Soulfully Orgasmic Sage: How To Turn On Your Man

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Do You Know What Brings You Happiness?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Like the six blind men and the elephant, we can all look at the same thing with a very different perspective. We only see what we look at. Without focusing on a subject, we don't recognize it

or have an awareness. When we don't recognize it, how can we feel it? What we're doing today is turning your focus to what makes you the happiest?

Until someone asked me the question above, I had no idea what made me happy, because I never thought of it. Once asked I found the answer changed for me. A year or two ago, I would have answered my family is what brings me the greatest joy. Today I would say it is my work and service to others that charges me up and has me feeling passionate. 

Think about each of the words below and rate them on a scale of 1 to 10. If you feel very positive and happy about the word, rate it a ten. If the word doesn't make you feel happy at all rate it a one. Circle all the words that have tens in green for positive or GO! Circle all the ones with black or red. Anything five or under can be yellow for caution. If you have something that works better to help you recognize which is positive and which is less than great.

• work
• children
• family
• home 
• relationship
• friendships
• play
• fun
• dance
• health
• exercise
• driving
• being creative
• food
• travel
• adventure
• music
• commute to work
• evening
• morning
• prayer
  
• meditation
• service to others
• volunteering
• seva
• yoga
• the gym
• desert
• being near water
• nature 
• forest
• mountains
• moving 
  
• marriage
• enlightenment
• sex
• taxes
• bookkeeping
• workshops
• reading
• writing

Happiness is different for everyone. You might feel a community is what brings you joy and happiness. Others might find that solitude is what brings on the bliss. Being out in nature and witnessing wildlife might be what ignites your fire and brings you happiness. Meditation might be a ten for your mate, while you find exercise creates the greatest amount of happiness and bliss for you. There are no wrong answers. 

If you don't include fun and play in your life currently, find ways to do so. Life is meant to be fun. What's stopping you? Life is short have a ball! Play reduces stress and raises serotonin levels in the brain. Serotonin is what keeps you from feeling depressed and anxious. Yes, play will help you reduce anxiety as well. Stress is the number one cause of illness and disease. So get playing!

I would love to hear what your answers were. Join the conversation on Facebook. When my son asked me this question years ago, I hadn't thought of how to create more happiness and joy on purpose before. Since that time, I have shifted my schedule so that my day incorporates the greatest amount of events that I enjoy and a few of the ones I enjoy less in smaller increments of time. 

Examples Of LifeStyle Changes For Greater Happiness

Once we recognize the greatest source of joy for us, we also have the data to see what are our least favorite activities. Whenever possible delegate the things you don't enjoy doing. Hire someone to assist you with the housekeeping for example if you hate to clean, but love a clean house. If life brings you down, its time to hire me as your coach so that I can help to dovetail your life to find your joy, passion, and inspiration and clear the limiting beliefs and blocks to happiness.

If you hate commuting, but live two hours away from your office, see if you can work from home and telecommute several days a week. If you hate your job, focus on finding work you love to do so that you have fun working, then it doesn't even feel like work any longer.

The purpose of this exercise is to raise awareness of what it is in your life that gives you the greatest amount of joy. Follow the joy to raise your level of happiness. Do more things that bring you the number ten. If you aren't able to eliminate those activities that don't light you on fire, add some novelty and create unusual ways to exercise or commute with music or audible books to learn while you are on the road. Happiness is more about making choices to emphasize what you love and doing things in novel ways to keep you from falling asleep on the road of life.

What patterns do you have that you have lived with your entire life? What are you avoiding? What are you still afraid of?

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Leo Full Moon On Steroids and Lunar Eclipse

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Lunar eclipse - India, 2.10.2017

A full moon can interrupt sleep patterns, affect emotions and births. An eclipse creates a much more powerful lunation with a more potent effect.

This particular eclipse with the Sun in Aquarius and Moon in Leo. This Aquarius - Leo axis pushes us to look closely at our lives to recognize our needs, wants and any lack in our lives. 

On Friday, February 10th, 2017 a Lunar eclipse occurs at 22 degrees of Leo, the master number of the builder. This moon is opposing the sun which shines its light on this beautiful full moon.

