How To Navigate The Melee´ of Challenging And Hard To Take Situations

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

“Peace is the result of retraining your mind to process life as it is, rather than as you think it should be.” ~Wayne Dyer

The more we try to change a situation, the more we suffer. The more we resist, fight and protest what is present in our world, the more we suffer. Change happens because it is needed. Chaos is always present in our world.

The Law of Chaos And The Universal Law of Order

The Law of Chaos and Order are simple. When we fight the flow of The Universe, we suffer and chaos ensues. When we embrace the ebb and flow of change order results. 

Situations happen. We can't see the end-game because we are in the middle of the situation. We can only see what is occurring in the present. We might be in fear because of what we don't know. Once we trust that all is well and in Divine Order, the fears fall away. Chaos and order work together for our good.

We might feel a penalty should be called, but we aren't in control of others actions. For something new, different and of a better design to be birthed the old has to fall apart. Experiencing this feeling of change can cause us to feel uncertain or worried. 

Don't Like The Way Things Are Going?

Maybe your partner divorced you. Perhaps your kids smoke pot. Maybe your mother won't validate you. Maybe your boss is a bitch and treats you like crap. We might end up divorced and then have regrets that we didn't try harder. The shadowy parts of humanity that have not been dealt with are playing out in our global events. If you are triggered by our current events, you have inner work to do.

An emotional reaction to events in our outer world is due to unfinished business within ourselves. If we feel triggered, or upset about something it is because there are parts of ourselves that need love, forgiveness, and release so that they can be healed. 

The Universe Supports You And All Life

The Universe was designed to support life and growth. If we don't learn from the past the present and future will challenge us even more. Each event that occurs is another lesson for us to grow and evolve. Each time we resist, fight or joust at windmills we suffer. 

Change is inevitable. Suffering is optional. JEM

Truth

1. The Universe isn't out to get you. 
2. The Universe doesn't make mistakes.
3. The more you resist, the more pain you experience.
4. The more you try to control or change the outcome the more you suffer.
5. Instead of being upset about others actions that you can't control be in childlike wonder. "I wonder what he'll do or say next?"

If you aren't happy with what is going on in your outer world, check inside and see what work needs to be done to let go of control or fear. Under all the hoopla, protests and struggle is a Divine plan that will create needed change.

Soul First Aid

Your soul is a Divine expression of love, therefore, your soul is happiest when it is giving and receiving love and in gratitude. 

1. Breathe deeply. Slowing your breath and breathing deeply will help you to release tension and stress, raise oxygen levels, help
   
   you overcome depression and help you get grounded.
2. Get out in nature! Sit down on a rock, beach or the earth to ground yourself. If you can walk on the earth or grass barefoot. We are energetic beings. When we move into fear we tend to be out of our body therefore, ungrounded and scattered. Breathing will help you come back into your body, as will sitting or walking on the earth. Barefoot is best if you can. Touch your
   
   forehead to a tree trunk and ask the tree to take away your pain and suffering. You will be surprised how much better you feel after doing this simple exercise. Say "thank you," to the tree!
3. Quiet the debilitating mind chatter. Mental chatter can increase stress levels, anxiety, cause us to spin in a fearful spiral downward that can create panic attacks and depression. Quieting the mind chatter can be done by listening to one of my podcasts on my FREE APP. 
4. Be in gratitude. Gratitude will help to raise your vibration and take you out of fear by writing down all your blessings. We create more positive flow into our lives when we are grateful for what we have currently. When we complain we block the flow and create more situations in our life that are negative. There are many powerful reasons to be grateful and write these blessings in a notebook. Writing is more powerful than thought. We can channel our higher self with a pen and paper and tap into our Divine connection.

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The Courage To Thrive

7 Ways To Allow The Universe To Do The Heavy Lifting

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Just as there are laws to keep us safe on our roads and in our cities and towns, there are Laws of The Universe. These Laws protect us from ourselves and assist us daily. Even if you don't know what these laws are, they are working in the background of everything we do and have.

The Universal Laws work for us. They support us in our beliefs, showing us what we believe to be true by sending situations and events to us. 

We don’t know for sure how many universal laws there are, below is an excerpt from The Kybalion and Wikipedia explaining seven principles or laws that govern everyone on this planet and in The Universe.

Principle of Mentalism

The Principle of Mentalism embodies the truth that "All is Mind." The Universe is Mental." -- The Kybalion.

This first law out of the 7 universal laws explains that THE ALL (which is all that is apparent to our material senses - matter, energy) is spirit which in itself is thought of as a universal mind.

