When we search for love it alludes us. The way to find love is not what you would think at all. We have to stop. Stop searching, stop seeking, stop striving to be something we are not. The way to find real lasting love is to give it to yourself first.
Looking for love outside of ourselves brings us more of what we don't want. Cheaters, liars, emotionally unavailable partners. If you really want love, you have to give it to yourself first. Gandhi said, "Be the love you wish to have."
Be the love. Most people think they love themselves. In fact, most of the people I work with "think" they do. However, I hear over and over, "if he tells me, he loves me"...... "if she tells me I am okay, I'll be okay." No one can fill you up but you. No one can accept you totally but you. When you begin to love and accept yourself AS YOU ARE, not when you are perfect, or lose the 40 pounds, or are making X number of dollars! You have to love yourself totally now!
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