7 Powerful Tips To Bring Love To Your Bedroom

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Bachelor's looking for a loving woman to marry and a delicious home-cooked meal or single women who would love to lean against a strong man on her couch at night watching Netflix can both benefit from Feng Shui. 

Dating can be a challenge. Feng Shui can be employed to attract a mate and give you better chances at the odds even while on a date. Feng Shui works for same-sex couples as well. No matter what kind of partnership you are searching for, Feng Shui will help you attract a new love or relationship.

Make It Hot!

1. Place a nightstand on either side of your bed.

2. Put a lamp on each bedside table. Leave the lamps dimly

    lit for three hours each night for 27 days in a row and turn

    them off at the same time and those lamps won't be the  

    only thing that is turned on! Use the first two to attract a 

    partner fast!

3. Make room in your closet for a partner's clothes.

4. Add scented candles essential oils like Ylang Ylang and

    objects that delight the senses and create a sensual 

    environment. 

5. Ensure your bed isn't up against the wall. To attract a 

    partner, you want your bed to be welcoming so that both of

    you can easily get in on each side of the bed.

6. Know your Kua direction, wear your colors on a date and

    sit in your Kua direction while on a date to enhance and

    empower you. Katie Weber is an expert at Feng Shui and  

    has her own Kua Calculator.

7. Make sure you have a solid headboard, or your money and relationship will drain away. A solid headboard supports both money and love. Metal isn't a supportive energy for most people. If you are a wood element or a water sign wood is what you need for support while you sleep. More Feng Shui Cures For Love and Romance.

For those of you who are still having difficulty, you need my Infinite Love course. This course eliminates the blocks that are keeping love from you unconsciously, like me. I found that I was fiercely independent. I had a block to having a man in my life. Maybe you need a personal session with me to clear your blocks? Before I recognized and cleared it my unconscious mantra was:

I don't need a man! 

Feng Shui Symbols To Banish From Your Bedroom

• Flowers in the bedroom are a no-no, neither silk nor real flowers at all, not on quilts, images or headboards. Flowers add a yang energy. If you are looking for a male flowers, compete with his energy. 

• Water in the bedroom is like a cold shower for passion - though water is great for wealth, it isn't in used in the bedroom
• no shells, fish figurines as they represent water

• ensure you have no singular images in your bedroom, images of one flower, one tree, one bird will keep relationships at bay

Know your best Kua colors:

Your Kua allows you to tap into your best success direction. Success in relationships, love, and business.

Kathryn Weber is A Feng Shui ConsultantAccording to Katie Weber's Kua Calculator,  

If your love direction is….

North Wear blues or black

South Wear red, green or brown

East/SE Wear green, black or blue

West/NW Wear white, beige, yellow or purple

SW/NE Wear yellow, beige, orange, red, purple

Men

Bachelors need to include feminine energy in their homes to attract a mate. If you are looking for a home-cooked meal or someone to warm your bed including feminine energy in your space will allow you to do just that. Include images of flowers in groups, magnolias, peonies or orchids which bring in family luck. Include images of women who look happy, pairs of objects like two vases two lamps, that a woman would find attractive and balances your masculine energy.

Women

Adding bright colors that are appealing to men in your bedroom rather than pinks and pastel blues will add some masculine energy to your home. Add a little red, in a pillow sham for passion.

Looking to Draw In A Husband?

If you are looking for a special man in your life add symbols to your living room that men would like, horses or dragons work well. Remember that these symbols need to be kept out of the bedroom. Keep the southwest dimly lit and add images of a happy couple or man that you find attractive also in the southwest corner. Put away photos of your kids and keep only an image of the handsome man or happy couple visible.

Creating Sacred Space For Peace And Harmony 

Avoid too many dark colors as they can add too much yin or feminine energy and can cut you off from romance. Introduce bright colors and lights to brighten up your home.

When you go out wear red to emphasize your passionate side. Avoid the gorgeous little black dress in your closet. Red is far more attractive to men than black. Remember the song?

Contact Jennifer: JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com

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Feng Shui For Love, Romance And Wealth For 2017

Women Use The Golden Opportunity To Ask A Man Out

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

If you are single looking for a relationship, there are two mindsets. The first one is where we sit at home and hopefully dream and pray for an attractive man to fall out of the sky into our laps, and we will live happily ever after. The second and more grounded perspective is that if we want love we have to go for it. 

