Feel Happy No Matter What

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Years ago, I felt like a victim when I did I attracted men who victimized me and was unable to manifest. We are disempowered when we are victims. We feel our lives are out of control. I've changed this stance and have come to recognize why things happen the way they do; everything does happen for a reason.

Are you breathing deeply? Do you feel your life is out of control? Are your emotions running your life? I get it. I was there too at one time. My life was out of control, and I lived in constant fear. We block ourselves with these negative emotions.

We worry about what others think of us, and our negative emotions cripple us. We work to please others, our boyfriends, children, husbands, wives, and friends, when we do, we feel lost, broken and don't know who we are anymore. I was there too for years.

The relationship we have with ourselves is the most important one in our life. If we are filled with self-loathing and low self-esteem, we aren't standing in our personal power. We are meant to be happy with ourselves self-criticism is defeating and disempowering.

We worry about what other people think about us.
We turn ourselves inside out to "get" others to like and love us.
There is no stretch to being authentic, it is just who you truly are.

We have to train our unconscious mind, or it runs amok. When we allow our unconscious mind to run wildly, it is like being in a boat without a rudder. When a boat doesn't have a rudder, it runs around in circles. We have to tell our unconscious mind what to do with our conscious thoughts.

I love me.

I am lovely inside out.

I love the way I look.

My body is at the perfect weight.

I love and approve of myself.

Even if these mantras don't feel true, the unconscious mind feels it is true. The unconscious mind believes everything we tell it.

I am a millionaire

Money comes to me easily and effortlessly

Money loves me.

People love to pay me money!

The more you love you, the more you will grow to trust yourself. You are worth trusting. We have to quiet the emotions. I help people to alleviate the crazy and wild emotions that run the show. When our emotions are running amok, they also run our lives. You are not a victim. We have to take responsibility for ourselves and our personal happiness. No one else can give it to us.

My body is at the perfect weight.

My good comes to me easily.

My life is getting better and better every day.

I trust myself.

I am worthy of love.

I am deserving. 

I am enough.

Jennifer is a Soul Sculptor who helps you break the mold. Not sure you can do this on your own? You don't have to. Let's set up a time to talk. I'd love to hear about your personal situation and see if I can help. E-mail me, and we'll set up a time to chat. 

Do You Make Everyone Else's Happiness Your Responsibility?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

I remember Christmas when my children were little. I was careful to buy equal priced gifts for each child. No matter how hard I tried, my oldest son always felt disappointed. Even when I spent more on him, he felt disappointed, as if I could never give him enough. 

I felt my stomach sink each year as the presents were unwrapped and the bows and ribbons picked up and thrown away. I made my son's happiness my responsibility. I used to be so concerned about what others thought and how they felt about me. 

When we put conditions on our happiness, we block our ability to be happy. Sometimes we are self-destructive and don't even know it, which leads to even more challenges in our lives. 

When we make statements like the following:

• I'll be happy when ______________(I'm in a relationship, am at the perfect weight, have the perfect job, have _____ money, move to a different location.
• We'll be happy when we're married.
• We'll be happy when we have a (or another) baby.
• I'll be happy when all my family is together.
• I'll be happy when I'm retired.
• I'll be happy when I can have sex.

..... we block our happiness.

Happiness comes from you, not an outside circumstance. When we don't love ourselves completely, we place conditions on our happiness. We make other's happiness our responsibility. No amount of presents will fill someone up that is running on empty. Love has to come from within to fill us up and make us feel loved.

The Truth

No one can else make us happy. Happiness doesn't come from material things like a house, new car or clothes. Material things bring us fleeting rushes, but not permanent happiness. A relationship might bring excitement to you at first, but if you aren't happy with you first, it can bring you more pain.

Thinking that making others happy will bring you happiness is putting their happiness ahead of yours. Each person is responsible for being happy with themselves. Happiness comes from being happy with who we are as we are.

How Do We Get Past This?

I understand, I really do. For half of my life, I was miserable with low self-esteem, anxiety, depression and a slew of failed relationships. Because I didn't respect myself, others didn't respect me either. I attracted men who wouldn't value me because I didn't value myself. I didn't love me and lived in denial of that fact, so the men I loved cheated. I kept attracting men who were emotionally unavailable because I was also. It was far easier to point out the other person's flaws and faults than to see my own.

