Help For Your Intimate Relationships

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

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If you love this blog and the help you have received here, you will love my brand new audiobook, Orgasm For Life on audio. 

Recorded in a Los Angeles studio and digitally mastered, this audiobook was written and narrated by me personally and lovingly. My energy went into every single word of this audiobook. You will love it!

It took me over 24 hours of studio time in a booth to narrate this book. You will hear my voice, my passion and my desire for you to have the best possible relationship, intimacy, and sex with your partner. Where can you find Orgasm For Life? Amazon

•  8+ hours of audio
• in Jennifer's voice

Why I Wrote Orgasm For Life

40% of women struggle to orgasm their entire lives. 

Over 50% are dissatisfied with their sex lives.

26% of women fake orgasm EVERY SINGLE TIME!

28% of men fake orgasm
35% orgasm every time they have sex
40% of women have some kind of sexual dysfunction

10% of women NEVER EVER EXPERIENCE ORGASM!

Most women are afraid to ask for what they want because they don't want to hurt their partner's self-esteem.

What Will You Learn?

Orgasm For Life will help you understand men better. Orgasm For Life will help you understand women better and what they need to orgasm. You will learn how to get a woman to want to have sex more often. 

You will discover things you didn't know about how the human body works. You will discover where the G-spot is. Why is the G-spot so darn hard to find that some Drs. even wonder if it exists?

You will find out how to keep a relationship alive long after the kids have left for college and how to overcome the challenges that will come up with communication.

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Are Men Getting The Majority Of Pleasure in Sex?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

When someone asks you when was the last time that you had great sex with an amazing orgasm, was it this past week, a month ago or has it been years? Most men will answer, "this past week," while an amazing array of strong passionate

women will have difficulty remembering. Why is that?

 
Is it because men, more than women are motivated by sex? We know that men are wired differently than women, but it isn’t the fact that men are more motivated by sex. Most men experience orgasm almost every time they have sex. Yet over 48% of women don’t. In a recent study by a urology clinic in New Jersey, the number one complaint of 54% of women 18 - 30, was inability to orgasm, where 48% of women 31 - 45, had the same complaint.

Since our sexuality is the core of our very being, being non-orgasmic can take a serious toll on self esteem and sense of wholeness. Many women wonder if there is something wrong with them when they don’t orgasm with regularity. Most women need 20 to 40 minutes of stimulation to orgasm, where most men need 2- 3, or less. You see the disparity. Just because a woman is wet, does not mean she is ready for sex. Women are like diesel engines, needing to be warmed up before their engine is cranked. Most men on the

other hand are like a Ferrari on nitrous oxide, revving and ready to blast off. Women who have had sexual abuse, rape or other sexual trauma can have a lifetime of difficulty with sexual dysfunction (being non-orgasmic). There is hope for those who are non-orgasmic. 

Sexual trauma causes the body to go into fight, flight or freeze mode. Unfortunately many women are not aware of the armoring that the body creates to counteract and deal with the sexual trauma. Body armoring causes the energy of fear and shame to be stored in the cells of the vaginal wall, upper thighs and G-Spot. This armoring causes the inside of the vagina to be numbed. This numbing diminishes the

Shamed woman

amount of pleasure a woman can experience through digital stimulation and penile penetration, even to the point of vaginal sensitivity and intense pain. There is hope for those who are non-orgasmic. There are sensitive healers, like myself, that can teach you the steps to take, or you could visit a Tantrika to have the healing done in a session, hands on. Even when years of work, energy clearing and other modalities have occurred, a physical healing is still needed for women who remain non-orgasmic from sexual trauma. I was one of those women. 

For those wondering about the G-spot, whether it is real, or only something porn stars have, I assure you it is real and every woman with a vagina, has the ability to have an ejaculatory orgasm. Unfortunately, most women do not get the stimulation required to arouse this amazing and sensual center. It can take 20 minutes of direct stimulation before it becomes engorged enough to be in evidence. The G-spot is located inside the vagina on the upper wall approximately an

inch and a half to two inches inside the vaginal opening, north towards the navel. To be able to stimulate this spot, a

come hither finger motion needs to be used inside, curling the hand upward. The G-spot is thought to be the root of the clitoris, which is located just above the opening of the vagina. It is a highly sensitive area, that needs stimulation directly to be found.  (You would be surprised at how many men and women can't find the woman’s G-spot.) Is it any wonder that over half of the women on this planet can’t orgasm?

