She Wanted True Love Versus An Arranged Marriage: Love Won!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

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It was the summer of 2011. I had just published my first book and was quite active on FaceBook. A woman from a foreign country was Guided to contact me. She knew somehow; I could help her find the love she desired. Finding love for someone wasn't new to me, but finding love under the gun of an arranged marriage was. 

When we began working together, Falak told me her father was insisting on an arranged marriage as she was getting on (in his mind) and must get married soon. 

She was well educated and independent, but afraid to be alone. She had a growing homeopathic practice in her hometown. Falak and her father had an agreement that as long as she could find someone quickly (within six months) he would allow her to find someone she loved. (No pressure!)

We worked together for about three months. We worked on self-love issues and letting go of the fear of being alone. Over the time we worked together, Falak's confidence grew. I asked her to follow my intuitive guidance even when it might appear counterintuitive. She trusted me.

She was dating a gentleman whom she didn't love. I instructed her to break up with him immediately. There is an energetic reason to get out of a relationship when they aren't right for you. Continuing to date someone you know isn't right for you will create bad karma. What goes around comes around. Be honorable. If you know the person you are with isn't someone that you want to go the distance with, let them go. 

Breaking up with someone will allow the room for another more suitable person to show up. Breaking up creates a vacuum. The universe hates a vacuum and will quickly fill it back up.

She blessed the gentleman she was dating by letting him go. Breaking up meant he had the ability to attract someone else that loved him back. 

Within two weeks she met someone under mysterious circumstances that she liked and was attracted to. Falak and Awais began to spend time together until he had to fly back to the Virginia in the US where he had a business. Her first reaction was to be concerned about his girlfriend in the US. 

As an intuitive, I knew he was honorable. I asked her to continue to trust me and not to harass him with phone calls or texting and to allow him the time he needed to break up with the woman he had seen in Virginia. It was difficult for Falak to stay centered and grounded when the man she loved was across the ocean doing who knows what? I asked her if she wanted a man who was honorable? She said she did. How a man treats his previous girlfriend is an indication of how he will treat you. If he is kind to her, he will also be kind to you. 

I knew he was breaking up with his past girlfriend gently and kindly. I recommended to Falak that Awais work with me to clear any issues between the two of them. 

She asked him to work with me, while he was in the US. I cleared issues with the family and anything standing in the way of the two of them being together. I cleared self-sabotage, issues of abandonment and rejection for both of them as well as past life issues. The fact that he would work with me at Falak's request was a very good sign. 

While he and I worked together, I had a vision of him proposing once he returned to India. I knew to keep my vision to myself. True to my vision a trip in November was planned for his return to India.

I continued to coach Falak to stay grounded and centered and not focus on him leaving or being unable to commit. I recommended she begin to give gratitude to God and The Universe for her lovely man and soon-to-be husband. I also had her envision her wedding to Awais. 

In November of 2011, within months of us beginning to work together, Awais proposed to Falak. I was invited to their wedding in India. I was unable to leave my daughter who was in High School at the time. 

Before the wedding issues began to surface with Awais' mother. She was rejecting Falak and appeared jealous. I cleared Awais, his mother and Falak's morphogenic field (their joint energetic fields). Falak and Awais's mother had a past life together where they had been business partners. Whether you believe in past lives or not, clearing their energy was enough for the tension to be eradicated and their wedding went off in January 2012, without a hitch. 

In 2014, Falak and Awais visited my daughter and me in Los Angeles. They were gloriously happy together. While eating lunch I told Falak, I felt she would be pregnant soon. By the time she returned to India, Falak had reached out to tell me I was correct she got pregnant while in the US! 

Last week Falak gave birth to their second child, a beautiful little girl.  

Since 2011, I have helped many women clear the issues standing in the way of their true love relationship. No relationship is perfect, but with the perfect person for you, it can be magical. Falak and Awais had a deep soul connection which has propelled them to work together teaching children in India. They are a very tight couple. 

