Feel Happy No Matter What

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Years ago, I felt like a victim when I did I attracted men who victimized me and was unable to manifest. We are disempowered when we are victims. We feel our lives are out of control. I've changed this stance and have come to recognize why things happen the way they do; everything does happen for a reason.

Are you breathing deeply? Do you feel your life is out of control? Are your emotions running your life? I get it. I was there too at one time. My life was out of control, and I lived in constant fear. We block ourselves with these negative emotions.

We worry about what others think of us, and our negative emotions cripple us. We work to please others, our boyfriends, children, husbands, wives, and friends, when we do, we feel lost, broken and don't know who we are anymore. I was there too for years.

The relationship we have with ourselves is the most important one in our life. If we are filled with self-loathing and low self-esteem, we aren't standing in our personal power. We are meant to be happy with ourselves self-criticism is defeating and disempowering.

We worry about what other people think about us.
We turn ourselves inside out to "get" others to like and love us.
There is no stretch to being authentic, it is just who you truly are.

We have to train our unconscious mind, or it runs amok. When we allow our unconscious mind to run wildly, it is like being in a boat without a rudder. When a boat doesn't have a rudder, it runs around in circles. We have to tell our unconscious mind what to do with our conscious thoughts.

I love me.

I am lovely inside out.

I love the way I look.

My body is at the perfect weight.

I love and approve of myself.

Even if these mantras don't feel true, the unconscious mind feels it is true. The unconscious mind believes everything we tell it.

I am a millionaire

Money comes to me easily and effortlessly

Money loves me.

People love to pay me money!

The more you love you, the more you will grow to trust yourself. You are worth trusting. We have to quiet the emotions. I help people to alleviate the crazy and wild emotions that run the show. When our emotions are running amok, they also run our lives. You are not a victim. We have to take responsibility for ourselves and our personal happiness. No one else can give it to us.

My body is at the perfect weight.

My good comes to me easily.

My life is getting better and better every day.

I trust myself.

I am worthy of love.

I am deserving. 

I am enough.

Jennifer is a Soul Sculptor who helps you break the mold. Not sure you can do this on your own? You don't have to. Let's set up a time to talk. I'd love to hear about your personal situation and see if I can help. E-mail me, and we'll set up a time to chat. 

What Are We Telling Our Children?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

When I was 41 and conscious I gave birth to my daughter. Before I conceived, I was Guided to fast, cleanse and raise my vibration. I couldn't have carried a child so advanced without raising my vibration. I prayed for a spiritual daughter and was told she would be my gift. I had been told I wouldn't be able to have another child after my two sons.

My daughter was born awake. She remembered her past lives and her own children. She asked me one day when she was three, "Mom, you know my dad?" I said, "You mean, Rich?" She said, "No my other father." Then she told me that she and her children died in a fire.

My husband and I bore witness to her conversing with unseen spirits and channeling higher beings. 

At age 8 she had pneumonia and said she was beginning to forget what it was like to be with God in Heaven and wanted to go back. Needless to say, I told her, "Oh honey, you don't want to do that! You need to stay here." Afterward, she fell into such a deep sleep, I was unable to awaken her for hours.

The time of conception, which I experienced there was a flash of light and the soul agreed to take form. During the first three months, I felt a flitting in and out of the soul but it didn't stay. At 120 days, I felt a quickening or movement and a considerable change when her soul took up residence in the body of my unborn child. Prior to that point, the fetus had a heartbeat, but no soul. 

When a child is born within it is a fully developed soul. There is no such thing as a baby soul. Babies do not have cherubs inside them. No wonder that babies get so frustrated with us when we talk to them as if they are idiots without an awareness or consciousness.



The truth is babies see auras. Babies can tell who has an open heart and who doesn't. Notice when you smile at an infant where their gaze rests. It is usually above our heads or over our shoulder because they are looking at our aura or energy field.

Today, at a local Social Security office, filled with hundreds of people I witnessed something horrific. I watched as a woman told her six-month-old grandchild who was attempting to stand up with her wobbly little legs over and over again, "Hey, Big Chunky! You can't even stand up!" She repeated her admonishment "Big Chunky!" as if it was waving a magic wand over this child. She called this sweet little girl, "Big Chunky!" She never called her by her real name. As I watched I saw a gleam in the grandmother's eyes and stopped counting as she called her Big Chunky more than twenty times while I sat waiting. 

Why would someone call a little child who is far from chunky something so derogatory? Often people are totally unaware of how powerful their words are to a small child. Children that grow up being compared to other siblings or gender related remarks "crying like a little girl," end up with low self-esteem.

Frequent criticism creates a child eager to please others. If any of this sounds familiar, you are not alone. In the ten years of energy healing of babies all the way to geriatric patients, I have found that all of us were imprinted by negative beliefs, fears, and thoughts of our parents, but especially our mothers while in the womb. Any arguments about whether the child is wanted or should be aborted created a pattern or rejection and abandonment before the baby is even born. 

