Feel Happy No Matter What

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Years ago, I felt like a victim when I did I attracted men who victimized me and was unable to manifest. We are disempowered when we are victims. We feel our lives are out of control. I've changed this stance and have come to recognize why things happen the way they do; everything does happen for a reason.

Are you breathing deeply? Do you feel your life is out of control? Are your emotions running your life? I get it. I was there too at one time. My life was out of control, and I lived in constant fear. We block ourselves with these negative emotions.

We worry about what others think of us, and our negative emotions cripple us. We work to please others, our boyfriends, children, husbands, wives, and friends, when we do, we feel lost, broken and don't know who we are anymore. I was there too for years.

The relationship we have with ourselves is the most important one in our life. If we are filled with self-loathing and low self-esteem, we aren't standing in our personal power. We are meant to be happy with ourselves self-criticism is defeating and disempowering.

We worry about what other people think about us.
We turn ourselves inside out to "get" others to like and love us.
There is no stretch to being authentic, it is just who you truly are.

We have to train our unconscious mind, or it runs amok. When we allow our unconscious mind to run wildly, it is like being in a boat without a rudder. When a boat doesn't have a rudder, it runs around in circles. We have to tell our unconscious mind what to do with our conscious thoughts.

I love me.

I am lovely inside out.

I love the way I look.

My body is at the perfect weight.

I love and approve of myself.

Even if these mantras don't feel true, the unconscious mind feels it is true. The unconscious mind believes everything we tell it.

I am a millionaire

Money comes to me easily and effortlessly

Money loves me.

People love to pay me money!

The more you love you, the more you will grow to trust yourself. You are worth trusting. We have to quiet the emotions. I help people to alleviate the crazy and wild emotions that run the show. When our emotions are running amok, they also run our lives. You are not a victim. We have to take responsibility for ourselves and our personal happiness. No one else can give it to us.

My body is at the perfect weight.

My good comes to me easily.

My life is getting better and better every day.

I trust myself.

I am worthy of love.

I am deserving. 

I am enough.

Jennifer is a Soul Sculptor who helps you break the mold. Not sure you can do this on your own? You don't have to. Let's set up a time to talk. I'd love to hear about your personal situation and see if I can help. E-mail me, and we'll set up a time to chat. 

Do You Make Everyone Else's Happiness Your Responsibility?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

I remember Christmas when my children were little. I was careful to buy equal priced gifts for each child. No matter how hard I tried, my oldest son always felt disappointed. Even when I spent more on him, he felt disappointed, as if I could never give him enough. 

I felt my stomach sink each year as the presents were unwrapped and the bows and ribbons picked up and thrown away. I made my son's happiness my responsibility. I used to be so concerned about what others thought and how they felt about me. 

When we put conditions on our happiness, we block our ability to be happy. Sometimes we are self-destructive and don't even know it, which leads to even more challenges in our lives. 

When we make statements like the following:

• I'll be happy when ______________(I'm in a relationship, am at the perfect weight, have the perfect job, have _____ money, move to a different location.
• We'll be happy when we're married.
• We'll be happy when we have a (or another) baby.
• I'll be happy when all my family is together.
• I'll be happy when I'm retired.
• I'll be happy when I can have sex.

..... we block our happiness.

Happiness comes from you, not an outside circumstance. When we don't love ourselves completely, we place conditions on our happiness. We make other's happiness our responsibility. No amount of presents will fill someone up that is running on empty. Love has to come from within to fill us up and make us feel loved.

The Truth

No one can else make us happy. Happiness doesn't come from material things like a house, new car or clothes. Material things bring us fleeting rushes, but not permanent happiness. A relationship might bring excitement to you at first, but if you aren't happy with you first, it can bring you more pain.

Thinking that making others happy will bring you happiness is putting their happiness ahead of yours. Each person is responsible for being happy with themselves. Happiness comes from being happy with who we are as we are.

How Do We Get Past This?

I understand, I really do. For half of my life, I was miserable with low self-esteem, anxiety, depression and a slew of failed relationships. Because I didn't respect myself, others didn't respect me either. I attracted men who wouldn't value me because I didn't value myself. I didn't love me and lived in denial of that fact, so the men I loved cheated. I kept attracting men who were emotionally unavailable because I was also. It was far easier to point out the other person's flaws and faults than to see my own.

Since I grew up with criticism in my household, I was critical of myself and others. It wasn't until I was told how negative I was that I began to see how crippling my thoughts and words to myself were. It took an outsider to make me aware of how I was creating my world. 

The Magic of Self Love

Our outer world is a magical mirror that reflects our innermost unconscious thoughts back to us. Until we begin to awaken, we don't notice how much damage we create to ourselves with the words and thoughts we think. 

