Looking For Love?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

When you have someone that you love and feel connected with, there is nothing like it in the world. Everything seems better. Food tastes better, the sun shines brighter, the birds seem to sing for you. Life is good. When you are alone and wondering when you will find the person of your dreams, you can feel alone, lonely and empty.

Empty?

When you keep asking, "When will I find my Love? Where is he/she? When will they show up in my life?" all you are doing is pushing love away. You can't find love when you feel lack. Instead begin to be grateful for having love in your life.

ATTRACT WHAT YOU ARE

You attract what you are, not what you want. If you want love, you have to BE LOVE. You have to radiate love from within you, out into the world to attract it. If you feel empty, and try to attract your mate, you will find someone who also feels empty. They will not be right for you. You will not be happy.

BE THE LOVE

If you attract what you are, how then can you be love? You have to give love first. The person you have to give it to is you. Love and accept all of you, first. When you think loving thoughts about yourself, and speak kind and loving words about you, consistently you are on the road to being able to attract love to you.

You have to radiate it out from your heart into the world. Raise your vibration with gratitude for all the wonderful things that you already have. Give prayers of gratitude several times a day. Whenever you think of your life, be grateful for it. Be grateful for your body, health, home, food on the table. Be grateful for all you have. Being grateful raises you up to the vibration where you can manifest.

You have to have your vibration at the energy of LOVE. How do you do that when you feel sad, depressed or guilty? Raise your energy up with gratitude. It is the easiest way to raise your energy. Be generous with your time, money, talents and gifts. This will also open your heart.

Feeling Angry?

If you feel angry, you must propel your vibration up passed it. Release the anger. Punch a pillow, hit some baseballs at a batting cage, but release the anger in healthy ways. 

Forgive 

I can't speak enough about the power of forgiveness. If you feel resentment, anger or sadness about a past relationship, you have not let it go. Forgive yourself and your past mate. Let go of the feelings of sadness. Grieve, cry, emote. Let it all go. Holding onto sadness, anger and resentment will not get you the love you want.

I have had hundreds of women and men tell me that they love themselves completely. Yet when I asked them the following questions, they could only honestly attest to one or two. Here is how you can tell if you love yourself completely. 

Answer the following statements truthfully. If you can honestly say that YES to all but one or two, you are well on your way. If you can't honestly answer the questions with YES, then it is back to the drawing board and perhaps you need to take my Love Yourself Fearlessly Group coaching program at the end of August.

How Do I Love THEE, Let Me Count The Ways

1. I only say loving things to myself.
2. I only think loving thoughts about myself and others.
3. I accept all parts of myself  with unconditional love.
4. I never judge anyone else, least of all myself.
5. I never critique myself or others.
6. I am always positive.
7. I recognize that I am not perfect and do not strive to be perfect.
8. I do not look for validation outside of myself, for anything. I feel full complete on my own.
9. I never feel lonely.
10. I am happy all the time.
11. I feel joyful, peace filled and tranquil.
12. My mind is quiet.
13. I am prosperous and my bank account is never empty.
14. I do not lie to myself or others.
15. I am able to speak my truth in the moment with compassion.
16. I have healthy boundaries.
17. I am happy whether I am in a relationship or not.
18. I can stand naked in front of a mirror and see myself as beautiful as I am.
19. I am never needy or clingy.
20. I feel full and complete as I am.
21. I know my own power and feel secure, safe, strong and whole.

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Want to find that true love? Looking for a soul mate, or Divine Partner? Jennifer's 6 week group coaching Love Yourself Fearlessly is the way to find out what you want, and manifest it - often during the workshop. She has helped countless others find their soul mate, or Beloved partner through her workshop. Check it out on her website: Love Yourself Fearlessly. Starting late August. This will be an online webinar. Reviews are on her site. 

The Love Yourself Fearlessly webinar involves 6 weeks with 90 minutes of LIVE coaching on the spot. JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com

Are You Waiting For Someone Else To Love You?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Are you waiting for a man to show up so that you can receive love? Are you wanting to be perfect before you begin to love yourself? What are you waiting for?