If our parents were worried about how they would manage to feed another child when a pregnancy is first detected their fears negatively affect the unborn child as well. Imprinting occurs when the mother has an emotional reaction to a conversation or event while pregnant. The mother's emotions are felt and create an imprint in the unborn child. A father's emotions also impact a child, but not as profoundly. An unborn child learns to recognize their parent's voices. When a newborn hears either parent, they will turn their head toward the familiar voices. 

Scientist and the medical profession state that learning begins at birth. I contest that learning begins in the womb.

By the time I had my third child, I learned enough about babies to do many things differently. I didn't vaccinate. I felt certain that vaccination was causing Autism and Aspergers Syndrome. I breastfed all of my children but continued until she was ready to wean herself and kept our daughter in our bed, close to me. She didn't like being separated from me at night and cried for hours when her father insisted on keeping her in her crib. We had a very strong bond as a result of her early childhood being what I felt intuitively was best for her, rather than listening to someone's opinion.

I stayed at home with her rather than allowing another person to influence and raise our beautiful child. As a result, she grew up sweet, sensitive, soft and generous. My daughter has a light that radiates from her heart and eyes.

We Have A Powerful Influence

What if the words we speak to a child are like a blessing or a curse? What if the words we speak when a child is a so utterly fresh, clean and conscious soaking up everything the adults around them say and do as their lasting programs? What if these programs govern the child for his or her entire life? What if this unknowing grandmother's words cursed this little girl to a life of obesity and an inability to stand up for herself, or worse yet, Multiple Sclerosis or some other debilitating disease?

Words can hurt adults, they certainly hurt babies and toddlers as well. Wouldn't it be more loving and supportive to tell our beautiful little ones how wonderful they are encouraging their growth through the challenges they encounter so that they become adults with healthy self-esteem knowing that they are capable of doing and being anything they can dream? 

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https://eftforpeace.wordpress.com/2011/01/24/effect-of-negative-language-on-children/

http://www.ilmgate.org/when-does-the-soul-enter-the-fetus/

3 Ways To Overcome Chaos By Living Simply

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Life can throw us some curve balls. Living simply offers us a peace that removes us from the chaos. 2016 may already be offering many different opportunities from that of 2015. Choosing what is best for us requires us to be present, tapping into our physical bodies for confirmation. 

If you are out in the world you may be feeling a sense of chaos, energy coming at you from all directions. There are too many choices in the grocery store, too many tasks to complete, too many things undone, which all drain our precious energy. Life is short. Let's make the most of this New Year by living simply. 

How Can You Simplify?

Today in our technical age we walk out the door with our phone in hand. Working at our desks we have our phone right beside us. We answer it whenever it rings. Do we really need to? Each interruption takes us away from having clarity and focus. Interruptions cause stress. Do we need to be on the phone while driving? NO, we don't. Stop answering the phone when you are in the middle of something. If the call is important, they will leave a voice mail. If it wasn't, there is no loss. 

Driving in the car is a time we need to focus and be present on what is happening in front of us. In 2016, there is an increased energy of chaos. Chaotic energy can cause accidents. We need to focus on one thing at a time. 

Multi-Tasking

Multi-tasking reduces productivity by 40%. You cannot focus effectively on several things at once. There is a serious downside to this new age of high tech computer, smartphone working. Seriously consider giving up multi-tasking this year. It doesn't help, it actually hurts you in the following ways:

1. creates mental blocks that reduce productivity by 40%
2. causes stress physically, mentally and emotionally
3. diverts your attention from your goals in life
4. you don't perform even one task effectively when you are focusing on several
5. lowers IQ
6. reduces memory
7. causes errors
8. you have to regroup each time you shift from one task to another taking precious time
9. takes longer to perform the task when multi-tasking. 

Relaxing

When my daughter was living with me, we would often sit down to watch a comedian, my favorite thing to watch to unwind. I would focus on the comedian while she had her iPad and cell phone with her flipping from one screen to another. Just watching her doing this activity irritated me. My son watches several televisions when he watches football. Any activity for relaxing needs to be just singular. Otherwise, you are causing stress in your body. This overactivity causes anxiety, then young people turn to smoking pot to relieve their stress.

Meditation

When meditating you can't be taking notes, answering text messages or sending e-mails. It doesn't work that way. To be in silence and stillness to calm the body and mind we need to be totally present. Doing absolutely nothing but breathing in silence and stillness for it to be effective. 

Multi-Tasking During Sex

I'm sorry, but cooking breakfast in front of your children while your partner plows you from behind is not good for anyone. Seriously! Yes, people have told me they do it. We can't give fully to our partners when we are thinking of anything else, answering a phone or watching a television program while having sex. 

