Your partner says black and you say "white?" You can't agree on anything and sex feels more like war than love-making? Try this one simple thing to connect and get on the same page for better sex and deep connection.
An energy clearing will eliminate the negativity between the two of you, help you feel calm, peaceful and grounded. Each time we have an argument with our partner, we end up with static in our energy field. An Epsom salts bath will clear much of this, as will a dip in the ocean.
- Sit opposite each other or lay next to one another holding hands. The position pictured opposite is the Yab Yum position which allows entrainment easily.
- Listen to your partner's breath and mimic their breathing.
- Breathe together.
- OR: Once you connect sexually follow your partner's breathing and breathe with them.
- Meditate together before sex. Sit opposite one another and close your eyes. Breathe. Relax your shoulders and sink inside your body completely. Meditation will help to create a deeper, connected sexual encounter. Don't know how to meditate, my video is below to help you.
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