How To Heal Numbness and Lost Memories From Childhood

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Physical and emotional numbness comes from trauma. For most of us, numbness is from sexual trauma from a long time ago. When there are blacked out memories from childhood, in 100% of the cases it is from sexual molestation, sometimes including intense emotional neglect or abuse. The soul shatters from the betrayal and unthinkable heinous crimes against innocent children. 

In order to protect the psyche this split causes fragments of the soul to breakaway like broken shards of glass. Your soul needs love, compassion and healing. This fragmentation is called PTSD by the medical profession. PTSD can cause anxiety, disconnection, depression, lost memories, feelings of victimhood, blame, illness and insomnia. I wrote about my recovery in my first book, Odyssey Victim To Victory. You will find it helpful if you are beginning your journey or wondering why you feel as you do.

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How Can I Tell If I Don't Have Any Memory?

Many children were molested before the age of three. When this occurs, there is no memory. The soul blocks it from us. It is too painful for us to remember, so we don't. Following are indications that you have been molested:

1. Anger for no known reason.
2. Rage. A stronger form of anger. It comes from a dark disconnected place often causing blackouts (no memory of the rage).
3. Depression. Long-standing depression is often caused by angry feelings you don't feel you have the right to feel. In my case, my depression spanned decades of my life, so long, I didn't know what it felt like to not be depressed. When I brought it up to my mother she said, "Nonsense!" 
4. Disconnected from the self.
5. Low self-esteem.
6. Household hauntings. A common occurrence when you have been molested. Every house I lived in was haunted until I completely cleared the abuse from my energy field. If everywhere you move is haunted, you might want to consider that you are the common denominator.
7. Insomnia. Insomnia is often coupled with worrisome thoughts in the middle of the night. Your body is attempting to get your attention. How much more can you take of this? Is anyone in there? Hello? Insomnia is your body's check engine light. Continue to ignore these signs and disease or illness will be the next level of warning that something is wrong.
8. Anxiety.
9. Intense worry.
10. Sex and other addictions. Alcoholism, drug addiction, codependency. Addiction is from rejection of the self. Sexual molestation leaves a child feeling worthless, unworthy, conflicted, lost filled with guilt and shame. Those feelings can be too painful to endure. Addictions to sweets, food, thumb sucking and other self-soothing actions are also common.
11. Promiscuity. Victims of sexual molestation can go one of two ways: hate sex and avoid it like the plague, or have a multitude of sexual partners looking for love.
12. Confuse sex with love. When your boundaries are crossed early by a trusted loved one, you look for love through sex. Don't beat yourself up about this. It makes total sense. I can clear the guilt and shame.
13. Intense feelings of guilt. You feel guilty for almost everything. 
14. Shame. A feeling of shame is intense for those who have been molested in either a present or past life.
15. You feel responsible for one or both or your parent's happiness. A child should never be made to be responsible for their parents' self-esteem or happiness. That needs to come from within a whole, healed, balanced adult.
16. Feel broken. You might feel like a little-broken doll. 
17. You don't fit in. Feelings of not fitting in can be from other issues, but are included in cases of molestation as you feel dirty, soiled or damaged.
18. Abuse, victimization and trauma continues to play out in your current life and relationships. Your body is attempting to get your attention. Something is out of whack. 
19. Masturbate at an early age. Children who are molested early often obsessively masturbate sometimes before the age of five. Sexual feelings are awakened in children early by molestation. Sexual urges are natural. It is part of the human experience. 
20. Emotional unavailability. We attract what we are. Most of us have difficulty seeing that we are the ones with the emotional unavailability. We see it first in our partners. Admitting we have it too is a huge challenge for most of us. I know it certainly was for me. 
21. You may be obsessed with sex. Sexual addiction and sexual obsession are similar. If you feel compelled by sex, pornography, or have a desire to show yourself to others the root of this issue is sexual trauma from childhood.
22. Illness is your middle name. If you are sick all the time, and have no idea why, you may have been molested. Until I began clearing the trauma from my field I was told I was a hypochondriac. I had intense body pain, pelvic floor pain, Epstein-Barr and auto-immune disease, Fibromyalgia and breast cancer. Now I am as healthy as a horse. I have no physical pain whatsoever.
23. You have intense physical pain. Pain comes from guilt. Victims of childhood molestation often blame themselves for what happened because of what they were told. 
24. You have intense fears. Fears may diminish over time. Loving the self unconditionally is the best way to heal fears. I clear the fears in my sessions with private clients and on my podcasts.
25. A feeling of helplessness. Children are powerless to stop molestation and abuse. This feeling of helplessness follows you until you heal the past. Helplessness can also come from seeing a parent being physically or emotionally abused. As a child, you felt helpless and lost witnessing the brutality.
26. Neediness. If you feel as if you need the world to validate you, love you and provide you comfort, you need to look within. No one can give you what you need but you. Until you fill this void with self-acceptance and love, that hole will be an open and unhealed wound.
27. Non-orgasmic. Not everyone becomes non-orgasmic from sexual molestation but many do. The fight or flight mechanism freezes in the cellular structure inside the vagina and the labia causing numbness. Tantra can be used to heal this. My book, Orgasm For Life, was written to help the millions who suffer from this phenomena.