Since I grew up with criticism in my household, I was critical of myself and others. It wasn't until I was told how negative I was that I began to see how crippling my thoughts and words to myself were. It took an outsider to make me aware of how I was creating my world. 

The Magic of Self Love

Our outer world is a magical mirror that reflects our innermost unconscious thoughts back to us. Until we begin to awaken, we don't notice how much damage we create to ourselves with the words and thoughts we think. 

How I Work With You

There are several ways I can help you to move beyond anxiety, depression, and unhappiness. Energy work, healing your field and removing the patterns and blocks to love, or hypnotherapy sessions. In my coaching sessions, I use all of my tool boxes, of The Akashic Records, coaching, intuition, healing, energy and hypnotherapy. In two hypnotherapy sessions, I can help you permanently change the way you feel about yourself. Hypnotherapy is a powerful healing modality that reprograms the unconscious mind to think in positive instead of negative ways. 

Beliefs

Our beliefs created from early childhood traumatic events govern our adult life unless we change them. Beliefs could be:

• I am unlovable
• I am unworthy
• I am not valuable
• I am not heard
• I am not respected
• I am not worth loving
• No one will ever love me
• People will reject me

Begin Today With A Mantra To Heal Your Mind

I am strong, powerful, harmonious, loving and happy!

I am lovable

I am worthy

I am loved

I am safe

I am secure

We can only make ourselves happy. Working on our inner self is the key to being happy with our outer world. I wish you the happiest of holidays whether you celebrate Kwanza, Christmas, Hannuka or Hajj, and so much love!

Work with Jennifer to find the love inside of you so that you can have the relationship of your dreams. Whether you are currently in a relationship or not, Jennifer will help you find the love wherever you are helping you shift your perspective to be happy and fulfilled.

I love you!

Jennifer

10 Common Mistakes Scientifically Proven To Prevent Happiness and Health


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What If You Have Already Arrived?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Our perception shifts our reality. Two people may look exactly the same, be the same weight, have the exact same relationship
status, while one person feels inadequate, fat, dumb, lost and the other loves life, their body and themselves. What is different about these two individuals? 

It is our perception of our reality that shifts everything. Do you feel your glass is half full? Or do you believe your glass is overflowing so much that you give joyously to others?

Feeling Broken 

When we think we are broken we focus on all the broken aspects of ourselves. We focus on the fact we don't have a relationship, we don't live near the family we love, we don't have friends. When we feel broken we think we need fixing. We also view others with the same perception: they need fixing also. 

Wherever You Focus Your Attention Grows

For example, I could focus on the fact that my family is across the country, in Colorado, my mother in Toronto, and that it is hard to see them. Or I could say to myself (which I do) when we are together, we have such a great time. I am totally present with my family and enjoy being with them so much. 

I could also focus on the fact that I live in the desolate, hot, cold and windy desert. Or I could focus on the fact that I am close enough to drive to the beach and back in one day. I can drive to beautiful Santa Barbara in a couple of hours and enjoy driving

through Valencia and all the orange groves and see all the artichokes, cabbage, and raspberries growing. I am close enough to drive to Colorado in 19 hours. I am close enough to LA that I can visit clients there in an hour and a half. Seeing my glass as overflowing is what brings me joy. I see all the possibilities rather than focusing on what I don't have.

When I spend time with my family whether it is my mother or my adult off-spring, I enjoy them for who they are. I revel in each moment. Even enjoying some revelry with my ex-husband Bill Gates over his grilling expertise.

I have fun with them. The time is special. I don't take them for granted. We mark the experiences with photos, appreciating each moment. We take trips to new places and enjoy such simple events as going to the grocery store together, cooking a meal or sharing a hike in a beautiful spot. We live for the moment.

Acceptance

Most people think they are broken. I know I used to also. For years, I thought I was a broken little doll that needed fixing. All the men I attracted also needed fixing. Funny how that happens! When I didn't believe I was enough, neither did the men I was with. I was criticized, put down and was very good at sabotaging any good that came along.

Thinking that you aren't enough will change your world. When we focus on what we think we don't have, all we see is a void, a hole an imperfect face or body, the fact that no one is our partner. Instead, begin the mantra, "I am perfect as I am." 