Don't get me wrong, I am a firm believer in the Law of Attraction even in the dating world. We get what we think and focus on. We also attract what we are. What if that opportunity for that perfect person for you presents itself and he doesn't ask for your number? We have to take matters into our own hands and make the first move. 

We might miss our Golden Opportunity here's why:

Unusual Ways To Meet High-Quality Men

1. Men can be shy and afraid of rejection. Men have been the sole risk taker for eons. Men have historically asked for a first date, asked for our hand in marriage. However, times have changed. We've changed. Men can be afraid of us women. 

Seriously, we women can be pretty scary at times. In fact, how many times have we yelled at a guy for whistling, ogling or making a move on us? Men don't know what women want. 

Asking a woman for a date, or to marry him all have a huge risk of rejection. While it is a scary thing for men to ask a woman out, taking a risk yourself can be rewarded. No matter your age, asking a guy out on a date can be the best thing you ever did.

Case in point: I attended a New Year's party with a friend. I met many people at the party, but one man stood out head and shoulders above the rest. I gave him my card after talking to him for two hours (which should have given him a clue I was interested), and he never bothered to call. He was a really nice man but had some deep insecurities. 

I took my experience on New Year's Eve as a lesson. If I like someone, I need to let them know it. Otherwise, I would feel like I missed an opportunity and would feel regret. I wrote about regret in Orgasm For Life.

The more we live our life with regret, the more regrettable moments we have. JEM

2. Sometimes men are totally clueless and don't pick up on our tossing our hair, intent interest in their every word or our cool demeanor which is meant to draw them in because we are so so hot! Making the first move can be the only way you get a second chance with someone you meet. Don't expect a man to understand or pick up on your queues. Many men are oblivious to body language.

3. Golden Opportunities don't come around every day. When you are presented with an opportunity, take the risk as there are only two ways it can go, he'll say yes, or he'll say no. If you never ask you may leave the party, gathering or grocery store and never see him again. Take the risk rather than miss out on the love of a lifetime.

4. There is always a risk in love. Those events in our life that are monumental and life changing don't happen every day. Whether it is publishing your first book, a blog, starting a new business or telling your family you are gay, we have to risk to get what we really want. To have love we have to step out of our little box of comfort and risk everything. We have to risk someone seeing us completely naked and authentic. We have to risk someone not loving us to have someone love us like we've never been loved before. 

Playing it safe isn't going to get you that amazing jaw-dropping and heart-stopping butterflies or incredible sex, deep connection and bliss of being with a person who exceeds your expectations on all levels. 

To have love we have to risk it all.

5. Better to live with a bruised ego than to miss your Golden Opportunity that may only come once in a lifetime. Don't live your life with regret because of some old rule book about what women shouldn't do. Regret is a terrible thing. Regret is what we feel after we see someone amazing, handsome, intelligent, funny, sexy, talented and then leave without letting him know, "I'd love to have coffee or tea with you some time and just share stories."

When we don't reach for and grab that brass ring, the next time another opportunity might present itself like this one could be never.

I deserve it! Yes I do!
I am worth it! Yes I am!
I am loveable! Oh HELL YES!

To work with Jennifer send her an e-mail or visit her website and sign up for her newsletter and private events. Jennifer will help you get out of your own way and find love no matter where you live!

8 Things To Never Do On Your Dating Profile

Unusual Places To Meet High-Quality Men

Love Takes A Leap of Faith And Bravery

By  Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Humans were meant to be partnered. We live longer when we have someone who cares about us and generally we are much happier than those who live alone. It is certainly more fun to have sex with a partner than by ourselves and shopping, eating and doing the mundane are much more enjoyable when we have someone to share our lives with.

Find out about my six-week course to shift core beliefs and patterns about love.

Yet, so many people live alone. Why?

We don't want to leap.

We block ourselves with our thinking. Do any of these statements sound like you?

• There's no one out there who would love me
• I'm too old
• I'm not attractive enough
• I'm not intelligent enough
• I don't want to be hurt again
• I want someone, but it's too painful to even think about
• It's too much trouble to date
• I don't even know what to do or where to start
• What if I get hurt again
• I don't want to go through another heartache or breakup
• I'm too set in my ways

We focus on what we don't want rather than what we do want. We keep attracting exactly what we don't want. I will help you get past those blocks and get out of your own way to feel sacred, loved, appreciated and adored. Yes, it is possible. 

