You don't have to do this alone. If you need help in your life, business or relationship, I do intuitive coaching. You can book an appointment through this link or reach me through my website JenniferElizabethMasters.com
Self-love is the fastest path to happiness, love and wealth. Jennifer is a Soul Sculptor who breaks the mold of past trauma so you can live the life of your dreams in JOY, HAPPINESS and LOVE!
Showing posts with label orgasm. Show all posts
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Sunday, September 27, 2020
Soulfully Orgasmic Sex: The Female Orgasm
Soulfully Orgasmic Sage: How To Turn On Your Man
You don't have to do this alone. If you need help in your life, business, or relationship, I do intuitive coaching. You can book an appointment through this link or reach me through my website JenniferElizabethMasters.com
Saturday, June 22, 2019
Help For Your Intimate Relationships
By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters
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If you love this blog and the help you have received here, you will love my brand new audiobook, Orgasm For Life on audio.
Recorded in a Los Angeles studio and digitally mastered, this audiobook was written and narrated by me personally and lovingly. My energy went into every single word of this audiobook. You will love it!
It took me over 24 hours of studio time in a booth to narrate this book. You will hear my voice, my passion and my desire for you to have the best possible relationship, intimacy, and sex with your partner. Where can you find Orgasm For Life? Amazon
- 8+ hours of audio
- in Jennifer's voice
Why I Wrote Orgasm For Life
40% of women struggle to orgasm their entire lives.
Over 50% are dissatisfied with their sex lives.
26% of women fake orgasm EVERY SINGLE TIME!
28% of men fake orgasm
35% orgasm every time they have sex
40% of women have some kind of sexual dysfunction
10% of women NEVER EVER EXPERIENCE ORGASM!
Most women are afraid to ask for what they want because they don't want to hurt their partner's self-esteem.
What Will You Learn?
Orgasm For Life will help you understand men better. Orgasm For Life will help you understand women better and what they need to orgasm. You will learn how to get a woman to want to have sex more often.
You will discover things you didn't know about how the human body works. You will discover where the G-spot is. Why is the G-spot so darn hard to find that some Drs. even wonder if it exists?
You will find out how to keep a relationship alive long after the kids have left for college and how to overcome the challenges that will come up with communication.
Wednesday, May 10, 2017
What It Means To Not Like Sex
By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters
There are some people that just aren't interested in sex at all. Perhaps they had trauma when they were children. Others experience pain or vaginal dryness after a hysterectomy or menopause. Some have a very low sex drive or libido which can be remedied through a diet change, exercise like The 5 Tibetan Rites, or taking a supplement. When a couple isn't in synch sexually, problems can arise.
When one person pushes for sex and becomes angry or resentful with their partner because they aren't getting it often enough a power play often ensues. For some women, there isn't enough touch without sex. If the only time women are touched is when their partners want sex, it could be a huge turn-off for them. An effort has to be made to display affection at other times than when men want sex.
Not wanting sex might have nothing to do with sex but more to do with what is happening in your relationship. If you have been critical, abusive, unloving or emotionally unavailable, perhaps these reasons are keeping sex at bay. Communication is an important part of a healthy, loving relationship. If you aren't communicating verbally, you won't be communicating sexually either.
When The Idea Of Sex Doesn't Turn You On
I've been in a marriage where the only time my husband ever touched me was for sex. He would get a certain look in his eyes and go for it. I wasn't hugged, caressed or held at any other time than when he wanted sex. Though I like sex a lot, I became an object of his desire, rather than his loving partner and wife. It isn't a pleasant feeling to know that you could be a hole in a wall, just a thing that satisfied an urge or itch. Women don't feel loved and desired for who they are when they recognize they are an object.
Humans are sexual beings. For those who truly hate sex and never ever want it, the foundation of this issue could be a past life where we were a celibate priest, nun or clergy. Vows of celibacy from past lives certainly can impede the ability to let go and be free of guilt from religious programming about sex being vile, wrong or improper. Past lives and vows can be cleared to alleviate these programs, which I have done for many men and women.
Self-hatred from past sexual trauma, molestation, abuse certainly impacts our ability to feel free about receiving sexual pleasure. When we are filled with self-loathing sex can be off-limits. Self-love means loving all parts of ourselves including our penis, vagina, breasts and anus.
Jennifer is a judgment-free coach, hypnotherapist, and healer. She works with couples, singles to heal relationships and sex lives in a loving, compassionate environment. Send Jennifer a private e-mail to find out if you are a good fit for her work.
Humans are sexual beings. Our sexual nature is the cornerstone of who we are. Some like sex more than others. Some people have stronger sex drives than their partners. Often the issue with a couple is that women need to have intimacy to have sex and men need sex to be intimate with their partner.
There are some people that just aren't interested in sex at all. Perhaps they had trauma when they were children. Others experience pain or vaginal dryness after a hysterectomy or menopause. Some have a very low sex drive or libido which can be remedied through a diet change, exercise like The 5 Tibetan Rites, or taking a supplement. When a couple isn't in synch sexually, problems can arise. 
When one person pushes for sex and becomes angry or resentful with their partner because they aren't getting it often enough a power play often ensues. For some women, there isn't enough touch without sex. If the only time women are touched is when their partners want sex, it could be a huge turn-off for them. An effort has to be made to display affection at other times than when men want sex.Not wanting sex might have nothing to do with sex but more to do with what is happening in your relationship. If you have been critical, abusive, unloving or emotionally unavailable, perhaps these reasons are keeping sex at bay. Communication is an important part of a healthy, loving relationship. If you aren't communicating verbally, you won't be communicating sexually either.
When The Idea Of Sex Doesn't Turn You On
I have had many men complain in sessions about how long it takes for a woman to become turned on. Typically, women aren't the quick-starters than men are. Though some women are hot as soon as their man looks at them a certain way, this isn't true for most women. Women need slow kissing, gentle touch, cuddling, massage, and patience before they are aroused enough for sex.
The rule of thumb (forgive the pun) is twenty to forty minutes of foreplay before most women are warmed enough for penis in the vagina sex.