How I Work With You

There are several ways I can help you to move beyond anxiety, depression, and unhappiness. Energy work, healing your field and removing the patterns and blocks to love, or hypnotherapy sessions. In my coaching sessions, I use all of my tool boxes, of The Akashic Records, coaching, intuition, healing, energy and hypnotherapy. In two hypnotherapy sessions, I can help you permanently change the way you feel about yourself. Hypnotherapy is a powerful healing modality that reprograms the unconscious mind to think in positive instead of negative ways. 

Beliefs

Our beliefs created from early childhood traumatic events govern our adult life unless we change them. Beliefs could be:

• I am unlovable
• I am unworthy
• I am not valuable
• I am not heard
• I am not respected
• I am not worth loving
• No one will ever love me
• People will reject me

Begin Today With A Mantra To Heal Your Mind

I am strong, powerful, harmonious, loving and happy!

I am lovable

I am worthy

I am loved

I am safe

I am secure

We can only make ourselves happy. Working on our inner self is the key to being happy with our outer world. I wish you the happiest of holidays whether you celebrate Kwanza, Christmas, Hannuka or Hajj, and so much love!

Work with Jennifer to find the love inside of you so that you can have the relationship of your dreams. Whether you are currently in a relationship or not, Jennifer will help you find the love wherever you are helping you shift your perspective to be happy and fulfilled.

I love you!

Jennifer

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Reinventing The Body While Resurrecting Your Soul

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Deepak Chopra has a "new" program that talks about reinventing your body while you resurrect your soul. What's new about it? Nothing. I've known for many years that our thoughts create or break our vibrant health. When you change your thoughts from derisive and negative to loving and accepting consistently, your body heals. 

Illness is our body's way of turning on our CHECK ENGINE light. When we ignore our body's signs disease develops.

We are meant to be happy vibrant and healthy free of Fibromyalgia, Epstein Barr (another auto-immune disease), depression, anxiety, worry, fear and low self-esteem. For more information on how I became happy with me and healed my life, you can read 5 Secrets To Happiness and Harmony.

What Is Low Self-Esteem?

Low self-esteem is a lack of confidence. When our self-esteem is low, we feel unworthy, unloved and undervalued. We usually don't respect ourselves, have poor boundaries and look for love and happiness outside of ourselves (relationships, wealth, material goods, success). We may also look for others to validate us, have difficulty making decisions or be wishy-washy.

What Are The Markers Of A Lack of Self-Love?

1. fear
2. worry
3. anxiety
4. the need to be in a relationship - codependency
5. feeling small
6. lack of personal power
7. perfectionism
8. obsessive compulsive behavior
9. depression
10. emotional reactivity
11. concern yourself with what others think
12. defensiveness
13. lack consciousness, never enough
14. blame
15. feeling like a victim
16. depression
17. addictions of any kind even sex addiction
18. sick often
19. unhappy with your job, life, relationship, where you live
20. challenging relationships

The Dark Side of Giving

Those with low self-esteem are usually selfless givers, at least for a while. They do their best to please everyone and may have difficulty taking care of their needs. Eventually, they become resentful that they are always giving and rarely receiving. When in a new relationship they may behave in ways that are contrary to their natural state so that the other will love them. 

Often, a person with low self-esteem will end a marriage or relationship because they have lost themselves. They blame the other person for this, rather than taking responsibility for their patterns and beliefs.

Usually the happiest people have endured the greatest pain and suffering. JEM

What Are The Steps To Overcoming Low Self-Esteem?

1. Everything happens for a reason. Your soul's true essence is pure LOVE. Know that whatever happened in your past got you to where you are today. Eventually, you will forgive everyone and recognize that The Universe was conspiring for your personal growth. (I am not kidding! When you recognize this rather than feel like a victim you have healed yourself.) Our purpose in earth is to grow, evolve and love. Enlightenment is our soul's highest purpose.
2. Breathe deeply. Most people with low self-esteem eventually develop COPD because they didn't breathe fully most of their
   
   lives. Remember to breathe. Breathing deeply affirms life.
3. Be aware of what you are thinking. Change your thoughts mid-sentence to be supportive, nurturing, loving and accepting.
4. Forgive everyone.
5. Be grateful for what you have and where you are now.
6. You are already perfect as you are. You are unique. You were meant to be as you are.
7. Do mantras. Mantras are a statement that repeated will re-program your unconscious mind which is what governs your life without your awareness. Mantras can be as simple as, "I LOVE ME, or I AM LOVED, I AM SAFE, I AM SECURE."
8. Meditate daily. Spiritual practice will help you connect with your true self (High Self) which will help to ground you.
9. Physical pain is a sign of a lack of self-love which diminishes and can be eradicated completely with self-love and acceptance.
10. Love and accept yourself the way you are NOW. Waiting for the perfect relationship, a huge weight loss to occur or something to change only delays the work that needs to be done. Nothing worth having comes without some work. This is a tremendous gift to you.