Our beliefs stand in our way of having love. If we don't believe love is possible, we won't find it. If we feel we are unworthy of love, or unloveable, we won't have the bravery we need to go for it. We get in our own way. 

It isn't that all the good guys have been taken, or that there are no women left worth having. 

• Clear those debilitating beliefs that prevent you from having love

• Understand how your thoughts have created the life you have

• Recognize the red flags and stop explaining them away

• Notice when actions don't match words

• Don't settle - you don't have to

• Find out why we stay with people we shouldn't and get the tools to prevent repeating this damaging behavior

• You deserve love

• You are loveable

Tainted To True Love begins in May. Go beyond where you have before and take the LEAP to have the love you have been waiting for. 

This course is highly beneficial to couples and singles. It will shift your negative thinking about love, your partner or potential partner.

Much Love to you!

Jennifer

8 Unusual And Different Ways To Meet Singles You Hadn't Thought of Before

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Single women, tend to think they can only meet men on the Internet. For men who read my blog, you too can find these suggestions will help you meet great women as well. 

Chapel in the woods, Arkansas

The Internet isn't the highest vibrational way to meet people. We can't be sure that what we are seeing is real. The dangers of meeting someone we know nothing about can be exhilarating, but a little scary as well. Instead, of the Internet get creative like I am and find new and different ways to meet singles and eligible partners in fun and unique ways.

8 Things To Never Do On Your Dating Profile

1. Take a road trip! I love to drive and meet wonderful people at rest stops, and even gas stations along the way. I love to stop at picturesque places, take photos and walk my dogs. I have yet to stop at a rest stop in Colorado when I didn't meet a handsome and available man. 

2. Take a hike! If you are healthy, fit and want to meet other healthy and fit people get out on the trail and smile! Be friendly. Say good morning to people you meet on the trail. You never know what your smile might spark in someone else.

3. Take a class. Plenty of divorced people take cooking classes, art classes, yoga or learn to rock climb. Be adventurous and get out of your comfort zone. Be friendly and open or you might be unconsciously turning love away. The great thing about meeting people in a yoga or rock climbing class is that you can see how fit they are, their skill level and whether their health meets your standards. Recognizing your core values is an important part of meeting someone you will resonate with and be comfortable with over time. Taking classes after a breakup can help you move on and take

your mind off your pain.

4. Go to church. Finding a church that supports your faith and attend regularly. Churches have socials and mingle groups after church. Stay, have a donut and coffee after church and smile. The more friendly you appear, the more likely someone will sit down next to you to share your table or pew.

5. Get your car detailed. Men who take excellent care of their cars go to high-end car washes that take care of the details. While waiting for your car, there will be plenty of men to talk to while looking at cards in the gift shop on luxurious leather sofas or waiting outside in the beautiful weather.

6. Get dancing. Community events, dance coalitions, and monthly dances are happening in your community. Line dancing is a fun way to spend an evening and dance with a variety of different partners. Meetup has a plethora of events where you can learn to tango, salsa or swing dance. 

Dancing is a fun way to get your body moving and meet lots of different people to choose from. In Boulder, Colorado I used to go to the Avalon's Friday night event. I had a smile on my face all night and danced with about forty different partners. Sometimes there might be live music brings a lively element to the evening.

7. Meetup.com is a great place to find events and groups that interest you. I just spent the past two hours perusing and signing up for 10 very different events. It's easy and you have ultimate control of how far you travel to meet new eligible men. From cuddle parties, meditation groups, hiking, dance, spiritual groups there is something for everyone. You won't meet anyone staying at home. Make this year the one when you meet your One!

8. Go grocery shopping. We spend hours of our life perusing the shelves of the grocery store. I always make my shopping experience interactive. I ask questions of other shoppers and sales clerks. Get in the habit of connecting with others with your eyes and looking around while shopping, it will help you to get out of fear of talking to new people. I meet people filling up water jugs at the reverse osmosis machine at my local gas station. Keep your head up and look your best, you never know when love might find you.

