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I Want To Know What Love Is

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

For so many people today, heartache and pain are what they think of when they think of love. Why is that? Why do relationships cause us such issues? We want to be loved, or do we? Sometimes I wonder because I see people pushing love away. Our fear of being hurt causes us to push the very thing we desire away. I have done it too.

When we have traumatic experiences in our past, and everybody does, we hold the energy of the past in our cellular body. The emotions from the breakups, nasty divorces, and horrible dates in our tissues. Until we can let go completely and forgive those who we perceive have hurt us we really can't experience love because we have a wall built which keep us from allowing a new person close to us.

We can't be vulnerable and risk everything when we experience fear. Fear blocks us from letting go, and able to receive love.

I know from my past experience that I wasn't authentic for most of my life. I acted like I thought others wanted me to be. I faked it. I faked orgasms; I faked happiness, I faked being. When I finally let go of caring what others thought of me is when I recognized I liked myself and it didn't matter what anyone else thought. My self-esteem came from me, not from the validation I had previously desired from my mother or others. 

Healing our past allows us to become completely naked in front of another. The naked I am talking about is the ability to be completely vulnerable and seen by our partner, naked with our clothes. Most people wear a mask and don't allow someone new to see the real person under the subterfuge. Our fear of not being accepted for who we are keeps us acting the way we think our date wants us to be.

When we aren't authentic at the beginning of a relationship, our relationship is doomed to failure because eventually, we have to let our guard down and be real. When we finally show up, our partner will wonder who the heck they fell in love with? Authenticity is the key to feeling and receiving love. Until we can be real with another, we are faking life and not going to receive real love.

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Softening And Becoming Real

The softer and more authentic we can be, the better. Our relationships build trust when we are authentic. The fear of not being liked or loved is from the past. When we love ourselves, the experience of receiving love from another isn't so scary. 

Letting go of the false pretenses and faked orgasms allow us to sink in to be grounded in our true self. If someone doesn't like who we are - NEXT! There will be someone who does. Don't waste your precious energy trying to be someone you aren't to be loved. If you have to turn yourself into a pretzel to find love, it isn't real. The more you that you can be, the more real your relationship will be also. All relationships have some conflict. 

We aren't going to always agree with one another. Thinking that love means a relationship without conflict is a fairy tale. Knowing how to communicate lovingly when those challenges arise is one of the facets of my work. I help couples navigate the sticky situations and complexities of relationships. Being fearless certainly helps, and that is certainly something I help my clients be.

Dumbing It Down

When we act less intelligent, or less sexual than we are, we are attempting to dumb down the truth of ourselves. We are faking it. I faked it with one of my husbands. He was insecure about himself and his sexuality. He wasn't ready for a woman who was passionate, and powerful. I had to hold back and act like a Puritan. He was a macho man who had to be in charge. We didn't click at all. Our marriage was volatile because of the constant power struggle. 

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Many fish in the sea!

There are other options than to attempt to be someone you are not just to try and make this relationship work. When we let go of one relationship and allow ourselves to be seen, it won't be long before a new love comes along that takes you to a higher place where you can connect to the depth of your soul. There are lots of fish in the sea. Find the right fish for you. Don't settle for less. You deserve love. You deserve to be loved for who you are, as you are. Of course, the flip side of the coin is that we have to accept our partner as they are as well. 

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How To Improve Your Life In One Hour!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

You are here because you want to know how on earth you can change your life in one hour? Read all of the case studies from this week alone and my last podcast to see for yourself.

I had a free podcast this Wednesday with a past life clearing. You can listen to the recording here. Be sure to sit down and listen so that you will receive the full benefit of this hour-long session. Even the words will cause energies to stir within you and increase your awareness. 

If you have patterns that keep repeating, depression, anxiety, feel lost, uncomfortable in your own skin, are filled with worry, fears, negativity, or just want to see what all the fuss is about, this is a fabulous time to get to know me better, and how amazing you will feel afterward.

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Betina Bailey came to me this week with an intense sinus infection. Her antibiotic stopped working. She felt as heavy as lead when I tapped into her energy field. She asked me, "How on earth did you know how I felt?"She was in excruciating pain, couldn't sleep, her muscles ached as they were all in knots and she certainly couldn't work. 