I've been in a marriage where the only time my husband ever touched me was for sex. He would get a certain look in his eyes and go for it. I wasn't hugged, caressed or held at any other time than when he wanted sex. Though I like sex a lot, I became an object of his desire, rather than his loving partner and wife. It isn't a pleasant feeling to know that you could be a hole in a wall, just a thing that satisfied an urge or itch. Women don't feel loved and desired for who they are when they recognize they are an object.
Not all men treat their women in this way. Though I have heard about women being awakened from a sound sleep with a penis being shoved into their dry vagina. Respect isn't in place when sex happens without agreement. A request for sex doesn't have to be verbal. A kiss can easily be enough for both people to become passionately enthralled and turned on. Mutual pleasure is what is needed.
Sex Needs To Be A Two-Way Street
Pleasure is a part of a mutually fulfilling relationship. Both parties need to be turned on, enjoy the experience and have pleasure. Not every sexual encounter will end in orgasm for both parties and that is okay some of the time. If one person rarely or never has orgasms, it is a problem and will lead to resentment. I used to be the one without orgasms. Sex became drudgery for me, which is why I wrote Orgasm For Life. I knew if I had an issue the 40% out there that was also not having orgasms would benefit from my personal experience and how I overcame the issue later in life. I loved sex, but couldn't orgasm because of past sexual trauma.
If a woman isn't having an orgasm through manual stimulation either before or after her partner, she may become fed up and begin denying her partner sex. If your partner isn't having regular orgasms envision what you would feel like to rarely or never orgasm when you have sex, would you want it? Read Orgasm For Life for gentle, loving and humor to overcome sexual issues.
It is a complete turn-off for a woman to not be touched, hugged and held just for being who she is, rather than an object that men satisfy their urges with.
Those That Hate Sex At Anytime
Humans are sexual beings. For those who truly hate sex and never ever want it, the foundation of this issue could be a past life where we were a celibate priest, nun or clergy. Vows of celibacy from past lives certainly can impede the ability to let go and be free of guilt from religious programming about sex being vile, wrong or improper. Past lives and vows can be cleared to alleviate these programs, which I have done for many men and women.
Self-hatred from past sexual trauma, molestation, abuse certainly impacts our ability to feel free about receiving sexual pleasure. When we are filled with self-loathing sex can be off-limits. Self-love means loving all parts of ourselves including our penis, vagina, breasts and anus.
When Should We Talk About Sex?
Some people can talk about sex while having it. I prefer to have a conversation outside of the bedroom. Usually, a conversation outside the bedroom leaves a couple so turned on that mutual pleasure ensues! YAY! Pleasure for both parties is what good sex is all about.
Jennifer is a judgment-free coach, hypnotherapist, and healer. She works with couples, singles to heal relationships and sex lives in a loving, compassionate environment. Send Jennifer a private e-mail to find out if you are a good fit for her work.
Wednesday, March 29, 2017
Is It Possible To Ejaculate Without Pleasure?
By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters
Jennifer is a Certified sex, love and passion coach, healed healer, Certified Hypnotherapist, NLP Practitioner, Master Energy Healer and reads the Akashic Records. She has been on a healing journey for over thirty years. Along the road of life, she has experienced much and uses her wisdom in her sessions to help her clients. If you have experienced it, she probably has also. She meditates several times a day, clears her own energy daily and does the 5 Tibetan Rites twice a day. In this way, she stays clear, youthful and is totally present with you on the phone. Let's live to be 110! Visit Jennifer's website. Or Send her a private e-mail.
Question: Jennifer, when I ejaculate, I do not experience the pleasure of orgasm. What is the cause and how do I overcome this problem?
First of all, I have to say thank you for bringing this very sensitive subject up. Having a sexual release without the pleasure of an orgasm can cause concern about health issues and certainly some sadness about the lack of pleasure, which everyone deserves. In this article we'll examine the cause and what you can do naturally to solve this problem without medication. In extreme cases, medication might be needed.
What Is Anhedonia?
An is the Greek term for without. Hedonia means pleasure. The term anhedonia means without pleasure.
What Causes Anhedonia?
- A lack of dopamine in the brain is the cause of anhedonia. Dopamine is the hormone responsible for feelings of pleasure. Those with a low dopamine level may feel like they want to die.
- Anhedonia is a sign of a major depressive disorder. Energy clearings will help to relieve the blocked emotions which cause this.
- Prolactin a hormone released when men ejaculate can be too high. Prolactin gives some men a feeling of sadness after ejaculating.
- Menopause for women can cause a lack of pleasure. Our hormones get out of whack during menopause, watching for this drop in dopamine and eating foods that boost dopamine will give you relief.
- A loss of pleasure from things that normally give one pleasure is one of the main clinical features of Schizophrenia. Sadly not much emphasis is placed on a loss of pleasure from sex.
- Alcohol can cause a loss of pleasure from sex. Initially, there may be an increase of pleasure, as dopamine increases. However, a high amount of alcohol consumption reduces dopamine levels significantly which decreases the level of pleasure experienced.
- Low testosterone levels can significantly decrease pleasure during sex.
- Spinal chord injury can cut off the rise of the kundalini which is responsible for the feelings of orgasm.
- Multiple Sclerosis causes a gradual loss of dopamine in the brain.
- A deficiency of amino acids. Amino acids are required to stimulate dopamine products.
Three Ways To Boost Dopamine Naturally
- Change your diet to include foods that increase dopamine and amino acids. Eat a variety of foods rather than the same thing over and over. Variety is the spice of life and helps to keep your body in balance and properly nourished.
- Get to bed early. Sleep is one of the best things for your body and mood. When we don't get enough sleep our body can't function at its optimum level. Serotonin and dopamine are increased when we get sufficient deep sleep to allow our body to regenerate and heal.
- Exercise daily. Daily exercise increases blood calcium which is needed for dopamine production. Do the 5 Tibetan Rites as they only take 10 minutes to perform. Stop making excuses as to why you can't. Exercising once a week isn't enough.
What Foods Boost Dopamine Levels?
Protein-rich foods like eggs, turkey, chicken, and even legumes eaten with whole grains to form a complete protein will boost dopamine levels.
Vegetables can help boost amino acids that aid in the production of dopamine. Beets, for example, have betaine which is aids in the regulation of neurotransmitters like dopamine. Avocado, artichokes increase levels of dopamine. I eat avocado every day.