Congratulations Dr. Falak and Awais on your beautiful little girl!

Love is available for each of us. Sometimes, we have to get the help we need so we can get out of our way. Why not set up your private discovery session with Jennifer to see how you can have the love you desire too!

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is an intuitive healer, love and passion coach. She holds five certifications in healing modalities. You may send her a private message or set up a private session by phone or Skype here. 

She is the author of the forthcoming book:

Happy Here, Happy Anywhere

The Guide to Overcoming Anxiety, Depression and Unhappiness Without A Prescription 

What Do Kobe Bryant, Tiger Woods and Marilyn Monroe Have In Common?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Kobe Bryant, Tiger Woods, Marilyn Monroe, Elle MacPherson and so many other greats all have coaches. They did not get to where they are in life going it alone. You know why? Because it is impossible to see what we are doing for ourselves. Only when another points out what could improve our score, swing, acting, or life can we improve. Everyone needs a coach to improve, including me. I did not get here all by myself. I had masters, teachers and gurus who taught me everything they knew.

I have recently been captivated by Marilyn Monroe's story. Born Norma Jean, her mother was taken from her and put into a mental institution. Like my mother, without the love of a mother or father, we develop deep insecurities and even mental instability. In my case, I had a mother, but she was horribly damaged from being an orphan at 5. She could not love unconditionally, praise or support her children in a healthy way. Many of us have had traumatic childhoods. These patterns can be shifted, removed and new patterns created which shift the DNA, permanently. 

Crazed and Chaotic?

How do I know, because I did it. I felt absolutely crazy into my late 30's. Early abuse left me damaged, shame filled, guilt ridden and broken. I felt shattered and ugly. I had an addictive personality, craving and looking for love through sex, that left me further broken and empty. 

What I have come to know is that parts of our soul shatter like glass when intense situations impact us, that we can't handle. These soul fragments splinter and fly off into the ethers. Sounds incredible, but it is true. As a result our chakra system becomes blocked, we develop health issues which plague us until patterns are cleared and removed. I have worked with thousands of traumatized people with PTSD, abuse and other traumas that this is like a miracle for their soul.

Norma Jean had to have help. If it wasn't anti-depressants, sleeping pills, wake-up pills, she had a team of people who cajoled, encouraged and kept her on track. Without these people, Marilyn would not ever have been the star that she was. They did not help her heal, but they kept her together so that she could do her movies. They told her how to look, talk, stand, walk. Marilyn was far more intelligent than most people remember. She felt broken.

Pain, unhappiness, depression and suffering don't have to be a part of your life experience. How do I know? I used to be depressed. For over 20 years I suffered from severe depression, insomnia, irrational fears, body pain, Fibromyalgia an auto- immune disease and chaos in my inner world. I overreacted when people made simple comments and took everything personally. I was a prickly pear, hard to love. I was so blocked and resistant to love, because I hated myself. I thought I loved myself, but that was my over-compensating EGO, that helped me (so my ego thought) to feel better. I couldn't accept love if it was delivered on a silver platter, which many times it was.

I changed my life a little at a time. I took anti-depressants and almost killed myself falling asleep at the wheel while on prozac. I drove 3 exits past my work before I woke up enough to realize I had gone too far! I stopped taking prozac, because I knew it was killing me. I got off Benadryl, when I was able to stop the worry and endless mind chatter. I began to do work I absolutely loved to do, that fulfilled me. In my school days, I was thought to be a slow learner. I always had comments on my report cards, "Can do better." What changed?

I began to tap into a higher power. I began to hear God's voice and that of my guides. My higher self also became evident and permanently connected and grounded within me. I meditated regularly. For over 8 years I have meditated twice a day. My mind chatter left when I had consistent meditation practice. But I had spiritual teachers, gurus and spiritual masters who guided me. I paid big bucks for classes and certifications so that I could heal myself. I have experienced deep states of bliss, called satori which changed me permanently. 