I cleared the sinus infection, then cleared two past lives where Betina had been drowned and another where she had a death by fire. Both of these past lives were coming up to be cleared with this sinus infection. I applied energy healing to her body, including first aid, clearing trauma, brutality and many other patterns that were blocking Betina. 

Betina Bailey reported to me this morning that for the three days since the clearings including today she feels amazing! Her sinus infection has cleared up and she has had the best sleep of her life the past three nights. She had a fabulous day yesterday at work, doing what she loves body painting.

Donna Naylor posted that she needed help on FaceBook. I knew immediately that she was feeling lost and suicidal. She came to me with depression, feeling that she didn't matter and that she was a waste of space on this planet. She needed to get a job and could barely move. She was in serious trouble, feeling her life wasn't worth living. 

Donna Naylor sent me hand-crafted jewelry this week as a thank you after our session because she has had several successful interviews and was offered the job of her dreams doing what she loves! She has been lifted out of her deep depression into a state of joy and feeling terrific, after one session!

Jess came to me seriously anxious, depressed needing help from her parents, but they were not willing to help her. Her living conditions were terrible because of her financial situation. She didn't feel safe. After one clearing Jess had an interview for her dream job. The employer told her she would hear within three weeks about the job. She got the job offer in three hours after the clearing! 

As if the fabulous job wasn't enough, a mysterious deposit occurred into her bank account and her parents offered to help her get a better place to live and were much more supportive of her.

100% of the cases with depression, anxiety, molestation, suicidal tendencies that my clients experienced, have dark energies attached. In every case after a clearing they feel fabulous, uplifted, better and their suicidal tendencies are gone! 

How can you tell if you have attached energies? 

There are many signs that you have attached energy. We see things out of the corner of our eyes. Objects move when we haven't touched them. The house you live in may be haunted. We may have bouts of tremendous fear, nightmares, insomnia, or worry incessantly, we may have OCD, depression, feel your life isn't worth living or have serious money issues. We may feel blocked at every turn, unable to make headway. Some dark energies are generational, meaning the family has had them for lifetimes.

During my last podcast, a pain came over my left shoulder. I told my audience someone in the group had pain. I asked to clear it. The woman had been experiencing pain in her shoulder for months. Before the end of the call, her pain was totally gone! 

Another person had a headache, we cleared it immediately! Backaches have been cleared on my podcasts that have been chronic for four years!

In June in Atlanta, at The Inner Space, Alisha Henry reported having pain in her ankle that wouldn't go away. She had this pain for years! I asked the pain to be cleared and it was! Immediately.

Everyone has the power within them to heal themselves. I will help you speak the words to empower your inner physician to heal you. 

A Recent Client's Experience:

After working with Jennifer recently, I must say that I am grateful to the Divine for placing her in my path via a Google search. A few weeks ago, I was in an interesting place emotionally. I was in-between coming to terms with some past emotional trauma but not fully understanding what it meant to "let go of my past." Following our initial 30 minute "discovery session" and subsequent first session a week later, I finally understood what it meant to embrace the present while letting the past be whatever it was.

As she opened my Akashic record and began to peel back the layers of my current and past lives, I shook, trembled, and buzzed as Jennifer cut the cords to the negative emotional patterns that had affected me on a personal, physical, emotional, and spiritual basis. The guilt, shame, and depression I experienced for years immediately left and I felt lighter! It was as if life had finally smiled at me and the Universe had finally said, "it's time for your healing. Embrace it and finally, learn to live life and enjoy it!"

I'm truly grateful for Jennifer's work, and I know that this is the beginning of something beautiful in my life. Thanks again, Jennifer, and I send you much love and many blessings!

Sincerely,
Mary

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8 Easy Ways For Men To Combat Low Testosterone By Blocking Estrogen

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Testosterone levels in American men are at an all time low. Symptoms of low testosterone are low energy, a decrease in stamina, hair loss and difficulty losing weight. Low "T" is common in men as they age, but is happening early in the last ten years. What many men are unaware of is that high levels of estrogen are usually found when men have "LOW T."

Having strong erections allows a man to feel virile, youthful and maintain a sexually active life well into his golden years. Testosterone is the hormone that causes facial hair, voice to deepen and develop genitalia.