The Good News!

Once you get on the other side of healing, you look back at your life and feel that it wasn't you. It feels as if it was in another life. You begin to recognize that this was all so that you would love and accept yourself unconditionally. Everything happens for the good of your soul. There is a silver lining. You are not a victim. 

Why You Need To Forgive

Forgiveness allows you to forgive yourself and let go of the past. It doesn't condone the actions of another. Forgiveness is for you. Forgiving your perpetrator frees you from being tied to them, unburdening your soul.

Secrets Damage The Soul

When something awful happens you have to talk about it. Refusing to talk about what occurred will cause you physical pain, pelvic floor and vulva pain, numbness, illness, depression, anger, rage, even cancer. Some, like me, have an inability to orgasm. Orgasm For Life is a guide to help men and women navigate sexual and emotional and communication challenges with the opposite sex. 

Therapy Keeps You Stuck

I know of one man who has been in therapy for 25 years and has still not released the pain and suffering of the past sexual trauma. I went to a psychiatrist, group therapy, and private therapy for years. None of it helped move me out of the pain and misery of the past. Therapy keeps you stuck in your story, rather than clearing the trapped emotions and unworthiness, guilt, shame and suffering at the soul level.

Soul-Level Healing

Tapping into your soul through meditation, hypnotherapy and prayer works to heal. Energy clearings remove the beliefs, patterns, and self-sabotage. If you are ready to begin this work following are some suggestions to begin your healing. I do this work one-on-one with my clients. I am there to support you through the process of letting go in a safe place. I have been where you are. I know what you feel, I understand the pain, suffering, sorrow of a childhood lost. From a place of deep compassion, understanding and love, I support you and lead you as you heal. 

What Proof Do I Have?

For 32 years I lived with all of the above symptoms. I thought I could ignore the sh*t that kept coming up destroying every relationship I every attempted. I was unavailable emotionally. I was

sick. I blamed everyone for how I felt. My body was showing me that I had problems under my hood. My check engine light was on CONSTANTLY!

I searched, learned, studied and educated myself. I had a doctor tell me I read too much. It wasn't therapy or a doctor that fixed me, I did it. I went to a hypnotherapist, found it worked so I became one. I went to energy healers spending thousands of dollars to get myself well, then went on to take course after course becoming a Master Energy Healer professionally. I went to homeopaths, naturopaths, chiropractors. All that I learned over my lifetime, I share with my clients in my healing sessions. I use a variety of methods to get positive results. 

My Issues Made Me A Healer

When I found out that it worked, I became a powerful energy healer myself. I used the energy healing to release the trapped emotions, self-sabotage, depression, anger, addictions, suicidal programs, fear, negativity, anxiety, worry, neediness, guilt, shame and low self-esteem. I turned my challenges into my guiding light. Now I help others heal past trauma. I discovered my inner talents and gifts during the process of my healing and awakening.

My first book is the story of my awakening. Now I live in freedom, happiness, bliss, joy and love. I know the way because I did it myself. I didn't just decide one day and then poof I was on the other side. No, I had backslides, challenges and more failed relationships on the road to recovery. What do you choose to do for yourself today?

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22 Principles of Truth That Will Realize Your Dreams Come True

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

There are ways of being in this world that allow us to receive wealth, success, and riches quickly. Unfortunately, when we focus on our money problems all we receive are more problems with poverty. To create wealth, or receive love, we have to be in that state. 

WTF?

I know it sounds crazy. To receive prosperity, we have to be in the energy of abundance. To receive love, we have to vibrate in the energy of love. We have to BE what we want to have. There are many laws that I will speak of; that will help explain why this is the case.

1. Energy and Vibration

Money is energy. Love is energy. We are energy. The Universe is energy. To attract something we must match the vibration of what we want to draw to us. To magnetize love to us, we have to be vibrating at the energy of the love state. If we feel empty, lost, broken, alone or lonely, it is next to impossible to attract a loving relationship. The more we focus on wanting a partner, the more the partner doesn't come in. Often when we are at our happiest and not looking do we find our Beloved. It was how I met my Twin Flame.