How have I gotten more wise, calm and peaceful? Through consistent hard work and spiritual practice. If an issue came up and I reacted to it, I asked myself tough questions. I looked within for answers. I followed guidance. As each relationship ended, I did personal analytics. I was not afraid to look at my own issues. When men lied to me and cheated on me, I asked myself, "Where do I lie to me? How do I cheat myself?' It took time, effort and consistency. I sometimes took one step forward and three steps back.

Doing Away With Fear

My fears subsided. All my life I had been incredibly fearful. Suddenly I realized I had no more fear. My deep spiritual connection and love for myself shifted EVERYTHING. I stopped trying to control my children, or anyone else. 

Control

We try to control our environment and others when we are afraid. These fears are usually grounded in the past from a traumatic event which imprinted you with this fear. All fears can be healed. Manipulation is a part of control. Manipulation is dishonest. It comes from not being authentic, lying about who you are. You are afraid to ask outright for what you want, so you manipulate to get it instead. Believe me I know, I was the Queen of Manipulators. We can't possibly be happy when we are inauthentic, controlling or manipulating. All these behaviors lead to a disruption in your energetic field.

Healing All Relationships

My relationship with my mother and everyone else was healed like magic, when I stepped into my authentic self and personal power. Instead of being the person others wanted me to be, I became authentically me. I could get my point across with a soft voice, no yelling to be heard or listened to. Without healing your past, you can't have a happy future. This is what I help others with. Even those who say they have done inner child work, or healed relationships with family, if you are not living the life of love, joy and happiness, your relationships have not been healed. It is not possible to live a life of joy and bliss everyday when you are holding resentment or anger towards anyone for the past.

Anger

If you experience road rage, eruptive or explosive anger, are quick to anger or get upset, you have healing to do. Until you have let go and healed the past, these issues will continue to plague you. For men, you probably had HTP, or premature ejaculation. 

Anger has a purpose. There is a difference between being angry because someone wants to send you videos of themselves masturbating..... or crosses your boundaries in other ways. But that anger subsides quickly. The type of anger I am talking about is seething, or volcanic anger. This type will blow a gasket in your heart or cause cancer in your body. Resentment will do the same thing. Even after cancer surgery, radiation and chemo, if your brain waves and way of thinking have not changed, the cancer will return. There has to be a change of behavior for healing to have occurred. If you are still doing the same thing the same way, there has been no healing.

It's Time

How long have you known your life could be better, but have not been able to do anything about it? I am committed to working with you, I promise to help you improve your life, but you have to do your part. You have daily and weekly work to do. With that commitment, I know I can help you improve your life, shift your thought patterns and focus so that you stop critiquing yourself and others. When you do, you begin to accept yourself as well. 

Have You Done It On Your Own?

I did it on my own. But it took me over 30 years to get there. Each of us has trauma and difficulties in our life. These are put in our lives to spur us on to greatness. Healing your life on your own could take several lifetimes. Tiger Woods, Elle MacPherson and Marilyn Monroe all had coaches for a reason. We need help getting there. 

Traditional therapy keeps you stuck in a paradigm of suffering and repeating your story. It does not move you  forward. I know I have done years of it. It did not help me. Repeating your story over again only perpetuates the energy that created it. 

From Albert Einstein:

"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."

No matter the type of trauma, abuse, addicted, abusive or absent parents, those issues can be overcome. I will lovingly hold your feet to the fire, lift your spirits, raise your vibrations through the different modalities that I have mastered that remove patterns, stuck and trapped emotions that keep you repeating the same things over and over. Until the trapped emotions are removed, you continue broadcasting on the same frequency, attracting more situations you don't want.

If it isn't cancer, diabetes, or sciatica that is plaguing you, it could be unhappiness in your relationships. This does not mean you need to dump the person you are with, necessarily, but look at things from a different perspective. Once you begin to shift, your partner will too! It only takes one person to heal a relationship. 

