Soulfully Orgasmic Sex: The Female Orgasm

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Soulfully Orgasmic Sage: How To Turn On Your Man

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Happy Marriage Holy Sex

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Part of a marriage is the connection. When we stop having sex with our marriage partners, we stop touching one another in any way and the sweetness fades away.
Sara Troy of Self-Discovery Media interviews Jennifer Elizabeth Masters in an open and interesting conversation about making sex holy within a relationship.


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Sex is the glue that holds us together. Sex is what breaks the ice after a fight and gets us to say we're sorry. Sex can be what allows us to begin talking again once we have made love. For men, sex is what brings them into a state of intimacy. 

You don't have to do this alone. Jennifer Elizabeth Masters can help you repair your sexual relationship and communication for a happy marriage.

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By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

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If you love this blog and the help you have received here, you will love my brand new audiobook, Orgasm For Life on audio. 

Recorded in a Los Angeles studio and digitally mastered, this audiobook was written and narrated by me personally and lovingly. My energy went into every single word of this audiobook. You will love it!

It took me over 24 hours of studio time in a booth to narrate this book. You will hear my voice, my passion and my desire for you to have the best possible relationship, intimacy, and sex with your partner. Where can you find Orgasm For Life? Amazon

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Why I Wrote Orgasm For Life

40% of women struggle to orgasm their entire lives. 

Over 50% are dissatisfied with their sex lives.

26% of women fake orgasm EVERY SINGLE TIME!

28% of men fake orgasm
35% orgasm every time they have sex
40% of women have some kind of sexual dysfunction

10% of women NEVER EVER EXPERIENCE ORGASM!

Most women are afraid to ask for what they want because they don't want to hurt their partner's self-esteem.

What Will You Learn?

Orgasm For Life will help you understand men better. Orgasm For Life will help you understand women better and what they need to orgasm. You will learn how to get a woman to want to have sex more often. 

You will discover things you didn't know about how the human body works. You will discover where the G-spot is. Why is the G-spot so darn hard to find that some Drs. even wonder if it exists?

You will find out how to keep a relationship alive long after the kids have left for college and how to overcome the challenges that will come up with communication.

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What It Means To Not Like Sex

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Humans are sexual beings. Our sexual nature is the cornerstone of who we are. Some like sex more than others. Some people have stronger sex drives than their partners. Often the issue with a couple is that women need to have intimacy to have sex and men need sex to be intimate with their partner. 

There are some people that just aren't interested in sex at all. Perhaps they had trauma when they were children. Others experience pain or vaginal dryness after a hysterectomy or menopause. Some have a very low sex drive or libido which can be remedied through a diet change, exercise like The 5 Tibetan Rites, or taking a supplement. When a couple isn't in synch sexually, problems can arise. 

When one person pushes for sex and becomes angry or resentful with their partner because they aren't getting it often enough a power play often ensues. For some women, there isn't enough touch without sex. If the only time women are touched is when their partners want sex, it could be a huge turn-off for them. An effort has to be made to display affection at other times than when men want sex.

Not wanting sex might have nothing to do with sex but more to do with what is happening in your relationship. If you have been critical, abusive, unloving or emotionally unavailable, perhaps these reasons are keeping sex at bay. Communication is an important part of a healthy, loving relationship. If you aren't communicating verbally, you won't be communicating sexually either. 

When The Idea Of Sex Doesn't Turn You On

I have had many men complain in sessions about how long it takes for a woman to become turned on. Typically, women aren't the quick-starters than men are. Though some women are hot as soon as their man looks at them a certain way, this isn't true for most women. Women need slow kissing, gentle touch, cuddling, massage, and patience before they are aroused enough for sex. 

The rule of thumb (forgive the pun) is twenty to forty minutes of foreplay before most women are warmed enough for penis in the vagina sex. 