Anti-oxidant rich vegetables help to reduce free radicals which cause the oxidation (or burning up of dopamine). Deep green vegetables like spinach, kale, Swiss chard, asparagus, broccoli. and beets. Peppers, oranges, strawberries cauliflower, Brussels sprouts, contain vitamin C which helps to fight free radicals. Nuts like walnuts, sunflower seeds, greens, and carrots provide vitamin E which is needed for dopamine and brain function.
Eat Food Rich In Tyrosine
Ripe bananas are loaded with tyrosine to synthesize dopamine. Almonds, meat, poultry, lima beans, sesame and pumpkin seeds, yogurt and dairy products all contain tyrosine which aids in the production of dopamine.
Fruit
Blueberries, strawberries, and prunes trigger dopamine release. Berries are high in anti-oxidants which fight free radicals. Apples
contain quercetin a powerful anti-oxidant which prevents degenerative diseases by triggering the release of dopamine.
Chocolate
Chocolate is a delicious way to uplift our spirits and provide blissful emotions. Dark chocolate is rich in antioxidants and less sugar. It is a go-to food for increasing serotonin in the brain, but it also increases dopamine. Overconsumption of chocolate can have the reverse effect. Remember to eat everything in moderation.
If you deprive yourself of something this good for you, set up a session with me, you are sabotaging your life and health.
Herbs
A group of herbs is powerful for aiding dopamine recovery and production they are called the Blessed Maine Herbs. They include fenugreek, ginseng, milk thistle, nettles, red clover, and peppermint. The best way to consume these is in herbal tea.
Wheat Germ
If you aren't allergic to wheat, wheat germ provides you a rich supply of the amino acid phenylalanine which gets converted to tyrosine then stimulates the dopamine release.
- Change your diet to include foods that increase dopamine and amino acids. Eat a variety of foods rather than the same thing over and over. Variety is the spice of life and helps to keep your body in balance and properly nourished.
- Get to bed early. Sleep is one of the best things for your body and mood. When we don't get enough sleep our body can't function at its optimum level. Serotonin and dopamine are increased when we get sufficient deep sleep to allow our body to regenerate and heal.
- Exercise daily. Daily exercise increases blood calcium which is needed for dopamine production. Do the 5 Tibetan Rites as they only take 10 minutes to perform. Stop making excuses as to why you can't. Exercising once a week isn't enough.
Vegetables can help boost amino acids that aid in the production of dopamine. Beets, for example, have betaine which is aids in the regulation of neurotransmitters like dopamine. Avocado, artichokes increase levels of dopamine. I eat avocado every day.
Anti-oxidant rich vegetables help to reduce free radicals which cause the oxidation (or burning up of dopamine). Deep green vegetables like spinach, kale, Swiss chard, asparagus, broccoli. and beets. Peppers, oranges, strawberries cauliflower, Brussels sprouts, contain vitamin C which helps to fight free radicals. Nuts like walnuts, sunflower seeds, greens, and carrots provide vitamin E which is needed for dopamine and brain function.Eat Food Rich In Tyrosine
Ripe bananas are loaded with tyrosine to synthesize dopamine. Almonds, meat, poultry, lima beans, sesame and pumpkin seeds, yogurt and dairy products all contain tyrosine which aids in the production of dopamine.Blueberries, strawberries, and prunes trigger dopamine release. Berries are high in anti-oxidants which fight free radicals. Apples
Chocolate
Chocolate is a delicious way to uplift our spirits and provide blissful emotions. Dark chocolate is rich in antioxidants and less sugar. It is a go-to food for increasing serotonin in the brain, but it also increases dopamine. Overconsumption of chocolate can have the reverse effect. Remember to eat everything in moderation.
If you deprive yourself of something this good for you, set up a session with me, you are sabotaging your life and health.
Herbs
A group of herbs is powerful for aiding dopamine recovery and production they are called the Blessed Maine Herbs. They include fenugreek, ginseng, milk thistle, nettles, red clover, and peppermint. The best way to consume these is in herbal tea.
Wheat Germ
If you aren't allergic to wheat, wheat germ provides you a rich supply of the amino acid phenylalanine which gets converted to tyrosine then stimulates the dopamine release.
Vitamin Supplements
Vitamin B6 helps with dopamine production. Taking a daily supplement of vitamin B complex is helpful for stress, nervousness, and anxiety as well. The amazing thing about Vitamin B6 is that it also acts as a Prolactin inhibitor. Prolactin is released when a man ejaculates. Many men feel deep feelings of sadness with prolactin production is too high. Men often blame the person they are with for the sadness when it is a chemical issue within them.
If you have a problem with a lack of pleasure, there are plenty of ways to shift this serious issue. Do not ignore a health issue as it could become life-threatening later on. Eating a variety of foods and changing what you eat rather than consuming just one type of food will help you significantly. An energy clearing will help to lift depression as well. A lack of pleasure could be a sign of a serious depression. Please get the help you need.
Jennifer is a Certified sex, love and passion coach, healed healer, Certified Hypnotherapist, NLP Practitioner, Master Energy Healer and reads the Akashic Records. She has been on a healing journey for over thirty years. Along the road of life, she has experienced much and uses her wisdom in her sessions to help her clients. If you have experienced it, she probably has also. She meditates several times a day, clears her own energy daily and does the 5 Tibetan Rites twice a day. In this way, she stays clear, youthful and is totally present with you on the phone. Let's live to be 110! Visit Jennifer's website. Or Send her a private e-mail.
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Wednesday, February 1, 2017
5 Powerful Ways To Increase Longevity And Have Better Orgasms
By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters
Sex is a powerful way to ignite the fire inside each of us, expand our energy and bring us closer to enlightenment. Sex draws us closer to our partners creating better focus, mental clarity, relieving depression improves our health, longevity and relieves stress. If you aren't having sex you need to be. Sex is a natural component of being human.
When sex is dull or void of pleasure we lose interest. When women don't reach an orgasm, they stop wanting to engage. When couples aren't having sex, they stop touching each other and become more negative, critical and irritated with one another.
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Men's and women's needs differ tremendously. Often we make love to our partners the way we want to be made love to, rather than telling our partner what it is we want. Men and women are naturally wired differently. We communicate differently and we certainly have different needs when it comes to sex.