Estrogen is the hormone that causes women to grow breasts, menstruate and have feminine qualities.

High estrogen levels in men comes from high aromatase activity. Aromatase is the enzyme that converts testosterone to estrogen. Aromatase is highly concentrated in that fat bulge around your middle. Aromatase activity increases due to age, stress, weight gain, and inflammation. Chronic high levels of estrogen have been linked to cancer,  Type II Diabetes, obesity, hypertension and cardiovascular health.

Block Estrogen With These Foods

A high plant-based diet can reduce estrogen levels in the body. Plants are loaded with phytochemicals which work to block estrogen in the body.

1. Cruciferous Vegetables. A diet rich in cabbage, cauliflower, broccoli, rutabaga, turnips, bok choy, kale, and Brussel sprouts will block estrogen from being formed. These vegetables can be cooked some different ways, including roasted, steamed, sauteed or baked. I love to eat all of these vegetables raw for greater nutrient value. 

2. Mushrooms. Shitake, Reishi, button, crimini are all mushrooms that can be eaten raw in salads or sauteed with your rice. Mushrooms block estrogen production and are also a way to boost your immune system. The Chinese have been using mushrooms to heal the body for thousands of years. Cordyceps, Shitake, Turkey Tail and Himematsutake are a blend of powerful mushrooms that increase in value when taken together. There are mushroom compounds in your nutritional supplement store.

3. Green Tea. Green tea has a multitude of benefits from helping you reduce weight, prevent (breast, lung, esophageal, skin, colon and bladder, cancer. Green tea is loaded with catechins more powerful than vitamins, phytochemicals, and antioxidants at the same time. Harvard Health Publications touts the additional benefits of green tea to assist with Rheumatoid Arthritis, reduce bad cholesterol, (LDL) while increasing the good kind (HDL), reduces your risk of cardiovascular disease, by improving arterial function. 

Green tea is refreshing hot or cold. Instead of adding sugar if you must use raw local honey.

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4. Seeds. Flax and sesame seeds contain polyphenols that reduce estrogen in the bloodstream. Flax seeds contain the highest levels of polyphenols and linolenic acid an essential fatty acid, according to Oregon State University. Polyphenols are found in plants. Sunflower seeds are another source of polyphenols. 

5. Whole Grains. Whole grains contain the endosperm, bran, and germ which are necessary for a healthy diet. Whole grains aren't broken down like white bread. If you are still eating white bread, rolls or donuts, stop right now. White grains are unhealthy for so many reasons. Sources of whole grains are:

• wheat
• oats
• corn
• millet
• rye
• barley

6. Red Grapes. Red grapes are excellent for the blood, and blocking estrogen. Red grapes contain two chemicals that are loaded with health benefits, reservatrol, and proanthocyanidin.

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 7. Pomegranates. Pomegranates are high in phytochemicals. Deep rich, red juice and seeds block estrogen, purify the blood and strengthen the cardiovascular system. 

8. Talk To Your Doctor. Men hesitate to see a medical professional often waiting till their testosterone is dangerously low. Get your blood checked regularly for hormone levels and ask about alternative methods rather than a testosterone shot for the quick fix and potentially dangerous side-effects. 

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Orgasm For Life: What Turns A Man On?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Excerpt from Orgasm For Life

In a nutshell - everything. Just walk in front of a man naked and your job is done! Men want you to touch their penises. End of story. Men can get a hard-on by being kissed. Oxytocin is released in a man’s body, which arouses him through kissing. If you haven’t touched his penis yet, now would be a good time. 

Men and women also have vast neurological differences. 

Most men spend the majority of their day wondering when we are going to touch their penises. As soon as we do, they wonder when we will touch it again. Women’s brains turn to sex only once in twenty-four hours versus most men’s every 52 seconds according to Louann Brizendine, author of The Female Brain. It gives one pause to wonder how men actually accomplish anything during the day.

Men’s bodies are bathed in testosterone, which is a key component causing him to think of sex so frequently. Women are also governed by hormones that affect her values, desires, what’s important to her and even whom she loves. Ms. Brizandine’s findings also explained why women value communication as one of the key components of a relationship. 