I am committed to help you grow, shift and refocus so that your life is one that is loving, fulfilling, happy and peaceful. If you saw me 40 years ago, you would never know that this ME, is the same person. Your soul is ready to be polished, sandblasted so that the hurts, and emotional baggage is eliminated and no longer running your world. I am so convinced that I can help you that I am offering a no risk guarantee. If you do your homework consistently and the exercises I give you consistently, I promise that your life will improve. 

Why You Want To Work With Someone Who Has Been There

There are all sorts of coaches out there who are certified. I have met them in mastermind groups and they are out there selling their products. When I sat down to talk to many of them, I found many have more issues than I did 20 years ago. You want to work with someone that has been there, healed their own lives with a proven track record and is happy in their life. Someone that models the behavior that they teach. Not someone who pays you lip service and does not walk the walk. If you don't believe me, I'll give you my mother's phone number and she will confirm all that I say is true. But you better hurry up, she is 92! 

I am ready to be in your corner to help you co-create a beautiful nurturing, loving joy and peace-filled life you absolutely adore! If you don't have the relationship you want now, or the life you want now, e-mail me. Set up a strategy session with me and we will get your life party started! Life is a game, you just have to know the rules. I will teach you all I have learned, which has changed my life and so many others! 

I committed my life to serving the upliftment of humanity's consciousness. This is my calling. Allow me to help you find yours. 

With all my love,

Jennifer

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Doing The Easiest Thing Rather Than The BEST THING

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

We all have responsibilities and jobs to do. Long ago I resolved to be the best at whatever it was I was doing. I may not be the best in the world, but I do the best I can possibly do in my work, coaching and life.

Sometimes we find others that would rather do the easiest thing, rather than the best or the RIGHT thing. I encountered this today, when a client informed me that a letter she wrote to me was returned with "insufficient address." She asked me what was missing on the envelope. There was nothing missing. I wondered if I had died and the post office was returning my mail because of my death. Nope! That is not the case. Still very much alive. 

My daughter's brand new driver's license had not arrived after over a month. We were beginning to wonder what was going on. I had decided to visit the DMV when I was next in town and see what was going on. Since my daughter only has another month here before moving to Colorado for college, it is imperative she has her license. 

My regular mail carrier knows my daughter and I by name. He even knows our dogs. I knew he was not the issue. I wondered if the post office had added something to the zip code that I was not aware of? No. That was not the issue either. They also informed me that I appeared very much alive. That was good to know. I felt so much better.

The post master called Roy, my mail carrier and he replied he had not returned any of our mail. The post master began to dig deeper, because we had Christmas gifts returned and all sorts of other things in the past for no apparent reason. 

What he found was that there were four routes with my street name. Several were with much higher numbers. A female carrier was given my mail by mistake. Rather than locate the correct route and carrier, she had arbitrarily marked my mail, "INSUFFICIENT ADDRESS!"

Laziness, ineptness and apathy are my biggest pet peeves. This woman is just the type that gives "government workers" their bad name. She did not try. She did not ask. She did what was the easiest for her to do. She did not want to walk to the post master or her supervisor and ask what to do. She took the easy way out.

As You Do ONE THING Is How You DO EVERYTHING!

Where in your life do you take the easy way out? Are you  lazy in bed, life or your relationships? Do you slough off your duties, or take the easy way out? Being the best you can be involves all areas of your life. The best mother, father, lover, husband, wife or friend. Will you go to the ends of the earth to help, assist or give? Or do you take the lazy way? Giving your all and being the best you can be involves positive energy, rather than negativity. 

Be The Best You Can Be

Being the best version of yourself helps you feel better about you on a daily basis. You don't have to look back and beat yourself up for not doing your best. Your best may be better than the next person, but it may not be equal to someone else's best. Knowing you are doing your best on any given moment will fill you with satisfaction and happiness knowing that you are being the best version of you.