I've been in a marriage where the only time my husband ever touched me was for sex. He would get a certain look in his eyes and go for it. I wasn't hugged, caressed or held at any other time than when he wanted sex. Though I like sex a lot, I became an object of his desire, rather than his loving partner and wife. It isn't a pleasant feeling to know that you could be a hole in a wall, just a thing that satisfied an urge or itch. Women don't feel loved and desired for who they are when they recognize they are an object. 

Not all men treat their women in this way. Though I have heard about women being awakened from a sound sleep with a penis being shoved into their dry vagina. Respect isn't in place when sex happens without agreement. A request for sex doesn't have to be verbal. A kiss can easily be enough for both people to become passionately enthralled and turned on. Mutual pleasure is what is needed. 

Sex Needs To Be A Two-Way Street

Pleasure is a part of a mutually fulfilling relationship. Both parties need to be turned on, enjoy the experience and have pleasure. Not every sexual encounter will end in orgasm for both parties and that is okay some of the time. If one person rarely or never has orgasms, it is a problem and will lead to resentment. I used to be the one without orgasms. Sex became drudgery for me, which is why I wrote Orgasm For Life. I knew if I had an issue the 40% out there that was also not having orgasms would benefit from my personal experience and how I overcame the issue later in life. I loved sex, but couldn't orgasm because of past sexual trauma. 

If a woman isn't having an orgasm through manual stimulation either before or after her partner, she may become fed up and begin denying her partner sex. If your partner isn't having regular orgasms envision what you would feel like to rarely or never orgasm when you have sex, would you want it? Read Orgasm For Life for gentle, loving and humor to overcome sexual issues. 

It is a complete turn-off for a woman to not be touched, hugged and held just for being who she is, rather than an object that men satisfy their urges with. 

Those That Hate Sex At Anytime

Humans are sexual beings. For those who truly hate sex and never ever want it, the foundation of this issue could be a past life where we were a celibate priest, nun or clergy. Vows of celibacy from past lives certainly can impede the ability to let go and be free of guilt from religious programming about sex being vile, wrong or improper. Past lives and vows can be cleared to alleviate these programs, which I have done for many men and women.

Self-hatred from past sexual trauma, molestation, abuse certainly impacts our ability to feel free about receiving sexual pleasure. When we are filled with self-loathing sex can be off-limits. Self-love means loving all parts of ourselves including our penis, vagina, breasts and anus. 

When Should We Talk About Sex?

Some people can talk about sex while having it. I prefer to have a conversation outside of the bedroom. Usually, a conversation outside the bedroom leaves a couple so turned on that mutual pleasure ensues! YAY! Pleasure for both parties is what good sex is all about. 

Jennifer is a judgment-free coach, hypnotherapist, and healer. She works with couples, singles to heal relationships and sex lives in a loving, compassionate environment. Send Jennifer a private e-mail to find out if you are a good fit for her work. 

The Inner Secret of Doing Yoga You Didn't Realize

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Iron Man, Robert Downey Jr.

Gurus do it. Tantrikas do it. Famous movie stars do it. But what is yoga good for? Almost everything! From depression to anxiety, sleep disorders to PTSD, yoga not only gets you fit but relaxes you, relieving stress.

I started doing yoga thirty-five years ago while living in England. I had a delightful teacher who did a deep meditative practice at the end which I loved. Since that time, I found many teachers, but the meditation part was often skipped or glossed over for fear of offending someone. 

Today, my meditation practice happens daily no matter what. Yoga is something I do in the desert and sometimes in a studio. Yoga can be done in your living room, your backyard or at the beach. All you need is you.

For those of you that think yoga is for sissies, think again. Even Robert Downey Jr., Russell Brand, Bon Jovi and Sting do yoga. 

Yesterday, I did a particularly difficult hot yoga class. But also not only did I sweat my ass off, all the up and down dogs in the flow class moved my emotions. At the end of the class when asked to give ourselves a hug, I cried. As I held myself in a loving embrace emotions within me came out and up. My tears surprised me. Crying relieves stress and releases hormones that make us feel good. Moving our bodies allows us to release whatever needs to be released. Whatever issues come up in our work day yoga helps us process. 

