Thursday, December 10, 2015

I Was On Fire!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Before I became conscious of how we create our lives, I believed like many do that we get sick due to viruses in the air. We get cancer for some unknown reason. After years of co-creating miracles for others and myself, setting Intentions for my day and healing my emotional body and physical body, I now recognize that illness first begins with a thought, and then an emotion. 


I had a big AHA! Moment over 20 years ago and recognized that my negativity was killing me. I was sick all the time, depressed and had insomnia. I wrote about in my book, Odyssey Victim To Victory. Doubt me if you wish. In this article, I will site the emotional cause and belief that set up the disease, even with alcoholism. Let me share my recent experience with a fiery fever.

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Anger is a fiery emotion. I have a client whose house caught on fire because she was fighting with everyone in her world. In every area of her life, she had anger and conflict. Her anger was out of control - hence the house fire.

For almost ten days, without the help of an attorney, I worked on legal documents and pleadings for my daughter so that she could get an apartment away from dormitory life, away from a boyfriend who broke up with her. A sum of money from her father's death (life insurance) was in a locked account that neither she nor I had access. The only way she can draw money out is by having the Conservator (me), or an attorney file pleadings requesting money from the court. I released my attorney lovingly because he was charging me $5,000 a pop to do this for us. 

Numbers are not my thing. I failed miserably at accounting in high school. In fact, I cleared a fear of numbers about five years ago which has given me more peace when I have to add, subtract or deal with numbers. Balancing numbers in the Conservator's report was stressful for me.

When my attorney realized he wasn't going to get his $5,000 this month, he charged me $2,051.49 for filing last year's report to the court in February. Intuitively, I sensed that he pulled a number out of a hat that he wanted and sent the order to the court for payment from my daughter's account. Since his wife was the one who contacted me, accepted the report and followed up with me, it was unlikely her fees were $225 an hour. I was angry because I was being overcharged. (I will explain more in a moment.) 

I don't get sick. It has been many years since I have had even a cold or flu. I affirm my vibrant health daily. I am grateful for my vibrant health. When I do have some physical manifestation, it is to teach or show me something very profound and release it.

Anger is Fiery, and I Got A FEVER

The result of my anger physically was a high fever and chills for three days. Last night I sweated my ass off, and my fever finally broke. My anger interestingly was gone as well.

You might say, that this is no big deal. The backstory is important

My attorney and his wife have been friends of mine since I asked for and manifested a friend while on the trails in Boulder, Colorado in 2011. They were kind enough to allow me to stay in their home, and I often did dog sitting for them when they traveled. I have done clearings for them, and relationship counseling for free in the past, because I considered them my friends. 

Where Did My Anger Come From?

I felt undervalued. I had done an emergency clearing on their son who had a terrible rash and had not slept in two weeks. They had gone to doctors, the emergency room and healers in the area. Nothing had worked. I was the last resort. I had just arrived in Boulder the day before, recovering from my 19-hour drive when I received a text from my friend pleading with me to clear her son. Even though I was exhausted, I did the clearing immediately. I texted her and told her what I found, and he ended up sleeping eighteen hours straight. The first sleep he had in two weeks. I did this for my friends that had helped me in the past.

After the first clearing, he was still itching, not quite as bad, but enough. I cleared him again. I already knew what the rash was about - he was jealous that his brother had decided to go to University in California and he being the oldest had still not made any decision about what he wanted to do with his life. His brother was getting all the attention. While I was there, both parents and the younger son flew to LA to check out his school. The older son felt left out. 

What Is The Root Cause Of A Rash?

A rash is a babyish way of getting attention. The mantra from Louise Hay is:

I love and approve of myself. I am at peace with the process of life. 

After the two clearings, I spent an hour and a half doing a Hypnotherapy session with him. He sat on the couch and laughed. He didn't believe what I was doing would help him. I told him why he got the rash in the first place. He looked sheepish. At first, he denied his feelings. Through the process, he agreed he was feeling shame that he hadn't decided what to do. He watched his younger brother easily decide and feel good about his decision. Now, his parents and brother were winging their way for fun in Los Angeles. He felt left out and anything but the center of attention.