I remember feeling like I had to have a man in my life to feel loved. I felt I was not good enough. I felt unworthy. How do you feel about you? Are you trying to please someone? Are you looking for validation from a parent that never comes?

Most of us are plagued with feelings of unworthiness at some point in our lives. Getting from A to B can feel impossible. We might think we are pretty great, but that we are not lovable. We judge ourselves. We feel guilt, shame, disgrace. We doubt that God could love us. Fear can keep us stuck. We can feel filled with anxiety.

What if you were already infinitely loved by God himself. What if God loved even the darkest parts of you, just as much as the pretty parts? What if you were completely loved and accepted just as you are, without you doing another thing? Wouldn't that be amazing?

I have a message from your High Self. You are already loved. You are already accepted. This unworthiness is not real. The lack and focus on your imperfection is keeping you in suffering. We live in an illusion. This illusion is a projection from our minds. When you begin to love and accept ourselves, you recognize that all of these horrible thoughts we have had about ourselves is all made up. Our mind keeps us stuck. When we can dissolve all the ego-thoughts, and begin to live in our heart, we begin to see that THE MATRIX is just like the illusion that we live in. Our mind keeps us in prison. 

All we have to do is let go of the constructs that we have conjured up. We need to begin to see ourselves as already perfect, you are already healed. You are already completely loved and accepted as you are.

Each and every person already has the energy of love inside. It truly is there. This infinite love is there, just waiting for you to tap in. You don't have to be different, You don't have to change yourself. It is all about letting go.

Your Divine Self (High Self) is already love. The real you is love. We have a hard time feeling and receiving this because we are filled with self contempt, judgement, resentment, anger and fear. When we let go of all of this made up stuff, all there is - IS LOVE!

Everything in your past was just here to teach you who you are. All the events in your past was to bring you to love. When we resist life experience and love - we suffer. When we rail against our experiences we are pushing love away. When we react we are in suffering and ego-mind. All of your past was just an experience to teach you who you are. Each event was only present in your life to bring you to the fullness of who you are. 

When you love you - you open up to receive more. When we shut down and turn love away - we are not able to receive love. When we continue to look for love, acceptance and validation from the outside world, we don't receive it, because we are in resistance of it. If you don't give love to you FIRST, no one else can give it to you. When someone shows up, you will make all kinds of excuses and reasons why you can't be with the person who shows up for us. Because we don't love ourselves. We will make all kinds of excuses why we don't want to date someone. We long for love, but we reject it when it appears.

The more you love yourself, the more you can receive love. When you love yourself, you allow others to love you. 

No matter what you try to attain in life, you will still be you. If you don't love yourself, no amount of money will make you feel happy, or fill you with love. No relationship, vehicle, house, job, or person will ever fill you with love, if you don't love you first.

We Have To Choose Love For Ourselves

When you forgive yourself, for everything you have ever done, and anyone who has ever hurt you, so many things break away and dissolve. Forgiving events and people from the past, changes everything.

 

1. Move into Love and Gratitude for everything.
2. Be grateful for yourself.
3. Be grateful for today.
4. Be grateful for each moment.
5. Be grateful for the love inside of you.
6. Be grateful for the love outside of you.
7. Be grateful for the acceptance of you.

What Do I Have To Let Go OF?

• unforgiveness
• resentment
• anger
• hatred
• control
• fear 

What do you NOT NEED to be Loved?

You don't have to feel lovable

You don't have to be worthy

You don't have to be perfect

You don't have to be the perfect weight

You don't have to have the perfect job

You don't have to accomplish anything

You are already GOOD ENOUGH.

You are already worthy.

You are already perfect.

You are already LOVED! All you have to do is give it to YOU!

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a catlystic coach. She helps you move out of fear, restriction and limitation. Your life begins to unfold in beautiful synchronistic ways. People show up in your life miraculously. Success in every area begins to unfold, like magic. Possibilities open when you love yourself. You are supported by The Universe. Your vibration brings you so much more than you ever imagined. Your life dreams begin to come true. You stop having to push your energy to MAKE THINGS HAPPEN. They happen automatically FOR YOU! When you move into LOVE, The Universe supports you in every way.