Ways To Power up Acceptance

Use the following mantras three times a day - every day for 30 days. You will find your ability to accept yourself and others will improve.

1. I am whole.
2. I am complete.
3. I am powerful.
4. I am perfect.
5. I am strong.
6. I am harmonious.
7. I am loving.
8. I am happy.
9. I am a perfect version of myself as I am. 
10. My life keeps getting better and better every day.
11. I commit to loving me!
12. I commit to myself and my happiness.
13. I love and accept myself as I am right now!

What If You are Absolutely Perfect The Way You Are?

The law of perfection states that you were created in the eyes of God, as God in His image. How can you be anything but perfect? You have already arrived - as you are. It is a come as you are party! 

Losing Weight

If your goal is to lose weight so that you can have the relationship of your dreams, I call BULL SHIT! Uh Huh! You are full of shit! In fact so much so, I think your eyes are turning brown. 

This morning I was working with a client who lost 235 pounds! His focus and goal in losing all that weight was that he would be happy and have the life and relationship of his dreams once he lost the weight. 

The Reality

If you aren't happy with yourself as is, like buying a used car from a dealer you will never be happy. This man that lost 235 pounds is miserable because he isn't any closer to being happy now than he was when he was considered obese. Why? Because he still doesn't accept himself the way he is. He pushes people away who try to love him because he wonders what on earth they see in him?

Join me Wednesday night for a FREE podcast where we will power up your acceptance quotient. I invite you to recognize that the only way you can be successful is by committing to yourself. You will never have the relationship of your dreams till you can stand up for you, believe in you and ACCEPT YOU!

Wednesday, March 23, 5:30 PM - 6:30 PM 

(641) 715-3580 Pin 730-749

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With Plenty of time for questions at the end. I will stay until the last question is answered!

Are you ready to commit to yourself? Are you ready to grow exponentially and accept all of you so that you can enjoy each moment of your life in joy? I have developed two signature programs of 6 and 10 months in length for those who are ready to commit to themselves. E-mail me now to set up your discovery session with me. Your life will never be the same, unless you want it to!

I love you!

Jennifer

Aphrodite Effect is all about the effect of LOVE on all that we do. Venus was the Greek Goddess of love. She was an ageless beauty, powerful, strong, sexual and knew who she was. She loved herself

fearlessly. Love gives us power, ageless beauty and deep connection. Set up your FREE discovery session with me here. JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com

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My Valentine's Day Wish For You

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Please join me LIVE on Sunday evening, Valentine's Day

at 3:00 PM PST or 8:00 PM EST.

See myself and 60 other healers and teachers on video LIVE, held on Learn It Live. My thirty-minute session is Clearing The Path To Love. Please use my link to sign up for my offering. I appreciate you. This is a great format using live video streaming. You can ask questions, raise your hands. It is only 30 minutes!

This symposium on Love, Dating and Sexuality is the largest of it's kind in history. I urge you to check it out. It is a great forum. I am considering doing my future workshops on their platform. They are good people and offer quite a selection. I recommend you read people's bios. I have had a couple of people recently pick my brain and then decide to use what I have given them to teach also. 

Should you require a session with me while I am writing, I am taking new clients on a very limited basis. You can reach me via e-mail here.  I do emergency sessions as needed. Yes, I still do energy clearing and Akashic Record readings. My primary focus is LOVE. Self-love, sexual healing, happiness are my areas of focus.

I recommend you download my FREE app. It is called Aphrodite Effect. I have had fabulous feedback from my clients who have been listening to the six hours of podcasts and energy clearings. Miracles occur for those who download them. Oh ye of little faith, don't knock it till you have tried it! Check it out on Google Play here. 

What others are saying about my free podcasts:

clearing anger, depression, anxiety, money issues and love....

I can feel the energy through your words. They are very well done. I felt like I was melting into the chair. My energy level is way up and I have been using the mantras. I am feeling happier. Thank you! John.

The Cascade of Miracles Prayer is amazing. I have begun using it for others. Everytime I say it, wonderful things materialize for me as if as a bonus! Thank you Jennifer! Cynara M. 

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How To Be Happy With YOU!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

What if your purpose for being here was to be happy? How would that change your life and your world? Some people focus on being successful or wealthy, yet never achieve a level of happiness in their life. What if I was to tell you that all you had to do is choose?