Women speak 250 words per minute while men use only 125. In an entire day, a woman uses 20,000 words, while a man only uses 7,000. Women also know intuitively what others are feeling; while men are busy thinking when someone is going to touch their penis next? Sometimes men are thinking of other things, but every 52 seconds he is thinking of when he’ll be in the sack next having his penis worshiped. (Yes men, I know you think about other things besides sex.)

When women communicate with other women, they prefer to face each other making eye contact. They listen intently to what the other has to say, using affirming sounds like uh-huh, umm, okay, which let the other know they are listening. They become emotionally involved in the other’s story and may even cry together. A sense of closeness develops through sharing each other’s lives. This type of communication rarely occurs in marriages. It is learned but not innate. 

Men’s communication style is a derivative of the hunter-gatherer days where they walked side-by-side, spread out across an open field. They worked together to track down and hunt prey. Today, men prefer to sit at angles to one another or side by side, without making intense eye contact. Conversation with men is action driven. They expect to resolve something by talking about it. They glance at one another on occasion, sitting quietly, rather than making sounds as women do. They rarely share deep personal situations preferring to engage in activities, like chopping wood, or riding bikes together rather than to sit and talk. 

I recently visited a neighbor named, Greg, who’s wife left him and his two small children for another man. We talked for hours about his situation along with how he was feeling about her betrayal. His roommate and he had never discussed her leaving. I found it so strange that these two men did not talk about something that was clearly such a profound emotional issue for him. He had no way prior to my arrival of bouncing his feelings off another. He was apologetic about the way he opened up to me. He commented he did not normally share such private details with anyone. It is not unusual for people to open up in my presence, pouring out their hearts and tears to me without me doing anything.   

Sociologist Catherine Kohler Riessman reports in her new book "Divorce Talk," that most of the women she interviewed with only a few of the men, site communication issues as the reason for their divorce. With divorce statistics being over 50% of all marriages, communication between men and women is the greatest issue facing us today. Most wives want their partners to be partners in a conversation above all else while their husbands do not expect the same of their wives. Sex is non-verbal communication. When sex is good, verbal communication is also.

Without good communication, sex and love are meaningless. When sex goes away, there is no way to dissipate the tension between a couple. Attitude, reactivity, and negativity contribute towards poor communication.

Sex is the unspoken communication between a couple. When two people are in sync, sex becomes an art form of fluid movement. It creates mutual pleasure. There is an unspoken understanding between two people that comes from the ability to communicate their desires or wishes verbally and nonverbally. The spoken word assists the non-verbal communication to be clearly understood.  

We have seen the cartoon of the aging husband, a cup of coffee in one hand, with his nose in the morning paper. Pan to his wife looking angrily at the back of the newspaper, wanting to talk. Men typically do not express themselves the way women do. 

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Orgasm For Life: Men and Women Uncovered

Respect is one of the greatest expressions of love. Miguel Angel Ruiz

Hunt and Peck 

Men - Exposed 

Consider the male form for a moment. He is naturally hairy and his genitals hang outside of his body.  When he is aroused, there is no hiding the bulge in the front of his trousers. When relaxed, his scrotum is in constant motion. When he is hot, they drop so that their precious cargo, sperm, stays fertile. Too much heat in the kitchen could kill the sperm. 

When a man is cold his scrotum ride the elevator to the top floor and hug his body. Just this simple up-down process has got to be annoying. If nothing else, the constant sensation I would think would be a sentence stopper. Having all that sexual paraphernalia outside of a man’s body draws his attention to it because it moves around when he walks. When you think about it, having all those body parts in constant motion would make it impossible to think about much else. This is probably the underlying reason that men think about sex every 52 seconds. 

Men’s external sex organs are representative of their communication style, upfront and exposed. Men rarely hide what they think. Like their exposed body parts, when they are upset or angry they let you know. When you ask a man what he thinks, he’ll tell you straight. 

Women - Hidden, Buried And Covered Up

Women, on the other hand, have their beautiful lady parts tucked inside. Our vaginas are protected by our labia which never jiggle, flap or move in the breeze. They stay put. Our clitoris does not twitch or move when we walk and our labia majora does not shrink with the slightest breeze. No one knows when we are aroused by a thought, movie or book. Our slacks don’t form a telltale tent over our erect clitoris. Our vaginas remain faithfully tucked away, out of sight and out of mind. They don’t move around when we are cold, or hot and never give our arousal away. A woman’s sexual parts are lady-like and well hidden. They sit and stay when told. Women could be walking around in a constant state of arousal and no one would know. 