This Lunar Eclipse deals with a balance between the personal (Leo) versus the impersonal (Aquarius). Leo is an expressive, creative energy that boosts our ego, up leveling pleasure, romance, and creative expression. Yummy! The cool, calm Aquarius energy is more impersonal, ruling the group with the emphasis on friendship and objectivity. The full moon helps us to keep one foot on the ground rather than getting too caught up in romance due to the impersonal nature of Aquarius.

The Leo moon is intensely individual and proud think of the gorilla pounding his chest, not content being merely one of a team. The impersonal Aquarius Sun, though individualistic values their independence as well as the entire team. Can you feel the conflict rising? This beautiful moon emphasizes this conflict.

Leo is proud and strong

Leo delivers confidence, pride, strength, presence and passion. We will all feel a sense of power and expanded confidence under the influence of this beautiful aspect and the master number 22. This number could help you build something wonderful, passionate and fabulous. You could be inspired to build, paint, write or create something you feel passionate about. If you have a project that has been sitting on the backburner for ages, bring it out under this moon's influence and set it ablaze!

This moon is about seeing yourself as a part of the whole. You may feel compelled to go out into the world to teach, learn and discover. You will have more confidence to be out in the world, perfect as this energy aligns with your goals.

Golden opportunities quite likely will be revealed through some type of crisis whether in the material world or within your consciousness. It is time to explore your emotional needs. Relationships can be challenged, strengthened or even broken rather dramatically during this Lunar Eclipse event energy.

Watch for epiphanies to bubble up

That feel right 

Be sure to write down anything inspiring as it may soon be forgotten.

As we become painfully aware of our lack, don't be surprised if you feel charged due to this potent energy. Be aware of becoming overly dramatic.

Full moons and lunar eclipses show up at just the right time to bring fulfillment of issues in our lives. Emotions are heightened, and areas of your personal astrological chart are activated. Each person is different. Whatever is brewing inside of us will see dramatic turns and a clear opportunity to move forward.

A Lunar Eclipse is a fabulous time to look at our lives 

to see what needs to change

 and what we need to let go of.

You may be motivated to take action. 

Remember to be compassionate. 

Irritability can arise, with this bold, emotionally expressive loving Leo Moon. Others might make romantic advances or declarations, we can only hope! Those that are unaware may just simply be "eclipsed." 

Watch the decisions you make as they could be quite emotionally driven. The tendency to make snap decisions might be met with some flashback. This bright full moon can bring illumination in other areas of our lives as well. It is time to express our truth and let the cat out of the bag! Be as compassionate as you can, remember everyone's emotions are impacted, not just ours.

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How To Turn Dull Sex Into Hot Passion-Filled Experiences

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Great sex is more than technical expertise, or knowing where the G-spot lives. Passion is more about allowing yourself to feel what you are experiencing and allowing yourself to stop nit-picking or focusing on what is wrong with your partner.

If you have read my book, Orgasm For Life, you know that sex begins in the mind. Before the first touch if you are looking at your partner expecting them to be perfect or are filled with resentment, anger or mistrust passion can be stifled.

Get Out Of Your Head and Into Your Heart

The mind can prevent arousal from occurring. If you and your partner have an unresolved issue between you, it is best to discuss the problem and come to some resolution before attempting to have sex. Great communication is the cornerstone for good sex. If you can't speak up for yourself, hold onto resentment or anger passion will be absent. 

Relationships can be challenging. We come from different backgrounds, like different things and certainly have needs and desires that can be radically different from each other. Accepting your partner's differences lovingly can shift you from feeling irritated to feeling loving care. Try these mind-shifting exercises to get into your heart.

1. Sit in front of your partner and place your hand on their thymus, located just below the neck on the flat part just above the first rib. The thymus area is a second heart chakra called the "high heart." Touching this place can open the door to higher consciousness. Tapping this place twelve times each day can also boost your immune system. 
2. Breathe into your hand placed on your partner's thymus chakra. Close your eyes and tap into their energy. With both partners touching each other's high heart chakra sit for a moment with eyes closed and breathe. This will connect the two of you heart-to-heart quickly.
3. Set an intention to join each other soul-to-soul. Getting out of the ego-mind is required for a deep soul connection. 

Spend a little time eye gazing. Allowing your partner to see you as you truly are. Stepping out of the mundane into a heart-centered connected place shifts sex from a physical act into a spiritual practice of making love to your partner's Goddess, or God-self. 