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What Fuel Are You Using To Fan The Flames Of Your Love?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back. Barbara de Angelis

It is a great accomplishment today to stay with your spouse or partner because you are happy together. Many married couples stay together often for financial reasons, barely speaking and rarely connecting intimately. Couples that are happy together focus on each other's positive traits rather than their flaws and faults. 

I have a true love story for you. 

Two years ago a woman, I will call Cynthia found me in a Boulder, Colorado magazine. Diagnosed with breast cancer, she wanted to heal naturally. Cynthia knew intuitively that there was something inside her causing the disease. 

We began working together to heal her body. The core of all healing comes from within. Breast cancer comes from several things. There is an underlying refusal to nourish the self, holding onto old hurts, over mothering, overprotection carrying hatreds and deep-seated resentment. For every illness and disease, there is a thought and emotion that came before it that created the issue. 

Cynthia and Peter had been married for 25 years. Cynthia was attracted to Peter because he was so different from her father. Her father was a strong, powerful and very successful man that Cynthia worked hard to please. She even attended the university she thought would please her father and received a degree in what was considered a man's profession. She always felt she fell short of making her father happy. 

Cynthia was a strong woman on the outside a successful professional, and active member of the community. Cynthia had high expectations and was a perfectionist. Peter was a soft, gentle man, unlike her Dad. Cynthia tried much of their marriage to mold her husband into her father, the man she could never seem to please. Although they had the appearance of success, two teenage children, and a beautiful home, there was a distance and disconnection between them. Sex was a rare event and a chore for Cynthia. Cynthia was irritated by Peter. He was unfocused and ungrounded. She blamed him for much of her discontent and unhappiness. 

Over the course of our coaching sessions, we worked to shift the way Cynthia felt about herself. We healed her limiting beliefs and patterns of low self-esteem. We released the trapped emotions that were crippling her. Cynthia began to soften her gaze. She stopped beating herself up for every little thing. Instead of seeing how she failed, she saw her successes. She also recognized that it was her perception rather than the truth that her father didn't love her. 

As Cynthia began to look at the positive instead of the negative, everything shifted. She began to recognize her talents, abilities, and gifts. She started to see herself differently. Instead of feeling that she was a failure, she could see her success. As Cynthia looked at herself through the eyes of love, she began to let go of perfection. 

As Cynthia saw the benefits of working with me, Peter became a client as well. Working with each of them separately began to heal their personal issues. Cynthia's relationship with her husband began to soften; walls came down. Peter let go of past pain from his childhood and raised his awareness. Each individual working on their internal issues made incredible differences in the way they engaged each other. Their conversations stopped being adversarial and negative. Their love for one another strengthened and grew.

Gradually their relationship improved and so did their sex lives. Instead of being triggered by one another, they took responsibility for their own feelings, recognizing that it came from a place long ago. Instead of wanting time apart they began planning weekends away together. 

Instead of focusing on Peter's flaws, faults and how different Peter was from her father, she began to love him for who he was, rather

than trying to change him. Cynthia allowed him to have his experiences in life rather than trying to control or make him perfect.

After our work together, Cynthia has reported to me that she is more in love with Peter now than she ever was. She moved out of her mind and into her heart. Her heart if fanning the flames of the positive attributes rather than focusing on what is missing. Peter opened up in ways he never had been able to before. He had a confidant in me, that allowed him a safe place to vent and gain understanding of himself and his wife.

Commitment to change and grow is all that is needed to save a marriage. When one person decides that they are ALL IN, rather than wanting out, and can let go of the need to control the other, miracles can happen. Rather than living in fear, they have rebuilt trust. When you recognize, there is nothing to fear, Miracles are a breath away, all you need is to decide. Love is always there, sometimes hidden under anger and past hurts. 

What Can You Do To Fuel Your Love?

1. Stop blaming. When we blame someone else for our unhappiness we are not taking responsibility for ourselves. Blame is easy. Taking responsibility takes some maturity and personal growth. Recognize you are not a victim. If you have had past trauma, let's get it healed. It won't go away on it's ow. Believe me I know. It is what I spent 30 years doing.
2. Look within. If you are getting upset with your partner you are being triggered by a past event. Usually what you are angry about has nothing to do with the other person. Ask yourself, when have I felt like this before? Did it have something to do with your mother, father or someone else? 
3. Get some help. Marital issues can rarely be fixed from within the marriage. In other words, it takes a fresh pair of eyes to see what is really going on. 
4. Be kind. Be kind to yourself and your spouse. Focus on the positive, rather than highlighting the negative. You fell in love with them for a reason. What was it?
5. Spend quality time together.  Getting connected requires quiet, intimacy and turning off media, television and locking your bedroom door. Avoiding one another does no good and increases the chasm between you. 
6. Love yourself first. If you don't love you, it will be very difficult to receive love from another. Notice do you push hugs away. Do you resent your partners advances? Why not begin to allow love in and fan those flames with kindness, appreciation and generosity rather than anger, acid or resentment. Love is always present we just have to be open enough to see and feel it.