Deep Breathing

The deep breathing in yoga can help children and adults in many ways. Deep breathing can help with pain management, stress relief, asthma, autism and so many others. Most people don't breathe deeply enough. Yoga gives you so many opportunities to change old patterns with something as simple as breathing deeply. Just check in right now. Notice how you are breathing. Maybe you are holding your breath. Most people breathe shallowly which causes many issues later in life, COPD is one of them. Our lungs need to expand fully with our breath so that they fill up completely. 

One of my clients has advanced COPD. She is on oxygen 24 hours a day, seven days a week. She is unable to travel without oxygen or even go for a walk without dragging that tank behind her like a ball and chain. Think about living a life like that. Breathing deeply is one of the biggest benefits of yoga. Deep breathing helps all our organs function better. Oxygen is needed for vibrant health, rich blood that feeds our muscle tissues all the way down to our cells.

Yoga and Sex

Madonna back bend

Deep breathing and yoga improve your sex life, oxygenating your body and lengthening and strengthening orgasms. Yoga helps you move into deep stretches while breathing which allow more flexibility and less pain during sex. You might not like Madonna, but you have to admire her ability to do back bends and have an amazingly toned body. How does she do it? Yoga!

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Yoga tones will lift and will give you a great butt at any age. Stretching is good for the body. Take it slow. You don't have to begin doing shoulder stands or handstands. 

Just Some Benefits of Yoga

• improves muscle strength
• improves flexibility
• protects us from arthritis, back pain later in life
• improves balance which prevents falls
• perfects your posture
• opens your heart
• oxygenates the blood improving cardiovascular health
• protects the spine
• improves bone health (helping calcium to stay in the bones)
• drains lymphatic system and improves immune function
• regulates adrenal glands - keeping us sexually able
• lowers blood sugar
• helps you focus
• makes you happier
• releases tension in the limbs
• helps you sleep more deeply
• prevents IBS and other digestive issues
• gives you peace of mind
• helps you stay in your body
• keeps you present in the moment
• helps you release emotions
• helps you evolve spiritually

Mom turning 95 in 2017

I do yoga for all of the above reasons and a few others I haven't mentioned because I plan to live a very long life. I want to be healthy when I am in my late nineties and beyond. I don't want to carry an oxygen tank around with me or be hunched over as I age. Yoga keeps us young, vital and healthy. Love yourself enough to take care of your body so that you are fit, youthful when you reach 70, 100 or beyond! 

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Jennifer

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5 Powerful Reasons Not To Have Sex With Everyone Who Wants You

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

A large portion of the world has low self-esteem. When we don't feel good about ourselves, we can give ourselves away to others carelessly because we don't love ourselves. I know all too well how easy it is to be promiscuous when we have been molested in childhood or mistreated by a partner. I have good news for everyone out there. Anything is subject to change. 

For over thirty years I have worked diligently on myself, healing my emotional, physical and spiritual self. In the process, I have come to know myself very well, something that I didn't do before I became happy with me. I used to feel broken, now I feel completely whole, with healthy boundaries, respect and strong faith in me. 

I haven't stopped growing, clearing myself or learning, in fact, I am in the process of reading six books simultaneously and assimilating this information for you. As I grow in consciousness, wisdom, and knowledge, I can be better able to help you heal yourself and life faster. 

For those of you interested in what I am doing for you, me and the world, sign up for my newsletter as I only share with my inner circle the deepest and most intimate secrets of my life. Believe me what is happening right now, is something you want to be a part of. I have discovered exactly how all the moving parts work together to create the life we love and the love that shifts us to be better than we ever thought possible. 

Sex is a part of our human experience. Whether we have sex for one, or as a couple it is completely natural and nothing to feel guilt, shame or regret over if you follow these guidelines. When we feel these low vibrational emotions we can't manifest sh*t!

5 Reasons Not To Have Sex 

Let's just say you are kissing someone you have just met while on a date. Wonderful! Experience it fully. Check in with yourself. Is this someone you would regret having sex with? If the answer is yes, just say no. Our inner guidance system is nothing to be trifled with. Trust what you feel. The more you trust yourself, the better you will feel about your decisions. 