You know you won't meet anyone sitting at home on your couch watching television, or on FaceBook. Finding love might take some effort, then again, it could happen just by you showing up at the grocery store. If you are ready to find love, take my course starting February 1st, that will clear all your blocks to receiving the love you so deserve. Get out and put a smile on your face and do the following mantra:

I believe in love

I believe in love

I believe in love.

Without the belief in love, you will never find it. 

How To Use Mercury Retrograde To Follow Your Heart's Desire

Jennifer's gift is helping people find love. Whether it is self-love, the love of your life, or love within your current relationship or marriage. Jennifer helps you see your relationship through different eyes, without judgment, control, and resentment. If you want to heal your marriage or relationship, Jennifer will help you do it! 

Join me January 25th for From Tainted To True Love, a six-week live program that will open you to feel more beautiful, sexy, and the possibility of love. You will receive powerful life-changing mantras that quickly attract love to you. We also go through a very powerful, directed manifestation that gets you laser focused on what you want so that The Universe can bring it to you! 

I won't be facilitating this program again in 2017. The early bird sign up is until December 31st. The price goes up after the end of the year!Pay in full and receive a $225 session free and a copy of Orgasm For Life a book that will help you understand yourself and the opposite sex better than you ever have before.

3 Amazing Ways To Use Mercury Retrograde Energy To Find And Keep Love

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Mercury Retrograde energy can be very beneficial for many things. Once you know what the energy can do, using Mercury Retrograde energy can help you retrieve an old relationship so you can renew, re-work, rebuild, and repair. There are rules that you must know about dating during Mercury Retrogrades though and here they are:

1. Mercury Retrograde energy is great for bringing people back around to us from the past.
2. If you have unfinished business or still have strong feelings for someone you broke up with in the past, this energy can help you renew and rebuild from a different place. 
3. Do your best to NOT meet anyone new during a Mercury Retrograde as it won't last, no matter how wonderful it feels.

Fun Facts:
Mercury entered its shadow point December 1st
Mercury turns retrograde December 19, 2016
Mercury turns direct January 8th, 2017


Case Study:

A fellow healer came to me two years ago during a Mercury Retrograde while I was in Colorado for a reading. She had begun to date a man that seemed like her soul mate. In fact, she was absolutely, positively certain they would get married. He seemed perfect!

I explained to her that no matter how he appeared today, once Mercury turned direct she would notice things about him that she didn't see before. 

As soon as the Mercury Retrograde ended, her wonderful man all of a sudden showed signs of philandering and seeing and being attentive to multiple women. The togetherness they experienced during the Mercury Retrograde abruptly ended leaving her shaking her head.

How could something shift so quickly in just three weeks? That is the energy of a Mercury Retrograde. 

I am so careful about the way I use this energy. In fact, when my daughter was planning her move this month, we consulted an astrologer to plan the best date of her move. She had to move before the Mercury Retrograde began because if she moved after December 19th, she would end up feeling she moved to the wrong apartment, made a mistake about moving in with a room mate, or would find something wrong with the situation. 

There are other things not to do during a Mercury Retrograde, watch for my article on Sunday.

How To Use Mercury Retrograde To Follow Your Heart's Desire

Jennifer's gift is helping people find love. Whether it is self-love, the love of your life, or love within your current relationship or marriage. Jennifer helps you see your relationship through different eyes, without judgment, control and resentment. If you want to heal your marriage or relationship, Jennifer will help you do it! 

Join me January 25th for From Tainted To True Love, a six-week live program that will open you to feel more beautiful, sexy, and the possibility of love. You will receive powerful life-changing mantras that quickly attract love to you. We also go through a very powerful, directed manifestation that gets you laser focused on what you want so that The Universe can bring it to you! 

I won't be facilitating this program again in 2017. Sign up early, pay in full and receive a $225 session free and a copy of Orgasm For Life a book that will help you understand yourself and the opposite sex better than you ever have before.

Don't You Forget About Me

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Each of us has a person from our past that we wonder about. What would happen if you were to meet them today? What might happen if you met someone a second time? How might it change your life? What would you do if you had a second chance? Would you blow it? Would you kiss them? Would you tell them how much they meant to you?

With the aid of Internet, many people are rekindling romances from years ago. Those who were once married are not divorced and single. 

