If You Aren't Living Your Soul Purpose You Aren't Living Fully

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Some of us work to live. Others live to work. Doing work, we love, aligned with our soul purpose is what we are here to do. When aligned with our soul purpose work is a joy, we feel contented and fulfilled. When we are not doing work that is in alignment with our soul purpose, we may feel disconnected, lost or in search of what is missing. 

How does one find out what their soul purpose is?

There are many ways to discover what our soul purpose is. If we have had tough lessons in life, we often turn those lessons into our gifts to share with others. Maybe you have experienced a trauma, a serious illness and overcome it. Teaching others what we have learned from our personal journey is often what we are meant to do. 

For more than twenty years a consciousness ran through me filtering through my thoughts telling me I would write a book and help people overcome sexual trauma (PTSD) and abuse. I didn't realize that the overarching theme was helping people be happy, by loving themselves and raising self-esteem. I also didn't have a clue how me telling my story would help anyone else. To say I resisted is an understatement!

I argued with this Guidance. "What would anyone want to hear my story for? How could I possibly help anyone with their personal issues?" Now I help others find their way to happiness and their soul purpose through coaching, energy healing and The Akashic Records.

A Guide To Your Purpose

1. Don't worry about a plan. Your soul purpose will come filtering through your consciousness. You can't plan for it. Just begin. Write in your journal. Ask yourself what you have learned in life so far? Write it down. Ask yourself what you are passionate about?

2. You can't rush it. As we graduate through our life lessons we learn and grow. At each stage of our spiritual evolution, we learn new skills. The skills you need to use to access your life purpose will come during your journey to your purpose. You can't teach something that you haven't learned yet, it won't work. You can't short circuit your process. Your soul purpose will be something a little risky - deep faith is rewarded. You will only see a glimpse early on - rather than a plan all laid out.

3. There are levels to your spiritual development. Beginning on a path of spiritual development is kindergarten. Once you learn your initial lessons you graduate to first grade. Your vibration increases as you grow. Your soul purpose vibrates at a high rate. You can't expect to be able to see what it is until your vibration meets the same vibration. You can't receive your soul purpose until you are able to process and understand it. You will get there, I promise!

4. Your soul purpose is heart-based. Trying to "figure out" your soul purpose won't do it for you. When we are figuring things out we are in our ego-mind, not our heart. Your heart is where you connect to Source. The way to find your soul purpose is to go through your heart.

5. You need to take a leap of faith. Your soul purpose will not be an easy path. Expecting that everything will be laid out and there will be no risk involved won't get you very far. Faith requires you to act on the unseen. 

6. No one can keep you from your soul purpose but you! Your soul purpose depends on you and no one else. Thinking that your spouse, children, parents, employer or pets can block you from acting on and fulfilling your soul purpose is taking the role of a victim. You aren't a victim here unless you choose to be. No one can kill your dreams but you. Excuses won't get you down the road, they will keep you stuck. Taking the steps required on your path will allow your dream to unfold.

A caveat here is that I had tremendous fear about writing my first book. I wanted to play it safe and wait till my mother died. "NO!" was my answer. My first book was as much for my mother as it was for me.  I was afraid of her wrath and backlash. My mother threatened to sue me due to the content in Odyssey Victim to Victory. 

My truth wasn't the way she remembered it. It was very painful for her. It didn't keep me from writing the book, I did it anyway and took a huge risk. I didn't allow my fear of my mother keep me from doing what I needed to do. We have to be completely authentic and honest with ourselves and others to receive our soul purpose.

Writing my first book was cathartic and healing for me. Anytime we do something the first time we have to take a huge leap.  I took mine. You can do it too!

6. It might not feel comfortable. Expecting that fulfilling your life purpose will be easy and comfortable is expecting it to be handed to you on a silver platter. It won't be. Like I wrote above, there is going to be risk involved both personal and probably financial. Anything worth having is worth working for and probably takes a certain amount of risk. You might risk feeling silly, vulnerable or revealing personal information. Your soul purpose is worth it!

7. We often meet our destiny on the road to avoid it. If you attempt to avoid it or stifle your creativity you might meet your soul purpose somewhere else. No matter where you go, you will be. 