Principle of Correspondence 
The Principle of Correspondence embodies the idea that there is always a correspondence between the laws of phenomena of the various "planes" of being and life. As above, so below; as below, so above. This principle states that there is a harmony, agreement and correspondence between these planes, delineated as 

The Great Physical Plane The Great Mental Plane The Great Spiritual Plane 

Principle of Vibration 
The Principle of Vibration embodies the idea that motion is manifest in everything in the Universe, that nothing rests, and everything moves, vibrates, and circles. This principle explains that the differences between different manifestations of Matter, Energy, Mind, and even Spirit, are the result of only different "vibrations." The higher a person is on the scale, the higher the rate of vibration will be. The All is purported to be at an infinite level of vibration, almost to the point of being at rest. There are said to be millions upon millions of varying degrees between the highest level, The All, and the objects of the lowest vibration. 

Mental Transmutation is described as the practical application of this principle. To change one's mental state is to change vibration. One may do this by an effort of Will, by means of deliberately "fixing the attention" upon a more desirable state. 

Principle of Polarity 
The Principle of Polarity is the 4th law of the 7 universal laws and it embodies the idea that everything is dual, everything has two poles, and everything has its opposite. All manifested things have two sides, two aspects, or two poles. Everything "is" and "isn't" at the same time, all truths are but half truths and every truth is half false, there are two sides to everything, opposites are identical in nature, yet different in degree, extremes meet, and all paradoxes may be reconciled. 

Principle of Rhythm 
The Principle of Rhythm is the 5th law of the 7 universal laws and it embodies the idea that in everything there is manifested a measured motion, a to and fro, a flow and inflow, a swing backward and forward, a pendulum-like movement. This principle explains that there is rhythm between every pair of opposites, or poles, and is closely related to the Principle of Polarity. It can be seen that this Principle enables transition from one pole to the other, and not necessarily poles of extreme opposites. 

Principle of Cause and Effect 
The Principle of Cause and Effect is the 6th law of the 7 universal laws and it explains that there is a cause for every effect, and an effect for every cause. It also states that there is no such thing as chance, Chance is merely a term indicating extisting causes not recognized or perceived.The Principle is clarified in the chapter Causation. 

Principle of Gender 

This last law out of the 7 universal laws embodies the idea that gender is manifested in everything. Gender is manifested as the Masculine and Feminine principles, and manifests itself on all planes. 

Mental Gender is described as a Hermetic concept which relates to the masculine and feminine principles. It does not refer to the physical gender of someone, nor does it suggest that someone of a certain physical gender necessarily has the same mental gender. Ideally, one wants to have a balanced mental gender. 

The concept put forth in The Kybalion states that gender exists on all planes of existence (Physical, Mental, and Spiritual), and represents different aspects on different planes. It is also stated that everything and everyone contains these two elements or principles. 

The Masculine principle is always in the direction of giving out or expressing, and contents itself with the "Will" in its varied phases. 

The Feminine principle is always in the direction of receiving impressions, and has a much more varied field of operation than the Masculine. The Feminine conducts the work of generating new thoughts, concepts, and ideas, including the work of the imagination. 

It is said that there must be a balance in these two forces. Without the Feminine, the Masculine is apt to act without restraint, order, or reason, resulting in chaos. The Feminine alone, on the other hand, is apt to constantly reflect and fail to actually do anything, resulting in stagnation. With both the Masculine and Feminine working in conjunction, there is thoughtful action that breeds success, which point out that both the Feminine and the Masculine fulfill each other. 

How To Use These Laws 

The higher our vibration, the more ease, flow and miraculous events we experience in our lives on a daily basis. When we don’t recognize the laws we unconsciously create our personal universes of suffering, illness, struggle and strife. 

Suggestions 

1. Using the principle of Mentalism our thoughts create. They are energy. Focus on what you want rather than what you don't want as you will create more lack, loss and limitation by focusing on what you don't want.

2. Using the principle of Correspondence, whatever is inside of you will be found outside of you also. Kindness inside: kindness outside. Hatred inside: hatred outside. Always choose to be loving, kind compassionate. Eventually, this will be your perpetual state of being. Love is your natural state.

3. Using the principle of Vibration, raise your vibration by getting outside on a daily basis. Walk in nature. Revel in the beauty around you. Gratitude is the fastest way to raise your vibration and open your heart. Express gratitude for all you have, including your health and love. Express gratitude for the sun, the plants, moon, stars, your health. When we are grateful for what we have, more will be given to us. There is no lack, only our perception of it. 