How much does your marriage mean to you? Thinking that the grass is greener on the other side won't get you to happiness either. Until you do the work to heal your patterns, you will continue to

attract similar relationships that don't fulfill you because you don't love and accept yourself. Are you ready to commit to yourself? Are you with me? Do you want to be happy with you and your life? If so, send me an e-mail and let's have a conversation about partnering together to have the happiness you so deserve. 

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The Attraction Switch

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

People come to me because they want to love and be loved. They come to me because they lost love. They come to me because they can't find someone to love them. The bottom line is that I am in the business of LOVE! We are all happier when we are in love. We are happier when we love and respect ourselves. I assist people with self-esteem, codependency, emotional trauma, sexual abuse, sexual dysfunction and relationship issues so that they can find love.

As a coach, I have heard it all. People come to me because they are in pain. Their wife doesn't have sex with them anymore. Their husband doesn't act like a man. Some people come to me because of their addictions. I understand people. I recognize and empathize with others because I too have had so many similar experiences. I used to jump from relationship to relationship because I thought a relationship would make me happy. It didn't.

Happiness comes from within. If we are miserable being us, we won't be much happier being in a relationship. We think we will be happy because of the depiction of relationships in movies or television shows we see and societal programming. 

The Purpose of A Relationship

Relationships are here to help us grow and evolve. Relationships teach us about love. Without sacrifice, there is no love. You might sacrifice your dream of dancing ballet, for your lover with whom you share a child. That is sacrifice. You may sacrifice your dreams of being an architect to stay at home with your newborn baby instead. With any luck, we can find someone that loves themselves enough to love us this way too. 

How To Turn On Powerful Attraction

Vulnerability

We don't get very far if we don't open up and allow another person in. We have to risk everything to be vulnerable. We have to let go of the dock and float out into the ocean of love without any mooring. Floating in an ocean of bliss we let go of control, surrender to love and allow our partner to see us naked, unmasked and open. This can be a scary place. When you have the courage to go to the place of vulnerability, you can also explore unbounded love. Limitless love happens when we are completely vulnerable, authentic and totally transparent with our lover. Limitless love is a real possibility when you stop worrying about what others think of you.

If they make us a little bit happier than we are when we are alone, we are very fortunate. If a relationship is amazing and raises us to a new level of being, that is an incredible gift. Most people have challenges in relationships and blame their partner for them. Our partners only heighten our issues that we need to notice.

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Love of Self

When I was in the middle of my codependency, I had many spiritual teachers tell me, "You need to be alone." I was so needy and codependent, I was restless without a man. I needed to have the stability of another person to feel like I was whole. Once I began doing energy work, hypnotherapy, this restlessness calmed down. I became more grounded. This grounding gave me the courage to be alone. It truly was what I needed. When I was  alone, I began to know and understand myself better, because I was becoming authentic. In a relationship, I was not me. I was a shell of my real self. I felt so insecure, that I felt if I acted like myself, no one would want me.

When we don't love ourselves, we are unhappy with our lives. Things don't work properly because we are out of balance. We may work too much, too hard, or shop like a crazy person. We often have addictions when we don't love ourselves. I certainly did. We may even cascade from one addiction to another while we heal.

Self-Respect Is A Turn On

To be happy in a relationship, we need to have self-respect. Without self-respect, others won't respect us. When our partner doesn't respect us, they usually treat us badly. They may cheat, lie, or treat us with disrespect. 

What Is Self-Respect?
Self-respect means we are not afraid to stand up for our beliefs. When we have self-respect, we say what we feel and do what we say. We speak our truth, instead of trying to please others by agreeing with them. When we have self-respect you often make decisions that are unpopular with others. Without self-respect you may fear that others won't like you if you go against what they believe. People might even become angry with you for doing so. However, when you stand up for what you believe, you will be respected, rather than disrespected. You will not feel that you are supressing your truth. Being authentic means that you speak your truth and stand up for your beliefs.

You Are So Sexy!

When you can stand up confidently for what you want, believe  and feel, you will find someone who is turned on by your confidence. A confident person is infinitely more sexy than a needy one. 

A needy person can never be made happy because they don't love themselves. Their love-tank is empty. It can never be filled by someone else. This is where I come in. I help you begin to love yourself fearlessly. Along this journey you being to recognize your

gifts, your beauty, your worthiness and your inner strength. Through my courses and coaching you will grow, and shift your perspective recognizing that you are worthy and already enough. You each have what you need inside you, I just help you uncover the truth of your being.