Looking into your partner's eyes can be a little uncomfortable. We see each other naked all the time, but looking into the depth of their soul, is another thing entirely. Sure you could skip this part, but if you do, you are missing the point. Sex with a soul-to-soul connection raises your lovemaking to a higher level. What I am describing will take you to places you have never been with your partner. 

Static Kissing

Slowly begin to join your lips together without much movement. Hold your position, staying close together with lips touching. 

Slowly shift lips grasping your partner's upper lip softly between yours. Hold that position and breathe. Most people are unaware of the small chakra located in the upper center of the lip, called "cupid's bow." It is a sensitive area that can be stimulated by slow kissing that builds gradually igniting the fire of passion slowly. 

Slow the process down to experience kissing gently without tongues as long as you can stand it. I like to spend twenty minutes just kissing. It is such a turn-on to experience your partner's mouth, lips, and breath them in, rather than rushing to "get to the good stuff." If you don't kiss your partner you are missing a very intimate experience that can create tremendous sexual excitement to the point of trembling with desire. 

Some women can experience an orgasm just by kissing. Oxytocin is released through kissing, which is a natural hormone that creates closeness, as well as sexual excitement and trust.

Room For Improvement

Everyone can improve their love-making skills! I have talked to many men about my book that think they know it all. If you have a know-it-all attitude, you will not be open to improving or learning anything new. Remember great sex isn't about being macho, or egoic, it is about stepping out of the ego into your heart and soul.


The Power of Slow Touch

Passion-filled sex takes you out of your head and into your heart. Enjoy slow touch, taking turns giving to your partner and then receiving. 

Allow your partner to lie back and just enjoy the experience of you touching her slowly. Drag your fingertips over every part of her body, slowly touching her arms, shoulders, back, buttocks and inner thighs. Avoid touching genitals as this builds desire and excitement. 

Use a feather to vary the type of touch. Change from feather-light touch to stronger pressure gradually. The idea is to experience each other's bodies slowly, enjoying each moment, allowing the excitement to build till you can't stand it any longer.

Oral Sex

Once you are both out of your minds with excitement for each other, shift to oral pleasuring. Allow the pleasure to build and then die down, build and die down several times before moving to penetrative sex.

Change It Up!

Penetrative sex is amazing, although most women don't orgasm through penetrative sex. Men need to take note of this fact and ensure she receives her orgasm through manual stimulation of the clitoris and G-Spot, simultaneously. Her orgasm will be more intense, profound and memorable when you are able to locate her G-spot. 

Hot and Hotter!

Once you get into motion, orgasm can happen for most men quickly. Instead of rushing to the end-game, plunge into her and pull out, go down on her pleasuring her with oral to add to her excitement and then go back to penetrative sex for a few deep slow strokes and pull out again, shift back to oral, changing from deep, slow penetration to oral five or six times not only will your erection last longer you will be much more able to bring her to orgasm with this technique. 


Passionate sex requires a change of attitude. Passion doesn't mean that you come within two minutes of beginning a love-making session either. Passion requires patience and a giving heart. Slow down, get out of your head and feel each feeling fully. Connect eye-to-eye and take the time to kiss your partner slowly without being in a rush. Experiencing pleasure slowly, changing position, speed, pressure from light and gentle to deep and firm can add a higher consciousness to your sex life and relationship. 

Everyone can shift their sex life up a notch to enjoy passionate, hot sexual experiences that you talk about for years to come!

Let me know how this works for you. Comment below, or join me on FaceBook for a conversation! 

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Does Great Sex Come Naturally Or Do We Need to Be Taught?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Sex may be as natural as drinking water for some, but others may struggle with what to do when and what goes where? 

Knowing anatomy and asking your partner what feels good to them can give you the knowledge you need to ask more questions. Don't be afraid to talk about what works and what doesn't. The bedroom is a great place to play "Show and Tell." 

Great sex is learned. A loving partner or a Tantrika can teach you skills to be a lover that can take their breath away. Learning how to make love is a beautiful gift to give to another.

Books can help teach you as well. Letting go of your ego is required to learn to be a better lover. The worst sexual partners I had were the ones with the biggest, you know, egos!

Gently guiding rather than acting like a drill sergeant works wonders. 

Showing your partner what to do to make you feel good, with some gentle encouragement can go a long way to getting you where you need to go with mutual enjoyment. 