8. Ask for help. We can't do this alone and you probably need to learn a few skills along the way. We can try to be the lone wolf, but we will make life much more difficult in the process. The Universe and God can't help if you don't ask. Along the road of life, the resources you need will arrive when you align with your soul purpose. Help is on your path. Boots start walking! (It's an old Nancy Sinatra song.)

9. Don't allow uncertainty to stop you. Not having all the answers allows information to flow to you. Uncertainty is the birth of all creation. Some of the greatest moments in our lives came from the orchestration of the Universe, things that we could never have predicted just unfold before our very eyes! Cultivate the attitude of not knowing and being uncertain, it will allow the infinite possibilities of the Universe to open up to you.

10. Don't misappropriate information! When the help arrives use it! If you ask for Intuitive Guidance, act on it. If you ask, receive and don't use the information you will punish yourself for not doing what you thought you were supposed to do. Your guilt will block you.

Your soul purpose might be just to love. It could be a simple thing. 

Everyone Has A Soul Purpose Even A Dog!
Meet Yoda He Knows His Soul Purpose

Oct. 2014

In October 2014, I was Guided to take my daughter out to brunch at our favorite breakfast place in our town. We don't dine out often, preferring to eat healthy food and watch our budget.

Yoda found me five months before my daughter, Ariel graduated from high school and moved to Colorado. He was wandering down the alley outside of the restaurant where my daughter and I had brunch.

He was only about six weeks old. We checked with the people that owned him, and they had no means to feed or take care of him and told my daughter to take him (they had five other puppies and no mamma). I wondered what the heck I would do with a puppy? Why did he show up when he did? 


My answer came:
To help Karma and me get over a tough time and make us both smile! 

His soul purpose is to make people happy. Everywhere he goes people look at him and smile. I have yet to see anyone come into his presence and not smile. He runs down the beach drops his tennis ball in front of their blanket and barks at them. Most people know instinctively to throw his ball; then he runs down to the next group of people. He is gregarious. He loves everyone. He makes people smile. 

He has helped Karma stay young and active, giving her a buddy to join her in her walks and play. Karma was starting to fail till Yoda showed up. Yoda has given Karma a new lease on life and brought in joy for her.

Abandoned Native American store

In 2014, I was driving across the country from Boulder, Colorado and got all the way to Williams, Arizona to stop for the night. When I did, I found Yoda wasn't in my car. He had gotten out when I stopped to take photos (I had no idea). 

I had to drive all the way back to Big Guns, Arizona to find him. There are a series of children's books coming about Yoda and how he found his home, as well as his big adventure of being lost in

Big Guns, AZ where I found Yoda in the dark

Arizona. Yoda's story is a part of his soul purpose. He will be visiting children in classrooms and elsewhere as part of his Divine Purpose.

What My Dog Taught Me About Love

I hope this article is helpful in some way. I would love to hear from you, either comments or questions. Please either respond at the bottom of this article, or on FaceBook. Often a conversation can be helpful with others who have also experienced what you are going through. 

Due to my personal experience with my mother, I am extremely compassionate. I had my experience with feeling bat-shit crazy. I understand how devastating it can be to experience the impossible to please the parent. 

Often the partner of someone with BPD pre-deceases the other from the high levels of stress in the home. 

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When God Calls Your Name

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

I have been asked why I write about sex all the time, and don't I get tired of it? Although I enjoy sex, I didn't begin to write about sex until 2013. I had to move beyond what I thought I needed to be doing and really step into my soul's purpose.  As a spiritual teacher, healer, sharer of what I know or have experienced; I used to write about Spiritual subjects, Metaphysics, Universal Laws and Truth. I share my secret of what changed for me in this article. 

What is Metaphysics, you ask? Well Grasshopper, this is difficult to define completely, but I will do my best. Metaphysics is a traditional branch of philosophy, which studies the state of being, the world, and all that encompasses it.You could say it is the study of the unseen, including space-time, universal laws, cause and effect, understanding the world and how life works.

Our sexuality is the core of who we are. Humans are sexual beings. We experience God through sex when we have an orgasm. Even those who don't believe in a higher power, still experience a touch or fleeting glimpse of The Divine at the time of orgasm.

In 2012, while standing in my kitchen in Boulder, Colorado, I was told "Write a book about sex." I said, "You must be kidding me! Why sex? I help people love themselves." Then I was told: "Millions of people are motivated by sex. They will come to spirituality through sex, your way is not reaching enough people fast enough!" 