2. Birds Of A Feather - Like Attracts Like

Energy is moldable. Since we are energy, we can feel what our energetic state is emitting. If we feel positive, happy and upbeat, our vibration is high, we feel good. 

When we are worried, in fear or doubt, we feel bad, our solar plexus which is our power center is

constricted and we feel small or weak. (The solar plexus is the chakra just below the heart. Many couples are photographed with their hand over their spouses solar plexus as a control measure.

3. Be The Energy of What You Want To Create To get wealth, we have to embody wealth. We have to feel and think wealth. We have to feel rich to become rich. 

4. You Already Have What You Need Inside You

We were taught poverty consciousness. We were taught to worry about losing money, or spending all our money. We were taught that money is scarce. Our natural state is abundant. Our natural state is also that of love. We have to get out of our way to have what we desire.

5. You Are Not Punished

Life circumstances are meant to teach you about yourself so that you can grow and evolve. The events in your life are the universe conspiring to assist you. The problems show up to teach you about your resistance, limiting beliefs, lack of focus and faith.

6. Intend and Focus

Most people have such scattered thoughts today, texting, social media and other mundane tasks take people away from positively focused creation. Without focus, we lose our money. Without giving our attention to love, it goes away also. We have to focus on the things that have meaning and value. Intend to be wealthy. Intend to have love. Then feel that emotional state consistently.

7. Watch Your Thoughts

The thoughts you are thinking today create your tomorrow right now. Focus only on what you desire, rather than dwelling on how little money you have to pay bills. Instead, affirm, "I have plenty of money to pay my bills on time." Using the following: "The Universe is always and in every way supporting me." Focus your thoughts consistently on what you want and expect The Universe to bring it to you. Thoughts take the time to manifest. We are the cause of all we see. Your present results from previous thoughts.

8. Clarity of Desire

You must be crystal clear about what you desire. If you want a car, for example, you must know what make you want, the color, style, interior color, type of upholstery on the seats. Thinking you want a "nice car," won't bring you the car you want. Get detailed and clear.

9. Use Your Imagination

Einstein said imagination was of far greater importance than intellect. With imagining, we can tap into Source, which is the creative energy of The Universe. This Divine Mind is infinitely creative. We expand when we can connect with The Divine Mind.

10. Meditate, Relax and Be Silent

Meditation is how we connect to The Divine or Source energy. We can receive information and truth through meditation. Inspiration comes through repose. Sitting still in quiet inward reflection allows Guidance to flow through you. 

11. Forgive

You might be wondering what forgiveness has to do with having what you desire? Forgiveness causes you to be more open and tolerant. Letting go of past hurts using forgiveness expands your consciousness opening you up to something new.

12. Don't Worry - Be Happy!

Worry is not constructive. Worry just creates more of what you worry about. Instead, focus on feeling the desire that you want to create. If you want to be wealthy focus your energy of feeling rich. Envision what you want with clarity. Do not focus on your outside circumstances as they are temporary. Being broke is temporary. Everything can change in the blink of an eye.

12. Create Miracles

With focused intention, certainty, detachment and gratitude you can create everyday miracles. If you click on this link, I list all the steps in a video of how to create miracles in your life. 

13. Ask And It Is Given

If you ask, you will receive. The secret is you cannot have a shred of doubt. The Universe already knows what you are going to ask before you ask. Manifesting is like playing a game. The rules of the game require you to have faith you will receive your desire. With a clear focus, active prayers (NO BEGGING) while being in a state of happiness or love you will receive your desire. You don't have to put a time limit on your goal either. Expect it to happen in an instant. The Universe may have some hefty orchestrating to perform to bring your desire to fruition.

14. Act As If

Begin acting as if you already have it. Use words and phrases that affirm your unfailing belief. For example, rather than say, I will be rich, use, "I AM A MILLIONAIRE. I AM RICH." Whenever you use the words I AM, the Universe brings it to you. Remember only use the words I AM preceding a positive phrase, rather than "I AM SICK."

15. Be Grateful

Gratitude gives your manifestation wings. The Universe's payment is your gratitude. Heartfelt gratitude is an emotion that opens your heart and raises your vibration instantly. Say "Thank you, " all day long. Find little things to be grateful for. 

16. Cheerful Giving

The law of Cause and Effect is at play here. When you give, you get. When you give love to you, you receive love in return. When you give to others, you will receive multiplied. The more you give, the more that comes back to you. Give spontaneously. If you see a homeless man on the street, buy him food, give him a jacket, or bottle of water or coffee. Give without looking for something in return. Giving needs to be done with an open heart. Give with Grace. When you receive, do so gratefully.