Everyone has their hot buttons. Don't be afraid to point them out or show your partner what you like. If your partner is too shy to tell you, explore and ask, "How does this feel? Do you like this?"

Most women need oral or digital stimulation for a while (20 - 40 minutes). Kissing can get you both turned on and feeling passionate which always feels good. Kissing is something both parties can enjoy. You have to like who you are kissing, of course. 

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Sex doesn't have to stop as we age

As we age, our bodies may not be as lithe, supple or as flexible as they used to be. Dryness can become a huge issue,  after menopause, chemo or illnesses. Make sure you use lube, or she will be a very sore little lady afterward. Organic aloe lube is sold at certain pharmacies and drug stores. I recommend lubrication without anything that heats up as it burns sensitive tissue.

Erections may not happen as easily or passion may be missing. Making the best of what you have is what makes sex great. There is always time to learn new things, techniques and enjoy something different when what used to work, doesn't. 

Toys and Books

His kingdom for a great ass!

In Orgasm For Life, I describe all sorts of ways to turn on each person. I highly recommend you read it. If passion is lacking, Orgasm For Life will certainly turn you on. I know, I was turned on the entire time I wrote that book! If it doesn't, it is time for an EKG!

Sex toys, like vibrators for both men and women, can help to stimulate when you are at your wits end. Toys can also spice up a sex life that is lagging and dull. Don't be afraid to use vibrators men, just get something for your woman that doesn't look bigger than you. 

Most women prefer something that is flexible, rather than acrylic or seriously hard. Real penises bend a little, remember? You don't need to buy a vibrator that is a dildo. There are all sorts of hand-held vibrators that work like a charm. Try it, she'll like it!

Ass Grabbing and Healthy Bodies

For you ladies!

I love a great ass! An ass that has some substance to it that I can grab excites me. A flabby butt that sags isn't exciting. So if either of you has a flabby butt, do some lunges. That is what I did. Flabby, sagging butt is GONE! 


Did you know that grabbing your guy's ass and squeezing it is a great turn-on? (for most men) Give him a back massage with a body buff. Run your naked body over his - all over. He'll love it. 

Our gluteus maximus has many nerve endings in it. As does the anus. If you aren't into anal play, that's okay too. Do what you love and you will have a good time!

Don't forget that we need non-sexual touching at other times. If the only time you reach for your woman is for sex, she will begin to shut you down and out. Non-sexual touching is part of a loving relationship. Even holding hands can release oxytocin the feel good or cuddle hormone. 

I do lunges daily to music. Personally, I don't like them, but I sure do like what they did to my lady-butt! Ask my guy; I think he likes the effect of the lunges too!

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Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is the author of the forthcoming book: HAPPY HERE, HAPPY ANYWHERE. 


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Would You Like To Be Interviewed For My New Sex Book?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Warning this article contains satire and sexual language.

Sadly over 20 million Americans and who knows how many Russians, Ukrainians, Canadians and other countrymen are living in passionless relationships and unhappy with their sex lives.  I am looking to interview couples and singles that are in sexless or passionless marriages or relationships. If this is you, send me an e-mail. Why the turkey photo? People just aren't boning! And I want to know why?

Couples aren't coupling, and boomers aren't boinking. Rockers aren't rocking, and Yodlers aren't yodling. Is it the fluoride in our drinking water? Has the epidemic of depression and high cholesterol got our nation by the nads? Or is it that feminism has machinated the macho of our men?

The Benefits of Sex

Better than a gym workout and far superior to dancing Zumba, sex burns calories, reduces stress, helps you sleep better than Nytol or Melatonin. Sex is a moving meditation says Deepak Chopra and brings people closer to God than most Christians get at a church on Sunday. Sex is wondrous, invigorating, even enlightening, yet millions just aren't doing it with each other. Why? 

Is it because they are polarized by television selections or political debates? Are work schedules keeping marrieds at loggerheads rather than giving head? What percentage are married and in hate rather than in-love with each other? Is anger keeping people from hitting the old hammer and nail? Are men tired of being stand-up citizens? How many of these couples are just sick of looking at each other and wish the other would be hit by a bus?