I had studied the Akashic Records in Bali, several years before and learned to channel information from The Divine Mind. Who told me? It was not my guides, it was not a deceased ex-husband or friend. It was not my father. I have and continue to communicate with those on the other side. But this was a different voice. I have only heard this voice three other times. I felt it to be the voice of God. 

The Voice Of God?

When people ask me, how can you tell the difference? Here is what I know. My guides speak to me in gentle soft tones. They whisper to me. Their voices are suggestive, offering kind hearted, loving advice. They don't demand. They don't command. They show up in my sessions with my clients. Often my client's guides speak to me as well. Their words float in and out quickly. If I don't share them immediately, I don't remember what was said. Think of it, ordinary people back in biblical times heard the voice of God. Do you think that God has stopped speaking to people, because it is no longer being recorded? 

What I Know Of God

God is everywhere in everything. In a tree, a bunny, a flower, a particle of dirt. There is no place that God isn't. God is in a newborn baby, the man dying in the street, the homeless man begging on the street corner. God is everywhere. God is always

present, always growing. God learns and grows through our experiences. Each and everything that we experience God does also. God is infinite, ever expanding and ever loving. God wants us all to experience, grow and evolve. God does not want us to suffer, but allows us to have our own experience of life. God does not judge, criticise or condemn. God LOVES. God is.

God flows through us all

When I hear God speak it is commanding, strong and very powerful. Do I have to do what God tells me to? No. But that would be really stupid. When we follow our guidance we are affirmed, and rewarded. When we don't, we suffer the consequences. When God speaks to us it is only of things that are really important. Life changing, earth shattering or devastation. I have written about the times that God has spoken to me. Here they are again:

Alpharetta, Georgia - For Heaven Scapes, Ltd.

1. "Get rid of your stuff or we will do it for you!" I used to be a packrat. I was bogged down by papers, files from over 30 years, photos, belongings, clothing stuffed into closets, dressers and boxes, furniture, equipment, memorabilia, wedding photos from several marriages..... plus a barn full of more equipment, landscaping materials from old projects and jobs. I heard this warning from several psychics, then very loudly in my head.
   All this stuff was dragging my energy down. I was being prepared for several big moves to get me out of Georgia, to Colorado and then California. I could not possibly have made those moves dragging all that paraphernalia. I would never have dropped it all or sold it in the time I had. (More on this in my first blog. Manic Move To The Mojave Part II The Magic Begins) When we hoard stuff, we also are an emotional hoarder, handing onto old hurts, pain, suffering and keeping score. That was the old me.
2. "Move your truck and trailer before you leave today." I moved my truck and trailer as told. Got out and asked, "Is this okay?" I was told, "We can work with that." My truck and landscaping trailer had been parked under three 100 year old oak trees. I had just picked up some beautiful dry firewood for the winter. My daughter and I were about to visit our friend, Diana (now on the other side). Diana lived 70 miles away in the North Georgia mountains in Sautee. We were spending the night with

   

   Author Diana Davis

   her that night, leaving my dogs at home. When we returned the next day. There had been a terrible storm, so bad that two of the big, old oak trees fell upon the house, knocking the house so hard, one of my dogs jumped out of the window screen. Had I left my truck and trailer where they were parked, they both would have been destroyed. As it turned out one tree narrowly missed my truck and trailer by 6 inches. 
3. "BOULDER! BOULDER! BOULDER!" After losing everything I owned, because I DID NOT get rid of all my stuff, so they had to do it FOR ME..... I was living in a small basement apartment with furniture that my ex husband loaned me. I heard the words, Boulder three times. They were also shown to me in big block letters to that I would get it. I was very stubborn back then. I was afraid of what my ex would say. He was very determined to say the least and wanted our daughter to be educated at this pristine high school in Milton, Georgia. It was a very affluent school, that I never liked because Ariel fell through the cracks. She was neither affluent, nor gifted. She was seemingly "challenged." She did not fit the
   Milton HS profile. She was told by a counselor that she would never go to college, at Milton. She was also humiliated by another counselor in front of her whole class, after moving to our little basement apartment just a week before, I left for Bali. She did not know her address and the counselor made her cry for being so, "Stupid!" "At her age, how could she not know her address!" Within 2 weeks Rich and I both moved independently of each other, after living in Georgia for almost 30 years. He went to North Dakota to work in the oil fields. I was concerned at that time, that this move and work would kill him. It did.