You can reach Jennifer through her website: http://www.JenniferElizabethMasters.com

Loving People Live in A Loving World

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

How we view the world and feel about ourselves is what colors our world. When we are filled with love of ourselves, we reflect this love out into the world. Whatever we think about is what we

become. Our thoughts inside of us, create, whether we focus on positive or negative.

If we are filled with resentment, we will draw to us and experience others who are resentful and negative. 

There was a turning point in my life after my third marriage ended,  I created The Relationship Matrix. When I looked at each of my relationships, and all the commonality in them, I had a huge Aha moment. I recognized that I was the common denominator in all of my relationships! 

When I chose to be happy in my life, everything changed. It did not happen overnight, but gradually, I changed my thoughts from negative and judgmental to positive and accepting. I became responsible for my thoughts, my health and all that I create. I stopped blaming others. I trained my mind to think positive thoughts. The more loving I became towards myself, the less I tried to control others actions. In the process of loving me, I let go of fear, hatred, manipulation and control. The former neediness and denial I had also diminished. I became more compassionate with myself and certainly with others as well. 

When I was needy I attracted men who lied and cheated on me. What I did not realize at that time, was that I was in denial about how I really felt about myself. I was in denial about my self hatred. I was in denial about how little I thought of myself. This denial attracted men who also lied - but to me. 

When we begin to be authentic, honest with ourselves and others and stop trying to be what others want us to be, we step into our true selves. Choosing to love ourselves rather than criticize and condemn, we begin to love and accept ourselves. Eventually, we become self actualized.

Knowing the amazing changes that occurred in my life when I really took stock of my life and all that had happened, I realized that I created it all. All my unconscious beliefs about myself created the negativity I was living. I attracted men that were abusive because of long-standing issues of self hatred and low self esteem. They just reflected back to me how I felt about myself. I knew that I could help others change their lives, like I did from that of negativity, depression and being small. 

Every moment we have is an opportunity. Each relationship we have teaches us more about ourselves. When we begin to look at the lesson we have learned, we also are able to recognize the gift. Within this world, the energy of The Divine flows through everyone and everything. Life, is meant to be one of joy, happiness and passion. How we choose to live, think and feel is what changes our perspective and the outcome in our own microcosm. We are each unique and infinite beings. Our imagination is our greatest gift. We are all capable of greatness. Learning to ignore the naysayers, and live the life you have imagined, you will meet with your success. 

Today, I live in a loving, happy, vibrant, world, from a place of passion. This passion that I have to help men and women learn to communicate from a place of love, with understanding and compassion. This burning desire drives me forward to write, speak, coach and teach others to love themselves fearlessly. When we love and accept ourselves and no longer judge or criticize ourselves and others, we  create happy vibrant lives. 

Each one of us has a soul purpose. To live from a fearless place, in love in the moment. Permanent happiness is possible, when you turn your focus inward.

Jennifer is the author of Orgasm For Life, now available on Amazon, in paperback and Kindle. It is also available on Smashwords. Buy the book. NOW!

Jennifer's website is:  http://www.JenniferElizabethMasters.com

Why We Stay Too Long In Unhealthy Relationships

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

The sex isn't great, your partner is insanely jealous, they might put you down, are constantly broke and you fight all the time. There is often the threat of him or her leaving and you feel like you are walking on eggshells. You aren't even happy. Why do we stay in relationships that are clearly not in our best interest? Why do we continue in a relationship past the first few dates, rather than say, "HELL NO!" and go it alone?

If you have found yourself in a relationship that is less than stellar, you are not alone. Millions of people have stayed in relationships that were just plain bad. I did it. My third marriage was clearly not good for me, yet I stayed. Even after we divorced, I kept trying to reconcile with him, but why? 

I know it sounds like a broken record, but it is true:when we don't love ourselves we stay because we would rather have a terrible relationship than NO RELATIONSHIP. We would rather have rotten sex, with someone who never has money, because we don't want to be alone. We stay because we are afraid that we can't get someone else. Or that our chances of finding someone are nil. 

I coach clients that have had multiple relationships with less than stellar mates, repeatedly. If you find yourself settling for crumbs over and over and staying with someone who isn't kind, loving, respectful and has money - you don't love and respect yourself. Your boundaries are lacking AND most likely, you are coming from an empty place. Which means you will give and give and give, then resent them for it!