A woman's emotions are often hidden, cloaked in a fake smile, or a quiet, “I’m fine!”  When asked we rarely tell you exactly how we feel. We keep a lot of our feelings in the shadows, often in an attempt to keep the peace. We are often difficult to read and even harder to please.

Women often think that men are insensitive. That is simply not true. They have sensitivity, they just aren’t very sensitive to a woman’s needs. They don’t understand women, which is not surprising. They may not be able to communicate the way women want them to, but some can be just as sensitive emotionally as women, if not more. Men's needs are simple. 

Most men are happy if you give him sex when he wants it, fill his belly when he is hungry and treat him with the respect he deserves.  When happy he will treat his woman like a queen. Men enjoy sex when stressed. Most can go from zerio to sixty seemingly at the speed of light. Within two to ten minutes he can be happily falling asleep on his pillow immediately afterward. Sex calms and relaxes men. 

Women are far more complicated. We rarely tell our men what it is we need, and expect you to just intuitively know. For those men not equipped with psychic abilities, you are probably left in the dark when we get upset for seemingly no reason at all, then go storming off telling you “we’re fine!” Most women feel that their men don’t understand them. However, it is a rare women that can communicate what it is she really wants. When it comes to sex, only the most brave have the courage to tell you what does and Find my books on Amazon.com

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doesn’t feel good to us in the bedroom. We might be chatty Cathy’s in the kitchen, but “mmmm” is the word in the bedroom. 

Orgasm For Life: An Apology The Shoe-In

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Excerpt from Orgasm For Life

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

The No Holds Barred Guide for BLISS!

If a conflict is left unresolved, it could be a cold snowy day in Miami before you have sex again. Women can’t fight with their partner during the day, then cartwheel into the splits in bed ready to open their legs at night. Disagreements need to be resolved before bedtime if you want to have good oral sex. 

Going to bed angry is never a good thing. Sometimes we can’t help it. A genuine apology and acknowledgment of our partner’s experience can smooth the waters, opening the door to intimacy. I know several men who never apologized in all the years they were married. A person who can't apologize is operating from ego rather than their heart. These men were just plain stupid. 

A genuine apology will get you more sex than flowers will. I was married to one of these stupid men. When the fairer sex are the only ones apologizing, there will be more snow in Miami! There are many things to be remembered for, this is not one that should go down in the Guinness Book of World Records! It takes a really big person to apologize and a small one to hold a grudge. That apology will get you more loving than you ever thought possible. Just make sure you mean it.

Women are emotional creatures. We need romance, appreciation, acceptance and to feel loved. Women don’t feel loved when dinner has been criticized or we have been berated. We won’t have sex with our partners if they don’t apologize for being an ass. We are different from men. Our mind has to be in the game, or we simply turn off. We can be really stubborn creatures at times. I have known women to hang onto anger for months. Forgiveness is better for you than the person you forgive. When you are able to let go of the past, you will be much more likely to become ecstatic in the bedroom.

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If this article helped you, please share it with a friend. Sharing is caring! If you are ready to take your life, relationship, or self-esteem to the next level, book your FREE discovery session right now! 

Aphrodite Effect is all about the effect of LOVE on all that we do. Venus was the Greek Goddess of love. She was an ageless beauty, powerful, strong, respected, sexual and knew who she was. She loved herself

fearlessly. Love gives us power, ageless beauty, and deep connection. Set up your FREE discovery session with me here (A $397 Value). JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com

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Love Oral Sex But Wonder Are You At Risk For Throat or Mouth Cancer?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

There is no doubt that most women love receiving oral sex. I know I do. It is the fastest way for most women to reach an orgasm without breaking a sweat! What's not to like? 

Human papillomavirus (HPV) is on the rise. Throat cancers have more than quadrupled over the last ten years as well.  HPV is the most common sexually transmitted disease (STD). According to the Centers for Disease Control, 90% of the population has been infected with HPV. Most people's natural immune system clears up the infection within eighteen months. Some, however, turns into cancer.