Sometimes we take our partners for granted, which is never good, gratitude can bring us back to appreciation and feeling loving again.
1. Talk about sex more often. Express what you prefer and compliment your partner on what they do well before asking for something different or a change in technique.
2. Open your mouth and keep breathing during sex. Deep breathing will expand your orgasm allowing you to last longer.
3. Move your hips. Sexual energy needs to move. If we keep our hips locked the energy stays in our genitals rather than moving upwards. Kundalini is a rising energy that begins in the root chakra or perineum between the anus and vaginal opening.
4. Meditate prior to sex. Meditation will help you get into synch with your partner. When we are in synch we move as one, becoming one. Sex is much better when we become ONE.
5. Synchronize your breathing with your partner. Another way to expand the sexual experience and increase pleasure is to breathe in synch with your partner. Spend a few minutes holding each other close. Breathe together. Inhale together. Exhale together. Watch how synchronized breathing expands your pleasure and connects you more deeply.
Sometimes we take our partners for granted, which is never good, gratitude can bring us back to appreciation and feeling loving again.
1. Talk about sex more often. Express what you prefer and compliment your partner on what they do well before asking for something different or a change in technique.
2. Open your mouth and keep breathing during sex. Deep breathing will expand your orgasm allowing you to last longer.
3. Move your hips. Sexual energy needs to move. If we keep our hips locked the energy stays in our genitals rather than moving upwards. Kundalini is a rising energy that begins in the root chakra or perineum between the anus and vaginal opening.
4. Meditate prior to sex. Meditation will help you get into synch with your partner. When we are in synch we move as one, becoming one. Sex is much better when we become ONE.
5. Synchronize your breathing with your partner. Another way to expand the sexual experience and increase pleasure is to breathe in synch with your partner. Spend a few minutes holding each other close. Breathe together. Inhale together. Exhale together. Watch how synchronized breathing expands your pleasure and connects you more deeply.
Sex is the most intimate we can be with one another, yet so little is discussed on this very delicate subject, even in long-term married couples. Sex helps to open our pineal gland or third eye.
Talking about sex and pleasure is enough to turn us on. If you aren't talking about sex or having the pleasure you desire join me tonight on this very interesting and informative radio show.
Join me on the Sex RX Show With Michaela Michaella-Lyanne Teresa Candelaria Guerrero Misko that's a mouthful! The show is on Blogtalk Radio. A replay will be available.
Saturday, January 21, 2017
Are You Looking To Deepen Intimacy Create Better Sex and A Happier Relationship?
By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters
In preparation for this book signing, I re-read my book, Orgasm For Life. I was laughing my ass off reading my own book! It is a funny eye-opening and enlightening book for both men and women.
Orgasm For Life will help you be a better lover, create deeper intimacy and help you communicate with your partner so that they hear you. Orgasm For Life is a light-hearted and enlightened look at men and women that deepen understanding of your partner. OFL is authentic yet compassionate.
Sexual desire is as natural as our thirst for water. Sex helps keep us young, connected to our partner and helps men become more intimate.
What Orgasm Isn't
It isn't a photo display of body parts. Orgasm For Life does, however, teach, instruct and explain how things work. Orgasm For Life will walk you through the act of stimulating a woman and man in the ways they prefer. Orgasm For Life will open your eyes to what you have been missing and overlooked in your relationship because you couldn't understand it before. Orgasm For Life will give you deeper understanding and compassion for your partner and help you connect with greater intimacy and passion.
Orgasm For Life will help you get beyond frustration, anger, and resentment about the opposite sex.
Orgasm For Life will change your relationship and your sex life because I teach you how to do all the things you have been wondering about. I take the guess-work out of oral. I help you understand why you have ejaculated too soon all your life and why this will never change until you get help. I also help women who haven't had the pleasure of an orgasm find out why and walk them through the healing process.
I look forward to seeing you at 1:30 at Mystic Journey Bookstore!
Much Love and Passion,
Jennifer Elizabeth
Enjoy this reading from my chapter Sex As Medicine
I don't know about you, but I get bored easily. I like to change things up and do things differently and in different places. I like adventure, travel, creativity and to have deep, meaningful conversations with my partner and lover. I also enjoy connecting sexually to enjoy mutual pleasure.
Sorry you missed my event on Sunday, January 22nd, A FREE talk with book signing in Venice California at 1:30 PM PST at the Mystic Journey Bookstore on 1624 Abbot Kinney Blvd.
In preparation for this book signing, I re-read my book, Orgasm For Life. I was laughing my ass off reading my own book! It is a funny eye-opening and enlightening book for both men and women. Orgasm For Life will help you be a better lover, create deeper intimacy and help you communicate with your partner so that they hear you. Orgasm For Life is a light-hearted and enlightened look at men and women that deepen understanding of your partner. OFL is authentic yet compassionate.
Sexual desire is as natural as our thirst for water. Sex helps keep us young, connected to our partner and helps men become more intimate.
If you are looking for a no-holds-barred instructional and informative book, written with riotous humor, this is it. It is full of wisdom, understanding, and wit to keep you reading, turned on and excited to try the suggestions.
What is great about this book is that not only do I understand how women work, because I am one, but I also have a deep understanding of what men want and need and I share it with you. My candid, honest style draws you into my personal bedroom where I share forty years of insights, passion, and experimentation.
Sexual dysfunction is my passion. Why? Because I have experienced it for myself and is what motivated me to write this book.
Some Of What Is Explored In Orgasm For Life
- The truth about Viagara and other meds.
- The Different Operating Systems of Men and Women.
- What motivates men.
- What motivates women.
- What Tantra does to change love-making for the better.
- How to use Tantra in your relationship.
- How sex works as the glue to keep a couple connected.
- How to ask lovingly for what you need rather than be a Drill Sergeant In The Bedroom.
- What happens when you reject sex and love.
- What it feels like to be rejected.
- How being right destroys intimacy.
- The best use of an apology.
- The dark side of make-up sex.
- How to create a deeper connection with your heart.
- What orgasmic bliss is.
- How to laugh at yourself.
- How to heal sexual dysfunction in a woman.
- How to heal HTP (hair trigger penis)
- How to have more fun with sex and your relationship.
- How to change things up to create more passion.