When you are giving your all, you can attest to that fact. "Sir, I did my level best, Sir, yes sir!" Well maybe your wife is not a drill Sargent, but she might appreciate your humor. You know you gave it all and held nothing back. When all is said and done, knowing you gave your all throughout your life, will give you the satisfaction of knowing you were the best version of you and helped raise your neighbor, your children, your family and the global vibration of humanity a little bit more. Giving your all - makes you feel good about yourself. Leave nothing on the table. Give it all! At the end of your life when you are asked, "Did you give your all?" You can answer honestly, "Yes, Sir I did."

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is an authentic psychic coach. She values honesty, integrity and gives her all in her coaching. She is available for private coaching sessions for Life, Love, Sex and Relationship coaching. Her foundational work is Self Love. Her Love Yourself Fearlessly Program is transformational. Many people meet their soul mates while going through or just following her programs.

Her website is: www.JenniferElizabethMasters.com Schedule your discovery session with Jennifer to see if you are a good fit for her programs.

Orgasm for LIFE!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

My coaching and healing work with women over the years has led me to some very interesting discoveries. Women with sexual dysfunction have most likely been molested. Women who get cervical and other sexual cancers were probably molested. 40% of all women have some form of sexual dysfunction. When I say dysfunction, I am referring to what used to be called frigidity. They can't or have difficulty achieving orgasm.

In an older post I refer to the fact that 80% of women fake orgasm. This is due in part to women not being able to ask for what they need, not knowing what they need and men not understanding a woman's body. 

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Trauma stays in the cells of the vaginal tissue. If it is not released it causes pain and dysfunction during sex. I walk the readers of Orgasm for Life through the gentle way to release and heal this physical manifestation of the trauma from the body. I give careful and detailed instructions that can be used at home. 

Why Women Say NO!

Women need 45 minutes of foreplay on average, where men sometimes need none. There is a huge disparity between males and females in the need for stimulation. Most couples according to the Durex sex survey have 10 minute couplings. Which only makes the majority of women frustrated. Sexual frustration can cause resentment and anger as well as a refusal to have sex. Perhaps, men will have a greater understanding of why women say "NO!" If you were pleasing your partner with regularity, you would get a lot more YES answers. Think about it this way, how would you feel if you had sex with a partner for 26 years and could count the number of orgasms you had on two fingers? Would you want to continue doing things the same way? 

How To Get Her To Say YES! YES! YES!

I am currently working on a new book. The title of the book is an eye and ear catching title, Orgasm For Life. My friend, William Dargin came up with the title. Thank you William!

The purpose of this book is to teach women about their own bodies. When women know and understand what they need, and feels good to themselves, they are better able to explain to their partners. Men are like PCs and women are like Macintosh computers. Talking directly to one another with our operating systems is next to impossible. We can't direct-connect. We need an Interface. Our bodies are different, our operating systems are different and we are certainly different emotionally. Orgasm for Life provides the Interface between men and women.  It isn't bad or wrong, we are just DIFFERENT!

Orgasm for Life is a frank, light-hearted look at our differences and similarities. It teaches, it provides deep wisdom and understanding that I garnered from my 4 marriages and divorces. I have learned what doesn't work very well! I also have learned what does work. This is what I teach in Orgasm for Life.

Today I began a funding for this book on Indiegogo a crowdfunding site. Here is the link to my campaign. If you can contribute in a small or large way, I appreciate it. I thank you in advance for whatever you can do, big or small. Without your help, this project will be challenging. 

http://igg.me/at/Orgasmforlife/x/5470259  

When I wrote my first book,  Odyssey Victim to Victory I had no idea what it took to create a best seller. I was ill equipped financially and mentally for the challenge. Today is different. I am very excited about this new project and will continue to post here when I can, as I am in the midst of writing and finishing Orgasm for Life. 

If you are able to contribute to this cause, I appreciate it, more than you know. If you are able to spread the word, help me get a television or radio interview that is appreciated as well. This book is a win-win for men and women the world over. Healthy communication outside the bedroom, deeper intimacy in the relationship and greater understanding and compassion will lead to fulfilling sex, deeper love and happier people.
Happier people means a happier and healthier planet. We all want that! Make LOVE not war......  Orgasm for LIFE!