In my early 20's, before I really embarked upon a spiritual path (so I thought) I was flaky and fearful. I was insecure. All over the map. I didn't have a focus. I was unclear as to my purpose and certainly not connected to God, or my guides. I saw spirits but was terribly fearful of them back then. My mind chatter was incessant. When mind chatter fills the recesses of our mind, we can't hear our guides. We certainly can't hear God. 

It was at this time that God called my name. It was very loud. I thought it was my father. Because when I asked myself, who was that, the answer in my head was, "your father." I was standing out in the middle of a field in Ontario. My parents had 10 acres attached to a track of land, where I could walk for miles. I ran back to my parent's house asking did dad call me? My mother said, "I don't think so." I found my father and asked him, "Did you cal me?" "No," was his response. I continued to ask him, c'mon Dad, I heard you!" "No, it wasn't me!"

Why?

One of the questions we are told all the time is, never ask why? Will I ever learn why God called me back then. Yes, but then it won't matter, will it? So it is not a question I focus on. Most likely, I was called because I was not doing what I needed to do. I was not focusing on me. I was focused instead on what others were doing, saying or had. Instead of being focused on the inner, I was completely focused on the outer. I missed the point of life. I did not recognize my own worth, purpose or Divinity.

Once in California, I had been given the title for my new book, Orgasm For Life. I sat in meditation. I told you I was stubborn. I asked, "God if you really want me to write a book about orgasm, please give me a clear sign. I stepped outside and looked up into the sky and this is what I saw. I don't think it could have been any clearer than that!

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How We Are Guided

We are guided by outside circumstances and situations as well as our inner guidance. When a door closes in one direction, we turn and a window opens somewhere else. My landscape business was slowly becoming more challenging for me in many ways. I had mold in my house and lost everything. I had very little in the way of personal possessions after that. When I was told to move to Boulder, Colorado, I did so. Sometimes we go somewhere thinking we are there for one reason, when the actual reason is something entirely different. 

When we trust our guidance we find that there are multiple reasons for doing the things we do, not just one. 

I now know, I was led to pull Ariel out of school in Georgia because that school was diminishing her self esteem. She did not belong there. She needed a stronger spiritual grounding and real friends, which she found in Boulder.  We moved to Boulder, Colorado so that my daughter could have as much time with her father before he passed away from the physical plane as possible. It was not to be the successful business person, I thought. I had difficulty making money in Colorado. It was very

Boulder Canyon, Boulder Colorado

expensive. It was after I moved to California, that everything really began to fall into place. I was told over and over again, "COLORADO IS NOT YOUR HOME!" Even though I loved Colorado. Even though two of my children now live there. I am not supposed to live there. 

I do what I do, because it is what God wants me to do. It is not a vocation I chose for myself. It was chosen for me. Yes, you could say it was Divine! It is Divine! A triple Scorpio, married four times who loves sex, who had been molested, traumatized, non-orgasmic for most of her adult life, now healed, loving herself completely, teaching other women and men how to live fully expressed in all that they do. Yes, sex is my vocation. It is Divine! 

Jennifer is guided in all she does, says and teaches. Her sessions include guidance from the other side, angels, guides, Ascended Masters. She is a coach like no other. Without a personal agenda, she is guided to assist you be the best YOU that you can be. In all things be true to yourself. The more authentic, honest and fully grounded in the spiritual you can be, the happier you will be with your life. Jennifer teaches meditation, how to trust your own guidance, using hypnotherapy, energy healing, Neurolinguistic Programming and of course her certification in coaching. She is one who walks the walk and talks the talk. Authentic, compassionate, caring and in touch with her personal divinity, she helps you find the same.

Looking for a guide, a spiritual pathfinder a lover of life who has been in misery herself, and is out of it, to guide you along your personal path of self discovery so that you can find your passion, your love of life and inner joy that is permanent as well. As one of my spiritual teachers, Vasestha used to say, "Growth is a given. Suffering is optional. "

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On Lake Rabun, Georgia 2011

My friend, Diana Davis wrote the book God is Here. Her son Forrest is her only living child. He receives the benefit of the proceeds of her book. Forrest and my daughter Ariel both lost parents within months of each other. Coincidence? I don't believe so. This photo was taken of Forrest and Ariel during happy days after playing on the lake together.