Knowing your body, what feels good is key to being able to demonstrate to your partner what they need to do for you. Talking about what works for you, when you are outside of the bedroom, will help your experience inside the bedroom be more pleasurable. The problem is many women are afraid

to speak up about what they want. It often takes women till they are in their 50’s before they feel confident enough to talk about what turns them on. Hopefully, this article will motivate everyone to open up a discussion about who does what to whom and for how long? 

The interesting fact about men and women though, is that both can bring themselves to orgasm in about the same amount of time, four minutes. The great thing about masturbation is that it is safe sex. In fact, it is the safest sex you can have, unless of course you attempt to use an object not meant for sex, like a vacuum cleaner.

While we are discussing the reasons women are not having as much fun as their male counterparts, it is important to note that 75% of women do not have an orgasm through penetrative sex alone. Yet most men still make love to their partners this way. The reason is that most men prefer to have penetrative sex to orgasm. It is what makes a man feel like a man. Clearly there is a disconnect. Talking about sex is an important part of receiving pleasure. We can’t expect our partners to just know. Even if we are intuitive, it is best to discuss what feels good to you, so that there is no misunderstanding. We need to walk them through our playground, joyfully, maybe with a roadmap, arrows and the most important parts highlighted.

I have interviewed hundreds of men about the subject of women’s pleasure. Most men say that their woman always has an orgasm. I beg to differ. 80% of women fake orgasm because their men are not stimulating them long enough to

get them there. The problem is that most women aren’t talking. With this 80% statistic in hand, most men still say, they know for a certainty that their woman comes every time. How can you be so sure? 

Most heterosexual men like the feeling of being inside a woman. However a woman’s most sensitive spot, her clitoris is not stimulated through penetrative sex, especially when the man is on top. What is so important about that? A woman’s clitoris (C-spot) has twice the number of sensitive nerve endings than a man’s penis has. If your C-spot is not getting focused attention, for long enough, you may not be able to orgasm at all. 

Open communication is clearly lacking in most relationships when it comes to sex. Do some sexploration to find out what feels good to you. Praise your partner for what they do well, then ask gently for what you want. Appreciate their effort, gently guide them with a smile. Remember guys, ladies come first, last and always!

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is the author of Orgasm For Life a guide to bliss. Orgasm For Life was written to assist women with this issue. Through understanding the opposite sex's psyche and physical needs a greater awareness is created which helps deepen the bond of intimacy and happiness as well. 

Jennifer is a love and passion coach helping couples stay together when nothing seems to be working. She also helps women find the love of their dreams by shifting your focus. When patterns or emotions are stuck, we keep replaying the trauma from the past, attracting partners that don't serve our highest and best. If you are ready for life to work for you, relationships to be happy, fulfilling and uplifting, drop Jennifer an e-mail and set up your strategy session now. 

Orgasm For Life: Preventing Cancer Through Orgasm

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

For the last six months, I have spent my Wednesday mornings on WRN radio with Eric Jones, broadcasting across the western United states, Jamaica and Manchester England. Each Wednesday morning we talked to hundreds of people across the world about sex. The burning question in the minds of men AND women is, can women have a G-spot orgasm? Not only is it possible for all women to have an ejaculatory orgasm, but for their own health and prevention of disease - they should! 

Experiencing this type of orgasm for our health, prevents cancer and other insidious diseases. A recent episode of Devi Ward, Better Love, Better Sex included an interview with Dr. Paul Tinari. Dr. Tinari lost his life partner through cancer. His loss, led him to research ways that the human body releases toxins. The ejaculatory orgasm is one of the ways for women to do so. Here is the link to this amazing interview:  Devi Ward, Better Love Better Sex

Devi Ward is a respected Tantra teacher and sex educator. I will be on her show on September 5th talking about ORGASM FOR LIFE. Women need to be having regular orgasms as often as men. They are certainly capable of having two, three or more to every man's one. If you are a woman and are not orgasmic, you need to read ORGASM FOR LIFE. This book will help you understand how to get there and teach your partner how to get you there as well.

Dr. Tinari's premise is that the lymphatic system drains through the skene's glands where women ejaculate from. Listen to this interview for more information. The link is above. 

Jennifer's book is inspired, passionately written and laugh out loud funny! If you would like a guide that will turn you on, teach you, inspire you and ignite the fires of passion in and out of your bedroom, then this is the book for you. Written from Jennifer's personal experience and with the addition of hundreds of interviews from men and women, gay and straight, Orgasm For Life will teach you, open your eyes and hearts as well as help you relate better to your partner. With deeper understanding it is Jennifer's hope that there will be fewer divorces, more sex and deeper intimacy for ALL!

If you have questions, need assistance or just want to talk to Jennifer. Feel free to e-mail her here. She will be glad to connect with you to answer your questions or set up a 20 minute session to discuss your issue.