How To Live Simply

1. Have rules for everyone in the household that create presence and focus, i.e. no cell phones at the table, in the bedroom or while watching television.
2. One activity at a time. Does your child really need ballet, karate, cello and religious classes all at the same time? Seriously? When do they get to be a child? Our childhood is short keep activities down to one. 
3. Get outside and be in nature. Leave your cell phone in the car. Walk in silence. Focus on what you see rather than texting everyone you know while doing your constitutional. This is time with you and God. It is time for you to reconnect with your body. Experience this beauty fully. 
4. You only need one cell phone. Rather than replacing it as soon as a new one comes out use it till the thing dies. Striving for the latest and greatest is living outside of your body. You don't feel enough just by being you. 
5. Focus on you for a change rather than stuff. 
6. Write in your journal. Sitting down and writing is a very positive way to connect with Guidance and your High Self. Do it daily. 
7. Focus on what you are FEELING. Most people have no idea how they feel because they are doing too many things to even notice. 
8. Meditate daily. 
9. Exercise daily.
10. Love Yourself. This is the simplest and best part of living fully. When you love yourself you will find that the world is a brighter place and that you have infinitely more love to give everyone in your life and the world. Loving you also raises the energy of the planet, so you are doing something to help all of humanity by loving you.
11. Connect to your soul purpose. Do what you love. You have a story inside you. You have done great things in your life. Consider doing work that engages your soul and your heart.
    
    Doing work you love creates more joy and bliss than you can image. Have you seen my smile? It isn't fake. I am so happy, I want to share it with the world. Help me do this by sharing my blog, my app and what I do with your friends. 

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3 Ways Trauma Continues To Play Out In Relationships

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

There is a reason for everything that happens. You may wonder why on earth some of the events occurred when they continue to plague you long after the event? Our trauma in childhood may very well become our greatest challenges in adulthood. Ignoring the emotional reverberations can cause major issues in all your relationships. These issues can plague you beyond your last break-up or divorce if you don't pay attention to clear the past events.

What Is Trauma?

Trauma is an event that shatters your sense of security, causing emotional pain, suffering or even fear long after the event has ended. Rape, sexual and emotional abuse are the biggest issues that cause trauma. Emotional trauma is a form of PTSD. 

The trauma could be a parent or teacher humiliating us in front of our class. It could be a doctor, parent, sibling or babysitting sexually molesting us. It could be a critical parent who only knew criticism themselves and replicated their parents tough taskmaster roles in our lives. For others, trauma could be having a parent or parents who were addicted to alcohol or drugs and were emotionally unavailable to us. A parent who makes a child responsible for their happiness also causes trauma.

How Does Trauma Affect Us?

Trauma can cause constant fears, anxiety, depression, inability to trust others, numbness (both physically and emotionally). What I have noticed with myself and my clients is that when we are triggered we go back to that moment in time when we felt powerless, unsafe and unprotected. It as if time stands still and we revert to our childhood state when the trauma occurred. 

When Will Trauma Occur?

1. When you were unprepared for it
2. When we feel unable to prevent it or protect ourselves
3. It happens repeatedly
4. You felt powerless to prevent it
5. It happened in childhood
6. Someone was intentionally cruel

How Trauma Continues To Replay

1. You are triggered by a smell, touch or thing (this could be the smell of soap, a dog that was part of the event). For me, although I love dogs, I can't see a pug without remembering my neighbor who molested me when I was five. Pugs give me the creeps. The smell of comet cleanser is another trigger for me due to the same event. It is a visceral memory.
2. Someone touches you in a way that triggers a past memory of the traumatic event. It could be a loving partner who touches you in a way, that is reminiscent of the sexual abuse or trauma.
3. Your current partner might say a phrase that triggers a memory that brings you back to the event, years afterwards.

How Can You Overcome The Past?

Trying to forget it doesn't work. You can overcome the trauma with energy work, hypnotherapy, and Repatterning. This is work I do with my clients in sessions. Spiritual re-parenting, removal of the past beliefs, and patterns will help you to move forward out of the pattern which is like PTSD. Just like a soldier who continues to re-live the trauma of what he or she has been through, childhood trauma is a form of PTSD.

Suggestions To Work Through Trauma

Emotional trauma does not go away on its own. Our unconscious mind is where the event is stored, causing reactions to be triggered for innocuous events seemingly out of nowhere. Keeping secrets about sexual abuse, rape, incest and the like cause deep suffering that never goes away. Working on the unconscious patterning is what I do in my coaching. As a survivor of most types of trauma, I have worked through my own issues over 32 years of deep introspection and inner work. I use these techniques to help you shift your inner and outer world. There are some things you can do to help yourself recover.