Have you ever noticed when you are feeling blissfully happy with your life, amazing people and opportunities just show up. Miracles happen, and you manifest what you are thinking about, miraculously? It's true, being happy shifts your vibration into a higher realm and you begin floating along on a higher stream of consciousness. You are dipping your straw into something greater than yourself. 

You can choose to be happy no matter what is going on in your life. Appreciating others in your life as well as your gifts, talents or abilities is a start. There is always something to appreciate about yourself. Yes, those emotions of sadness, grief, frustration or anger could be under the surface. You can wear those when you choose to. When we decide not to buy into other's beliefs of what we should or shouldn't be doing, life is a whole lot more enjoyable. 

In any given moment we can choose to shift the way we feel and experience life. We always have a choice. We can focus on all that we aren't or turn our focus instead on all that we are, and be appreciative of ourselves and others, everything shifts. 

Gratitude Is The Fastest Way To Happiness

Maybe you feel you don't have anything to be grateful for. I assure you, your life could be much worse than you believe it is right now. There is always something to be grateful for. After helping a homeless man in Boulder, I found out what true gratitude was all about. After I had helped him, he began to show his appreciation for my family and me by showing up at our door with a bagful of groceries. I helped him when I had little to give and he appreciated it. 

Authentic gratitude is different than a platitude. It is heartfelt and real. When we are in the space of gratitude our hearts open, we feel joy and happiness. If you are having some challenges finding something to be grateful here are a few to start with. Remember each day is a gift. Rather than focusing on what you don't have turn your focus on what you do have.

1. Thank you for giving me another day of life.
2. Thank you for my arms that hug.
3. Thank you for my legs that take me where I want to go.
4. Thank you for my toes and feet that support me.
5. Thank you for my heart that feels.
6. Thank you for my eyes that see.
7. Thank you for those in my life that help and support me.
8. Thank you for you.

Stop Comparing Yourself

When you look at others thinking that they have something better than you do, you are missing the point. We don't know the whole truth about someone else's story. There will always be others that are more intelligent, talented and beautiful than we are. However, you discount our talents and abilities that are unique to you when you look at others and compare. Letting go of comparing yourself will shift your vibration and happiness quotient quickly.

Case in point, Soon after I moved to the desert with my daughter, our neighbors invited my daughter and me over for a BBQ. Watching the two of them hug one another, her little grab of his ass, I thought they had a loving, beautiful relationship. Looking at them, I thought it would be nice to have a relationship like theirs. When I found out the truth, it was the exact opposite. 

My neighbor's relationship was abusive. He turned out to be an alcoholic who became nasty, mean and vengeful when drunk. Hateful words were exchanged on both sides in front of me, later on, that totally shocked me. They were both angry and very unhappy people. I realized that we never know the truth about someone's relationship until we look very closely. Longing for something that other's have will never give you the full story. You might find like me that what you have is irreplaceable and so much better than what others appear to have. 

Change Your Thoughts 

I know of a woman who was confined to a wheelchair with Lou Gehrig's disease. This disease is called incurable by doctors and leads to death. It is caused by and unwillingness to accept self-worth and a denial of success. When she recognized what the cause of her disease was, she sat naked in front of her mirror every day and said, "I love you." She was relentless in her self-love efforts. She told herself every single day that she loved her body. She said loving things to herself. She recovered completely from the disease.

Your Thoughts Become Reality

Instead of putting yourself down, lift yourself up with loving thoughts that affirm how lovely and beautiful you are, how deserving you are. You are the only one created that looks feels and thinks like you. You are the only one like you. You are a masterpiece! Instead of hating yourself, choose love instead!

Choose To Be Happy For No Reason

Our brains can be reprogrammed. I reprogrammed mine. I chose thoughts that lifted my soul up, rather than made me feel bad. Over time, our thoughts create new neuro-pathways that are permanent.

My Secrets To Overcoming Low Self-Esteem and UnHappiness

Below is a list of what I did every day. At first, my old habits were hard to break. I was a very negative and depressed person when I began my journey. Eventually, I began to course-correct my words and thoughts in the moment and shift into positive thoughts about myself and others. We have to re-train our brains with positive life-affirming habits. Self-love is the fastest path to love, happiness and a glorious life filled with BLISS!