Pay Your bills cheerfully. You have received a service. Make your payment with gratitude. Be grateful that you have the ability to pay your bills.

17. Receive Graciously

When someone does something nice for you, be gracious. Say Thank you! Even your paycheck comes from The Divine and The Universe. Make sure you say thank you before you deposit your next check. Be grateful for all that you have, all that you can give and all that you receive.

18. Steadfast and Unfailing Faith

Faith is rewarded. You will receive what you desire if you have faith it is on its way to you. Right now! Do not doubt. Do not blink an eye or worry that The Divine needs help. I assure you your clarity, faith and focus are all that is required. 

19. The Universe Is Infinite and Abundant

Focus on the fact that The Universe is unlimited. There is always an abundance in Nature and The Universe. Belief in scarcity will keep money and love in short supply.

20. Go Where Imagination And Desire Take You

Source gives you what you want, so be clear on the details. Use your imagination to create a clear, detailed picture of your desire. 

Envision your dream home, near the beach, with courtyard, pool in the backyard and beautiful garden area. Be detailed in your

envisioning. See it. Feel what it would feel like to have it. Then believe it! Focus on your creation daily. If it is a trip you want to take, go to a travel agency, get some brochures, look at flights, dates, itinerary. Think big! If you want wealth, think of the reasons you want to have all this money. Envision the travel, vacations, homes, and charities you want to donate to in great detail. How do you desire to change the world with this money?

21. Live In The Present Moment

Do not dwell on the past. Playing back old memories or stories brings the past into the present. To create anything you must be in the present. When you can live in the present as if it is a fresh experience you begin to live free of judgment. You stop expecting your spouse to act a certain way and give others the freedom to be different, to change themselves. Nothing is static. Therefore, everything is subject to change. The Past, present and future are all happening simultaneously. Ensure you are present, or you will miss out on something grand.

22. Choose Happiness

Living in a state of happiness at all times allows you to grow into an even greater version of yourself. Don't spend all day daydreaming in a half aware state. Accidents can happen when you are not focused on the present. Awake to the present moment by breathing deeply and slowly. Exhale slowly and completely. Breathe in again slowly. Repeat at least three times. The present gives you clues, brings you the right people and circumstances.

Focus on BEING, being prepared mentally, secondly and preparing your body. Actions are the last step in the process of creation and manifesting.

You are an infinite being of spirit. You have everything you need inside of you.
Never stop learning and growing. Learning allows your spirit to experience expansion becoming your true infinite nature.


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3 Reasons New Isn't Always Better

by Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

The latest I-Phone, a flashy new computer, or a new (partner) or vacuum may seem exciting at first till we get them home and recognize that what we had previously was so much better than the new one we just landed. Today I share my story of thinking new would be better and what I discovered about human nature and myself. 

My experience is about a vacuum cleaner. It could just as easily have been about a cell phone or a man. The similarities and lessons are the same. How can a vacuum cleaner that doesn't suck be like a man, you ask? Listen and learn!

I have a house full of rescued animals. I love my animals, but they shed. My Hoover vacuum packed it in and just stopped sucking. I cleaned all my filters and decided arbitrarily and without research, it was easier just to buy another. I could have taken it to a repair shop. I could have attempted to fix it myself. I made the judgment that it would cost almost as much as a new one. Listening to my daughter's advice, I went to Target and made a selection, even though I could have gotten something better at Costco.

Honestly, I didn't do my usual research, "It was just a vacuum," I thought. The first use of my new vacuum got me excited. Instead of a vacuum that didn't suck, I had one that did! I was ecstatic! After one use, however, I recognized that the system to clean out all the pet hair, dirt and dander was disgusting.

Instead of having a central area that could be easily removed and dumped with ease, the new vacuum had several areas that needed to be cleaned out by hand. It was impossible to empty the collection area without getting dirty and dumping debris all over the vacuum and floor.

My Discovery About My Latest Purchase

1. It wasn't as good as my previous one. After closer inspection what I thought was so wonderful, wasn't. I was hugely disappointed. In fact, I wished I could go to the dump and retrieve my old vacuum. I felt regret that I had given up so soon on my old vacuum and didn't try to fix it. Now I had to put up with a lesser quality system that made me angry every time I had to empty it, which was every use.
2. There was a cost I hadn't anticipated. I paid more money for this new vacuum. Every time I used it, I said to myself, "I hate this thing!" I felt bad every time I realized that I didn't recognize what I had previously. Why oh why didn't I work on the old one and save myself the time and aggravation.
3. I was committed to the new one. I spent my money and had used the vacuum. I couldn't return it. I couldn't get my old vacuum back. I had to stay with my present vacuum until it died, or waste money and buy a second one. 