1. Speak up! Most survivors of trauma shut down and shut up. This does not help you recover. It perpetuates the behavior instead of allowing it to be released. Talk to your partner, spouse, or hire someone like me that knows what they are doing to help you recover.
2. Know Your Triggers. No one knows you like you. You know what triggers you. Let your partner and loved ones know so that they understand your reactions. 
3. Ask Permission To Touch. The most powerful thing I received in Tantra was having my partner ask, "May I touch you here?" It empowers you, allows you to feel safe, and instills trust. Without trust, you can't have an orgasm. Have your partner ask your permission to touch, hug, or kiss you before they swoop in and grab you. Those who have never experienced sexual trauma are ill equipped to understand your pushing them away. It causes unnecessary hurt feelings. 
4. Practice. You have been living with this trauma for most of your life. It takes some time to overcome old behaviors. Practice asking for what you need. Your safety and trust of others is paramount for your happiness. If you feel you always have to look over your shoulder for the next blow, you will always have anxiety.
5. Get Professional Help. I did group therapy, private sessions with a Psychotherapist and none of it helped me. Often repeating your story does nothing but keep you in the old patterns. My sense is that the best form of therapy is healing that allows you to shift perspective, removes emotions and blocks that keep you stuck in the same patterns. You have to work with someone who understands your type of trauma and has healed their own. Working with someone that still has their own issues, won't help you.

Reasonably Priced Programs To Help You

I have several programs on my website that offer clearings, and energy work that will help you shift in powerful and positive ways. Happiness Jump Happiness - At The Beginning is a three part three-hour audio series that clears what is blocking you from being happy and walks you through what you need to do and not do to be happy right now. $98.00 - $675 Value!

Aphrodite Effect (Journey Into Radiance clears your love story helps you recognize where you might be off track with your past relationships, allowing you to be ALL IN! In part three I walk you through manifesting your BELOVED PARTNER! $98.00 for three hours of deep inner work and energy clearing. Over $675 value!

The Shift Clearings are all three-part audio series that offer deep energy clearing of anxiety, worry, fears, blocks to love and finally financial blocks to abundance as well as teachings to help you right now. At $98.00 for three hours of intense work this is a very special value. Over $675 value!

In my first book, Odyssey Victim to Victory, I tell my story of healing. I went from man to man looking for love because I confused sex with love. It was the pattern imprinted in childhood. People I trusted hurt me and overstepped my personal boundaries repeatedly. I was clinically depressed for over 20 years. I got married and divorced because I didn't love myself and attracted men who victimized me because of the pattern of victimhood. Until I removed the trapped emotions, patterns and self-sabotage, I continued to attract the same type of men.

The sexual trauma caused me to have numbness in my body. I was unable to orgasm with a partner. Which is why I wrote Orgasm For Life in 2014. It is no longer a problem for me. I write about sexual healing in Orgasm For Life for those who want to heal this on their own.

My past no longer defines me. I am happy. I love myself fearlessly. On my healing journey, I became a hypnotherapist, a hypnotherapy trainer, a certified Master Energy healer, A certified Akashic Record Practitioner, and worked on myself and my unconscious programs. It took me 30 years doing it on my own. How much time do you have to devote to your recovery? You deserve to be happy. You deserve to recognize your value. I did it on my own, now I help others to heal their trauma so that they can have the love they deserve. Visit my website for further information on my work. Aphroditeeffect.com Sign up for my private newsletters that offer insights and special offers. Or e-mail me to set up a private session with me. 

Survey: What's Really Happening in Bedrooms

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

You're in emotional pain. You feel lonely even while married or in a relationship. You aren't having the relationship you want and certainly not the sex. You wish something would change, but you wonder what? You've stuck it out so long, is it worth leaving? Is it worth changing? Can you? Do you even know what to do? Can you be as happy alone as you can in a relationship? I say YES TO ALL! You might want to sign up for my group coaching when I offer it again in October!

Love Yourself Fearlessly Survey Results

The above paragraph is the gist of what I received. It doesn't matter if it is in Canada, Russia, India or the United States, people aren't happy in their relationships. Most of you aren't happy with you. If you are in emotional pain, schedule a group of sessions, or sign up for my group program. I promise you one session will make you feel better than you do right now. Three will get you to a place of feeling more than hopeful about life and relationships. Doing nothing guarantees nothing will change.

Thank you for taking the time to respond to my survey. I truly appreciate you. With these results, I am better able to tailor my writing for you. This article is full of resources I have created over the past four years. If you have an issue, I have most likely written about it. There is a search bar to the left, you can key in your concern and an article will pop up for you. If you don't find one, you can request that I write an article for you here: JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com

Respondents

38% Female

62% Male

Age: Respondents ranged from 21 to over 60

Men were the significant contributors. Why? Men are more motivated by sex than women. They are also more open about their level of satisfaction. Women can be tight-lipped when it comes to sex and talking about it. For those brave women who responded thank you! To the men, I congratulate you also for your openness.