Here are the 5 reasons why not to engage in the horizontal mambo:

1. It feels yucky. If you feel bad, the sex will be bad. You will have regret later. Whatever it is, their smell, the way they kiss, the timing, trust your instinct.

2. They are pushing for something you don't feel works for you. Maybe things are going along well, then all of a sudden there is a change in activity. If he shoves your head into your crotch and you don't like it say so. You'll be surprised how much respect you will get when you say "I don't like it when you do that!"

3. You aren't ready. There are many reasons to not feel ready for sex. It could be the wrong time of the month, it could be it is just too soon, it could be you don't feel your best. Whatever the reason don't do it. Pushing a bad move will leave you feeling regret. Regret is a terrible thing! Standing up for what you feel is right for you is empowering. Having sex when you really aren't up for it is disempowering. Choose wisely.

4. You value yourself. Maybe your date thinks you are really hot, but you don't have the same feelings about them. Maybe the situation is uncomfortable due to a lack of privacy. The first time you have sex with someone you want it to feel good, not bad. If your gut is trembling with fear, trepidation or distaste, stop. Tell them you aren't ready. Maybe tell them you will never be ready for them, but be kind. 

5. You respect yourself and it doesn't feel right. Self-respect is a tenuous thing. When we don't trust ourselves and do something anyway, we are not respecting us. Respect is one of the cornerstones of a healthy, loving relationship, starting on the wrong foot will make the whole thing just wrong. My book Orgasm For Life will help you discover yourself, and your partner in a new and loving way.

You have value. You deserve to be loved. You are worthy. You are loveable. Now turn this around and say these things to yourself over and over until you believe them. 

I deserve it!

I have value

I am worthy

I am enough

How To Create Positive Change With Affirmation And Prayer

Using mantras in the background of your mind when your mind is in neutral works best: while you are showering, shaving, putting on makeup, driving, walking, right before sleep and upon waking will slip past the gatekeeper of your unconscious mind.

Now go forth and date! Go to meetups, but get yourself out there. You won't find a partner sitting at home on the couch stuffing yourself with ice cream and Cheetos. 

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5 Powerful Ways To Increase Longevity And Have Better Orgasms

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Sex is a powerful way to ignite the fire inside each of us, expand our energy and bring us closer to enlightenment. Sex draws us closer to our partners creating better focus, mental clarity, relieving depression improves our health, longevity and relieves stress. If you aren't having sex you need to be. Sex is a natural component of being human.

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When sex is dull or void of pleasure we lose interest. When women don't reach an orgasm, they stop wanting to engage. When couples aren't having sex, they stop touching each other and become more negative, critical and irritated with one another. 

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Men's and women's needs differ tremendously. Often we make love to our partners the way we want to be made love to, rather than telling our partner what it is we want. Men and women are naturally wired differently. We communicate differently and we certainly have different needs when it comes to sex.

Sometimes we take our partners for granted, which is never good, gratitude can bring us back to appreciation and feeling loving again. 


1. Talk about sex more often. Express what you prefer and compliment your partner on what they do well before asking for something different or a change in technique.

2. Open your mouth and keep breathing during sex. Deep breathing will expand your orgasm allowing you to last longer. 

3. Move your hips. Sexual energy needs to move. If we keep our hips locked the energy stays in our genitals rather than moving upwards. Kundalini is a rising energy that begins in the root chakra or perineum between the anus and vaginal opening.

4. Meditate prior to sex. Meditation will help you get into synch with your partner. When we are in synch we move as one, becoming one. Sex is much better when we become ONE. 

5. Synchronize your breathing with your partner. Another way to expand the sexual experience and increase pleasure is to breathe in synch with your partner. Spend a few minutes holding each other close. Breathe together. Inhale together. Exhale together. Watch how synchronized breathing expands your pleasure and connects you more deeply.