- How to make love to a woman.
- How to make love to a man.
- How to perform oral sex with passion and give your partner the best they have ever had!
- How to communicate with a man.
- How to communicate with a woman.
- How to be heard.
- How to ask for what you want in bed without destroying your man's ego.
- How to enjoy each other more.
- How to stay together in love and happy.
- How to bring the sacredness you desire into the bedroom.
- How to find and stimulate the g-spot.
- How to find and stimulate the man's g-spot.
- How to overcome erectile dysfunction.
- Eradication of boredom in the bedroom.
- The stages of arousal, orgasm, and completion of the sex act.
- What pisses your partner off and how to avoid it.
- What it feels like to be a man.
- Women hidden buried and covered up.
- Are women just complex, or crazy?
- A deeper understanding of your partner and hundreds of ways to improve your communication, sex life, and relationship.
- Teenage sex. What teenagers think sex is and isn't and when they start having sex on school buses.
- Teenagers and porn.
- Why do 80% of women fake orgasm?
- 9 Magic Steps To Orgasm.
- The Effects of porn on a relationship, teens and a man.
- How to hold off an impending orgasm.
- Semen Retention.
- What is the truth about foreplay and is it really necessary?
- How to avoid tearing the tender parts.
- Sex to prolong life.
- Sex As Medicine.
- Stress relief.
- How sex boosts the immune system?
- The power of trust.
- Monogamy.
- Affairs and Other Achilles' Heel.
- Erotica and how it can be used.
- Healing Tantra Style.
- Why Most Women Never Have A G-spot orgasm.
- The Importance of Eye Contact.
- Female Ejaculation.
- 11 Types of Orgasm For Women.
- Depression Linked To Porn.
- STDs.
- Penis size.
- Prostate Stimulation.
- Aging With Ease.
- Falling Out of Love
- Anger and Attachment
- Talking Dirty
- The Best Sex In Your 60's and 70's
- How To Increase Passion In a Failing Relationship.
What Orgasm Isn't
It isn't a photo display of body parts. Orgasm For Life does, however, teach, instruct and explain how things work. Orgasm For Life will walk you through the act of stimulating a woman and man in the ways they prefer. Orgasm For Life will open your eyes to what you have been missing and overlooked in your relationship because you couldn't understand it before. Orgasm For Life will give you deeper understanding and compassion for your partner and help you connect with greater intimacy and passion.Orgasm For Life will help you get beyond frustration, anger, and resentment about the opposite sex.
Orgasm For Life will change your relationship and your sex life because I teach you how to do all the things you have been wondering about. I take the guess-work out of oral. I help you understand why you have ejaculated too soon all your life and why this will never change until you get help. I also help women who haven't had the pleasure of an orgasm find out why and walk them through the healing process. I look forward to seeing you at 1:30 at Mystic Journey Bookstore!
Much Love and Passion,
Jennifer Elizabeth
Enjoy this reading from my chapter Sex As Medicine
Thursday, January 12, 2017
Use This Potent and Powerful Full Moon In Cancer For Romance and Great Sex
By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters
Join me in the powerful Courage To Be Authentic You Summit with Sohaila for FREE. It's a 21-day Free summit with 21 unique and powerful healers and coaches.
E-mail Jennifer for your personal discovery session to find out if Jennifer's work is a good fit for your authentic discovery and learn how to dance to your own soul's music.
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The moon affects births, moods, emotions, tides, menstruation and everything in between. A full moon in the emotional water sign of Cancer is one of the most potent and powerful energies we can experience. Love-making, nurturing, loving and letting go together can be an amazing experience tonight! Let the loving and releasing begin!
A Grand Cardinal Cross is being activated with this full moon that will be in place through the year 2020.
In January 2020, Saturn will couple with Pluto and conjunct initiating a new economic boom cycle.
Corporations, large organizations, new earth energy will be bringing in people and environment first and profit second in this new earth.
Our Divine Destiny is to take care of the earth.
In January 2020, Saturn will couple with Pluto and conjunct initiating a new economic boom cycle.
Corporations, large organizations, new earth energy will be bringing in people and environment first and profit second in this new earth.
Our Divine Destiny is to take care of the earth.
Politics are playing out these roles right now. January is all about your foundation, taking care of you. Are you kind to you? Do you make sure you have plenty of rest, exercise, take extreme self-care? Pluto opposing this moon brings in our personal needs rather than egoic will.
Trump is the disruptor. He is ruled by Uranus. Uranus is awakening us to our emotional needs. It may not seem like it, but he is who we asked for.
What do you need to feel good? The whole reason you are here is to be creative.
What do you need to feel good? The whole reason you are here is to be creative.
How can you be more creative? Tap into your inner child. The childlike innocence and purity will take you there. Play, have fun, focus on your unique talents and abilities. Nourish your talent. You came here to be you. Follow your own personal star. Channel your cosmic child and talent within you. Stop allowing others to dictate to you how you should be.
The abuse of power that we see in the world today is moving out. There is a polarization occurring that is playing out in our political arena. We may be projecting out our inner demons onto others and then blame others for what we are doing. We may not be aware of. We might not like what others are doing - but used to be that way ourselves.
This first full moon of the year is asking us to be very conscious and be aware of the shadow, power struggles, and emotions. We can find ourselves feeling righteous. Righteousness can condone bad behavior in an abusive way. This shadow is being illuminated. Don't get caught up in power struggles and power plays that you see in the workplace or world.
It is an innovative and inspiring combination. It is a time of fulfillment, nurture and belonging, creating this with your loved ones and family is a powerful use of this energy.
Libra, Aries, Cancer, Capricorn will be affected greatly through this astrologically expansive energy. It's all about collaboration, partnering and asking to be nurtured. This is a perfect time to be moving forward, meeting with a study or literary group. Potlucks that nurture your body and soul with loved ones during the next two weeks is a lovely way to utilize this energy.
The planet Venus is exalted in Pisces (very sensitive energy) combined with Venus the planet that rules love.
A full moon is a time of coming to fruition. This cancer moon is nurturing, more grounding. Cancer is about the home and nurturing. Healing the inner child and looking at those places where we need to access the tender, gentle space. Being more vulnerable and authentic will allow you to step into a sexy, spiritual bonding with our partners.