Much Love to you,
Jennifer

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How can I thank you enough? Helen Trimble, MD

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THANK YOU for your help Jennifer! You're an amazing woman - very loving and inspiring! Love & Light to you & your family, especially your wonder dog karma! Beautiful family! Brittany Takai

Dear Jennifer, I waited few days to make sure the feeling stays..have to tell you: I had a pain on my left chest for the last 8 months. We couldn't find any explanation except stress and bad emotions. The morning after your clearing, the pain was gone and today its still the same. I used acupuncture for a long time, but it never removed the pain. The timing is really amazing! Thank you for the cleaning and for the good words. all the best- Hagit

It was a wonderful clearing.......the best I have had so far. I feel so much more peaceful, calm and positive after your clearings. I wish I had met you earlier. Thanks, Manish Jaitly

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Looking For A Healthy Balanced Love?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

I Was A Last Resort

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

When I first moved to Boulder, Colorado, I remember my daughter being swallowed up by a warm and accepting group of friends. While my daughter was at school and having fun with her friends, I spent my days alone, walking the trails with my dog, Karma. One day while walking, I asked for a friend. "God please send me a friend to walk with, that loves dogs as much as I do." That very day, Leslie arrived. Leslie was warm, loving, kind. A married woman and mother of two teenage boys. She was spiritual as well, creating a loving environment for her family in beautiful Boulder, Colorado. We hit it off instantly. 

On my last day in Colorado, my daughter and I were busting our butts to get ourselves packed up before the snow hit. Leslie, generous as always, showed up in the nick of time to help us with the final packing and took three loads of our discards to Goodwill so we could get out of town. If we had to make those drops to Goodwill with the trailer, we would never have gotten out in time to narrowly miss the blizzard that hit the day we left. Ariel and I both were given information about snow coming in on October 22nd. We knew we had to be out by noon that day. 

After we moved from Boulder, Leslie gave us a place to stay, whenever  we returned to Boulder. She was always giving with an open heart. She recently asked me to house sit for her while she and her husband traveled to Los Angeles to look at colleges with their youngest son in California. Her dogs knew me well. Her departure

date coincided with me leaving another place which allowed me to rest a little longer while taking care of her dogs and house. 

Upon my arrival in Boulder Leslie texted me that her older son (we'll call him "Hunter,") who was a complete vegan had a terrible rash. She had taken Hunter to the doctor who gave him a Prednesone shot and prescription none of which worked. He could not work because of the irritation and had not slept in two weeks. The itch was profound and literally making him feel insane. He was emotional and in despair. In desperation, she also took him to a Biofeedback Practitioner in Boulder and spent over $200 on the session and herbs.  

Even Worse

After spending several hundred dollars with no results, and a more profound itch, she texted me. Could I help? Of course, I texted back. 

Over the course of that Saturday, I did three clearings. One total clearing and two emotional clearings. I found that he was being triggered by the fact that his younger brother was about to embark on a new and exciting journey. Even though Hunter had had his own, traveling to Israel twice in recent months and doing an internship there. 

How Fast?

Leslie asked me how quickly my clearing would help, I told her immediately. A remote clearing can be done anywhere in the world with profound results. It does not matter if you live in Bali, and I am in California, energy patterns, blocks, limiting beliefs and trapped emotions can be cleared. Within an hour Hunter was fast asleep and slept for 12 straight hours. He woke up itching again. I

cleared him twice more and he has been fine ever since. I also did an in person hypnotherapy session on Hunter which helped him see that he did not have a plan, focus or purpose in his life. Self love was the thing lacking. He was beating himself up because he was not in college. With his brother about to attend, he was feeling tremendous pressure to achieve and be successful.

Emotional Triggers

Each time I brought up the subject of his younger brother, Hunter would begin to cry. He did not realize prior to my questioning how much his younger brother going to college in the fall was affecting his self worth. Once I compassionately pointed out that he needed

to have a purpose for his life, so that he could be productive and give back in some way, he felt more peaceful. I had him focus on what he loved about himself, what he loved to do and what he was passionate about. Once I questioned him about his passion, photography came up. He was very excited about photography.

A Gift and A Lesson

Because of the clearing that was done, Hunter received an amazing offer to be an assistant for a prominent Boulder, photographer. He had called her two weeks prior, but she had not returned his call. His emotional state was not allowing this new job to materialize. Once I cleared the blocks, the job came through within days, easily and effortlessly.

Life Purpose

Everyone has a life purpose or soul path. If we are not living our life purpose (soul path) we can feel lost, and broken. When we are in alignment with our soul purpose, happy with ourselves and our lives, we become much more accessible to our partners. If we don't have a partner, once we are happy with us, we become infinitely more attractive and positive, therefore the love we feel for ourselves bubbles up and magnetizes love to us.  Once we feel complete love and acceptance for ourselves, amazing synchronicity begins to unfold for us daily. 