Throat Cancer Caused By Oral Sex

Throat cancer is usually not detected until a lump is found on the neck. Men usually find it while shaving. By the time a lump is found, the lymph nodes are usually cancerous.

HPV does not mean that you are promiscuous. It also doesn't mean your partner has been cheating on you. Most people who are sexually active get HPV at some point in their lives. I had it when I was in my late thirties. 

Within weeks of my diagnosis, I returned for a recheck and found the HPV had thankfully cleared up by itself. Before being cleared of the infection, my gynecologist recommended cryosurgery, which I declined. I chose to allow my body to heal it naturally. 

Cryosurgery involves a freezing of the cervix with liquid nitrogen, although sometimes carbon dioxide and argon are also used. The extreme cold temperatures of -346º F to -320º F kill whatever comes in contact with it.

Famous People In The News

You may remember that actor Michael Douglas was treated for stage 4 throat cancer. He announced publicly that it was from oral sex with someone that had HPV. Douglas was playing Liberace at the time in the movie Behind The Candelabra.  HPV is responsible for half of the oral cancers according to the CDC. 

Signs Of HPV

Most people have no symptoms at all. Genital warts, anal and penile lesions can form. Read more about STDs here. 

Increased Risk of HPV

The following have been known, to cause an increased risk of getting HPV.

• smoking or chewing tobacco
• long-term contraceptive use (birth control pills)
• having three or more children
• compromised immune system
• chronic inflammation
• poor oral hygiene

How Can You Prevent HPV?

• Use a condom when having sexual contact
• Abstain from sex until you know someone well
• Get tested for STDs regularly and always before engaging in unprotected sex with a new partner
• Be circumcised
• Get vaccinated (know there are risks involved with vaccination - do your research)

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Are You One of 17 Million Men?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Secrets eat away at over 17 million American men every day. One in sex men has a deep secret that never goes away no matter how hard they try. These men have kept the fact that they were molested by a priest, Boy Scout leader, parent or other person of authority. Most men don't report their abuser and rarely seek the help that they need.

Having been molested myself, I know how negatively we are affected by molestation. Molestation occurs when a person six years older or more encourages, or forces a child to participate in fondling, touching of genitals. Penetration need not occur for serious damage to the pshyche to occur. For those who are married to someone who has been molested there are signs to look for. I have experienced this also, I have the utmost compassion for those who have been molested. Please know I am here to help. Healing these issues can save your marriage.

Signs Of Molestation:

1. Bonds quickly and then pulls away for no apparent reason.
2. May reject sex and intimacy later on in the relationship seemingly for no reason.
3. Fear of intimacy.
4. Low self-esteem. Feels inadequate and lowly.
5. Guilt or shame ridden.
6. Anger that comes out of nowhere.
7. Depression.
8. Lethargy.
9. May be hypervigilant of your children.
10. Hypermasculine. Into every sport imaginable to prove their masculinity.
11. Negative.
12. Turning off emotion.
13. Has difficulty expressing vulnerability
14. Sex may be completely void of emotion or closeness.

Most men do not seek help because it means that they have to admit that they were coerced or forced to do something. It seems weak and unmanly. However, as children especially if we were raised to listen to our elders, we capitulate easily to a person in a position of authority. Fear is a large part of how children were manipulated into molestation. Threats of hurting a siblig or parent are often present. 

The first step is to get some help. Keeping these secrets hidden continues to threaten your emotional and physical health and any long-term relationship you are in.  People that have been molested often distance themselves from the person closest to them through anger or rejection of sexual and emotional intimacy.

What Can You Do Now?

Read my book; Odyssey Victim To Victory. This book details my journey from secrets and feeling inadequate, depressed and shut down, to no longer having the past define me. Visit my website and read about me. 

Set up a discovery session with me to find out if my work is a good fit for you. Healing begins with your willingness to move forward and heal the past. Pain is what drove me to seek help. When your inner pain stops you from having joy, happiness and deep love in your life, you will want to begin to heal. Ignoring these issues does not make them go away. It only keeps intimacy, closeness and real love from your life. I do hope you will get the help that you so deserve.

My new program FROM TAINTED TO TRUE LOVE will help you start your healing process.

Much Love to you,

Jennifer