I had an opportunity a year ago to rekindle an old romance with a man I had a fling with many years ago when I was a flight attendant. After thirty years he had gone through a divorce and reached out to me. There was a comfort between us that knowing each other long ago created. 

How To Spot Emotional Availability Right Away

Over the Thanksgiving holiday, my daughter and I were out in a mountain town called Tehachapi. Most of the tables were full, so I asked a couple if we could join them. They both seemed friendly and even moved to sit next to one another so we could have more room. 

While my daughter and I settled into our seats, I couldn't help but notice the tender way the man placed a napkin next to his wife's plate. He looked at her through eyes of love. It was apparent to me that they had a really connected relationship. I had to ask.

Jed was a ski bum without a care in the world till he was in his thirties. They met when he returned to California between ski seasons. Fate placed them together at a wedding, and the rest is history. Their marriage was tender, loving but it wasn't always that way. What most people don't understand is that we all have issues to work through. When we meet early in life, most of us haven't cleared up our abandonment and anger issues. Until we do, there are challenges within our relationships. 

Jed and Christine never forgot each other after their first meeting. When they saw each other a second time, they recognized the spark and connection. They worked through their issues to be where they are today. Jed's tenderness towards Christine used to be tainted with his large ego. He stopped having to be right all the time and having to have the last word. Christine's softness was a quality that Jed loved. She wasn't a shrew demanding what she wanted. They had weathered the storms of life and recognized that neither was forgettable. Jed didn't let Christine get away the second time around.

This couple told me their story. Actually, Jed told me their story. Christine was modest and smiled slightly while listening to her husband talk. There was no resentment or control between them. Christine didn't interject or correct Jed when he spoke. They thought about their past with love, rather than rancor. Couples that view their past through eyes of love have greater success than those who don't. 

Resentment and anger will kill a relationship. Control, fear, hatred and enabling are also major debilitating problems. Having these type of feelings about an ex will stop love in its tracks!

How To Communicate In Loving Ways

If you are looking to have the relationship of your dreams, invite me to work with you and let's eliminate your past beliefs and programs so that you are open to receive love. Most people I work with have unforgiveness programs, hate of men and hate of women programs that prevent love from blooming.

Join me January 25th for From Tainted To True Love, a six-week live program that will open you to feel more beautiful, sexy, and the possibility of love. You will receive powerful life-changing mantras that quickly attract love to you. We also go through a very powerful, directed manifestation that gets you laser focused on what you want so that The Universe can bring it to you! 

I won't be facilitating this program again in 2017. Sign up early, pay in full and receive a $225 session free and a copy of Orgasm For Life a book that will help you understand yourself and the opposite sex better than you ever have before.

Reinventing The Body While Resurrecting Your Soul

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Deepak Chopra has a "new" program that talks about reinventing your body while you resurrect your soul. What's new about it? Nothing. I've known for many years that our thoughts create or break our vibrant health. When you change your thoughts from derisive and negative to loving and accepting consistently, your body heals. 

Illness is our body's way of turning on our CHECK ENGINE light. When we ignore our body's signs disease develops.

We are meant to be happy vibrant and healthy free of Fibromyalgia, Epstein Barr (another auto-immune disease), depression, anxiety, worry, fear and low self-esteem. For more information on how I became happy with me and healed my life, you can read 5 Secrets To Happiness and Harmony.

What Is Low Self-Esteem?

Low self-esteem is a lack of confidence. When our self-esteem is low, we feel unworthy, unloved and undervalued. We usually don't respect ourselves, have poor boundaries and look for love and happiness outside of ourselves (relationships, wealth, material goods, success). We may also look for others to validate us, have difficulty making decisions or be wishy-washy.

What Are The Markers Of A Lack of Self-Love?

1. fear
2. worry
3. anxiety
4. the need to be in a relationship - codependency
5. feeling small
6. lack of personal power
7. perfectionism
8. obsessive compulsive behavior
9. depression
10. emotional reactivity
11. concern yourself with what others think
12. defensiveness
13. lack consciousness, never enough
14. blame
15. feeling like a victim
16. depression
17. addictions of any kind even sex addiction
18. sick often
19. unhappy with your job, life, relationship, where you live
20. challenging relationships

The Dark Side of Giving

Those with low self-esteem are usually selfless givers, at least for a while. They do their best to please everyone and may have difficulty taking care of their needs. Eventually, they become resentful that they are always giving and rarely receiving. When in a new relationship they may behave in ways that are contrary to their natural state so that the other will love them. 

