when she was twelve. After her mother's death, she never had time to process her loss because she was the eldest. She became her father's housemaid. She cooked and cleaned and did laundry for the family. She cared for her brothers and sisters stepping in for her mother in all ways but one. Her father was mean, angry and cruel to her. She took the brunt of her father's anger about his wife dying and leaving him with three children. Brenda was berated and picked on by her father. She was unable to stand up for herself and felt helpless. She felt unworthy, unloved, rejected and abandoned. 

Brenda worked with me for three months. I cleared the abandonment, rejection and not feeling worthy issues. I cleared the beliefs that she wasn't loved. I helped her process her mother's death fully so that she was able to move forward. I coached her on her insecurity raising her confidence and helping her step into her power. The coaching helped Brenda find her voice so she could speak her truth rather than stay silent when she was upset.

The end result is that Brenda announced her engagement and is to be married later in 2016. Congratulations Brenda! You are courageous! You found your inner power and love. 



We Have To Give Love To Get Love

You know it is better to give than receive. When asked most people respond that they would love other people to make them feel better. But what about you? What do you do to make you feel better? Are your thoughts loving? Or do you think critical and negative thoughts about yourself. If you think these three thoughts you don't love you. Are you able to self nurture? Do you take care of you? You have to give love to you to become a magnet for love. 

What most people don't realize is that we are run by our unconscious mind. What does this mean? Thoughts and beliefs you aren't even aware of from past events and trauma are running your life. Even if you aren't consciously aware of it, these unconscious thoughts are what is attracting people and situations - or preventing you from having the love you desire.

Everyone is worthy of love. Everyone is loveable. When we begin to lovingly accept ourselves as we are we attract love to us. 


No More Bad Boys! - Resolving A Past Negative Pattern

Michele is a client who kept attracting bad boys who cheated. She kept dating a particular type of man who wouldn't commit, and wasn't loyal. 

I helped her move out of her comfort zone to date someone she normally wouldn't even consider dating. He didn't feel familiar. Michele grew up with a father who wasn't committed and cheated on her mother. It is quite common for daughters of cheaters to attract someone much like their dad. This new relationship has been successful and very different than what she attracted previously. I cleared her past patterns and programs of abandonment, rejection and lying men at a soul level.  Then I encouraged her to go after a man who was a very different type. I coached her through the dating process until she felt confident to fly on her own.

Coaching with me helped her resolve this issue. 

 who moved to a city where he thought he would never find love. What was surprising to him is that after doing work with me, love found him! We worked through and cleared issues with unworthiness and feeling unlovable from the past. Instead of being indifferent about dating and love he is passionate! 


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Connect with Jennifer to schedule your free discovery
session to see if her work is a good fit for your happiness. 


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Jennifer is currently working on her third book: 

Happy Here, Happy Anywhere:

The Step-By-Step Guide to Overcoming Anxiety, Depression, and Unhappiness Without A Prescription!



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A Love Letter From Your High Self

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

When we can have loving compassion for ourselves no matter what, our lives become better. We are more loving to others when we have the capacity to accept ourselves as we are, without trying to be perfect. The following letter is how your high self feels about you. Enjoy!



My Dearest, 



I love you without boundaries, without conditions. I love every molecule of your body, every microscopic cell of your being. I love your lips your smile, your beautiful eyes with the crinkles around the corners when you laugh. I love the color of your irises when you cry. I love the tears as they fall from your face. I love to hear you laugh. I join you in your joy.

I love you when you are sad. I love you when you are late. I love you when you get flustered, anxious or angry. I love you when you are crying. I love you when you eat ice cream. I love you when you don't know which way to turn. I love you while you sleep. 

I am here for you when you feel lost. I love you when you feel pain. I sit with you in your deepest moment of anguish and comfort you when you feel grief. I am here with you when you experience loss. I am always with you. I always love you. There is never a time I don't love you. 

I join you in your triumphs. I celebrate with you when you win. I am also here when you feel like a loser. It doesn't matter to me whether you win or you lose. I love you no matter what. You are never a loser to me. 

I see your deepest darkest secrets and love you through your guilt and shame. I love you when you rejoice and feel the wonder of nature and your soul. I love you when you are angry when you feel broken - though you never are. You are whole and perfect as you are. 


I love you when you are driven. I love you when you can't get out of bed and feel despair. I love you when you feel depressed and sorrowful. I love you when you can't make a decision. I love you when you beat yourself up. I love you when you create drama and chaos for yourself. I am always here to help you through your darkest night; I will never leave you.


I love you when you feel fat. I love you when you hate your body. I love you when you don't want to exercise. I love you when you stuff your emotions with substances. I love you when you can't speak up for yourself. I love you when you can't trust. I love you when you have no faith. I love you when you are addicted. I love you when you try to fill the void in your heart with a relationship, and it ends badly. I love you through your grieving process. 

I love you when you struggle with others. I love you when you have difficulty at work, at home or with your children. I love you through childbirth and love you when loved ones pass on. I love you when you aren't present. I love you when you are emotional. I love you when you love us.