Sex is the most intimate we can be with one another, yet so little is discussed on this very delicate subject, even in long-term married couples. Sex helps to open our pineal gland or third eye. 

Talking about sex and pleasure is enough to turn us on. If you aren't talking about sex or having the pleasure you desire join me tonight on this very interesting and informative radio show. 

Join me on the Sex RX Show With Michaela Michaella-Lyanne Teresa Candelaria Guerrero Misko that's a mouthful! The show is on Blogtalk Radio. A replay will be available. 

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Are You Looking To Deepen Intimacy Create Better Sex and A Happier Relationship?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

I don't know about you, but I get bored easily. I like to change things up and do things differently and in different places. I like adventure, travel, creativity and to have deep, meaningful conversations with my partner and lover. I also enjoy connecting sexually to enjoy mutual pleasure. 

Sorry you missed my event on Sunday, January 22nd,  A FREE talk with book signing in Venice California at 1:30 PM PST at the Mystic Journey Bookstore on 1624 Abbot Kinney Blvd. 

In preparation for this book signing, I re-read my book, Orgasm For Life. I was laughing my ass off reading my own book! It is a funny eye-opening and enlightening book for both men and women. 

Orgasm For Life will help you be a better lover, create deeper intimacy and help you communicate with your partner so that they hear you. Orgasm For Life is a light-hearted and enlightened look at men and women that deepen understanding of your partner. OFL is authentic yet compassionate. 

Sexual desire is as natural as our thirst for water. Sex helps keep us young, connected to our partner and helps men become more intimate. 

If you are looking for a no-holds-barred instructional and informative book, written with riotous humor, this is it. It is full of wisdom, understanding, and wit to keep you reading, turned on and excited to try the suggestions.

What is great about this book is that not only do I understand how women work, because I am one, but I also have a deep understanding of what men want and need and I share it with you. My candid, honest style draws you into my personal bedroom where I share forty years of insights, passion, and experimentation.

Sexual dysfunction is my passion. Why? Because I have experienced it for myself and is what motivated me to write this book.

Some Of What Is Explored In Orgasm For Life

1. The truth about Viagara and other meds.
2. The Different Operating Systems of Men and Women.
3. What motivates men.
4. What motivates women.
5. What Tantra does to change love-making for the better.
6. How to use Tantra in your relationship.
7. How sex works as the glue to keep a couple connected.
8. How to ask lovingly for what you need rather than be a Drill Sergeant In The Bedroom.
9. What happens when you reject sex and love.
10. What it feels like to be rejected.
11. How being right destroys intimacy.
12. The best use of an apology.
13. The dark side of make-up sex.
14. How to create a deeper connection with your heart.
15. What orgasmic bliss is.
16. How to laugh at yourself.
17. How to heal sexual dysfunction in a woman. 
18. How to heal HTP (hair trigger penis)
19. How to have more fun with sex and your relationship.
20. How to change things up to create more passion.
21. How to make love to a woman.
22. How to make love to a man.
23. How to perform oral sex with passion and give your partner the best they have ever had!
24. How to communicate with a man.
25. How to communicate with a woman.
26. How to be heard. 
27. How to ask for what you want in bed without destroying your man's ego.
28. How to enjoy each other more.
29. How to stay together in love and happy.
30. How to bring the sacredness you desire into the bedroom.
31. How to find and stimulate the g-spot.
32. How to find and stimulate the man's g-spot. 
33. How to overcome erectile dysfunction.
34. Eradication of boredom in the bedroom.
35. The stages of arousal, orgasm, and completion of the sex act.
36. What pisses your partner off and how to avoid it.
37. What it feels like to be a man.
38. Women hidden buried and covered up.
39. Are women just complex, or crazy?
40. A deeper understanding of your partner and hundreds of ways to improve your communication, sex life, and relationship.
41. Teenage sex. What teenagers think sex is and isn't and when they start having sex on school buses.
42. Teenagers and porn. 
43. Why do 80% of women fake orgasm?
44. 9 Magic Steps To Orgasm.
45. The Effects of porn on a relationship, teens and a man.
46. How to hold off an impending orgasm.
47. Semen Retention.
48. What is the truth about foreplay and is it really necessary?
49. How to avoid tearing the tender parts.
50. Sex to prolong life.
51. Sex As Medicine.
52. Stress relief.
53. How sex boosts the immune system?
54. The power of trust.
55. Monogamy.
56. Affairs and Other Achilles' Heel.
57. Erotica and how it can be used.
58. Healing Tantra Style.
59. Why Most Women Never Have A G-spot orgasm.
60. The Importance of Eye Contact.
61. Female Ejaculation.
62. 11 Types of Orgasm For Women.
63. Depression Linked To Porn.
64. STDs.
65. Penis size.
66. Prostate Stimulation.
67. Aging With Ease.
68. Falling Out of Love
69. Anger and Attachment
70. Talking Dirty
71. The Best Sex In Your 60's and 70's
72. How To Increase Passion In a Failing Relationship.