Biggest Groups:

40 - 49: 28.57%

60 +      23.81%

Countries

Canada

India

Serbia

United States

Biggest Challenges

Money 60%

No sex or not enough sex 60%

No relationship 50%

Worry 40%

No Love 35%

Emotional pain 25%

Quality of relationship 15%

Fear 10%

Low Self-Esteem 10%

Not enough love

Being Committed

No jobs

Employment Status

60% employed full-time

10% employed part-time

10% unemployed looking for work

5% not employed not looking

5% retired

5% self-employed

5% other

Marital Status

52.38% Married

19.05% Divorced

9.52% Single but cohabitating with significant other

19.05% Single never married

Exercise

19.05 Don't regularly exercise

14.29 Once a week

33.33% 3-4 Days a week

33.33% 5 - 7 Days a week

Sex Frequency

25% Twice a week or more

20% Once a month

55% Less than Once a month (SEXLESS RELATIONSHIP)

Group coaching will help you with worry, self-esteem, fear and emotional pain for starters. Feeling better about you will help you with your relationships. I can't tell you how just one private session with me can help you. Some of you prefer to to what is easy and stay with the status quo. Nothing will ever change till you make the decision to DO SOMETHING! Doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different results is the definition of insanity. 

I will do my best to address all of these issues in the coming days and weeks. For those of you looking for work, I recommend Fiverr.com. It is a place where you can sell your talents and earn some money. Some people completely replace their day job with Fiverr. You begin with a $5.00 gig and can increase the price as you increase following and success. You need to set up a Paypal account. Another site that available for those in the UK is Airtasker.com .

No Sex

Sadly some people have not had sex with their partner in over 20 years. If this was me, I would have been much more proactive. If someone doesn't want sex with you, have you asked why? Have you asked what about sex they don't like? What do they like about sex? Do they orgasm? Do they hate themselves? Do they hate you? You have to have a conversation to have change. What could be worse than what you have now? 

Many women won't have sex after a while because it isn't worth it to them. If they don't derive pleasure at all, or enough stimulation to have an orgasm, but you do each time, they will close up shop. 

Issues

No sex means something is wrong. Did someone cheat? Can the cheating be forgiven? Have you tried? Is there abuse, name-calling, button pushing, negativity or unresolved issues? 

When there is no sex, something is wrong. If there is resentment or anger from past issues work needs to be done to forgive. You usually can't do this without the help of a loving coach. I personally, do not believe or support traditional therapy. I have done it three times and each time it led to divorce. Therapy keeps you stuck telling the story of old woes and does not move you past resentment into love. When I work with a couple I work individually, rather than together. Each of you have your own issues. I help you heal your own stuff and stop blaming each other.

What If You Do Nothing?

Doing nothing means nothing will change. Avoidance of issues does not make them go away. Denial that there is a problem just will end up causing health issues for both of you. Personal happiness is your birthright. You have to do the work to get to happiness. It is what I did. I used to be in terrible emotional pain. The pain became too great and I knew life could be better. I also recognized that my negativity was killing me. 

Your thoughts create illness if they are negative. If you don't love yourself you may have issues with being a victim, addictions, loneliness, or reactive to emotional issues. You may be suffering in emotional pain. This is where I live and breathe! You don't have to suffer. You would be amazed at how a couple of sessions with me can change your life. (Group sessions will be offered again in October at an affordable rate.)

Relationships take sacrifice. You can't make it all about you. What are you giving to your marriage? Are you speaking your partner's love-language. If we come to the relationship with an empty love tank, it will be difficult to give love to the other. How do you love you? What do you do for yourself each day to nurture you? What do you do for her every day unselfishly? What do you give to him? 

Everyone Wants The Same Thing

We each need to love and be loved. Most people expect their partner to fill them up. Yet self-love is a requirement for a healthy relationship. Sex is also part of a healthy loving relationship. Believe it or not, having more sex will help you to want to have more sex. Both men and women responded that their partners were not satisfied with the amount of sex and closeness. 

Wired Differently

Men need sex to feel intimate. Women want intimacy to feel the desire for sex.

Men Are Not Perverts Because They Want Sex

Sex is a natural need. If you aren't having sex and are in a relationship someone is abusing the other. Withholding sex is abuse. If one party wants sex every day, this could be too frequent for your partner. You may have to come to an understanding of what feels right for you both. 

Women Who Wear The Pants

Women who act like men in the relationship can be out of balance with their feminine energy. We each have both masculine and feminine energy in us. I help to balance this energy so that you are more feminine than masculine as a woman. Equality in a marriage or a woman who feels more assertive than her husband can destroy the relationship. Even in this day-and-age we need to allow our men to be men. Emasculating them is abusive, rather than loving. No one is better than another person. If this is what you think, think again. This is ego-based rather than loving. 