Cancer shows it's inner emotions and Pisces energy is creating a poetic vibe. We will be able to access wounded places within during the next two weeks.
How can I expand my relationships in a personal genius type of way (to impact the collective)?
What new things am I bringing out into the world?
What messages are inspiring me?
How do you view your relationships?
Are you awakening together in your relationships?
Are you gathering together with those of a like mind?
Are you opening your mind right now?
Are you loving yourself more than the need to fit in?
Don't give your power away.
Watching a romantic movie, dining over candlelight, massage and accessing something holy between you is a powerful way to use this Cancer full moon. When our spirits and souls experience each other, we expand together. What could be more lovely?
Find your voice. Speak your truth. Take care of and nurture yourself. Be patient. The more you do your homework, the more successful you will be. Careful planning as your strategy will assist you to be successful in this beautiful year! There is no one like you on the planet. Be kind to you. Be your own champion and cheerleader!
Are you loving yourself more than the need to fit in?
Don't give your power away.
Watching a romantic movie, dining over candlelight, massage and accessing something holy between you is a powerful way to use this Cancer full moon. When our spirits and souls experience each other, we expand together. What could be more lovely?
Find your voice. Speak your truth. Take care of and nurture yourself. Be patient. The more you do your homework, the more successful you will be. Careful planning as your strategy will assist you to be successful in this beautiful year! There is no one like you on the planet. Be kind to you. Be your own champion and cheerleader!
E-mail Jennifer for your personal discovery session to find out if Jennifer's work is a good fit for your authentic discovery and learn how to dance to your own soul's music.
Friday, November 11, 2016
Is It Possible To Have An Orgasm For Life?
By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters
There are some things that can't be reproduced. We have a good time one minute and when we attempt to repeat it, well, it just doesn't come close. I have done many radio interviews, and some just can't be replicated. Following is one of them, with Linzi Levinson on my old network, Voice America.
Sex is better when we are deeply connected on a soul level with our partner. Once we have built trust with our partner we can let go, unleashing our passion at the deepest level. Sex without passion is like taking a bath in someone else's bath water. It's yucky, and it doesn't do what it's meant to.
Listen Now and Enjoy The Ride!
Invite Jennifer for your private session. Jennifer's book, Orgasm For Life is for both men and women. It helps men understand women and women understand their men. If you are looking for the best sex of your life, Orgasm For Life will help you get there.
A guide to blissful unions that are unforgettable, get yours on Amazon.
A guide to blissful unions that are unforgettable, get yours on Amazon.
Wednesday, September 14, 2016
Bringing God Into The Bedroom Through Tantra
By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters
Tantra focuses on breathing together, entraining your consciousness as one, slowing movement and the act of love-making to feel each touch, looking into your partner's eyes and being one with God.
If you have ever had an experience with a partner where you felt the presence of God, you have tapped into the threshold of where Tantra takes you every time. Sex without God is like a day without sunshine. Tantra creates a sacred and spiritual act by slowing down the process and making sex mindful keeping you focused on each sacred moment.
Too often sex is a rush of heated sexual tension and over within minutes. Tantra slows down everything from your breathing to touch. Tantra takes you out of your mind (in so many ways) and into your body so that you feel each touch like a blaze of heat and ecstasy. (As I had a partner describe to me.)
Tantra focuses on breathing together, entraining your consciousness as one, slowing movement and the act of love-making to feel each touch, looking into your partner's eyes and being one with God. Tantra is liberating, rather than bonding two people together. In Tantra, it is not the other you are relating to, but the highest aspect of yourself. Connecting to the highest aspect of yourself causes a very fast and enjoyable expansion of consciousness that is stronger and faster than alone. You attain a state that is not dependent on the other.
You become fully present with your divinity filled with gratitude for those you experience this expanded experience.
Beginning with massage, slow touch allows you to connect deeply with your body and get out of your mind. When you are present fully, connected rather than in your head Tantric sex becomes a sacred spiritual act.
Sex without Tantra feels like a ride at an amusement park. It is over before you begin to enjoy it and you feel the price was far too high.
Tantra focuses on each moment, rather than being in a hurry to rush to the finish line. Orgasm happens but usually many times, rather just than once. Orgasm with Tantra rolls like wave after wave through your entire body, rather than an experience only felt in your genitals.
Edging
Today Millenials have come up with a name for what Tantra has used for centuries. Edging brings you to the brink of orgasm and then allows the energy to subside over and over again so that pleasure is experienced for hours rather than moments.
Sex With Heart
Tantric sex is beautiful as it brings your sexual energy into your heart and expands it outward all over your body. Imagine feeling an orgasm throughout your entire body undulating for minutes rather than seconds.
If you don't respect your partner, you will not be able to engage in the depth of the Tantric experience. Respect is needed to create a sacred act with the presence of God.
G-Spot Massage
Women and men both have a G-spot. For women, it is located on the upper wall of the vagina approximately an inch and a half inside the opening. Men also have a G-spot, just inside the rectum. G-spot massage for both sexes enhances the sexual experience and deepens orgasms to be more profound and powerful. For those who still wonder if the G-spot in a woman is fact or fiction, click here.
Orgasm For Life: Sting and Tantra
Study Tantra and See For Yourself
Some of the comments I have received on my blog are that what I say is too good to be true. If you haven't tried it, don't knock it.
Take a Tantric weekend course and see for yourself. There are many excellent Tantra teachers in the world, I studied with Charles Muir, but there are many excellent Tantra teachers out in the world: Devi Ward, Prem Sarovara are two of them.
There are many types of Tantra. Red, white, black are different from one another. If you are interested in the different types I have written a much-read article here. Tantra: White, Red, Black What The Heck?
Sex without Tantra feels like a ride at an amusement park. It is over before you begin to enjoy it and you feel the price was far too high.
Tantra focuses on each moment, rather than being in a hurry to rush to the finish line. Orgasm happens but usually many times, rather just than once. Orgasm with Tantra rolls like wave after wave through your entire body, rather than an experience only felt in your genitals.
Edging
Today Millenials have come up with a name for what Tantra has used for centuries. Edging brings you to the brink of orgasm and then allows the energy to subside over and over again so that pleasure is experienced for hours rather than moments.