I know this pattern intimately, because it used to be me. I was a serial monogamist, going from one bad relationship to another. I would work all day at my landscaping company doing hard work, drive home, rush around to get myself looking pretty, then make dinner. As if I hadn't already done enough for one day, I would then drive 45 miles to my boyfriend's house and feed him dinner, dragging my school age daughter with me, so that he would have a home-cooked meal. What was I thinking???? This is only one possible scenario.

Perhaps you have allowed your boyfriend to move in with you. He might even have had some furniture to contribute, but probably not. You may loan him money, or bail him out. Are you wondering why you are living like this? Do you think your love will change them?

Men too accept treatment from women that is abusive, disrespectful and downright bad manners. Men will accept a woman using his money, car, home and furniture to have regular sex. You might have allowed your girlfriend to move in, leave her animals with you, or worse. Maybe she has stopped having sex with you, because she is having sex with someone else. The only way you can change this situation is to change yourself.

When we accept behavior that does not support us, from people who do not respect us, we are accepting poor treatment, in the hopes that he or she will eventually change and turn into what we really want. I am sorry - Miss Priss, or Mr. Wrong is not going to change. Your perspective has to.

When we love ourselves completely we won't accept crumbs any longer. We know we deserve better and we will wait for that right person to show up, rather than accepting a poor substitute so that we feel secure. 

When you show up full, confident, powerful and empowered, you will not accept disrespect. You won't accept someone mistreating you. This is not the case for me any longer. I will not stay, or even date someone if I sense that they are jealous, abusive or disrespectful to women. I would rather be by myself. I enjoy my own company. I like my solitude. I am happy being alone because I am happy with me. Before I had done years of introspection and self healing, I had to have a man in my life, or I felt restless, afraid to be alone. I also felt empty and lonely. Now I don't experience loneliness. 

If you are tired of repeating this pattern and want to make a difference in your family's lives and yours, you need to take my 6 week Love Yourself Fearlessly GROUP coaching program launching on May 31st. For Only $397 you can solve this problem permanently. Follow the protocol, do the homework and apply the tools, you will never again accept crumby relationships! Many people have taken my 6 week self study Love Yourself Fearlessly program. This is the same course with similar material - but this one has 90 minutes of group coaching each week on the call and some bonus features added. Here is what you can expect:

You get to know yourself in a way you never have before.

You become empowered, feel more confident and grounded.

You live in the present

The mind chatter quiets

You become more calm, peaceful and focused.

You step into your Divine Power - Your Goddess or God self

You will fall in love with YOU! 

You will fall in love with your family (heal the past) energy

                                                              programs released

Create a List - of 100 What you Want and Don't Want in Your Mate

Fall in Love with your gifts

Fall in Love with your soul

The Manifesting Your Soul Mate piece is incredible. If you are already in a relationship - that does not mean you are going to look for someone else. No. What this will create for you  is an understanding of what you want and don't want, so you can manifest what you desire. Most people really don't know what they want or have never thought about it. We dig down and really get to know on a soul level what you are passionate about.

This part is amazing. I have had many people find their Soul Mate, or Divine partner while doing my course! Some people fine theirs shortly afterward. Because you focus on what you truly want, with clear intent - you manifest it. I give you all the tools to send out your request with and all the tools!

The key is that you have to love yourself FIRST - before you manifest your Soul Mate. The higher your vibration, the higher the vibration of your partner will be. As within, so without.

You will feel full, happy with you. Most people see huge results by the third week. I have created this Love Yourself Fearlessly Program from the work I did to heal myself. I share the tools that I used, teach you to do them yourself, so you can continue to apply this work AFTER the course is over. 

Take advantage of this opportunity. The next time I run this course will be after my book is a BIG HIT and the course will be double what I am charging. This price is an amazing value. You will learn to heal yourself on your own and heal all your relationships at the same time. 

Jennifer is an awakened Spiritual teacher, author, life coach, Spiritual mentor and intuitive. She has helped thousands of people find their way, get clear and focused in their life. She is more than a coach. She is a guide, pathfinder and mentor. Her guidance is Divine - rather than ego-based.