We each have weaknesses and strengths learn to play to each other's strengths and delegate your weakness to the one who is stronger. 

Comments Section

To protect those who responded to me privately, I will group the concerns here. 

1. Want to help wife orgasm? Buy Orgasm For Life. Everything is detailed in this book you need to know to get her there. If you are really concerned spend the $18.00 and help yourself! Maybe you don't have the $18.00? Here are four blogs to help you get her there.

How To Turn On A Woman

G-Spot Fact or Fiction

5 Ways To Create Fireworks In The Bedroom

Sexual Numbness: Bring Me TO Life!

2. Women wants to help her husband open up to have more sex. Since I don't know all the details, this could be a case of low libido. I am giving you some different articles to read to assist you. Offer him a massage, or jump in the shower with him. Soap him up and give him a body buff - a naked soapy body slide! Talk to him about sex. Ask him what turns him on. Begin a conversation. Here are a couple of blogs for you.

Sex As Medicine

The Lighter Side of Sexual Dysfunction

Low Testosterone: Raising The Flag Without Killing Your Liver

Reasons Men Cheat

What's Missing: Love and Tenderness

3. Looking For Love?  I highly recommend that you attend my course in October! It will help you prepare for love, open your heart and heal your old love story. Until then, here are a few articles that will help you love yourself more. 

Are You Truly Ready For Love?

3 Powerful Ways To Feel Loved Even If You Are Alone

5 Ways You May Be Blocking Love

How To Fall In Love With Anyone

Looking For A Bad Boy?

4. Emotional Pain? An energy clearing and coaching session with me will help with this. 

Recognizing Codependency

When The Pain Becomes Too Great

5. Worry. Worry is a useless emotion. Sometimes we get stuck in an old thought or belief that we just can't get out of. Again, this is something that I help my clients with. I used to worry incessantly. In fact, I had to take two Benadryl a night just to sleep through the night because I worried so much. Here are a couple of articles about worry. 

The Courage To Thrive

6. Fear? Fear could be because you have attached energies on you. Being near fearful people can cause this. It can also be caused by smoking pot, taking prescription meds. A clearing will help you. I used to be very fearful. Not any more. I clear the trapped emotion of fear so you can shift out of this paradigm.

Manifesting Miraculous Moments

How Can I Learn To Trust

The Gift Of Cancer

7. Sex Addiction? I have been helping people with sex addiction for over 30 years - privately. Now I help people deal with this through my coaching. Sex addiction comes from being molested. Give yourself the opportunity to forgive you and those who molested you. 

 Sex Addiction: My Personal Journey Out of The Dark

Ready to change your life for the better? Do you need to ask Jennifer some questions to see if her work is a good fit for you? E-mail her here: JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com

Generosity And Compassion For Sex Addicts

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

The following information is not for the feint of heart. If you know someone is a sex addict there are reasons for this. I do my

best to write articles that are uplifting. Once you get to the end, of this article, there are answers, help and hopefully, you will have more compassion and understanding for yourself or your loved one. There is light and help at the end of the tunnel. 

The reason I do what I do, is because of what I have experienced. This was the path I chose. Each of us has a life path. Along our path we discover that without a purpose we feel lost, ungrounded and unfulfilled. Believe it or not, we chose our life before we incarnated. Some of what we experienced was extremely painful. There was a reason for the pain. We called it forth so that we would learn, continue to search,

excavate, evolve and grow. Those of us that have experienced the intense pain, grief and shame of sexual molestation have endured the worst type of suffering known to man. Our souls were fractured as a result. A rift between truth and fantasy begins when sexual molestation occurs. We have to make up stories about our molestors to make living with them palatable. To be able to endure life at all we often appear to be schizophrenic, bipolar, have personality disorders or have severe depression most of our lives.

If you have a sex addiction or know someone that does, they need more love not less. They need more understanding not less. They need compassion, love and healing. There is a reason for the pain. Yes, they have intense pain. The reason is that most sex addicts are this way because way back in their childhood they were molested by the very people that they trusted. Has horrible as it may be to imagine, molestation often occus before a child turns three years of age. When trauma occurs before the age of 3, they usually won't remember the incident.  The patterns are imprinted without any memory. The soul fracture happens without the mental memory.

Even as I type these words waves of energy are hitting me. This has been secret information up until now. We have not been privy to this understanding before now. There is a direct connection between our search for love through sex and sexual molestation.

Sexual molestation causes sex addiction. 

Why?

When children are molested by those that they trust, a crack occurs in the soul and the emotional psyche. A false belief is set up because of this pattern. First of all, we become victims. Our parents most often are the perpetrators, but there could be others. Sadly, in some families, molestation of children goes back 7 generations or more. It could be a trusted grandparent, clergyman or babysitter. For many, of us molestation happens with more than one person in our lives. It is as if a neon sign appears on our forehead. This message or signal goes out into the universe and pedophiles recognize the signal. They are attracted to it. Which is why many victims of sexual molestation are often molested by more than one person. They/we often go on into our adult lives and continue to attract others who will victimize us. Some people molest others. When you understand the patterns that occur, it helps you to understand how our relationships suffer as a result of this atrocity.