Focusing on what we have rather than don't have is how we manifest more.

Change your mental state to that of gratitude and you raise your vibration.

Be kind to all things, and kindness will return to you.

4. Using the principle of Polarity know that love and hate are polar opposites. There are two sides to everything. A state of allowing and surrender is neutral and balanced. 

Telling a small lie, is still a lie, you can't be partially pregnant.

As you clean up your energy you will stop lying altogether. 

5. Using the principle of Rhythm allows for ebb and flow. Money comes in and goes out. We give love, we receive love. Always a state of in and out. We love, we don't love. Rain comes in and wind

takes it away. When we get stuck and stagnant we are not expressing ebb and flow our natural state. 

The sun rises and sets. The moon rises and sets. Every day we start anew.

Breathe in and breathe out. Bring yourself back to your natural state. Everything moves. Everything changes. Nothing stays the same. 

6. Using the principle of cause and effect means you can't get away with anything. This principle is often referred to as the law of karma. Nothing is by chance or random. There is always a cause before the effect appears. If someone cheats on you, it is because you lie and cheat yourself first. What lies do you tell yourself? If you are looking for love, do you harbor self-hatred?

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. 

Our words or actions are the cause, the effect is what we experience in our outer world. 

7. The law of gender states that we all have both masculine and feminine within us. We want to be mentally balanced with equal

masculine and feminine. Gender exists everywhere. The ability to both give and receive are part of a balanced gender.

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Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is the author of the forthcoming book: HAPPY HERE, HAPPY ANYWHERE. 

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5 Ways You May Be Blocking Love

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Give into love or live in fear. Johnathan Larson "Rent"

Everywhere I go, I hear the same refrain, "What I am looking for is THE ONE!" Even today while tying my shoes at the gym, I chatted with a woman in her late 40's. She told me, "I have not yet found THE ONE." Her life would be complete with this one person. My clients come to me looking for a loving relationship. What do all these people have in common?

1. Your love tank is empty. Universal Law teaches us that we can't manifest something from a place of lack. We have to feel love to get love. The more we focus on what we don't have, the more alone or lonely we feel. The more we talk about being alone, not having anyone, the more alone we are. Lovingly accepting you as you are is the key. Fill yourself up to overflowing with love, and then you become a magnet for love. Wonder if you love yourself? Then take my Self Love quiz at the end of this article.


It seems like a cruel joke that you can't find love when you aren't loving or accepting of yourself. To magnetize love to you, fill yourself with love. Rather than beating yourself up, soften your

gaze. Shift your focus to being enough, rather than imperfect. When we try to be perfect, we can't help but fall short. Instead, be the best you - that you can be. 

Be the love you wish to have. A version of Gandhi's quote

Loving you completely shifts your paradigm. When you try to attract someone from a place of lack, you will find that the type of person you attract is also coming to you with a love tank that is empty. When we lovingly accept ourselves, we emit a different energy. We emit the vibration of joy, love, bliss, happiness and what we want to draw in; LOVE!

2. You Criticise Others. When we criticise others, we have difficulty accepting ourselves as we are. Generally, people who condemn others are equally negative about themselves. When we focus on other's faults, that is all we see. Focusing on faults rather than the beauty in each person closes our hearts to love. Choose to love and accept yourself the way you are. When you love and accept  yourself, you will also accept others the way they are, rather than trying to change, or fix them.


3. You try to control others.  As much as we might want to make others do our bidding, we can't. We cannot control anyone else but us. Control comes from fear. You can't be in love and fear at the same time. Let go of the need to control. You will find that you have a lot more fun and more loving relationships. 

4. You complain. The more we complain, the more chaos and drama we draw into our lives. When we complain, our hearts are closed. When we are complaining, we are not grateful for what we do have. Complaining keeps good things from coming to you, like loving partnerships. When we complain, we most likely live in a negative perspective. Everything that is bad is drawn to you, or it seems this way. You might even find yourself asking, "What else could go wrong." You might even be sick a lot, have body aches or pains, insomnia. 

5. You expect others to make you happy. I know this sounds strange, but when we expect others to make us happy, we don't take personal responsibility for ourselves. No one can make you happy but you. Expecting others to do anything sets them up for failure. High expectations mean we will always be disappointed. Going with the flow and allowing life to unfold rather than expecting people to do certain things for you will help you relax into life, rather than always disappointed from it. 


Self-love is the cornerstone of my work. When we love ourselves, all our relationships become so much easier. Life begins to be one of ease. We stop battling with everyone. Our inner conflict disappears and we find more joy in life. With our soul purpose, we

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