The first list I share with you are the modalities I used to heal. I became certified in those I felt helped me the most:

1. Hypnotherapy
2. Neurolinguistic Programming
3. Energy Healing
4. Acupuncture
5. Rolfing
6. Chiropractic

Personal Inner Work 

1. Stop beating yourself up.
2. Stop criticizing others. It is a reflection of how you feel about you.
3. Notice when you judge anyone else. When you do, it is showing you what your unconscious mind is doing automatically.
4. Begin to see that everyone is a reflection of you. 
5. Think loving thoughts to yourself. "You look nice in that color! Wow! You look amazing!" "What an amazing job you did!"
6. Congratulate yourself when you do well!
7. Be happy with the small things. Even a great parking spot is a reason to celebrate. 
8. Celebrate often! Cheer yourself on. If you can't do this yourself, hire a coach, like me who has been there to get you started on the fast track.
9. Have courage. Moving forward instead of retreating takes tremendous courage. I have faith in you. I know you can do this!
10. Read uplifting books. You Can Heal Your Life, The Four Agreements.
11. Watch comedians and programs that make you laugh.
12. Take care to avoid negativity from media, t.v. etc.
13. Steer clear of negative people.
14. Befriend those who are positive. 
15. Revere your body. Eat a healthy diet. You will begin to feel better when the fuel you consume is of a higher quality.
16. Exercise daily. Do the kind of exercise that you enjoy. 
17. Play uplifting music.
18. Become disciplined. Go to bed before 11:00 PM. Get up at the same time every day (before 8:00 AM.)
19. Know you are perfect the way you are. You don't have to strive to perfect who you are. You are a unique individual different than anyone else on this planet, there is nothing to perfect?

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To get love you have to give it. You have to start by loving you. Loving yourself and allowing yourself to receive pleasure is the first step. 

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• Find out what being alone is costing you
• Find out why men and women cheat
• Learn what is holding you back and get it GONE!
• Eliminate fear of intimacy.
• Find the love within you, so that you can attract love like a magnet!

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Testimonials

“When I started working with Jennifer, I didn't love myself. I was dating a man I didn't love. Jennifer encouraged me to break up with him. She lovingly guided me through the dating process. I soon met a man and fell deeply in love. Like a fairy tale. We invited Jennifer to our wedding and now have a beautiful little boy. We are so happy! I call Jennifer my second mom. "Dr. Falak Shaik, India

"I found the love of my life at week five after working with Jennifer!” – Lisa Barnes, UK

“I used to complain about my husband not doing enough, not doing what I thought I wanted. Working with Jennifer helped me see my patterns, move into my heart and out of my head. I am more in love with my husband of 26 years now than ever! – Jennifer I., Denver, CO

“I’ve had a history of attracting tainted love affairs. My last boyfriend just about destroyed me. I thought I would never fall in love again. He was having two relationships at the same time!

Working with Jennifer, I learned how I kept repeating a pattern of attracting “bad boys” rather than men. 

Through the clearings of my beliefs, and Jennifer’s unique coaching style with her amazing Guidance, I am now in a committed serious relationship. The weird thing is prior to working with Jennifer I would never have noticed him. He was different than what I usually am attracted to. He is a wonderful loving, intelligent, kind, attentive man who adores me! Without Jennifer, I would still be with guys that cheat and break my heart.” – Michele, Los Angeles

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I'm Ready For Love!

Sex Addiction: The Courage To Love

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Anxiety, shame,  guilt, remorse are all feelings that surface with sex addiction. Hours are lost, relationships broken and lives slip away. Sex is the drug of choice. Any type of addiction is due to rejection of the self with self hatred figuring prominently. Sex addicts believe they are in control of their life, when they are not. No one wants to be a sex addict. There is help and light at the end of the tunnel.  

Don't feel this applies to you? Teens are becoming addicted to porn on the Internet. This is a serious issue. 

7:00 PM PST TONIGHT ON SEX AS MEDICINE

Tonight on Sex As Medicine with Devi Ward we jointly interview Paul Ginocchio, creator of the movie, "The Courage To Love." Paul's movie details the lives of four individuals who suffered from sex addiction and their stories of recovery.