What Orgasm Isn't

It isn't a photo display of body parts. Orgasm For Life does, however, teach, instruct and explain how things work. Orgasm For Life will walk you through the act of stimulating a woman and man in the ways they prefer. Orgasm For Life will open your eyes to what you have been missing and overlooked in your relationship because you couldn't understand it before. Orgasm For Life will give you deeper understanding and compassion for your partner and help you connect with greater intimacy and passion.

Orgasm For Life will help you get beyond frustration, anger, and resentment about the opposite sex.

Orgasm For Life will change your relationship and your sex life because I teach you how to do all the things you have been wondering about. I take the guess-work out of oral. I help you understand why you have ejaculated too soon all your life and why this will never change until you get help. I also help women who haven't had the pleasure of an orgasm find out why and walk them through the healing process. 

I look forward to seeing you at 1:30 at Mystic Journey Bookstore!

Much Love and Passion,
Jennifer Elizabeth

Enjoy this reading from my chapter Sex As Medicine

Use This Potent and Powerful Full Moon In Cancer For Romance and Great Sex

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Photo by Luiggi RCK 

The moon affects births, moods, emotions, tides, menstruation and everything in between. A full moon in the emotional water sign of Cancer is one of the most potent and powerful energies we can experience. Love-making, nurturing, loving and letting go together can be an amazing experience tonight! Let the loving and releasing begin!

A Grand Cardinal Cross is being activated with this full moon that will be in place through the year 2020. 

In January 2020, Saturn will couple with Pluto and conjunct initiating a new economic boom cycle.

Corporations, large organizations, new earth energy will be bringing in people and environment first and profit second in this new earth.

Our Divine Destiny is to take care of the earth.

Politics are playing out these roles right now. January is all about your foundation, taking care of you. Are you kind to you? Do you make sure you have plenty of rest, exercise, take extreme self-care? Pluto opposing this moon brings in our personal needs rather than egoic will. 

Trump is the disruptor. He is ruled by Uranus. Uranus is awakening us to our emotional needs. It may not seem like it, but he is who we asked for. 

What do you need to feel good? The whole reason you are here is to be creative. 

How can you be more creative? Tap into your inner child. The childlike innocence and purity will take you there. Play, have fun, focus on your unique talents and abilities. Nourish your talent. You came here to be you. Follow your own personal star. Channel your cosmic child and talent within you. Stop allowing others to dictate to you how you should be. 

The abuse of power that we see in the world today is moving out. There is a polarization occurring that is playing out in our political arena. We may be projecting out our inner demons onto others and then blame others for what we are doing. We may not be aware of. We might not like what others are doing - but used to be that way ourselves. 

This first full moon of the year is asking us to be very conscious and be aware of the shadow, power struggles, and emotions. We can find ourselves feeling righteous. Righteousness can condone bad behavior in an abusive way. This shadow is being illuminated. Don't get caught up in power struggles and power plays that you see in the workplace or world.