I have heard from one gentleman who hasn't had sex in over forty years that his wife doesn't like sex.  A Forty years sentence is a loving commitment when the other party isn't sticking by their vows. I know I wouldn't have stayed. Imprisoned in a sexless, loveless marriage for what reason? 

I understand that over time the frequency of sex diminishes. What percentage of these marriages is connected, supportive and loving? How much touching, hugging and hand-holding is happening in these sexless marriages? I know I tend to be melodramatic at times, but my senses are telling me that there is not much finger touching going on in these households either. 

My Commitment To You

I will get to the bottom of this subject if it's the last book I write. It won't be; I have at least twenty more titles in my head whirling around at night while I sleep. My sense is that this number of passionless marriages would be significantly lower if one or both would get their energy cleared. A morphogenic clearing of the couple together could break this angry incommunicado. 

Should you wonder what I was smoking when I wrote this, you should have attended my hypnosis session tonight! Join me next week when our Wednesday night hour is FREE and CLEAR! The subject is ANGER a perfect segue for this article. I share some interesting details on my Wednesday night call that I don't talk about here. Join us next Wednesday. 

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The Joy Of Feeling Sexy

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Though there are many in this world that say they hate sex or don't like it, sex is a natural part of being human. The desire for deep connection with another human is at the core of each of us, even when we are fearful of intimacy. When we hate sex, or refuse to have it, we are denying ourselves pleasure, joy and deep connection with the spiritual. We are also denying an integral part of who we are. Our sexuality is the core of who we are. Our sexiness is innate. When we don't feel sexy we aren't in touch with ourselves.

I understand feeling disconnected from our body. For most of my life, I was not grounded in my body. I was flaky, scattered and unfocused. This article will help you increase happiness, joy and your internal connection with you. The side-effect is feeling sexy!

Sex is our sacred expression of the deepest part of ourselves. When we deny ourselves pleasure sexually, we also deny other pleasures. We might avoid foods we love, or experiencing expanded joy because we deny ourselves the feeling of pleasure. 

Whether we are alone or in a relationship, we can still enjoy intense pleasure of all kinds. Eating can be extremely pleasurable and a very sensual experience. I love to eat delicious foods. I enjoy what I am eating experiencing the pleasure of taste, feel of the texture in my mouth. I love to eat juicy foods, fruits, smoothies, rich ice cream loaded with fat, avocados and pie loaded with whipped cream. Don't get the idea that my diet is poor. I eat healthy most of the time. However, if I get a longing for a piece of pumpkin pie loaded with whipped cream, I enjoy it deeply. 

Enjoyment of Pleasure

I used to deny myself fattening foods. Since I began eating them when I feel like it, I feel bigger, more expanded in my field (not in body mass, but energy) I am happier and you can eat them too. Just not at every meal. 

Allowing yourself to participate in activities that you formerly denied yourself can expand your joy. Do you love to dance, but don't have a partner? I don't have one either right now. (Notice that I added "right now." ) He's on his way to me. I just have a few more things to take care of before he arrives. I dance every day. Since I began to dance, I feel sexier, more grounded, expanded and have lost inches - everywhere! 

Dance To Feel Sexy

Dance is joyful. It brings up pleasure from our deepest core. Sex is not the only way to experience pleasure. Why not start dancing today. Enjoy your own body. Feel what you like to do, dance like a rock star, or a ballerina. Feel sexy in your own body. If you don't feel sexy, how can you expect anyone else to?