Sex With Heart
Tantric sex is beautiful as it brings your sexual energy into your heart and expands it outward all over your body. Imagine feeling an orgasm throughout your entire body undulating for minutes rather than seconds.
If you don't respect your partner, you will not be able to engage in the depth of the Tantric experience. Respect is needed to create a sacred act with the presence of God.
G-Spot Massage
Women and men both have a G-spot. For women, it is located on the upper wall of the vagina approximately an inch and a half inside the opening. Men also have a G-spot, just inside the rectum. G-spot massage for both sexes enhances the sexual experience and deepens orgasms to be more profound and powerful. For those who still wonder if the G-spot in a woman is fact or fiction, click here.
Orgasm For Life: Sting and Tantra
Study Tantra and See For Yourself
Some of the comments I have received on my blog are that what I say is too good to be true. If you haven't tried it, don't knock it.
Take a Tantric weekend course and see for yourself. There are many excellent Tantra teachers in the world, I studied with Charles Muir, but there are many excellent Tantra teachers out in the world: Devi Ward, Prem Sarovara are two of them.
There are many types of Tantra. Red, white, black are different from one another. If you are interested in the different types I have written a much-read article here. Tantra: White, Red, Black What The Heck?
Semen Retention Benefits
Semen retention is the withholding of ejaculation. You can still experience orgasms, yes and many times in one encounter. Sex can continue for hours while you maintain your energy and stamina. Your erection may wane for a short while after an orgasm but very quickly you will be able to be back in the swing with a strong, hard erection. There are many benefits to semen retention.
You will find when you begin to retain your semen and ejaculate only when you choose to that you have increased energy, look and feel younger and don't take so long to be ready for the next wondrous round of sex!
Passionate sex requires a change of attitude. Passion doesn't mean that you come within two minutes of beginning a love-making session. Passion requires patience and a giving heart. Slow down, get out of your head and feel each feeling fully. Connect eye-to-eye and take the time to kiss your partner slowly without being in a rush. Experiencing pleasure slowly, changing position, speed, pressure from light and gentle to deep and firm can add a higher consciousness to your sex life and relationship.
Everyone can shift their sex life up a notch to enjoy passionate, hot sexual experiences that you talk about for years to come!
Let me know how this works for you. Comment below, or join me on FaceBook for a conversation!
Set up your private session with me to find your joy and happiness within. I help men and women find lasting happiness.
Buy Orgasm For Life on Amazon.com
Jennifer is currently working on her third book:
Happy Here, Happy Anywhere
The Step-By-Step Guide For Overcoming Depression, Anxiety and Unhappiness Without A Prescription!
Visit Aphrodite Effect.com Jennifer's website
Semen retention is the withholding of ejaculation. You can still experience orgasms, yes and many times in one encounter. Sex can continue for hours while you maintain your energy and stamina. Your erection may wane for a short while after an orgasm but very quickly you will be able to be back in the swing with a strong, hard erection. There are many benefits to semen retention.
You will find when you begin to retain your semen and ejaculate only when you choose to that you have increased energy, look and feel younger and don't take so long to be ready for the next wondrous round of sex!
Passionate sex requires a change of attitude. Passion doesn't mean that you come within two minutes of beginning a love-making session. Passion requires patience and a giving heart. Slow down, get out of your head and feel each feeling fully. Connect eye-to-eye and take the time to kiss your partner slowly without being in a rush. Experiencing pleasure slowly, changing position, speed, pressure from light and gentle to deep and firm can add a higher consciousness to your sex life and relationship. Everyone can shift their sex life up a notch to enjoy passionate, hot sexual experiences that you talk about for years to come!
Let me know how this works for you. Comment below, or join me on FaceBook for a conversation!
Set up your private session with me to find your joy and happiness within. I help men and women find lasting happiness.
Buy Orgasm For Life on Amazon.com
Jennifer is currently working on her third book:
Happy Here, Happy Anywhere
The Step-By-Step Guide For Overcoming Depression, Anxiety and Unhappiness Without A Prescription!
Visit Aphrodite Effect.com Jennifer's website
Wednesday, June 29, 2016
How To Turn Dull Sex Into Hot Passion-Filled Experiences
By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters
Spend a little time eye gazing. Allowing your partner to see you as you truly are. Stepping out of the mundane into a heart-centered connected place shifts sex from a physical act into a spiritual practice of making love to your partner's Goddess, or God-self.
Looking into your partner's eyes can be a little uncomfortable. We see each other naked all the time, but looking into the depth of their soul, is another thing entirely. Sure you could skip this part, but if you do, you are missing the point. Sex with a soul-to-soul connection raises your lovemaking to a higher level. What I am describing will take you to places you have never been with your partner.
Slowly begin to join your lips together without much movement. Hold your position, staying close together with lips touching.
Great sex is more than technical expertise, or knowing where the G-spot lives. Passion is more about allowing yourself to feel what you are experiencing and allowing yourself to stop nit-picking or focusing on what is wrong with your partner.
If you have read my book, Orgasm For Life, you know that sex begins in the mind. Before the first touch if you are looking at your partner expecting them to be perfect or are filled with resentment, anger or mistrust passion can be stifled.
Get Out Of Your Head and Into Your Heart
The mind can prevent arousal from occurring. If you and your partner have an unresolved issue between you, it is best to discuss the problem and come to some resolution before attempting to have sex. Great communication is the cornerstone for good sex. If you can't speak up for yourself, hold onto resentment or anger passion will be absent.
Relationships can be challenging. We come from different backgrounds, like different things and certainly have needs and desires that can be radically different from each other. Accepting your partner's differences lovingly can shift you from feeling irritated to feeling loving care. Try these mind-shifting exercises to get into your heart.
- Sit in front of your partner and place your hand on their thymus, located just below the neck on the flat part just above the first rib. The thymus area is a second heart chakra called the "high heart." Touching this place can open the door to higher consciousness. Tapping this place twelve times each day can also boost your immune system.
- Breathe into your hand placed on your partner's thymus chakra. Close your eyes and tap into their energy. With both partners touching each other's high heart chakra sit for a moment with eyes closed and breathe. This will connect the two of you heart-to-heart quickly.
- Set an intention to join each other soul-to-soul. Getting out of the ego-mind is required for a deep soul connection.