Soul Blueprint

We each have a soul blueprint. We come into our family of origin and are imprinted with their DNA and blueprint. Sometimes the imprinting of our families is so burdensome that we can't seem to

make headway. Having a clearing done to eliminate the negative programming and underlying blocks that our family has had for generations, can free us to live our higher purpose. 

Often our families have a tremendous amount of baggage that we can hoard and carry with us. Generational clearings help both you and your ancestors to be free of this negative programming and Karma. Sometimes, families have a history of financial lack, poverty and challenges that repeat with each generation.

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a Master energy healer, author and certified Life Coach (as well as a natural born catalyst for healing). Her radio show, All You Need Is Love, is about to launch on BBM Global Radio. She has been a certified Hypnotherapist since 1998, an energy healer since 2007. She has worked with Spiritual leaders, famous authors, clearing and assisting thousands of people since 1998. In 2014 alone, she cleared 1,500 people. She also assists businesses to clear blocks to success. She recently cleared a catering business in Atlanta, Georgia so that they could get their new restaurant opened in three weeks. Blocks, limiting beliefs, negative energies and DNA/Karma can all be healed.  The owner remarked that he had the best night's sleep the day I cleared him in years!

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Gratitude and Generosity

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Writing a blog for one's own purpose is self serving. When I began this blog back in 2012, my ex-husband had just died. I had a huge shift in consciousness and awakening. I thought I had arrived! Whoa! We are always and in every way changing and growing. If we are not constantly looking within, releasing and working on ourselves, we become stagnant and stuck. In the three years I have been writing, I have listened to your feedback and I hope that this blog is something that continues to stir your heart, mind and soul. 

Writing for myself, isn't the same as writing for others who read and get something out of what I write. I do hope you will e-mail me suggestions for new articles, or even questions you have that you think I might have the answer to. If I don't know, I will research and find it, or refer you to someone who does know. My gratitude today is for you. I had planned on posting something on Face Book about passing the word around about my blog, as on Sunday we were just shy of 60,000 hits. Today when I looked, there were 60,300 hits! This I owe to you! I am grateful for your time and following me.

My promise and commitment to you, is to do my best to be on top of news, studies and information that can assist you to heal, grow and evolve in your life and relationships. Passion is what compels me. Without my passion, I would feel half dead. If I can help you be more passionate, in love with yourself and your life, then I have done a good job. Being happy with you is the greatest gift you can give yourself. This is where I live and breathe. If there is anything I can do for you it is to help you heal the parts that feel broken, unworthy or undeserving. I can help you release the stuck emotion that keeps surfacing because you don't know how. 

Generosity

What I have discovered about generosity is that when we feel in need, it is more difficult to give generously. When we are generous with our time and our money, we are much more generous with our love. Each of us is constantly working on our own issues, improving each day. (Hopefully)

Our Inner Child

As a life coach and healer, I use many different modalities in my work. The one thing I feel does the most good is inner child work. Over the years, I have seen men and women stuck in a paradigm. Whenever they get upset they revert to the little child that was hurt from an emotional trauma that we can't remember, or don't realize is still bothering us. If we don't do this inner child work, we continue to revert to this place of wounded child. When we get upset or into arguments with our partners, lovers or children, our wounding is what guides us. We are not able to be rational, loving and kind when we feel wounded. Instead we lash out.

Wounded People Wound Others

When we are wounded we lash out. We say things that hurt other people. It is like the little child who yells at his friend who has just

said his mother wears army boots. "Well then your mother is mean!" We just don't know what to say, but we want to hurt the other. We just can't help ourselves. It is an auto-response. 

Check in today with your inner child. Ask him or her what it is they need. Play, connect and have fun with your inner child and tell them you are sorry you ever put them in harms way. This deep work will help you resolve the issues you still deal with today. The work I do is guided, gentle, loving and compassionate. Sometimes I am still wounded. I am still working and growing too. After all, I am as human as the next guy. I am not perfect, but I sure am happy. I have healed the dependency, the addictive personality, the obsessive worrier. I can help you do the same. 

For the next 30 days I am offering a special 6 session deal. E-mail me to ask me about it. Tomorrow I travel to Colorado and will be

there for 10 days. I will be seeing clients in Colorado in person while there. While there I will be creating some new videos. Let me know what subjects you are interested in hearing about. This is for you! 

Much Love,
Jennifer

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a coach, empowering women and the men that ask to feel happier more connected and find their spiritual purpose. When we live our life on purpose rather than allowing life to happen to us, everything shifts. Jennifer is a compassionate coach who lovingly roots up your issues and will call you on your crap when you are standing on a very large pile of it. If you are stuck, depressed, unhappy, not sure of what the heck life is all about, Jennifer will guide you into living a life fully expressed in joy in each and every breath! Click here, to be connected with her private e-mail to set up your first session or discovery session now.