I love you when you are hopeful. I love you when you are struggling. I love you always. 


You are a radiant being of sparkling light. You are so lovely. You are beautiful. You are bright amazing and brilliant. You are creative and intelligent. You are caring. You are loving. Inside you is a deep compassion for yourself and everyone else. You are love. 

You are worthy. You are my darling. You are my most important person. You are valuable. You are important. You are wondrous, talented brilliant and bright. I see the truth of who you are no matter how you feel. The truth of your being is brilliant light and unconditional love. You are love. You are always loved by me. No matter what you do, no matter what you say, no matter what you think or how you behave. I love you. 


I always love you. No matter what, I am here. I will never leave you. I love you just the way you are. No matter what you do, I love you.



Big Guns, Arizona 
With my undying love and gratitude for you,
xoxoxo


How did this letter make you feel?

Did you feel loved? Did it help you? I would love your feedback.


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Sign up for her personal and insightful newsletter sharing love and happiness tips and wisdom. 

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Jennifer
 is a healer, sex, love, and happiness coach that clears limiting beliefs, blocks, and self-sabotage from the past so that you can have the life, love and happiness you desire. A healed healer herself, she helps others overcome anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, guilt, shame, insecurities that block you from having healthy relationships and happiness. 

Connect with Jennifer to schedule your free discovery
session to see if her work is a good fit for your happiness. 


Find Jennifer's books on Amazon.com


Jennifer is currently working on her third book: 

Happy Here, Happy Anywhere:

The Step-By-Step Guide to Overcoming Anxiety, Depression, and Unhappiness Without A Prescription!





Tuesday, July 19, 2016

Sex More Than Money Increases Happiness, Especially When You're Having More Than The Joneses

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Sex leads to an overall sense of well-being. Better than money, sex leaves us feeling satisfied, loved and appreciated. Having more sex makes us happy. Thinking we are having more sex than our neighbors makes us even happier!


Great news for those who are married and having sex two or more times a month! A study performed by Dartmouth College in Warwick England of 16,000 participants has found that sex is better than money for increasing happiness. 


More money doesn't lead to more sex. However, having more sex leads to more satisfaction and happiness than money does. The study found that increasing sex from once a month to once a week was the equivalent to having an increase in income of $50,000!


Thinking that you are having more sex than your neighbors makes you even happier! Though there is one caveat....


“The happiness linked with having more sex can rise or fall depending on how individuals believe they measure up to their peers.” According to a press release.


Tim Wadsworth and The University of Boulder Colorado surveyed 15,386 participants between 1983 and 2006. They found that those having sex two to three times a month were self-reporting 33 percent higher levels of happiness than those who had no sex the previous year. In comparison, those who reported sex once a month reported that they were 44 percent happier. Those who reported sex four or more times a month were 55 percent more likely to report happiness.

However, if the respondents were having sex two to three times a month and felt that their neighbors were having sex once a week (four times a month or more) they were 14 percent less likely to report happiness.

It is best not to compare yourself to others. It just makes us feel bad. The study Sex and Our Pursuit of Happiness: How Other People's Sex Lives Are Related To Our Well-Being 

The happiest people get the most sex and are married. They report 33 percent more sex than singles. Economists report that having more sex on a regular basis for married couples is like having an additional $100,000 a year in income! On top of sex making you happy, it also keeps you young and youthful looking

A divorce is like having a drop in income of $66,000. Sadly women are still the ones divorcing their men, maybe if you hired me, I could help you avoid that divorce. It is what I do - help you recognize what your have and how to communicate without blame.

Men can also benefit from semen retention for youthing as well as lasting longer. 

From those men who have reported to me twenty or more years without sex, I would agree. People are happier when they are loved through sex. Sex is healing.


Sex Facts:

  1. Married people have more frequent sex than those who are single. 
  2. The better educated you are the happier you tend to be with your sex life and the fewer sexual partners you have. 
  3. The myth that women lose interest in sex after marriage has been debunked in a study by iVillage. 
  4. A healthy sex life is important to 75 percent of wives.
  5. 43.7 women were bored with the frequency of their sex lives.
  6. 57.9 were willing to experiment in the bedroom.
  7. Married people have sex an average of 66 times a year - just over once a week. (But varies by age)
  8. Married couples 18 - 29 get it on regularly - 109 times a year.
  9. Couples in their 60's report sex 32 times a year.

To book your session with Jennifer while you still can e-mail her at JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com




Jennifer
 is a healer, sex, love and happiness coach that clears limiting beliefs, blocks, and self-sabotage from the past so that you can have the life, love and happiness you desire. A healed healer herself, she helps others overcome anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, guilt, shame, insecurities that block you from having healthy relationships and happiness. 

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Jennifer is currently working on her third book: 

Happy Here, Happy Anywhere:

The Step-By-Step Guide to Overcoming Anxiety, Depression, and Unhappiness Without A Prescription!