Visit Jennifer's website:  http://www.JenniferElizabethMasters.com  

Transactional Sex

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

How often have you thought as a woman, if he takes me out to dinner to a nice place, maybe I'll have sex with him. Or as a man, have you ever wondered what the baseline is as far as spending money on a woman to get her into bed?

Even in marriage, sex can be transactional. "If you did more around here, I'd have sex with you more often." Or maybe even, "If you'd only pay more attention to me, take me out to dinner, or buy me something, then I'll have more sex with you."

We all know that prostitution is the oldest profession in the world. Sex is powerful. The need for sex is a huge motivator for many. A friend of mine, overheard a conversation at work with some of his co-workers yesterday, which prompted me to write about this very subject. As women, we don't like being thought of as prostitutes. He recounted the conversation as something like the following: "If he doesn't take me to a fine restaurant, then I'm not putting out!" this reduces sex to transactional manipulation. Like it or not, you are little more than a prostitute. 

Manipulating with sex makes it transactional. There is nothing wrong with waiting to have sex with a man, when we are dating. As a matter of fact, I recommend it. I have had recreational sex myself, it doesn't fulfill me. I personally feel, that a connection, friendship or deep love between two people first raises the bar in your relationship to a higher level. The focus is on love first, rather than the physical. 

We all have physical needs. Jumping into bed with someone on the first date can lead to a short-termed relationship or a one-night stand. We never know which. When we date and take our time to get to know someone, there will come a time when you feel you are both ready to take your relationship further. You mutually decide when the time is right. This is different then transacting for sex. When you set a price point in spending before you will have sex with someone, you are transacting for sex.

Bargaining in a marriage for sex makes sex a tool. Manipulating in any way is a low vibrational energy. There are other ways to get what you want. One of those is through honesty. Telling someone you are not ready to take your relationship further, just yet, is a better way. Asking for your husband to help you out, because you are drowning is a better way. Or maybe, you want your husband to help out, because you feel he is not pulling his weight. Relationships need to be balanced. When one person is doing too much, while the other sits on his fanny could really piss you off. 

Being authentic, honest and forthright in communication is the way to go. Appreciating what the other does for you, however is part of this equation. We all need to be appreciated. We all want to be loved, accepted and desired. Appreciation in relationships is needed to show that you are not taking them for granted. Complacency in a relationship, shows a lack of caring, presence and respect. 

Noticing your personal motivation and how you get your needs met is important. We can have our needs met without transacting for sex. Communication needs to be crystal clear, compassionate and respectful. If you are transacting for sex, it is time you did a little soul searching to find a better way to get what you want that is more positive, that will build the trust and deepen your emotional connection.

Love Yourself Fearlessly Program - the key to healing yourself and ALL your relationships. When you love and accept yourself - your whole world shifts.

Jennifer is a certified life coach, master energy healer and author of the forthcoming book: Orgasm For Life. She is beginning a group coaching program, May 31st. 8:00 AM PST and 11:00 AM EST. This program includes 90 minutes of group coaching each week. If you are interested in this program, set up a discovery session to find out how this Love Yourself Fearlessly Program can change your life. Jennifer teaches the tools that she used to heal her own codependence, depression, changing illness into vitality, negativity into power and strength. Jennifer is an intuitive catalyst for growth. Her coaching programs are life-affirming and the way to permanent happiness. Most people experience huge shifts by the third week. Check out her testimonials on her website.

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Pain is the Catalyst For Growth

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Show me a human, and I'll show you someone in pain. 

From back pain, to neck pain, headaches, stomach aches and heart aches, as humans we experience all manner of pain in our lifetime. I have found that all of our body issues begin with an emotional component that we have ignored and put off dealing with. When we ignore our emotions, we are stuffing molecules of those emotions deep into our cells. Not clearing these energies, we begin to experience symptoms which create illness and later disease. Listening to our body is paramount to avoid having to deal with cancer, arthritis and other life-threatening diseases later. Our body is the last defense, giving us warning signs that something is amiss. We need to pay attention before an abscessed tooth becomes a heart attack later on. {Abscessed tooth is from long-standing indecisiveness} Read my blog: Manic Move to The Mojave.