Jennifer has been studying Metaphysics for over 30 years. She has been on a spiritual path since she was 16. 

Certifications: Jennifer is a certified Life coach, hypnotherapist, Hypnotherapy Trainer, NLP trainer, Master energy healer and reads the Akashic Records. She also does Avatar work with her private clients to release past trauma. Jennifer's early childhood trauma caused her to search for answers and happiness within. She found it and now helps you do the same. Her work is deep, healing and permanent, if you do the homework and mantras suggested by her guides for you.

Are You Finding The Love That You Want?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

In this 5:35 minute video you will find out how to attract the love you want. This video was created for Digital Romance TV. I hope you enjoy this video. Share it with your friends.

Finding Love

What do you need to do to attract a REAL lasting love? Get to know you first. What do you like. What do you love to do. We spend so much time getting to know the people we are dating - and don't even know ourselves! We have to know ourselves before we get to know a new partner. 

1. Fall in love...... with you first. 
2. Forgive everyone from past relationships. All ex's old partners. Do the Ho'oponopono Prayer starting with you.
3. Relationship Matrix. This is what made me realized, way back when that I was not a victim. Write down your significant relationships (names) on the left. Then right the issues in each of the relationships across the top. Look at all of your relationships and see what the commonalities were. This is not about blaming your ex's. You are not a victim, remember. Release each one with love. 

You can reach Jennifer for your discovery session (here)  to see if her work is a good fit for your intention to heal your life and relationships. Jennifer is a compassionate, loving catalyst who will get to the root of your issues, call you on your crap and keep you loving and honest with YOU! The number one person in your life from now on!

Much Love,

Jennifer

Help For The Addict: Sex Addiction POM

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Addictions can be as simple as being addicted to caffeine. You might need to have your cup of java to get yourself moving in the morning. You don't beat yourself up over it, you just do it. The problem with sex addiction is that most addicts beat themselves literally and figuratively over it. 

All addictions come from the same source. Not knowing who you are,  and a lack of loving the self. Self love, self care and nurturing are all loving caring acts. When we don't love ourselves, we often act out our suffering on others. We often lash out, destroy the love given or refuse or reject it without even knowing. Addicts often think they are being loving while giving "selflessly" to others. The problem is that this giving is coming from an empty place, in order to RECEIVE something in return. We are often instead met with, "I didn't ask for you to do this!" 

The bottom line is that all humans have addictions to something at some time in their life. Most people reel over this revelation, but it is true. Codependency is an addiction. We were all born with codependency. Every baby on this planet is dependent upon their mothers to care for, love and nurture them. When these basic needs are

addicted from birth?

not met, WHAMO! We have a void inside us that can't be filled. We search for love, often through sex. We crave success, wealth, fame, relationships, and sex to fill the hole that is seemingly bottomless. This whole has to be filled by us first. We have to give love to ourselves.

Why?

It is a Universal Law of The Universe. The Law of Reciprocity. You have to give to receive. You have to give love to you first. When we don't we attract others who have deep holed that they need to have filled. When two people feel unworthy and unlovable, the relationship can't succeed without tremendous effort. Often both parties have their own addictions.

Don't feel bad. You are in very good company. Tiger Woods, Charlie Sheen, David Duchovny, Michael Douglas, Bill Clinton and the list goes on. To get to the point, following this guide will get this party started in a good and healthy way. Below are positive steps you can begin right now to help you begin your recovery. Why do you want to

David Duchovny, where life meets art. He played a sex addict and
became one. 

recover? Because you feel broken. You feel that a need just can't be filled. As soon as you climax, you want to do it again. You are reaching for your joy stick instead of dealing with the source of the issue. 

Root Cause

In hypnotherapy, we call the source of the issue the root cause. It can also be called an emotional trigger. Men masturbate to fill a void. Masturbation shifts your emotional state. It lifts you temporarily. You feel a rising feeling, and a blissful state. The truth is that what you are missing is the love of yourself and a spiritual connection. For those of you who don't believe in God, The Divine or a Higher Power, perhaps you can beleive in The Universe. The Collective Consciousness perhaps?

Success

I have worked with hundreds of people on issues of addiction. I have helped women heal codependency so that they can go on to attract positive, loving and balanced relationships. Happiness is one of the side effects of working with me. Women come to me with depresssion, anxiety and end up being so much happier as a result of the tools I give them that work - everyday!

Women more than men seem to be driven towards healing codependency. Perhaps because more women seem to have an inate spirituality. Men are trouble shooters. They solve problems with logic. Sprituality does not involve logic. 