Our Molestors

Those who molested us, were most likely victims of molestation. This pattern often stays in familes for many generations until one person stops it. Which is what I did for my family. Unfortunately, my own personal denial of who it was that did the molesting of me originally, caused my own children to be put in harms way

unbeknownst to me, until recently. No one wants their children to be molested. We have to be diligent, alert without being hypervigilant. Child molestors are fractured souls. They are in deep pain and suffer greatly. Some go to their graves with this in their hearts and may even be afraid to die. It is very sad.

Patterns:

• Trust equals pain
• People who love you hurt you
• Suffering sorrow, grief, shame, humiliation can also equal sex. 
• Love equals sex. 
• Sex means love
• Love equals betrayal of our trust

Trapped Emotions

I began doing healing work because I was in so much personal pain into my 30's. My life was filled with misery, anxiety, low self esteem depression, physical pain until I healed. I could not receive love because I had a block to it. My heart was closed and protected as a result of the fracture in my soul. It is why I became a hypnotherapist, energy healer and life coach. Sex can heal. Sex can be therapeutic. 

I knew there were thousands more out there like me that needed what I learned from my own journey. People that could not do this alone. Even after clearing myself thousands of times having acupuncture, chiropractic, hypnotherapy, NLP, and many other healing methods used to heal myself, I found that there was a missing piece. 

Feeling Numb?

Emotions become trapped in our cells, even within our genitals that can cause us to feel numb. Many women won't experience the complete bliss and release of a sexual encounter until the energy is cleared and released. Many people feel emotionally dead or even numb. 

My first book, Odyssey Victim to Victory was written to help others see that there is light at the end of the tunnel. It is the story of my personal journey, realization and healing that totally changed my life and took me out of the dark. Sexual abuse and victimhood no longer define me. This book is a beginning of many people's journey into happiness, out of depression and victimization. For me, I was non-orgasmic into my fifties until I totally and completely healed the energy trapped in my physical body through Tantra. (This Tantric healing is detailed in my second book, Orgasm For Life.)

What Are The Signs Of Trapped Emotions?

• sex addiction
• rage
• irrational emotions
• emotional reactivity
• being shut down emotionally
• depression
• sadness
• anxiety
• worry
• low self esteem
• betrayal in relationships
• Obesessive Compulsive behaviors
• control
• fears
• lying
• cheating
• unable to connect with another deeply
• unable to orgasm
• serial monogamy
• obsessive masturbation
• pornography addiction
• attract partners who betray you
• attract partners who victimize you
• hate sex
• can't get enough of sex
• have a thing for anal sex - either really hate it, or can't get enough of it

There are others, but you get the idea.

Signs of Sexual Molestation

What Is A Sexual Addiction

There is Help

As a result of recent events in my own life I am offering a very special series. This is specifically created to heal sexual molestation and sexual addiction. It is a series of energy clearings, emotional release work and spiritual reparenting for people who have these issues. Currently I am doing a series of three sessions for $450. The total must be paid prior to the first session and only available through May 31st, 2015. I use 5 different healing methods for this release work. None of which is spell work. I work only with Divine energy. 

SOS Healing Package

Each session builds upon the next. This series of three will only be availble through the end of May at this price. This offer is only good for people who are committed to doing the work necessary to heal these issues. I walk you through the process. Most of it is gentle and easy energy release work. The worst thing you might experience is the release of tears and letting go of the sorrow and grief. Your inner child is also healed. You will feel happier and more hopeful about life and relationships afterward. 

SOS Healing Package

Yes, there was a reason for this article post today. I have the utmost compassion and respect for each of you on your journey. Please know that this work does not involve on screen masturbation, it is not a date with me. It is healing work only. Please know that I am professional, compassionate, understanding and have been working on these issues for a very long time.
You can e-mail me here with your questions. 

The Dangerous Truth About Jealousy

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Jealousy is a relationship killer. It is a sign of insecurities, lack of trust rather than love. If you are dating someone with serious jealousy RUN, don't walk away. Jealousy can be a neurosis from severe inadequacy. It is NOT a sign of true love. 

From OJ Simpson, to Oscar Pistorius, unbridled jealousy can cause abuse, control and even death. When I was searching for photos to post within this article, I found hundreds of stories of murder, shootings, car accidents and battery due to jealousy. There is no doubt that jealousy is an unhealthy emotion. It is not a sign of how much you love another.

In the cases of unfounded jealous behavior, as with Oscar Pistorius, steroids and unhealthy emotions came into play. 