Spend a little time eye gazing. Allowing your partner to see you as you truly are. Stepping out of the mundane into a heart-centered connected place shifts sex from a physical act into a spiritual practice of making love to your partner's Goddess, or God-self. Looking into your partner's eyes can be a little uncomfortable. We see each other naked all the time, but looking into the depth of their soul, is another thing entirely. Sure you could skip this part, but if you do, you are missing the point. Sex with a soul-to-soul connection raises your lovemaking to a higher level. What I am describing will take you to places you have never been with your partner.
Static Kissing
Slowly begin to join your lips together without much movement. Hold your position, staying close together with lips touching.
Slowly shift lips grasping your partner's upper lip softly between yours. Hold that position and breathe. Most people are unaware of the small chakra located in the upper center of the lip, called "cupid's bow." It is a sensitive area that can be stimulated by slow kissing that builds gradually igniting the fire of passion slowly.
Slow the process down to experience kissing gently without tongues as long as you can stand it. I like to spend twenty minutes just kissing. It is such a turn-on to experience your partner's mouth, lips, and breath them in, rather than rushing to "get to the good stuff." If you don't kiss your partner you are missing a very intimate experience that can create tremendous sexual excitement to the point of trembling with desire.
Some women can experience an orgasm just by kissing. Oxytocin is released through kissing, which is a natural hormone that creates closeness, as well as sexual excitement and trust.
Room For Improvement
Everyone can improve their love-making skills! I have talked to many men about my book that think they know it all. If you have a know-it-all attitude, you will not be open to improving or learning anything new. Remember great sex isn't about being macho, or egoic, it is about stepping out of the ego into your heart and soul.
The Power of Slow Touch
Passion-filled sex takes you out of your head and into your heart. Enjoy slow touch, taking turns giving to your partner and then receiving.
Allow your partner to lie back and just enjoy the experience of you touching her slowly. Drag your fingertips over every part of her body, slowly touching her arms, shoulders, back, buttocks and inner thighs. Avoid touching genitals as this builds desire and excitement.
Use a feather to vary the type of touch. Change from feather-light touch to stronger pressure gradually. The idea is to experience each other's bodies slowly, enjoying each moment, allowing the excitement to build till you can't stand it any longer.
Oral Sex
Once you are both out of your minds with excitement for each other, shift to oral pleasuring. Allow the pleasure to build and then die down, build and die down several times before moving to penetrative sex.
Change It Up!
Penetrative sex is amazing, although most women don't orgasm through penetrative sex. Men need to take note of this fact and ensure she receives her orgasm through manual stimulation of the clitoris and G-Spot, simultaneously. Her orgasm will be more intense, profound and memorable when you are able to locate her G-spot.
Hot and Hotter!
Once you get into motion, orgasm can happen for most men quickly. Instead of rushing to the end-game, plunge into her and pull out, go down on her pleasuring her with oral to add to her excitement and then go back to penetrative sex for a few deep slow strokes and pull out again, shift back to oral, changing from deep, slow penetration to oral five or six times not only will your erection last longer you will be much more able to bring her to orgasm with this technique.
Passionate sex requires a change of attitude. Passion doesn't mean that you come within two minutes of beginning a love-making session either. Passion requires patience and a giving heart. Slow down, get out of your head and feel each feeling fully. Connect eye-to-eye and take the time to kiss your partner slowly without being in a rush. Experiencing pleasure slowly, changing position, speed, pressure from light and gentle to deep and firm can add a higher consciousness to your sex life and relationship.
Everyone can shift their sex life up a notch to enjoy passionate, hot sexual experiences that you talk about for years to come!
Let me know how this works for you. Comment below, or join me on FaceBook for a conversation!
Set up your private session with me to find your joy and happiness within. I help men and women find lasting happiness.
Buy Orgasm For Life on Amazon.com
Room For Improvement
Everyone can improve their love-making skills! I have talked to many men about my book that think they know it all. If you have a know-it-all attitude, you will not be open to improving or learning anything new. Remember great sex isn't about being macho, or egoic, it is about stepping out of the ego into your heart and soul.
The Power of Slow Touch
Passion-filled sex takes you out of your head and into your heart. Enjoy slow touch, taking turns giving to your partner and then receiving.
Allow your partner to lie back and just enjoy the experience of you touching her slowly. Drag your fingertips over every part of her body, slowly touching her arms, shoulders, back, buttocks and inner thighs. Avoid touching genitals as this builds desire and excitement.
Use a feather to vary the type of touch. Change from feather-light touch to stronger pressure gradually. The idea is to experience each other's bodies slowly, enjoying each moment, allowing the excitement to build till you can't stand it any longer.
Oral Sex
Once you are both out of your minds with excitement for each other, shift to oral pleasuring. Allow the pleasure to build and then die down, build and die down several times before moving to penetrative sex.
Change It Up!
Penetrative sex is amazing, although most women don't orgasm through penetrative sex. Men need to take note of this fact and ensure she receives her orgasm through manual stimulation of the clitoris and G-Spot, simultaneously. Her orgasm will be more intense, profound and memorable when you are able to locate her G-spot.
Hot and Hotter!
Once you get into motion, orgasm can happen for most men quickly. Instead of rushing to the end-game, plunge into her and pull out, go down on her pleasuring her with oral to add to her excitement and then go back to penetrative sex for a few deep slow strokes and pull out again, shift back to oral, changing from deep, slow penetration to oral five or six times not only will your erection last longer you will be much more able to bring her to orgasm with this technique. Passionate sex requires a change of attitude. Passion doesn't mean that you come within two minutes of beginning a love-making session either. Passion requires patience and a giving heart. Slow down, get out of your head and feel each feeling fully. Connect eye-to-eye and take the time to kiss your partner slowly without being in a rush. Experiencing pleasure slowly, changing position, speed, pressure from light and gentle to deep and firm can add a higher consciousness to your sex life and relationship.
Everyone can shift their sex life up a notch to enjoy passionate, hot sexual experiences that you talk about for years to come!
Let me know how this works for you. Comment below, or join me on FaceBook for a conversation! Set up your private session with me to find your joy and happiness within. I help men and women find lasting happiness.
Buy Orgasm For Life on Amazon.com
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