Men though, like the fact that they jerk off to "relieve pressure." It is a rare man that says, "I really want to heal this so I can be in a healthy relationship. I get it. I was in denial that I had a real problem. Sometimes, it takes a divorce, a DUI, or family intervention to help the addict recognize that there is an alcohol or drug addiction. Most couples don't talk about a sex addiction. It is too private a matter.

Your Mission Should You Choose To Accept It

This is what you need to do to begin to heal. If you masturbate 3 times a day. Cut back to once or twice instead. Each time you want to reach for your joy stick, reach for a pen and paper instead. Granted you might not have quite as much fun with the journaling, but you will find out what the source of your pain is. Addiction comes from feeling unloved, unlovable and unworthy of love. Self rejection is the underlying behavior. You have been running away from yourself by masturbating. Watch little boys. When they feel uneasy, they squeeze their penis to give themselves a little boost. It is like a mood altering drug. The little penis drug.

1. Write down the feelings bubbling up when you have the urge to masturbate. I know guys don't want to FEEL. But the bottom line is that the underlying reason you feel empty is the reason you are reaching for your joystick. Each time you masturbate you are trying to change the way you FEEL inside. It has nothing to do with sexual arousal. You just THINK it does. 
2. Feel the emotion you are feeling fully. Don't run away by masturbating.

Shift Your Focus

Focus on You for a change. Look inside and get to know who you are. Answer these questions in your journal. Without internal focus, you are living outside of your body. Take a step inside you. If you need a little help getting there, put your dominant hand on the center of your chest, the heart chakra. Breathe in five times, exhaling slowly. This will help center you and bring you into your heart-mind, rather than your ego when you answer these questions.

1. Who are you? Where did you come from? (this one usually stumps people. Answer: _Child of God. God.  This does not mean you have to start attending church. However, the spiritual part is a large part of healing you. Denying who you are has gotten you into this state.
2. What do you love about you? List 10 things.
3. What do you love to do? List 10 things.
4. What are you passionate about? List at least 3 things that you are very passionate about. Are you doing any of these things regularly? Are you doing them at all, ever? This passion will become your soul purpose. How you give back. Being in service to humanity on some level is a necessary part of healing. For me, I serve by helping people live happier, connected lives in love and with passion. 
5. Soften your focus. Instead of beating yourself up with thoughts and words, be gentle and kind to yourself. The more loving and accepting you can be of your flaws and faults the higher your emotional fulfillment becomes. Instead of emptying your emotional gas tank you begin to fill it yourself with positive thoughts and feelings. 

Mantras

I like to use mantras in the background of my mind. I recommend you do it for two weeks before you say, "Oh that doesn't work for me." Don't knock it till you have tried it. Mantras change your negative unconscious beliefs from running amok, to congruent longer and slower brain waves, that feel good. Begin with something simple like, "I am the light of the Divine inside me." If that doesn't work for you, how about, "I LOVE ME?"

Turn off your television. Stop watching the news and reading the newspaper. Okay, you don't have to, but you will see that a lot of your angst and suffering comes from media. I have not watched the news or read a newspaper in 20 years. It does not mean I am a PollyAnna. I don't tap into the fear-based media, or the mass consciousness of fear. If you wonder how I live a happy life every day - it is by being in the world but not OF it. 

Healing The Family Of Origin

Not many people have wonderful childhoods. However, you don't have to continue feeling like a victim and hating on those who have hurt you. Instead the work with me, heals that past. I have loving ways to change patterns that were born from trauma, abuse, neglect, or abandonment. 

Forgiveness

Believe me I understand all the reasons that make it so difficult to forgive the people who have hurt you. You don't need to have a written or spoken apology to let go and heal the past. Forgiveness is for you, not the other person. It unburdens you. It heals you. Forgiveness is a letting go. 

Unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.

Letting Go

You can't have permanent healing without letting go of all fear-based mental constructs. Control, manipulation, jealousy are all fear-based mental constructs. Letting go is a release and surrender. Remember that doing the same thing over and over is the definition of insanity. Surrender is a much brighter path to your tomorrow.

What People Say About Jennifer

Jennifer coached me from a place of darkness, despair and depression. After a several horrible codependent relationships and a nastry breakup, I felt lost and thought I needed a relationship to feel whole. Jennifer guided me to wait to date. I followed her advice. I now am in a loving, supportive relationship instead of one that was debilitating and abusive. CM Los Angeles

Jennifer Masters has remotely cleared  several members of my family. One case in particular has been both subtle and profound in the positive changes that have occurred. I am grateful for her power and dedication. JLI, Denver

Jennifer saved our marriage! With her loving, compassionate coaching, we are now able to communicate with one another in loving ways on every imaginable level~ So grateful! G and SS  

Contact Jennifer for your self discovery session to find out how she works and whether her work is a fit for you. Doing the assigned home work is part of the process. Each week lifts your vibration higher and higher. By the third week, you already feel better, happier and less depressed and much less anxious.