It is an innovative and inspiring combination. It is a time of fulfillment, nurture and belonging, creating this with your loved ones and family is a powerful use of this energy. 

Libra, Aries, Cancer, Capricorn will be affected greatly through this astrologically expansive energy. It's all about collaboration, partnering and asking to be nurtured. This is a perfect time to be moving forward, meeting with a study or literary group. Potlucks that nurture your body and soul with loved ones during the next two weeks is a lovely way to utilize this energy.

The planet Venus is exalted in Pisces (very sensitive energy) combined with Venus the planet that rules love.

A full moon is a time of coming to fruition. This cancer moon is nurturing, more grounding. Cancer is about the home and nurturing. Healing the inner child and looking at those places where we need to access the tender, gentle space. Being more vulnerable and authentic will allow you to step into a sexy, spiritual bonding with our partners.

Cancer shows it's inner emotions and Pisces energy is creating a poetic vibe. We will be able to access wounded places within during the next two weeks. 

How can I expand my relationships in a personal genius type of way (to impact the collective)?

What new things am I bringing out into the world?

What messages are inspiring me?

How do you view your relationships?

Are you awakening together in your relationships?

Are you gathering together with those of a like mind?

Are you opening your mind right now?

Are you loving yourself more than the need to fit in?

Don't give your power away.

Watching a romantic movie, dining over candlelight, massage and accessing something holy between you is a powerful way to use this Cancer full moon. When our spirits and souls experience each other, we expand together. What could be more lovely?

Find your voice. Speak your truth. Take care of and nurture yourself. Be patient. The more you do your homework, the more successful you will be. Careful planning as your strategy will assist you to be successful in this beautiful year! There is no one like you on the planet. Be kind to you. Be your own champion and cheerleader!

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More Gratitude For Your Partner Leads to More and Better Sex

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Yesterday, I announced a 28-day challenge with the encouragement of prizes, to be more grateful for the good in our lives. I am doing this challenge with you. In fact, let's see how much good we can manifest as a collective. Today is the day I write a post about sex, so sex and gratitude it is!

Do you complain about not having enough? Not enough love, not enough sex, not enough cuddling, not enough touch. I am here to tell you that complaining isn't the way to get more of what you want. In fact, if you complain about not getting or having enough sex, affection or touch you can be sure that you will push any opportunities to have that yummy deliciousness you long for anytime soon.

Nagging about not getting what you want doesn't help. Think about it this way, when you last had sex were you grateful? Did you tell your partner how wonderful they were? Or did you roll over and drool over your pillow before the lights were out? 

Join me in this 28-day challenge to get more! Yes, that includes sex. Find ways to encourage, romance, engage in conversation about what it is you want, rather than complaining. Be grateful for what you have to receive more of what you want. Feel grateful rather than resentful. Say thank you often and with feeling. Count your blessings today with the feeling of gratitude. 

I want to hear from you. This next 28-days is for you to experiment. Instead of doing the same old routine, try something different. Be complementary of your partner. Tell her or him how beautiful they are, how wonderful they smell and feel. Thank them for being who they are and with you. Express your gratitude for the meals they prepare, packing your lunch or making the bed. See what unfolds. 

Encouraging words reap more benefits than complaints. When we aren't in gratitude we are in lack. What you have can be taken away. 

The Magic Formula: From Rhonda Byrne's book The Magic

1. Deliberately think and say the magic words, thank you.
2. The more deliberately you say and think the magic words thank you, the more gratitude you feel.
3. The more gratitude you deliberately think and feel the more abundance you receive.

Gratitude is a feeling. The goal is to practice gratitude so that you FEEL it as much as you can.

Sir Isaac Newton's law is a one for one, what you give you receive. For every equal action, there is an equal reaction. That means if you increase your feeling of gratitude your abundance increases to equal that feeling.

See my blog from yesterday about the details. I have prizes for the best stories of change and transformation that you share. You can send me an e-mail or join the happy conversation on Face Book. 