How often do we give up what we have thinking a newer model would be better and find out that we made a huge mistake. Just because something is new, doesn't make it better. In fact, sometimes knowing the one we have will allow us to work around the shortcomings in other ways.

Then The Worst Happened...

My new vacuum crapped out on me. It stopped doing what vacuums do best - suck. I returned from a two-week vacation to find my house filled with cat hair and a vacuum that wasn't working. At first, I thought, I will have to buy a new one. My next thought was, "I can't fix this!" When I realized that I was saying NO to The Universe and opportunities, I changed my thoughts into a YES! In fact, a "Hell YES!" 

I Asked Questions

I knew I tossed my previous vacuum aside prematurely. I learned from this lesson. I asked if there was a way I could learn how to fix my vacuum. Ah! The Internet! I went to my trusty computer and found a site for the Do-it-yourselfers. I read enough to feel confident and got out my tools. I opened up the back of the vacuum and unscrewed the panel and found where the hose was clogged to capacity. I used a hangar to pull out the horrible stuff and voila! My vacuum worked better than it had in months.

This vacuum cleaner taught me some very valuable lessons. These lessons can be applied to dating, marriage and relationships. How often do we give up on a relationship because we don't know how to fix it? How often do we avoid talking because we have blocked emotions and reactivity getting in the way of smooth communication and understanding?

Lessons Learned

1.  I discovered positive traits in my new vacuum, I didn't previously notice when I stopped being so negative and judgemental about it. There were washable filters which I didn't have to replace monthly that saved me money. When they were clean my vacuum operated exceptionally well.
2. Once I learned how, it got easier to take care of my new vacuum, I found it infinitely easier going forward. Yes, I still had to get my hands dirty each time I emptied the receptacle, but it worked so well when I did. 
3. My judgment made things worse. Once I got out of my own way and realized I can do this, we worked together to make things work. I kept the vacuum filters cleaned and emptied and it began to suck like it was meant to!
4. New isn't the answer. Instead, work on what you've got, getting a new anything isn't necessarily the answer when the issue is within. 

If your relationship sucks, or doesn't suck, isn't it time to get the help you need to keep it chugging along at its highest and best? If you are in a space of ready to take your relationship to the dump, maybe you need to set up a FREE discovery session of 40 minutes where I impart valuable tools for you to begin using right now and find out if my work is a good fit for you. 


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What Fuel Are You Using To Fan The Flames Of Your Love?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back. Barbara de Angelis

It is a great accomplishment today to stay with your spouse or partner because you are happy together. Many married couples stay together often for financial reasons, barely speaking and rarely connecting intimately. Couples that are happy together focus on each other's positive traits rather than their flaws and faults. 

I have a true love story for you. 

Two years ago a woman, I will call Cynthia found me in a Boulder, Colorado magazine. Diagnosed with breast cancer, she wanted to heal naturally. Cynthia knew intuitively that there was something inside her causing the disease. 

We began working together to heal her body. The core of all healing comes from within. Breast cancer comes from several things. There is an underlying refusal to nourish the self, holding onto old hurts, over mothering, overprotection carrying hatreds and deep-seated resentment. For every illness and disease, there is a thought and emotion that came before it that created the issue. 

Cynthia and Peter had been married for 25 years. Cynthia was attracted to Peter because he was so different from her father. Her father was a strong, powerful and very successful man that Cynthia worked hard to please. She even attended the university she thought would please her father and received a degree in what was considered a man's profession. She always felt she fell short of making her father happy. 

Cynthia was a strong woman on the outside a successful professional, and active member of the community. Cynthia had high expectations and was a perfectionist. Peter was a soft, gentle man, unlike her Dad. Cynthia tried much of their marriage to mold her husband into her father, the man she could never seem to please. Although they had the appearance of success, two teenage children, and a beautiful home, there was a distance and disconnection between them. Sex was a rare event and a chore for Cynthia. Cynthia was irritated by Peter. He was unfocused and ungrounded. She blamed him for much of her discontent and unhappiness. 

Over the course of our coaching sessions, we worked to shift the way Cynthia felt about herself. We healed her limiting beliefs and patterns of low self-esteem. We released the trapped emotions that were crippling her. Cynthia began to soften her gaze. She stopped beating herself up for every little thing. Instead of seeing how she failed, she saw her successes. She also recognized that it was her perception rather than the truth that her father didn't love her. 