My anger with my attorney/friend was not just about his overcharging for filing my Conservator Report. I was angry that they didn't see the value in what I did for them. I didn't charge them for my services. Who was I angry with them, or me?

Clarity

We have to be clear on what our value is. When we know our value, we charge what we know we deserve. I know I shifted this young man. His rash went away. He slept for the first time in two weeks after my first clearing. These people (friends) did not value what I did. I did not hand them a bill for $700 as I should have. Whose fault was this anyway? I did not charge them because they had helped me in the past. I did not charge them because I thought of them as friends.

Responsibility

We have to take responsibility for what we create. When we do, our lives become better. We create from a place of fullness rather than lack. When we know our worth, we can then charge what we know we deserve. My gifts have value. Not everyone can heal another person. Not everyone has the insight to see what the root of the issue is. Healing others has tremendous value. Not everyone hears clear Guidance from The Divine, The Angels or Guides. That is why people come to me in an emergency. When all the medical doctors could not help this young man, I did. That has tremendous value. I can get to the root cause quickly, because of my deep connection with The Divine and The Universe.

Friends or Foe

Sometimes our friends show up just to reflect something back to us. We can't be angry with them for showing us who we are. My friends showed me that I didn't value what I did. Now I do. I have made the shift.

The Emotional Cause of Specific Illness and Disease

What you will notice below is that most issues resolve themselves when you love and accept yourself completely. When I began to love myself unconditionally Fibromyalgia, depression, insomnia, anxiety all vanished. Holding onto deep seated anger creates disease in our body. Our emotions held in create disease.

Addictions: Running from the self. Fear. Not knowing how to love the self. 

Mantra: I NOW DISCOVER HOW WONDERFUL I AM. I CHOOSE TO LOVE AND ENJOY MYSELF.

Alcoholism: What's the use? A feeling of futility, guilt, inadequacy. Self-rejection.

Mantra: I LIVE IN THE NOW. EACH MOMENT IS NEW. I CHOOSE TO SEE MY SELF-WORTH. I LOVE AND APPROVE OF MYSELF.

Mantra:  Arthritis: Feeling unloved. Critiscm. Resentment. 

Mantra: I AM LOVE. I NOW CHOOSE TO LOVE AND APPROVE OF MYSELF. I SEE OTHERS WITH LOVE.

Asthma: Smother love. Inability to breathe for one's self. Feeling stifled. Suppressed crying. 

Mantra: IT IS SAFE NOW FOR ME TO TAKE CHARGE OF MY LIFE. I CHOOSE TO BE FREE.

Breast Issues: Represents mothering, nurturing and nourishment. 

Mantra: I TAKE IN AND GIVE OUT NOURISHMENT IN PERFECT BALANCE.

Cancer: Deep hurt. Longstanding resentment. Deep secret or grief eating away at the self. Carrying hatreds or a feeling of "What's the use?"

Mantra:  I LOVINGLY FORGIVE AND RELEASE ALL OF THE PAST. I CHOOSE TO FILL MY WORLD WITH JOY. I LOVE AND APPROVE OF MYSELF.

Canker Sores: Festering words held back by lips. Blame.

Mantra: I CREATE ONLY JOYFUL EXPERIENCES IN MY LOVING WORLD.



JOIN ME AND CREATE MIRACLES FOR YOU!

Now that my fever has broken, my postponed class reconvenes  tonight for the second in a series about Co-Creating for your life. Tonight's hour will be spent on Co-Creating MIRACLES!Manifesting Money and Men 

Why is this $30? If you have no skin in the game, you won't
value what I share. You won't receive all the benefits of the teaching without first committing to yourself. As soon as you sign up you will begin to reap the benefits. 