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Don't Make Your Man Your Project

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Love Him The Way He Is

Humans were designed to be in pairs. Scientists have proven that we live longer when married. Finding happiness for many depends on having a relationship to do so. Having someone to curl up with at the end of the day, to share our life with can enhance our lives in so many ways. Regular sex keeps our bodies functioning optimally and helps to fulfill us. Even the way our bodies were formed indicates that we are the yin to our mates yang. We were created like two pieces of a puzzle that fit beautifully together. We were meant to be in relationships.

Today we have more options and opportunities to meet potential partners. Internet dating has changed prospecting for that golden relationship. We have access to endless possibilities and choices. Paying attention early during the dating process allows you to assess how good a fit the two of you will be. Where women go astray is when they deny traits by making excuses or explaining away their partner's deficits. They think they can live with these undesirable traits in their potential partners; then set about to change them after they are married. This is one of the biggest traps for codependent women. When we set about to change our partner, we are sending the message that they aren't good enough and neither are we.

If you have done your own internal work and raised your vibration sufficiently to attract a healthy, balanced man, congratulations! If not, you may find yourself following thousands of women into the trap of trying to change your man or "fix him."

One thing is for sure, if you can't accept him the way he is, move on! The surest way to piss off your partner is to attempt to mold him into something different. What you don't realize is that making a man your "project" is an indication that you are not happy with you. Trying to fix someone else takes the attention away from you and magnifies the warts and faults that your partner has. If you are not happy with your partner and feel the need to change him, look inside yourself instead. 

Let's face it, unless you are the Dalai Lama, or Mother Theresa you probably aren't perfect either. Accepting your partner as they are is the biggest gift you can give them. The more compassionate and loving you are to you, the more compassionate, accepting and allowing you will be of your partner or spouse.

"If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion." — Dalai Lama -

Do You Nag?

Nagging and complaining about your partner's actions will not win you Brownie points either. No one wants to have their faults pointed out to them or to be corrected whenever we make a mistake. This role puts you in the parental seat. Do you really want to be his Mamma? Seriously, would you want to get cozy and make love to someone who is criticising your every move? I don't think so. It you are one who nags and complains you are not happy with yourself. Being in a state of allowing means that you accept others as they are. The happier you are with yourself, the more allowing and compassionate you will be with others.

Keep Repeating The Same Mistakes?

If you find yourself married and divorced several times, you have limiting patterns that are running your life. You can break free of old patterns. Doing so by yourself is nearly impossible. It took me 30 years of deep work and introspection to get to the place of total self acceptance and compassion with myself and others. I use tools like a relationship matrix that helps you see your patterns and how each of your relationships resembles your previous ones in many respects. 

Working with someone who is free of limiting beliefs and is able to help you get to the root of your issues quickly is key. I help you shift your perspective and help you fall in love with yourself, your family, your soul and your gifts. The more in love with you, the more others will be magnetized to you also. Having a deep love and respect for yourself has the added benefit of helping you be successful and more prosperous. Money and love have the same vibration - that of LOVE! 

Money Issues?

If you are suffering from lack consciousness, it is because you don't love and accept yourself they way you are. Through my Love Yourself Fearlessly coaching program I help you let go of perfectionism, control and fear. You will begin to trust yourself. You see yourself with new eyes. You don't change, your perspective does. As your triggers are cleared you become less reactive and more balanced. You sink in to your True Self and step into the empowered you. You won't be ruled by your emotions.

How much have you spent on divorces? How much time have you wasted being unhappy. Don't you think you are worth the investment in you?

Jennifer is a gifted certified Self Love coach, hypnotherapist and energy healer. Her book Odyssey Victim to Victory details her journey from depression, negativity and low self esteem to joy in every breath every day. When you are happy with you, it does not matter where you live or whether you are alone or with a partner you feel happy and grounded in the moment. Call Jennifer now to schedule your discovery session to see if you and she are a good fit. (770) 480-5500. Or email Jennifer .

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