What Dance Does For You

1. Expands your body. You might become taller, stronger, lighter, and curvy. My spine has stretched, my posture has improved and I have toned everything!
2. Creates balance. You become more grounded in your body. Especially when you dance outside, the earth moves up to greet you. You will find your physical balance increases. You will be less likely to fall when you experience how your body works for you and you become more flexible.
3. Helps you feel joy. Dance is something that tribal people have done for thousands of years. It connects us with our ancestors, the native peoples from all walks of life. Dance is amazing for shifting the way you feel about you and your life.
4. Numbness goes away. If you feel numb, dancing will help to diminish and heal those parts of you that feel numb, because you are connecting deeply with your soul and your body.
5. Music soothes the soul. Play music you love. Play music you don't like but play music. Try different genres. Experience different types of music to stretch yourself. You might find that you have an inner rock star. I began listening to AC/DC and U2 when dancing by accident. It was what came up on my phone out in the desert. I just went with it. It surprised me when I began to feel different about those bands.
6. You tone your body differently than when at the gym. You only need to dance to three songs a day to begin to shift your body. Just do it every day!
7. Dancing is fun! It is far more pleasurable than being in a stuffy smelly gym. 
8. Dance like no one is watching you. Get beyond your fears of what others think of you. You will find much more joy when you can be YOU. I have a video coming, I will share my crazy woman dancing with you later today. So come back and see, it might be completed by Sunday morning if it takes too long to edit.
9. You don't have to be a ballerina or Beyonce to get a lot out of dance. I have never been known for my dancing skills, but that isn't the point. 
10. You will begin to feel sexy, beautiful and totally you. Dance connects you to your body. It prepares you for sex because you begin to really love your body when you dance. 
11. You will find yourself smiling when you are not looking. Everyone needs more joy, happiness, and aliveness. I promise you dance will bring you joy and happiness. 
12. You will feel more passion for your life, your partner and if you don't have one, you are preparing for them with dance.

I want to hear about your experience. Connect with me here or on FaceBook and let me know what you notice. 

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How To Turn Anger Into Passion

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Relationships are a joy when things are purring along. When we feel in love with our partner, we kiss, hug and make love with ease. When our partner shows up late, isn't there for us, or looks at our best friend with interest, we might become so infuriated that we don't want contact with them at all.

72% of women hold out sex after an argument. Men are more able to move beyond the emotions and be ready for sex.

Ask yourself is this going to matter in five years? If the answer is "No," have sex instead. It is a whole lot more enjoyable than staying angry with your partner.

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First, let's look at what anger does to your body's physiology. Anger sets off your body's fight or flight response, flooding your body with stress hormones from your adrenal glands. The constant flood of stress hormones can create health problems. You might get headaches, digestion issues, abdominal pain, insomnia, high blood pressure, heart attacks and strokes. 

What Happens When You Get Angry

• Whether you contain your anger, inside  you are holding it within your cells. 
• When you express anger outwardly it can make you feel terrible. Depression and or anxiety can be the result of long-term anger.
• You may say things you regret.
• You may physically express your anger in negative ways.
• Cortisol is released causing your belly to become fatter. Anger is a stressful emotion. It is not productive.

Who Rules Your Emotions?

Do your emotions rule you, or do you rule your emotions? Being able to feel our emotions without negative behavior takes self-control, even mastery. 

Anger is a form of passion. How can you turn that anger into something productive instead of continue to seathe inside? 

Take A Breather

Use breathwork to move through your feelings rather than lashing out at another person, or thing. Breathing in slowly and completely can be all it takes to bring yourself into the present, allowing the feelings to move through you. Most of us have a tendency to hold our breath when we get angry. When we do, emotions get stuck rather than moving through us the way they were meant to.

Take a walk, get on a treadmill to work off some of the feelings of frustration. If you need to leave the room to give each other space. 

Using Anger For Common Good

Anger can be used to clean your home, paint a picture, write a poem, or even a chapter in a book. Most men will tell you, they prefer using anger for passionate makeup sex. 

Using our emotions for good, rather than negatively erupting, calling someone names, or damaging material things shows that your emotions are ruling you, rather than the other way around.

Change your behavior. Instead of shutting down and running away, talk about your feelings. Express yourself constructively. When you learn to communicate through your emotions, you will find that you can turn the anger into passion more easily.

Make-Up Sex

Shifting your anger into a positive feeling takes breathwork. Moving the energy through your breath and out through your heart can allow more love in. It can also allow you to be more vulnerable. Turn that powerful energy into a positive creation. Sex after an argument, providing you are not abusing the other, can be very exciting and exhilarating.

Ways To Shift The Anger

1. Use your sexual energy to give him the performance blow job of his life. Then have him take care of you.
2. Make it a virtuoso experience. Ask for an erotic massage. Or give him one. Ask for whatever you want. After an argument, you are likely to get it. 
3. Have him worship you. Whether it is through role play or having him pleasure you, let the anger go, and sink into the present. You just might enjoy it!
4. Take a hot bath to break the energy of the fight. It can help you get into the mood to be touched an allow you to feel luxuriated.