There are prizes involved. Here are the details:

Our belief is what propels our success. Gratitude for what we experience is what keeps it coming. We have plenty to be grateful for that most people take for granted:

• money
• our paychecks
• our clients
• our health
• our home
• a roof over our head - home
• food on our plates
• being alive another day
• breathing
• our children
• our children's health
• our pets
• our pet's health
• success
• love
• relationships
• family

When we complain about our circumstances, not having money and not having love or sex we push our good away from us. When we complain about our partner we aren't being grateful.  When we don't give our all then complain, our attitude takes a nose dive. When our attitude sucks, we can become like the Tasmanian Devil and wreak havoc everywhere we go which could cause us to lose our job our marriage, our children our cars even our money. 

We have to turn our attention away from the circumstances of life and begin to say thank you for the money on its way to us, the love on its way to us, our vibrant health, our life, our ability to walk, move, see, touch, hug and love another. 

11 Things To Stop Doing To Be Happy

Affairs happen when we aren't grateful

When we complain about our car, we have car trouble. When we complain about not having money, we have money troubles. When we complain about our spouse or partner, our relationship is in trouble. When was the last time you shared a wonderful story about your husband, wife, lover or best friend? Are you in the habit of sharing stories of woe instead? 

When we aren't grateful for our health, we get sick. 

Praise your partner, children and loved ones. Instead be grateful for each blessing you have in your life beginning with your health. Say thank you for your health, being alive, having clients, a job, a paycheck, money in the bank, the ability to pay your bills, rent, mortgage.

Manifesting Miraculous Moments

Part I

Gratitude is the key to everything good in your life

My challenge to you over the next 28-days is to write down the things you are grateful for right before you go to bed. Count your blessings each day. Name each one and why you feel grateful for it. Feel the energy of gratitude. The more you can feel grateful the more powerful the changes that occur. After counting all your blessings add 10 more to amplify the results and then say, "Thank you, Thank you Thank you!"

Don't skip a day as you will delay the good coming to you. If you must skip a day, go back three days and begin again. Skipping a day will slow the process and momentum you are building. You can do anything for 28-days. 28-days is enough to change your life, create a baby, make money from unseen sources, find more joy, happiness, success and bring more good to you. 

Part II

Rhonda Byrne writes about a magic rock that you hold right before you fall asleep and say what the best thing was that happened each day while holding the rock. Set the rock down beside you on your bedside table. Each night before falling asleep holding the rock and say out loud what you are most grateful for today. This rock begins to vibrate with gratitude as you just look at it. Rocks are living things and emanate a vibration. 

Today is January 3rd. 28-days takes us all the way to January 30. I will announce the winners on January 31st.

I invite you to share your stories of success, challenges and whatever you begin to notice as you change this one habit which brings more good into all areas of your life. Send me an e-mail to keep me updated. If you wish to have your success or insight shared on my blog, say so, and I will gladly share your insight and magnificence with my readers. Join the discussion on FaceBook and receive encouragement and support for your effort!

I am doing this with you and began writing my list of gratitude last night. My son's girlfriend, Mel gave me a small amethyst rock for Christmas that I am keeping by my bedside table. You can use any rock that is small enough to hold in your hand. 

Over the next 28-days, I will tell you personal stories of complaining - versus gratitude and what the derisive negativity of complaining does in each area of our lives. I'll also share our reader's insights about gratitude and stories as they come in. What have you got to lose? You have nothing to lose and everything to gain! 

First Prize:  FREE ENTRY, a $247.00 value into my From Tainted To True Love live webinar. This 6-week (six hours of live coaching) a powerfully transformational course begins on February 1st. (I changed the start date for this contest)

Second Prize: An autographed paperback copy of ORGASM FOR LIFE. This book will be mailed to you after the challenge is over.

Third Prize: A copy of Rhonda Byrne's book, The Magic which will help you transform all areas of your life with the magic of gratitude.

How To Create Positive Change With Prayer Affirmations and Gratitude

For more information about From Tainted To True Love 6-week live course scroll to the bottom of this blog. Or visit my website.