There are consequences to sex addiction. Acting out can ruin relationships, cause depression and disconnection from the self, and those you love.

Addicted To Own Endorphins

Whether it is pornography, masturbation, or sex with others, sex addiction is an addiction to our own endorphins. Like a drug addict, a trance-like state is reached where nothing matters but getting needs met. Without help, sex addiction can lead to arrests, broken relationships and lost years. Cruising, looking for "Heroine in high heels," was Paul's experience.

Like An Eating Disorder

Jay Parker who was arrested finally for exposing himself to two girls, lost his job as a basketball scout, his marriage and his friends. He compared sex addiction to an eating disorder. We have to eat, it is part of life. Sex is a natural part of life. Sex addiction is a distortion, a natural urge twisted into an illness that drives you.

Numbness

An emotional numbness occurs where there is a lack of heart-connection. There is nothing joyful in sex addiction. Instead it is empty, looking to fill the void from childhood. 

Sweaty palms, hunched over and the anxiety that follows are not good feelings. The feelings of guilt, shame and darkness that surrounds sex addiction creates depression and a sense of hopelessness.

Fear of Intimacy

There may be lots of sex happening, but there is no connection. No real intimacy can exist when you are an addict. People who are addicted to sex cannot allow anyone to see their true self. They are too afraid to let anyone see the darkness that lies beneath the surface. 

Is it possible to masturbate too much? The answer is YES! If you are masturbating several times a day, you are addicted to sex.

In my personal experience sexual trauma was the cause. In over 80% of sex addiction cases, sexual trauma took place in childhood. A lack of validation from parents creates a deep void or emptiness that can't be filled. An endless desire for more, drives the sex addict. 

Recovery

Available on Amazon.com

Recovery from addiction is possible. It is far easier to find fault with others than to see our issues. Honesty, vulnerability and awareness are parts of recovery. When we are in our addiction we can't see that we need help. Self acceptance and self love is the answer. It takes courage to get help. If you are looking for help for your sex addiction or that of a loved one, listen to the show tonight. The movie, The Courage To Love is available for purchase. I watched it twice. It is poignant, and eye-opening.

Our self-esteem takes a beating when we are addicts. I know I was there once. Co-dependency is the need to be in a relationship to feel whole is an addiction. We have a tendency to look at others and say, "I don't have that issue." Compassion, understanding, and love

is the key to getting help and helping a loved one who is addicted. The search for love is what I help others with. If you are looking for love and not finding it, I can help. It begins with you. Visit my website here.  Aphroditeeffect.com

Much Love,
Jennifer

Loving Yourself Cancer FREE!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

In May while in meditation I was told to check my right breast.

My intuition is never wrong. I listened. I checked my right breast and found a lump the size of a plum. It was hard to believe that a lump almost the size of my fist would go unnoticed by me. I began to reflect on the recent past. I lost one of my dearest friends to breast cancer September, 2012. A healer with similar childhood issues to mine (childhood molestation) also shared her story of breast cancer, chemo and surgery with the healing community only months earlier.  There was a common thread here.

I knew I would not follow the traditional medical route. It was not my way. Chemo had killed my friend, Diana Davis, a beautiful and amazing woman and fellow energy healer.

Diana Davis, friend author and healer

I knew that I had the power to heal this within me. As a healer I recognized that I had more emotional work to do. Cancer is caused by deep hurt, long standing resentment and grief eating away at itself. I also knew just the person I had to do the work with, my mother. Our mothers are our key to self love. Mine had just triggered me in a big way and I knew if I was triggered, I still had issues with her. 

My daughter Ariel had a series of prophetic dreams. She saw me losing my hair, having surgery and recovery. She saw us crying and upset. It was my daughter's dreams that spurred me into action well and above what I would normally have done. It is our human need to keep ourselves calm that we tend to avoid. My first reaction was to ignore it and keep going. Ariel's dreams caused me to take affirmative action to heal myself.

Prior to my healing I had pains in all my upper body lymph nodes. Swelling in my neck. I had pain in the lymph nodes in my arms, underarms and neck. I had shooting pain in the left breast and swelling within the breast tissue on both sides (bilateral). The left side was DCIS. These symptoms were estrogen related. 

I made an INTENTION TO HEAL my body.