Often, a person with low self-esteem will end a marriage or relationship because they have lost themselves. They blame the other person for this, rather than taking responsibility for their patterns and beliefs.

Usually the happiest people have endured the greatest pain and suffering. JEM

What Are The Steps To Overcoming Low Self-Esteem?

1. Everything happens for a reason. Your soul's true essence is pure LOVE. Know that whatever happened in your past got you to where you are today. Eventually, you will forgive everyone and recognize that The Universe was conspiring for your personal growth. (I am not kidding! When you recognize this rather than feel like a victim you have healed yourself.) Our purpose in earth is to grow, evolve and love. Enlightenment is our soul's highest purpose.
2. Breathe deeply. Most people with low self-esteem eventually develop COPD because they didn't breathe fully most of their
   
   lives. Remember to breathe. Breathing deeply affirms life.
3. Be aware of what you are thinking. Change your thoughts mid-sentence to be supportive, nurturing, loving and accepting.
4. Forgive everyone.
5. Be grateful for what you have and where you are now.
6. You are already perfect as you are. You are unique. You were meant to be as you are.
7. Do mantras. Mantras are a statement that repeated will re-program your unconscious mind which is what governs your life without your awareness. Mantras can be as simple as, "I LOVE ME, or I AM LOVED, I AM SAFE, I AM SECURE."
8. Meditate daily. Spiritual practice will help you connect with your true self (High Self) which will help to ground you.
9. Physical pain is a sign of a lack of self-love which diminishes and can be eradicated completely with self-love and acceptance.
10. Love and accept yourself the way you are NOW. Waiting for the perfect relationship, a huge weight loss to occur or something to change only delays the work that needs to be done. Nothing worth having comes without some work. This is a tremendous gift to you.

If you are ready for a life-changing transformation, I am your girl. I work with women looking for love, recovering from breast cancer, or thinking that their marriage is over and help them resurrect their life, love and world. I know what works and what doesn't, because I did it myself. Send me a private e-mail for your FREE Discovery Session. 

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How To Attract "THE ONE"

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Are you looking for a loving relationship? This is one of the major issues that I help women with. Does it work for men too? Absolutely! Every person that has worked with me,  looking for a relationship has found exactly what they were looking for in amazing ways. In this 7 minute video, created for Digital Romance, I share some of the tools I share in my coaching programs. I hope you enjoy it. If you do, share it with your friends.

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a love and passion coach. She is masterful is helping people find the love that they are looking for. The more you love yourself, the happier you will be. Being happy with yourself helps create a more loving grounded relationship with fewer issues. She is certified in six different modalities. She helps people eliminate fears, anxiety, depression, unworthiness, illness, auto-immune disease. 

Even people who have had issues attracting the wrong type of partner can find love. Jennifer is an expert at helping you overcome the fears, beliefs and patterns that stop you from having what you desire. 

Being happy and unconditionally accepting of ourselves helps us live in the moment, with peace and internal fulfillment. If you keep attracting the wrong type of person and are ready to have a love that nurtures and supports you, you have come to the right place. This is where Jennifer lives and breathes! Contact her now for a free discovery session to find out if Jennifer's work is just what the doctor ordered!

Are You Finding The Love That You Want?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

In this 5:35 minute video you will find out how to attract the love you want. This video was created for Digital Romance TV. I hope you enjoy this video. Share it with your friends.

Finding Love

What do you need to do to attract a REAL lasting love? Get to know you first. What do you like. What do you love to do. We spend so much time getting to know the people we are dating - and don't even know ourselves! We have to know ourselves before we get to know a new partner. 

1. Fall in love...... with you first. 
2. Forgive everyone from past relationships. All ex's old partners. Do the Ho'oponopono Prayer starting with you.
3. Relationship Matrix. This is what made me realized, way back when that I was not a victim. Write down your significant relationships (names) on the left. Then right the issues in each of the relationships across the top. Look at all of your relationships and see what the commonalities were. This is not about blaming your ex's. You are not a victim, remember. Release each one with love. 