I am teaching you how to Co-Create miracles daily. What would a miracle mean to you? How much being able to Co-Create a miracle mean to you? I promise you that if you follow my clear, concise directions, you will manifest miracles also. Click here to sign up.

On this page, I share some of the testimonials from people who have been in my session. The prayer I pray for you will bring you miracles. Here is Jodi's experience after I prayed for Miracles for her:

Hey Jennifer
Had an amazingly busy week energy, business and greatness-wise. Here are the latest great things that happened since your clearing;
During the clearings I was wound a little tighter than normal and then the shift happened....
I had a makeup event in salon that was only 60% booked (which I always make myself sick over with stress and anxiety) and the evening before it was to happen I had a client text that she was bringing 3 extras and 5 minutes later another client text she was in town and wanted to attend which made the event almost full. It was wonderful!!
Next my client was selling freshwater pearl and leather belts and one of my other clients had been wanting one for over a year now but unable to pay the amount. When the designer came in to have her hair done she said she would drop it significantly and I was so happy to let my client know the next night and she was able to immediately purchase it. 
Before the makeup event the representative for our Jane Iredale line told me I was radiant and had great energy when I walked in. We then started talking about her family and Charleston and I found out her sister had just been diagnosed with Leukemia and was deteriorating quickly:(. I told her I would think positively for her and that I was sorry. An hour later she politely interrupted myself and my client with tears saying "I told you you had good energy today-my sister found a bone marrow donor and is being flown to Dallas ASAP. I was so lucky to be a part of that!!!
Thursday morning I noticed the regular homeless man outside the gym and realized I had forgotten to drop my husbands clothing off at Goodwill. I pulled to the man and asked if he wanted to browse and take what he needed and wanted and he happily took much of it. I spoke with him for a while and noticed he needed new shoes- asked his size and sent a text to some friends with tall husbands who may have large enough feet. I left that conversation feeling adrenaline the type you feel after you had almost been in a car wreck. Happy - true happy energy -flowing through my whole body and I squealed out loud with joy and excitement!!!
 All last week I was Giddy and playful and wasn't stressing over employee drama at the salon. 
I pulled the trigger on a huge billboard for my salon and was lucky enough for one of my talented clients to happily help me with it when I asked. 
My Salon Media Kit was completed and will be personally sent out to 50+ contacts and I feel like I am giving birth to a whole new baby;)
Electrician had to come do unexpected work worth of $900 at the salon and then they told me it was only going to be $360!!!!
Was put in touch with the politician in charge of bringing the film industry to Atlanta and he immediately set up a face to face meeting at my salon to talk about how he can put me in contact with the right people to help!!  Huge!!!

Someone stopped a client at the gas station across from the salon to find out who gave her her haircut then came in the salon to book an appointment. 
I had a gift for my salon manager and gave it to her and let her know how much I appreciate and enjoy her!!  Timing was everything!!
Merging traffic  had also been great and I have been more patient and appreciative towards my husband now to work on the sex part;)!!
I have forwarded your info out and hope they take advantage of your gift.  Thanks for touching my life!!!!




Thanks! 
Jodi Grieshop


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Saturday, December 5, 2015

The Joy Of Feeling Sexy

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Though there are many in this world that say they hate sex or don't like it, sex is a natural part of being human. The desire for deep connection with another human is at the core of each of us, even when we are fearful of intimacy. When we hate sex, or refuse to have it, we are denying ourselves pleasure, joy and deep connection with the spiritual. We are also denying an integral part of who we are. Our sexuality is the core of who we are. Our sexiness is innate. When we don't feel sexy we aren't in touch with ourselves.


I understand feeling disconnected from our body. For most of my life, I was not grounded in my body. I was flaky, scattered and unfocused. This article will help you increase happiness, joy and your internal connection with you. The side-effect is feeling sexy!