As Cynthia began to look at the positive instead of the negative, everything shifted. She began to recognize her talents, abilities, and gifts. She started to see herself differently. Instead of feeling that she was a failure, she could see her success. As Cynthia looked at herself through the eyes of love, she began to let go of perfection. 

As Cynthia saw the benefits of working with me, Peter became a client as well. Working with each of them separately began to heal their personal issues. Cynthia's relationship with her husband began to soften; walls came down. Peter let go of past pain from his childhood and raised his awareness. Each individual working on their internal issues made incredible differences in the way they engaged each other. Their conversations stopped being adversarial and negative. Their love for one another strengthened and grew.

Gradually their relationship improved and so did their sex lives. Instead of being triggered by one another, they took responsibility for their own feelings, recognizing that it came from a place long ago. Instead of wanting time apart they began planning weekends away together. 

Instead of focusing on Peter's flaws, faults and how different Peter was from her father, she began to love him for who he was, rather

than trying to change him. Cynthia allowed him to have his experiences in life rather than trying to control or make him perfect.

After our work together, Cynthia has reported to me that she is more in love with Peter now than she ever was. She moved out of her mind and into her heart. Her heart if fanning the flames of the positive attributes rather than focusing on what is missing. Peter opened up in ways he never had been able to before. He had a confidant in me, that allowed him a safe place to vent and gain understanding of himself and his wife.

Commitment to change and grow is all that is needed to save a marriage. When one person decides that they are ALL IN, rather than wanting out, and can let go of the need to control the other, miracles can happen. Rather than living in fear, they have rebuilt trust. When you recognize, there is nothing to fear, Miracles are a breath away, all you need is to decide. Love is always there, sometimes hidden under anger and past hurts. 

What Can You Do To Fuel Your Love?

1. Stop blaming. When we blame someone else for our unhappiness we are not taking responsibility for ourselves. Blame is easy. Taking responsibility takes some maturity and personal growth. Recognize you are not a victim. If you have had past trauma, let's get it healed. It won't go away on it's ow. Believe me I know. It is what I spent 30 years doing.
2. Look within. If you are getting upset with your partner you are being triggered by a past event. Usually what you are angry about has nothing to do with the other person. Ask yourself, when have I felt like this before? Did it have something to do with your mother, father or someone else? 
3. Get some help. Marital issues can rarely be fixed from within the marriage. In other words, it takes a fresh pair of eyes to see what is really going on. 
4. Be kind. Be kind to yourself and your spouse. Focus on the positive, rather than highlighting the negative. You fell in love with them for a reason. What was it?
5. Spend quality time together.  Getting connected requires quiet, intimacy and turning off media, television and locking your bedroom door. Avoiding one another does no good and increases the chasm between you. 
6. Love yourself first. If you don't love you, it will be very difficult to receive love from another. Notice do you push hugs away. Do you resent your partners advances? Why not begin to allow love in and fan those flames with kindness, appreciation and generosity rather than anger, acid or resentment. Love is always present we just have to be open enough to see and feel it.

How much does your marriage mean to you? Thinking that the grass is greener on the other side won't get you to happiness either. Until you do the work to heal your patterns, you will continue to

attract similar relationships that don't fulfill you because you don't love and accept yourself. Are you ready to commit to yourself? Are you with me? Do you want to be happy with you and your life? If so, send me an e-mail and let's have a conversation about partnering together to have the happiness you so deserve. 

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Are You Living Life Or Just Waiting To Die?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

I was in the Rosamond, California post office the other day, a rarity, I might add. I am not fond of governmental agencies, bureaucracy or authority. I am a rebel. I have always been rebellious. I was born on the heels of a hurricane, why wouldn't I be? I am here to bring forth positive change. I am a catalyst for change through love.

Standing in line is one of the reasons I avoid government agencies. I am not a conformist. Standing in line goes against the grain for me. While standing in my conformist line, I couldn't help but hear a man speaking quite loudly on his cell phone of the horrors of the world and how he can't wait to get out of here (he meant he was looking forward to dying). 

Sometimes my inner guidance tells me to stay quiet; I got the go-ahead this day. I stopped in front of the loudly complaining man as I prepared to exit and said, "You have it backwards, my friend." He looked at me quizzically. "What do you mean?" I told him, "We are here to make the best of our circumstances, challenges and issues. We are here to create a life of heaven on earth, rather than only to focus on the bad or negative, and then look forward to escaping from life by dying. If you can't find something to be happy and grateful for here you won't find it in heaven either." 