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All You Need Is Love

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

I get excited pretty easily these days. Life is good! Today I am especially excited! Tonight is my inaugural flight with my new radio show; ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE on BBM Global Network, Tune-In and Roku Box. Why would you want to listen to my show live? It is dynamic, fun, insightful and will give you more of what you want to know to create fulfilling, expansive relationships and blissful sex. I share what I have learned, interview sex educators, authors, Tantra teachers, as well as regular people like you and me who are having the best sex of their lives at any age. Tonight, Linzi Levinson a dear friend and radio host in her own right shares the spotlight with me. 

If you are looking for deeper intimacy and connection,

incorporating spirituality into your sexual relationship, you will enjoy my show. Each week the subject will change. Next week we begin a two-part series on Tantra. Looking for Blissful Sex From The Inside Out, you won't want to miss my LIVE show with my dear friend and meditation partner, Tantra teacher, Prem Savovra. Also called, "Bill." We will be exploring sacred sex, extending your love-making beyond the 20-minute mark, multiple orgasms for both men and women. With Tantra, you will have the ability to make love for hours! 

About All You Need Is Love

Sex is a beautiful expression of love. Yet so many have difficulty talking about it, or even enjoying it fully. Not so, with our host and author or Orgasm For Life, Jennifer Elizabeth Masters of JenniferElizabethMasters.com. She unabashedly says, she has enjoyed sex and sexual expression fully. Jennifer takes the awkwardness out of sex and makes it lively, fun and real for you. Whether you have ED, HTP, or are just plain curious and want to create more passion in your bedroom. This show will make you laugh, educate, and guide you to a deeper awareness of yourself and your partner. Sexuality is the very core of who we are. Getting in touch with that deepest most vulnerable part of ourselves creates more conscious, loving experiences and a more bonded relationship, which is Jennifer’s goal.

Marriages today need help, more than any other time in our history. Jennifer’s own experience with divorce is what motivates her to help others heal their relationships. Love and sizzle was there at one time. Keeping families together is Jennifer’s mission and goal. Overcoming our differences with laughter and love, rather than pointing fingers or being the victim. Communication about sex rarely occurs till sex stops happening. Jennifer will guide you to be able to communicate about your desires so that you each get what you want in the bedroom. When we are fulfilled and satisfied, our relationships blossom and deepen. Communication outside the bedroom is what All You Need Is Love is all about. When our sex lives are fun, sensual open-hearted experiences, rather than unfulfilling quickies that just touch the surface of who you are, we are all happier. Our planet becomes a better place for us all. Love is all we need, sex is an aspect of love fully expressed. Jennifer is a hypnotherapist, Neurolinguistic Programming Practitioner and energy healer.

Looking for natural cures for an issue, Jennifer has a slew of them up her magical sleeve. Her sense of humor and directness is refreshing and enlightening. You won’t want to miss the sizzle. Join us, won’t you?

About Linzi Levinson

Linzi Levinson is more than just a coach; she is incredibly intelligent, loving and passionate about helping people like me. She is working on her Ph.D. Linzi is a Certified Relationship Specialist enjoying a Relationship Counseling practice in the San Fransico Bay area. She has a degree in Counseling Psychology, recognized by the American Psychotherapy Association. She is certified in conflict resolution and mediation Conflict Resolution and Mediation from Pepperdine Law with a Divorce Court Specialization.  Linzi has a specialization is sexuality and works endlessly advocating sexual health and wellness, and gender diversity with education of lifestyle choices.  Together we have a great dynamic. 

How To Find All You Need Is Love radio

1.  On BBM Global Network listed under 'HOSTS' scroll to see Jennifer Elizabeth Masters2.  On BBM Global Network listed under 'SHOWS' scroll to see All You Need Is Love3.  On BBM Global Network home page click listen live at 8:00 PM EST/5:00 PM PST and click the play button4.  On Tune in Radio search BBM Global Network and you will be playing at 8:00 PM EST/ 5:00 PM PST8pm

All You Need Is Love airs each Thursday at 8:00 PM Eastern, 5:00 PM Pacific. If you have questions you would like answered on the air, either with your name or without, send me an e-mail and I will do my best to answer on the air each week. 

Want To Hear More Jennifer? This link will take you to shows with Devi Ward, Tantrika, Linzi Levinson and more. Want to book a session with Jennifer, or a FREE 30-minute discovery session to find out what magical help Jennifer can provide for you? Click here to e-mail her.