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As humans, we know we will experience some sort of pain in our lifetime. Suffering however, is something that we can avoid. One of my most Beloved Spiritual teachers is an Isahaya (monk). Vasestha always said, "Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional." I have to say, I agree. Although I have experienced my own suffering, by staying in a relationship far too long when it was clearly not good for me. For being indecisive about what I was going to do, putting off moving forward. There are so many ways that we suffer. (But that is a blog for Easter.) 

We have a choice. We can choose to get out of our relationship that doesn't serve us. We can not associate with people who hurt us, take advantage of our good nature or just say, "NO!" 

Pain pushes us out of our comfortable place in front of the television. Pain pushes us to move across the country, or to quit a job. Pain causes us to expand beyond our perceived limitations. Pain is what makes us grow. In a relationship, many of us try to avoid pain. We avoid talking about issues that create conflict. We pretend that we are having great sex, when we clearly aren't. We hide our true feelings when we know they will create conflict. Avoiding pain, deepens and prolongs suffering. 

I say, kick it in the ass! Move forward, rather than try to keep your head above water in a dying marriage or unhappy relationship. Get out of your comfortable place in front of the television and move on. LET GO and grow. Staying in an uncomfortable place longer than you need to will create varicose veins. Ask me, I'll show you! Putting off important decisions can create ill health. Everything that goes on in our minds and emotions creates our health or illness. It is up to us to move forward. Sometimes, we need a push, or pull, kick or encouragement. This is what I provide you in my coaching work. Join me Tonight I will help you alleviate the pain - emotional and physical. 

Louise Hay wrote a fabulous book in 1984. You Can Heal Your Life is a book that I still recommend. In the 20 years since this book was written, the teachings and principles of the book, still hold true. I have read this book cover-to-cover three times. It was one of the most transformational books that I ever read. Simplistic in it's teaching, the proof is in the pudding. This is one of the books that helped me heal and transform my life from one of negativity and depression to Joy and enlightenment. 

Pain is what helps us move forward. When the pain becomes too great we do find the courage to move out of the relationship, job or situation that is not in our best interest. Believe it or not, being grateful for the pain, is a prayer you want to make. Pain will move you out of sadness, or depression into joy, apathy into feeling, from anxiety into trust. When we recognize that we are worth it - that we have value, our courage becomes the bootstraps that pull us up and out of the mire of suffering taking us into Joy. Yes, thank heavens for the pain. It got me to live in a place of joy and happiness. I am grateful for the pain.

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Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a transformational coach and author of Odyssey Victim to Victory and Orgasm For Life: The No Holds-Barred Guide for creating BLISS. She empowers women and men love themselves fearlessly. The foundation of self love provides a grounding and personal empowerment which creates healthier relationships. Often those who don't love themselves, search for wealth, love, acceptance or validation outside of themselves. This never brings the joy and happiness that they are looking for. You must give love to receive love - beginning with yourself. If you don't give love to you, how can you possibly love another? You will be trying to please someone else, rather than standing in your power. We make the relationship much more important than our own well-being, often staying in an abusive or unsupportive situation too long. When we love and accept ourselves, we have a much greater capacity to love and accept others, to give and receive more love. We become a magnet for love and all manner of wonderful events to unfold in our lives. 

Jennifer is also a certified Hypnotherapist and Trainer, Master Energy healer and Neurolinguistic Programming practitioner. She has helped countless women and men find true love through her program Love Yourself Fearlessly. She is available for private sessions, Akashic Record consultations and energy clearings by appointment (Skype of Phone). She works with clients in India, Germany, Switzerland, France, Malaysia, The UK, Alaska, Australia, South America, Saudi Arabia, Canada and the United States. She resides north of LA, in California with her two dogs and cats. 

Orgasm For Life is due to launch, May 20, 2014. Watch for the audio version with narration and personal commentary by the author.

15 Ways To Love Yourself Fearlessly!

By Jennifer ELizabeth Masters

Orange grove in Edison, California

To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be

accepted by others. You need to accept yourself. ~Thich Nhat Hanh

We spend the first half of our lives trying to be what others 

want us to be and the second half of our lives trying to find

out who we are. Self acceptance is key if we truly want to find

happiness and another to love us unconditionally. Loving 

ourselves fearlessly give us the freedom to live life fully rather 

than just exist.