Sex is our sacred expression of the deepest part of ourselves. When we deny ourselves pleasure sexually, we also deny other pleasures. We might avoid foods we love, or experiencing expanded joy because we deny ourselves the feeling of pleasure. 

Whether we are alone or in a relationship, we can still enjoy intense pleasure of all kinds. Eating can be extremely pleasurable and a very sensual experience. I love to eat delicious foods. I enjoy what I am eating experiencing the pleasure of taste, feel of the texture in my mouth. I love to eat juicy foods, fruits, smoothies, rich ice cream loaded with fat, avocados and pie loaded with whipped cream. Don't get the idea that my diet is poor. I eat healthy most of the time. However, if I get a longing for a piece of pumpkin pie loaded with whipped cream, I enjoy it deeply. 

Enjoyment of Pleasure

I used to deny myself fattening foods. Since I began eating them when I feel like it, I feel bigger, more expanded in my field (not in body mass, but energy) I am happier and you can eat them too. Just not at every meal. 

Allowing yourself to participate in activities that you formerly denied yourself can expand your joy. Do you love to dance, but don't have a partner? I don't have one either right now. (Notice that I added "right now." ) He's on his way to me. I just have a few more things to take care of before he arrives. I dance every day. Since I began to dance, I feel sexier, more grounded, expanded and have lost inches - everywhere! 


Dance To Feel Sexy

Dance is joyful. It brings up pleasure from our deepest core. Sex is not the only way to experience pleasure. Why not start dancing today. Enjoy your own body. Feel what you like to do, dance like a rock star, or a ballerina. Feel sexy in your own body. If you don't feel sexy, how can you expect anyone else to?

What Dance Does For You

  1. Expands your body. You might become taller, stronger, lighter, and curvy. My spine has stretched, my posture has improved and I have toned everything!
  2. Creates balance. You become more grounded in your body. Especially when you dance outside, the earth moves up to greet you. You will find your physical balance increases. You will be less likely to fall when you experience how your body works for you and you become more flexible.
  3. Helps you feel joy. Dance is something that tribal people have done for thousands of years. It connects us with our ancestors, the native peoples from all walks of life. Dance is amazing for shifting the way you feel about you and your life.
  4. Numbness goes away. If you feel numb, dancing will help to diminish and heal those parts of you that feel numb, because you are connecting deeply with your soul and your body.
  5. Music soothes the soul. Play music you love. Play music you don't like but play music. Try different genres. Experience different types of music to stretch yourself. You might find that you have an inner rock star. I began listening to AC/DC and U2 when dancing by accident. It was what came up on my phone out in the desert. I just went with it. It surprised me when I began to feel different about those bands.
  6. You tone your body differently than when at the gym. You only need to dance to three songs a day to begin to shift your body. Just do it every day!
  7. Dancing is fun! It is far more pleasurable than being in a stuffy smelly gym. 
  8. Dance like no one is watching you. Get beyond your fears of what others think of you. You will find much more joy when you can be YOU. I have a video coming, I will share my crazy woman dancing with you later today. So come back and see, it might be completed by Sunday morning if it takes too long to edit.
  9. You don't have to be a ballerina or Beyonce to get a lot out of dance. I have never been known for my dancing skills, but that isn't the point. 
  10. You will begin to feel sexy, beautiful and totally you. Dance connects you to your body. It prepares you for sex because you begin to really love your body when you dance. 
  11. You will find yourself smiling when you are not looking. Everyone needs more joy, happiness, and aliveness. I promise you dance will bring you joy and happiness. 
  12. You will feel more passion for your life, your partner and if you don't have one, you are preparing for them with dance.
I want to hear about your experience. Connect with me here or on FaceBook and let me know what you notice. 

Jennifer's website is Aphrodite Effect.com

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Friday, December 4, 2015

4D Sex More Than Just Body Parts

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Last night, Devi Ward and I jointly co-hosted the last in a series on her show, Sex As Medicine. Our guest was Sex Therapist,  and award-winning author, teacher, Shaman Gina Ogden, PhD. Gina has created a medicine wheel to use to help us get to the root of our emotional, physical, heart, and spiritual issues with sex.