You can reach Jennifer for your discovery session (here)  to see if her work is a good fit for your intention to heal your life and relationships. Jennifer is a compassionate, loving catalyst who will get to the root of your issues, call you on your crap and keep you loving and honest with YOU! The number one person in your life from now on!

Much Love,

Jennifer

Looking For Love?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

When you have someone that you love and feel connected with, there is nothing like it in the world. Everything seems better. Food tastes better, the sun shines brighter, the birds seem to sing for you. Life is good. When you are alone and wondering when you will find the person of your dreams, you can feel alone, lonely and empty.

Empty?

When you keep asking, "When will I find my Love? Where is he/she? When will they show up in my life?" all you are doing is pushing love away. You can't find love when you feel lack. Instead begin to be grateful for having love in your life.

ATTRACT WHAT YOU ARE

You attract what you are, not what you want. If you want love, you have to BE LOVE. You have to radiate love from within you, out into the world to attract it. If you feel empty, and try to attract your mate, you will find someone who also feels empty. They will not be right for you. You will not be happy.

BE THE LOVE

If you attract what you are, how then can you be love? You have to give love first. The person you have to give it to is you. Love and accept all of you, first. When you think loving thoughts about yourself, and speak kind and loving words about you, consistently you are on the road to being able to attract love to you.

You have to radiate it out from your heart into the world. Raise your vibration with gratitude for all the wonderful things that you already have. Give prayers of gratitude several times a day. Whenever you think of your life, be grateful for it. Be grateful for your body, health, home, food on the table. Be grateful for all you have. Being grateful raises you up to the vibration where you can manifest.

You have to have your vibration at the energy of LOVE. How do you do that when you feel sad, depressed or guilty? Raise your energy up with gratitude. It is the easiest way to raise your energy. Be generous with your time, money, talents and gifts. This will also open your heart.

Feeling Angry?

If you feel angry, you must propel your vibration up passed it. Release the anger. Punch a pillow, hit some baseballs at a batting cage, but release the anger in healthy ways. 

Forgive 

I can't speak enough about the power of forgiveness. If you feel resentment, anger or sadness about a past relationship, you have not let it go. Forgive yourself and your past mate. Let go of the feelings of sadness. Grieve, cry, emote. Let it all go. Holding onto sadness, anger and resentment will not get you the love you want.

I have had hundreds of women and men tell me that they love themselves completely. Yet when I asked them the following questions, they could only honestly attest to one or two. Here is how you can tell if you love yourself completely. 

Answer the following statements truthfully. If you can honestly say that YES to all but one or two, you are well on your way. If you can't honestly answer the questions with YES, then it is back to the drawing board and perhaps you need to take my Love Yourself Fearlessly Group coaching program at the end of August.

How Do I Love THEE, Let Me Count The Ways

1. I only say loving things to myself.
2. I only think loving thoughts about myself and others.
3. I accept all parts of myself  with unconditional love.
4. I never judge anyone else, least of all myself.
5. I never critique myself or others.
6. I am always positive.
7. I recognize that I am not perfect and do not strive to be perfect.
8. I do not look for validation outside of myself, for anything. I feel full complete on my own.
9. I never feel lonely.
10. I am happy all the time.
11. I feel joyful, peace filled and tranquil.
12. My mind is quiet.
13. I am prosperous and my bank account is never empty.
14. I do not lie to myself or others.
15. I am able to speak my truth in the moment with compassion.
16. I have healthy boundaries.
17. I am happy whether I am in a relationship or not.
18. I can stand naked in front of a mirror and see myself as beautiful as I am.
19. I am never needy or clingy.
20. I feel full and complete as I am.
21. I know my own power and feel secure, safe, strong and whole.

Wanting to manifest, but are not sure how? Join Jennifer tonight for her Love Yourself Fearlessly weekly podcast every Wednesday.  

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Want to find that true love? Looking for a soul mate, or Divine Partner? Jennifer's 6 week group coaching Love Yourself Fearlessly is the way to find out what you want, and manifest it - often during the workshop. She has helped countless others find their soul mate, or Beloved partner through her workshop. Check it out on her website: Love Yourself Fearlessly. Starting late August. This will be an online webinar. Reviews are on her site. 

The Love Yourself Fearlessly webinar involves 6 weeks with 90 minutes of LIVE coaching on the spot. JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com