Life Is For Living

The people I know that have looked to escape life ended up with cancer or diabetes or some other horrible illness that left them in agony on their death bed. Trying to escape life, by dying, causes you to suffer more intensely. You miss the purpose of life. You miss out on the joy of living fully.

If you are focused on escape, you can't live in the moment. If you continue to say you want to leave, The Universe will allow you to, but it won't be an easy path. 

Life is for seeing the contrast between the light and dark and choosing to focus on the light. Sure there are horrible events that occur daily on our planet. If we give energy to those events alone, we create illness, challenges and strife in our lives. 

The Power of Choice

Life is about growing, evolving and learning from our past, rather than seeing our life as miserable seeing the potential for something better right around the corner. There are always options. There are more than one or two ways to do anything. The Universe is infinite. Therefore, you are infinite. You have infinite abilities and choices in each moment. Allowing yourself to see a path out of your circumstances is choosing life. Thinking you have hit the end, or have no choice is choosing death. You always have a choice. Even not choosing is a choice.

Choose Life

How does one go about consciously choosing life? Following is my personal list. I live life to the fullest every day. I never know which day will be my last.

1. Love fully. Give it all! Holding back love, affection, appreciation or sexual expression is not loving fully. When we give totally, we allow ourselves to be vulnerable, barring our soul to our partner allowing them to see our weakest and darkest selves, as well as our brightest version of ourselves, is loving fully. Leave nothing on the table. Know that you have done what it takes to allow love in, by giving fully. The more we love ourselves, the greater ability we have to receive love as well. Love is in an endless supply as long as we Source ourselves first.
2. Tell your friends and family you love them like you mean it. Offering a trite or off the cuff "I love you too!" without any feeling does not count. I always tell my adult children, mother and brothers I love them with feeling. My progeny is quite comfortable with my expression of love, my brothers not so much. I don't give a crap. At least this way they know they are loved, there is no doubt. I never end a conversation with my loved ones without letting them know they are loved. 
3. Find something to be happy about every day. If you can find nothing else, be happy about the sun shining or the rain falling. We always need rain for plants and trees to grow. Look up instead of down. When you focus on the good instead of what is going wrong, it shifts your perspective. Even when things fall through, recognize that there is something better coming through for you. The Universe is always conspiring for you!
4. Wake up Grateful! The first words in my head in the morning are, "Thank you for another day of life." It is a Native American prayer that I heard years ago, and I use it daily. When we begin to recognize that each day is a gift, we see the preciousness of each moment as well.
5. You are NEVER ALONE! Thank The Divine daily for the love of your life, and watch your world shift. When you focus on how alone you are, you are coming from a place of lack. Alone is all you will ever be. Instead, see the sun, the moon, the stars, the plants the trees, the birds, the rocks, the waterfall as gifts to show you how loved you are. Each of these is alive with the energy of The Divine - LOVE! How could you be alone? Besides, what you see are the unseen spirits, Angels, Devas, Fairies that also love you unconditionally. Oh yes, they exist too. I told you I was a rebel. 
6. Use Your Imagination. Your imagination will assist you to create a happier day, a brighter life and the assurance that if you continue reaching for a higher vibration, love yourself, your life and envision something better you will create it. Einstein said imagination was infinitely more valuable than intelligence. If you can envision it, you can create it.
7. Feed Your Soul! Meditate. Connect with the earth and go within every day. There are many ways to feed your soul; sitting in a garden, walking outdoors and disconnect from the distractions of power chords, telephones, the Internet for a happy centered life. There is no Internet in heaven! There is also no sex!
8. For Goodness Sakes Have Conscious SEX! Making love, looking at your partner, breathing them in, will make you feel alive faster than anything on the planet. If you hate sex, you hate yourself. There I said it! It is true. You can't love yourself and hate sex; it isn't possible. Masturbating twice or three times a day is totally unconscious by the way, in case you were wondering. You are attempting to escape your pain through masturbating. How is that working for you? Not very well.
9. Touch and be Touched. The touch of another animal, or human can ground us, affirm life for us and open up our emotional body to release. If you don't have anyone to touch
   
   you get a massage at least once a month. Heck, I was at the Apple store last night, and the gentleman that helped me was so attentive I touched him on his arm as I thanked him and looked him in the eyes. He was sweet, kind and you know, technical. Geeks need love too. He was so helpful and understanding of my lack of technical expertise, I appreciated him, and I wanted him to know.
10. Rescue a dog or cat. There are so many animals that are
    