 

If we  focus on our imperfections, that is what we see. Instead

focus on your attributes, embracing the things that aren't as 

easy to love. Looking at ourselves with a soft focus instead

of constantly being our own worst critic changes everything.

The natural beauty that radiates from someone who truly

accepts themselves as they are is something that can be felt. 

The more positive and life affirming your thoughts and actions

are, the more people with higher vibrations are attracted to

you as well. People who love and accept themselves

completely are grounded and loving towards themselves and 

others. They experience life to the fullest. How do we learn to

love ourselves fearlessly? Here are 15 suggestions:

1. Be yourself. Don't try to be what you think others want you to be.
2. Speak your truth. Say what you mean and mean what you say.
3. Be kind to yourself. Stop beating yourself up with words and thoughts. 
4. Be grateful for each day you are alive and what you have. Giving thanks for your beautiful body and vibrant health each day will bring more vibrance into your life. Beinh grateful for the small things that you have will open you to receive more.
5. Let go of perfectionism. There is only one being who is perfect and it isn't us. We are human. Doing your best is good enough.
6. Know you already have everything you need. All the truth, all your power, all your connection to all that is lies within you already.  
7. Get to know yourself on a deep level. Write a list of 100 things that you love about yourself. Read it to yourself whenever you feel down. We spend years getting to know our mates, friends and co-workers, knowing yourself is the key to understanding. The better you understand yourself, the more understanding you will have towards others.
8. Be honest with yourself. Denial keeps us stuck. What lies do you tell yourself? If you are living in denial, your future will always be your past. Getting out of denial will propel your growth faster than anything.
9. Trust yourself. If you have made choices that you feel were not in your best interest you may not trust yourself. What you don't trust in yourself you won't trust in others. 
10. Open your heart. Keeping your heart closed because of past hurts is keeping you stuck. You cannot have it all without risking it all. Yes you have been hurt, but love comes to those who are willing to open their hearts and allow others to see who they truly are. The more open our hearts are the deeper the love we can experience. 
11. Live in the PRESENT. Let go of the past. The past has offered you lessons about you. Nothing that occurred in your life was a mistake, just a lesson. Look for the gift in each event instead of focusing on all the negative that happened. The events of the past have gotten you to this place. They have taught you lessons about yourself, and that is a good thing.
12. Accept yourself as you are. Let go of condemnation, judgment and criticism. You don't have to change yourself, but rather change your focus. Look at yourself with a soft focus. Focus on the positive instead of the negative. Do not focus on all that you can find WRONG with you.  
13. Stand in front of the mirror and look yourself in the eyes and tell yourself, "I LOVE YOU!" Do this several times a day. Loving yourself can heal Fibromyalgia, Epstein Barr Syndrome and even cancer. 
14. Allow yourself to laugh out loud. Relax and be you. 
15. Stop worrying what others think about you. What others think about you is none of your business. Letting go of this will free you to be yourself.

The more you love and accept yourself, the happier you will

be. Combine love of yourself with a spiritual practice like 

daily meditation and you have the path to freedom and joy of 

being awake, conscious and fully aware. 

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Beginning on Wednesday, July 31, join me for one hour of energy, healing and laughter. This POWER HOUR of Love Yourself Fearlessly is FREE! I channel The Ascended Masters and The Divine. You may even cry a bit, you may have a huge breakthrough or even get a block removed.

If you have never met or worked with me, you would not know that just asking me to work on you begins the process. The angels and guides I work with as well as The Divine begin the work immediately. People have told me that my voice has a healing quality to it. Don't take my word for it, - feel for yourself. When you begin to work with me, my voice begins to work on your unconscious mind, and healing begins. Guidance flows to me at interesting times, like leaning back with my head in a shampoo bowl at the hairdresser, or during an intense coaching session with a client who is in the process of healing from breast cancer.