This is the protocol I followed to heal:

1. Gave up all caffeine immediately.
2. Changed to alkaline water only. PH of 10.2
3. Gave up all wheat, soy, dairy, nuts, sugar, rice and breads.
4. Drank a barley grass drink daily.
5. Juiced daily: carrot, apple, celery, lemon, ginger combination.
6. Stayed calm, happy and peaceful.
7. Sank in and forgave my mother completely. Using the Ho'oponopono Prayer 
8. Took vitamin B3
9. Took Laminine twice daily.
10. Cleared my energy at least 3 times a week.
11. Meditated daily using the Divine Presence Process Meditation.
12. Exercised daily. Spent time doing the things I loved. Beach every week, walking my dog, Karma in nature.
13. Got a John of God healing.
14. Prayed for complete healing of my body.
15. Had a friend do some healing work on me.
16. Sunk into myself, feeling the vibration of love surround me and Loved myself even more. (See sinking in below)
17. I know that love heals all. I loved my mother.
18. I slept when I was tired. 
19. I listened to my body. 
20. I did not push beyond my limits.

The two biggest reasons women get breast cancer is due to lack of self care or nurturing and holding onto resentment and anger. We give to others more than we give to ourselves. We need to be reminded that we are human after all and won't be around much longer if we don't focus on ourselves. The anger piece is one of huge denial. Most women don't have a clue how much anger they are holding onto. The key to my healing was that I loved myself completely. I did not beat myself up, I was kind, compassionate and loving to me.

What got me out of avoiding the issue was the following experience coupled with my daughter's dreams. One afternoon I felt completely exhausted, I was almost falling asleep on my feet. I gave in and went to bed in the middle of the afternoon, which I rarely did prior to this experience. I fell asleep almost immediately and went into what felt like a coma. It was a dark deep sleep. Two hours passed quickly. As I began to wake, I was in the place of in between, neither fully awake, nor asleep. I was taken down the tunnel of light. YES THE TUNNEL OF LIGHT!

I could sense people in front of me, my father, Diana and others. Behind me were two beings, I could sense their presence, but not see them. I felt peaceful. I knew where they were taking me. I was not afraid. Then with the screeching halt of my voice, "What about Ariel?" Ariel's father, Rich Resuta, just crossed over a year ago. He had visited me in spirit form the night he died. Rich told me, "A door simply opened and I walked through, there was no pain, no heart attack. Although they will find heart disease. It did not cause my death." She hadn't fully recovered from his death. She was a year away from graduation and college. My death could devastate her. I knew I had to stay. As soon as I said, "I have to stay for Ariel!" I was backed out of the tunnel and back in my body, in an instant. I had the choice. I could take the easy way.........  or STAY. I chose to stay. I still have work to do. My daughter needs me. I am glad I made this choice. 

Four months later after following this protocol and staying in a high vibration, my clients noticed a change in me. I was bolder, happier, stronger and more clear. My webinars are different. There is a much higher vibration in my energy clearings. This experience has changed me permanently. I know with love all things are possible. Love heals all. It healed these "C" cells in my body. Cancer and other diseases cannot live when your body is vibrating at a high vibration. Love is the vibration of healing. Love is what we all need more of. Could you stand a little more love in your life?

My tests came back this week. I am CANCER FREE! Thank you God!

The process of "sinking in" came about from this healing protocol. I already loved myself. I became more profoundly connected to myself. Deeply grounded in my body, connected to my soul and The Divine within me. I envisioned myself with a huge Buddha bootie. I envisioned myself sitting on this huge bootie while I meditated. Loving myself completely. I knew the wind could not knock me off my moorings. I was deeply rooted in myself and The Divine. I was sinking in to ME.

1. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ho%27oponopono

1. Http://www.Loveyourselffearlessly.com

Jennifer is a certified hypnotherapist, life, relationship and self love coach. She is a healed healer, enlightened and self actualized. Her coaching is like no other. As a channel she is able to cut to the root of your issues quickly, breaking through denial. She can be contacted by e-mail for a DISCOVERY session to see if you are a good fit for her program. She works with people committed to healing their lives and relationships completely. She offers group coaching and private sessions. For more information on her programs visit her site above or email  here: Divinehealingnow@yahoo.com

Flying Through Fear

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Kicking Fear In The Butt, A Catalyst For Amazing Success

When fear overtakes us nothing else matters. We are consumed by it. Our stomachs are frozen, digestion stops, we hold our breath unconsciously. We are unable to think about anything else. Fear blocks us from creating the life we want, moving beyond where we are now. It freezes our energy and only creates negativity.