A little feeling of envy when you see someone get a promotion, or the coveted position you were vying for is one thing. Seeing another person who you view as better looking, more fit or has more than you feel you do, can also bring up feelings of jealousy. The thought, "What a bitch!" often comes up when we don't feel good about ourselves. 

The better our self esteem is, the less we covet what others have. Often what others have is not what we see on the outside. There is always more to the story.

When your partner looks at another with lust or desire, you can feel a twinge of control or jealousy surfacing. He might say things like, "She's not that attractive, or she's not as pretty as you." Comments like this divert their jealous partner's attention from the truth, that they were looking at another woman and think she is hot! 

Attractive women and men will get unsolicited attention from strangers just for being sexy. Expecting a person to turn off who they are is unreasonable. 

I remember being married to a man who was controlling, abusive and extremely jealous. I married this man even though he showed signs of jealous rage that were completely unfounded early in our relationship. I thought that over time, he would come to trust me. He never did. Instead, he became more controlling and jealous to the point of telling me what to wear and who to see. This is not healthy.   thought that his jealousy showed how deeply he cared for me. I was very insecure at the time, myself. The fact that he was showing jealousy buoyed my ego (my false self). It made me feel more attractive. His rage, gave me the sense that he cared and could take anyone out, if he needed to. In a twisted way, it made me feel safe. I have since learned to steer clear of those with control, anger issues or jealousy.

Signs Your Mate's Jealousy Is A Problem

1. They tell you how to dress.
2. They are controlling of who you see and where you go, where you work and even family. They may even call you to check up to see what you are doing when you go out with friends.
3. They may move you to a place where you have no friends or family and refuse to allow family to visit.
4. They may control what you say and how you act.
5. They may tell you to stop sending out a sexual vibe.
6. They may want you to stop being who you truly are.
7. They will bring up the past repeatedly, not letting go.
8. Can be irrationally concerned for your well-being.
9. You may be afraid to leave them for fear they might hurt you and/or themselves.
10. They feel inadequate around others.
11. You may have to bolster their self esteem to help them feel better.
12. You may feel like you are walking on egg shells.

Feeling spite towards someone who appears to have more, or looks better is unhealthy. It is a sign of low self esteem. The way to overcome unhealthy emotions is to work on your self esteem. Accepting who you are, the way you are is the first step. 

Women Jealous Of Other Women

Just this morning I visited a local Boulder, Colorado coffee shop for some Bhakti Chai. My daughter, her boyfriend and I walked in and stood in line behind two lean, attractive, Daisy Dukes (short-shorts) clad, college students. They both turned and scowled at my daughter. She had done absolutely nothing to either of them. I watched as they continued to turn around and sneer in my daughter's direction. When women with low self esteem see other attractive women, that they feel are thinner, more attractive, bustier or sexier, they feel insecure about themselves turning into woman hating bitches; sneering and sending negative energy towards innocent bystanders. All you have to do is be you, and you can get shot dirty looks, scowles, sneers and bitchy comments. Insecure women seem to hate other women. With women who are self assured, confident and love themselves, this rarely occurs.

My dear friend Diana Davis was a beautiful woman. She had a knack for attracting men. Before I became enlightened and was still working on loving myself, I brought a very attractive man with me to Diana's for a visit. Greg seemed instantly attracted to Diana. I was jealous of her easy way with men, that I lacked. I was also jealous of her voluptuous body. They were joking back and forth in a way that we did not. I felt less than her. This jealousy almost ruined our relationship. Diana never intended to take my guy away. She was flirtatious with him, but my imagination and insecurities blew everything out of proportion. I was sure she was sleeping with him. She assured me she was not interested in anything more than friendship with Greg. Diana is no longer on the planet, she passed away in 2012, from experimental chemotherapy for breast cancer. Knowing there would not be repercussions from my discussion, I talked to Greg, who remains a friend to this day. We had a very meaningful conversation about our families and the past. I asked him if he ever was intimate with Diana. He told me he never was. He was surprised at my question. Years after my awakening, I look back and see the way I used to be when I was so codependent. My insecurity got in the way of healthy loving relationships.

Jennifer is the real deal. She is the author of two books, Orgasm For Life, being her most recent release. She awakened in 2012 and is completely self actualized. She is empathic, intuitive and a catalyst. What this means to you is that Jennifer will get you. She will understand you like no one else will. She has the ability to cut to the root of your issues quickly and effectively. Although Jennifer is compassionate and kind, she is honest, direct and doesn't sugar coat the truth. She has been where you are. Her wisdom, guidance and gifts are natural from connecting with Source energy. Just speaking to her via phone or Skype will shift you. Whether it is private coaching, an energy clearing you need, a hypnotherapy session or Neurolinguistic Programming, Jennifer is professional, loving, and authentic. To book your private series of sessions or healing appointment, her e-mail is JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com