I trust my guidance implicitly as it has NEVER steered me wrong. Some of the issues I help my clients with are trust, self acceptance, confidence, manifesting money, success and most of all LOVE. Trust of themselves, so that they can go on to trust others. Trust of the guidance that they receive. Self acceptance comes from compassion for the imperfections, letting go of control and the bashing you do to yourself with that huge sledge hammer. I will help you lighten up, have more fun and open up to joy and happiness in each moment. You will get accustomed to thinking positive thoughts and living in the moment. Being in the present moment is the key to manifestation and happiness.

Being a Self Love coach and catalyst for other's healing involves helping my clients love themselves at the deepest of levels for permanent happiness and joy. When you love yourself happiness becomes the status quo. Living a life LARGE and LOVING YOURSELF FEARLESSLY in the fullness of who you are, instead of the small self that so many of you have come to accept as who you are. I guarantee that if you work with me, your life will be so different - your perspective will change and you will begin to attract positive people and situations in along with your personal success. You become a magnet for love and MONEY as you come to love you for the REAL YOU that you have hidden under layers of dust, red clay, debris and parental parameters. Yet you are NOT that person. Those beliefs aren't true. Join me weekly and get your dose of LOVE. On The Love YourSelf Fearlessly Show. 

Happiness? Yes, real lasting happiness comes from within. It does not come from the purchase of a new designer dress, or a trip to the Costa del Sol, or even Tuscany. It does not come from a new Mazerati, a home or a relationship. Those little boosts can bring you a burst of joy that is gone after the shine wears off your passport or at the first dent. What I am talking about is REAL HAPPINESS. The kind that begins in your belly and emanates out into everything you do, say and everyone you touch. Happiness is a choice, but it becomes permanent when you love and accept yourself with compassion. I am not teaching something I am faking, or yet to accomplish. I am the healed healer. I have been there (depression, sadness, illness, co-dependecy, addiction and divorce, you name it). I have mastered myself. This is what I help my clients achieve. It does not matter where you are, whether alone or in a relationship when you love yourself completely you are content no matter where, no matter what. This is the work I do in my intensives and one on one coaching session with my clients. 

The Love Yourself Fearlessly Radio Show was born today, at 8:45 AM Pacific time during a coaching session with one of my client's who's heart was recently set on fire. This could be you. This radio show is a phone in show where you get to ask your questions about yourself, your relationship and your happiness. Nothing is off limits. This is an adult only show, if sex is on the table we will ensure that our audience is over 18 before delving into that subject matter. 

The mission of The Love Yourself Fearlessly Radio Show is to help you through your challenges and get your questions answered. From spirituality, money, manifestation, relationships, self love and enlightenment. This is an opportunity for you to get to hear what Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is all about. See if you would like to work with me. Perhaps listening in on this radio show may lead to an epiphany for you, a realization of some truth that you have been overlooking. Core issues can be uncovered when there is a group consciousness that unearths questions that you may have wondered about but were too afraid to ask; which leads you to be brave about another question. It takes bravery to dig deep into your own issues. Self discovery can lead to some amazing finds - you may even find you are an amazing person with gifts that need to be taken out into the world. I can help you birth your new ideas, kick off the dirt and mud and help them grow from a tiny seedling into a strong Laurel tree with deep roots and fragrant leaves that reach out into the world.

This Love Yourself Fearlessly radio show, can be a catalyst that creates a chain reaction to things you never dreamed possible. You may have epiphanies - huge AHAA moments. You may decide to join me in Maui for my intensive in December or come to India or Bali with me in 2014. What I can assure you of is that your investment of time will not be wasted. Loving you makes you a magnet for love. You will gain knowledge of yourself, and compassion most of all which leads to greater love and acceptance of you. A waste of time? I think not.

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is an author, inspirational speaker, hypnotherapist, Master energy healer, channel and psychic medium. She is the former host of the radio show "Into The Mystic,"on Voice America. She has been gifted as a catalyst for people's self mastery. Being in her energy will shift you, open your own gifts and lead you to expansion and greater clarity, success and happiness. If you have been struggling with love, relationships or money, listening to her show, working with her one-on-one or taking part in one of her incredible all day intensives will change your life for the better. What do you have to lose? You have everything to gain. WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? TUNE IN. 
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