 Creating From A Place Of Fear

Our thoughts magnetize whatever we are thinking to us. Whether we focus on positive or negative we are magnets in the Universal soup of consciousness. When we focus on our lack of money; late mortgage, car payment, the more lack we create. Sure it sounds crazy, but the more we focus on ANYTHING, the more we create of what we are focused on. Whether our thoughts are on how little we have or how great our life is, we create from that place. So why do we focus on something we don't want? Fear! Fear governs 70% of 90% of the population's thoughts. 95% of our thoughts are unconscious. We are not even aware of how many times a day we have fearful thoughts that magnetizes exactly the opposite of what we desire right into our laps. Our thoughts speed out into the Universe faster than the speed of light. Then return to us so quickly that it makes our head spin, a client bales, an unexpected accident, our kid gets kicked out of school or arrested. Who wants that? I know I sure don't.

Fear comes up from our past relationships and childhood to be released. Following these steps will move you through it with ease. Ease is good!

The Flip Side Of Fear

After you move through this little blip success is right around the corner. We create an amazing program for our clients. We have the biggest sale of the quarter. It awaits you once you cross the fear threshold.

5 Ways to Kick Fear In It's Butt! 

1. Meditate. Going inward will shift you faster than anything you do in your outside world. If you don't know how, download my You Tube video, Divine Presence Process Meditation and connect.  When you are connected to your High Self, and go inward, your fear will dissolve. Divine Presence Process Meditation. 

   

2. Stop! Running away from your fear does not make it go away. Turn around and face it. What is the worst that can happen? You cry? You get scared? You're already frozen like a salt statue, what difference is a little more fear going to make? When you face your fear and ask yourself these questions, you will recognize that you have experienced this before. The only way out of it is through. Right through the middle, like in one of Tony Robbin's fire walks. Only this one does not have coals. The other side of fear is LOVE. Surely you want to get there? 

3. Does this feel like something I experienced in my childhood? Is this a pattern of an old childhood fear? Is this a reverberating trigger of my father or mother coming up in this situation? What was it that triggered me? Did someone yell at me? Was it something I have experienced before? If so where, when? Asking these questions will help you realize that this fear is not real. It feels real. It is simply your soul recognizing an old pattern and you are time traveling back to that place from this energetic patterning. One thing is for sure, if you continue to attempt to run from this fear, it will return with a vengeance.

4. Get your energy cleared. An energy clearing will remove anxiety, attachments, holes in your auric field and old patterns that you are apparently stuck in. GET CLEARED NOW! You will be glad you did.

5. Get physical. Swim, lift weights, run. Do something physical to get your blood moving and energy shifting. Nothing makes you feel better than some outdoor activity. It raises your vibration, releases endorphins (those "feel good hormones") and helps you get your mind clear.

   Affirmations are a great way to move beyond fear and work well. Using words like "I AM" in front of  our affirmation makes it more powerful. 

   I AM A POWERFUL CREATOR. I AM WEALTHY AND PROSPEROUS.I AM AT PEACE, all work well.

   Two LIVE FREE EVENTS Daily Part II - Manifestation  Without the "F" word Energetic Clearings Each Day and Manifestation Exercise THIS WEEK   Two Opportunities Each Day     Wednesday and Thursday June 12 - 13th 3:00 PM PST and 6:00 PM EST 7:00 PM PST and 10:00 PM EST By phone or web  https://www.startmeeting.com/wall/727-336-798  PHONE # (530) 881-1212  PIN # 727-336-798 Join me and we'll kick fear in the butt together.

   Want more information about Jennifer Elizabeth Masters or her Fear-Free Lifestyle Assistance? Contact Jennifer for a 15 minute free consultation to see how The Self Love Guru can help. Praise for Jennifer's work

   Jennifer is hosting a Self Love Retreat in Maui, December 17 - 23, 2013. This retreat will teach you how to connect to your High Self, live from a higher place and assist you to kick fear in its butt! Adore Yourself, Be Adored at Lumeria 5 star resort