    euthanized every day, they would love to have a companion to love and be loved by. A pet can give you love, be there for you when you come home and accept you as you are. There is nothing like the love of a rescued pet to make you feel alive and loved. Dogs are wonderful for so many reasons because they require walking, they help you move your body daily so that you live a healthy life. Rescuing a pet is a win-win, it saves a life and gives you some love.
11. Dance like nobody is watching. If you are always worried about what others think of you, you aren't living life to the fullest. Get out of your freaking arm chair and shake that booty! Give it all you've got. Crank up the tunes and have some fun. Move your body, it was built to move not sit. Dancing will shift your mood in less than three minutes. I promise. 
12. Laugh like no one is listening. Do you cover your mouth to hide your smile when you laugh? If you do, you fear life. You may fear being seen. You are trying to contain your joy. Joy is not meant to be
    
    contained! It is meant to be experienced fully! Like an orgasm, don't hold back. ENJOY your laughter.
13. Love like there is no tomorrow. Waiting for your husband or wife to change means you are not living fully. Love them the way they are. Unconditional love is all about loving others as they are, rather than attempting to make them a cookie cutter version of yourself. Love yourself like you are the last person on earth. Love yourself like your life depends on it because it does!
14. Live a life without regret. If you work too much and don't have any energy for your family when you come home, you
    will regret what you missed. Show up fully. Be present with your loved ones and let them know they are loved.

Join me tonight:

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Wednesday, March 2nd at 5:30 PM PST and 8:30 PM EST

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There will be a channeled message for the group, healing for personal issues and an opportunity to ask questions.

You can send me an e-mail with your question or suggestion. I will need your name to open your Akashic Records before the call.

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What The Akashic Records Are and How Can You Use Them To Improve Your Life?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

The Akashic Records are known as the book of Life. They are like the supercomputer system for everyone who has ever walked this planet recording all that has ever happened. Much
more than a storehouse of events, everything that has ever occurred, every thought, word, deed, and emotion is recorded in the history of the world. The Akashic Records are more than a history book; they are interactive. The information within The Akashic Records allows us to tune into our Divine nature.

We have witnessed the computer age come into being, with a massive amount of information recorded on our computers. No computer in the world comes close to the capacity to store information as The Akashic Records. 

Historic Proof

Evidence regarding The Book of Life can be found in myth and folklore as well as the Bible. It is traceable as far back as the Semitic peoples, the Arabs, the Assyrians, the Phoenicians, the Babylonians and the Hebrews. Among these peoples, there was the belief that some celestial tablets existed which contained the history of humankind including all manner of spiritual information.

Akasha is one of the cosmic principles, plastic matter and creative in nature immutable and the highest of all energies.

How Can The Akashic Records Be Used?

The first reason we use The Akashic Records is to discover the nature of the soul. We can discover where the soul originates, what energies the soul is designed to work with in particular and what specialities the soul has focused on. The Akashic Records can be accessed by one trained or highly intuitive to discover negative and positive traits and even the soul purpose of an individual. Once the Akashic Records are opened, they can be used to heal past issues, release negativity and gain insight into the reasons events occur in one's life. 

Understanding past choices from the current life or a previous one can lead to greater understanding and evolution of each individual.

Movies In The Mind

When accessing The Records visions may occur whereby you see events playing out before you. When I wrote Odyssey Victim To Victory, I could not recall much of the details of my life. As I wrote, with my Akashic Records opened, movies would play in my mind showing me exactly what occurred, in the correct order including words and emotions. 

Edgar Cayce

Edgar Cayce was one of several in history who have gained access to The Akashic Records. Mass amounts of information were recorded in Edgar Cayce's trance states where he channeled information from both the unconscious mind and The Akashic Records.

Love and The Akashic Records

I use The Akashic Records in my work with clients to assist them to move forward in their marriage, life and work. The nature of the soul is written which can be discovered by asking questions to determine the best course of action. I open my client's Akashic Records, which allows healing to occur while we discuss issues and challenges that are happening in the moment. The nature of each's soul is love. There is no place this is more evident than in The Akashic Records.

Changing Events In Life

When The Akashic Records are opened, a discussion about a marriage date or challenge can be remedied just by giving it energy through a discussion. I have witnessed a wedding date changed because the original date prevented me meeting my destiny in Bali to learn how to read The Akashic Records.

Information about the source of illness can be gleaned from The Akashic Records. Many authors have written books from

information received through The Akashic Records.

Join me tonight:

The Akashic Records and YOU!

Wednesday, March 2nd at 5:30 PM PST and 8:30 PM EST

(641) 715-3580 pin 730-749#

There will be a channeled message for the group, healing for personal issues and an opportunity to ask questions.

You can send me an e-mail with your question or suggestion. I will need your name to open your Akashic Records before the call.

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