Gina Ogden is an insightful wise woman who has written many books, The Return To Desire, Women Who Love Sex, The Heart and Soul of Sex, Expanding The Practise of Sex Therapy. 

Visit Devi Ward's blog about deepening clitoral orgasms.


Listen to this show here. You won't be disappointed. Gina brings spirituality into sex which is natural. Who created sex and orgasm anyway. Rather than being goal-oriented Gina talks about having a deeply connected sexual experience where someone touches your emotions and soul. 

If you are looking for a deep and fearless search for self beyond pain and suffering Gina's guidance is profound. I invite you to
listen. This is a beautiful show for men and women to expand your vision and feelings about sexual expression and love.Visit my website here. Or e-mail me for a private experience of deepening your connection with self fearlessly here. 

Wednesday, December 2, 2015

My Christmas Gift To You!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

I have just been given guidance to offer anyone who participates in all three of my Manifesting Money and Men webinars a free session! Holy cow! If you attend all three of my

webinars beginning tonight and pay in full, you will receive a FREE 30-minute session with me to work on whatever you wish.


Join me beginning tonight and get a gift from me valued at over $225.00. Sign up here and follow the links to PayPayl and I will see you on the call at 5:00 PM PST tonight, or 8:00 PM EST. In these three sessions you will get:

  1. Everything you need to be able to create for your life.
  2. Your blocks to believing you can do this cleared.
  3. Clarity on what you desire.
  4. Focus.
  5. The Power to manifest.
  6. The phrases that pay and create with effortless ease.
  7. Learn how to create miracles in your life.
  8. Your desires fulfilled.
  9. Phrases to repeat to continue creating daily.

I doubled my income in 2015 using these techniques. I manifested a dream job, home, car, man, love in spite of the odds. You can too!

10 Ways To Shift Defeating Thoughts About Life, Love and You

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

I used to think that life was hard, and it was. It is so interesting to look back at the way society and family beliefs influenced me. "You have to work hard to succeed. You will be happy when you are married. Money and success will bring you happiness." What a load of hogwash!


It is easy to blame others for where we are. Our husband or wife doesn't do what we expect them to do, so they become the source of our pain and suffering. We blame our parents for the way they raised us and the lack of love they gave us. How can we break free from this negative programming and societal lies?

Change Your Thoughts

There are thousands of books about thought and The Law Of Attraction available to read. I've read a lot of them. What changed my life for me was just deciding that I needed to change my ways, thoughts, and beliefs. Change can be a dirty word for most of us. We like things the way they are we think. But do we really? If you don't have the life, love
or relationship you desire here are some simple ways to shift our thoughts to change our inner and outer world for the better.

  1. Take responsibility for your life, love, health and happiness. How do you do that? Stop blaming everyone on the planet for your childhood, pain and suffering. You may have had a horrible childhood, lousy parents and may challenges, continuing to focus on those things keeps you stuck in that reality. Decide now to shift your thinking and create a better life for yourself. 
  2. Carry a journal around with you just for one day. Write down every thought you think. Be honest with yourself. What is the predominant energy of your thoughts? Is it positive, or do you complain, moan and focus on the negative in most situations. (I certainly used to I was one of the most negative people on this planet.)
  3. Change your focus. Instead of going to the dark side with your thinking choose to focus on the silver lining. Every situation has a silver lining. One of my clients had a house fire. I asked her to find the silver lining. She asked me incredulously, "You want me to find the positive in the fact that my house almost burned to the ground?" I replied, "Exactly!" When she did, she realized that she still had her family in tact. She began to notice that the stupid trivial issues she focused on and complained about were meaningless in the scheme of things. Her relationship began to flourish, and she became happier after the hardship of the fire by recognizing the GOOD in the situation.
  4. Create an INTENTION for your day and your life. How do you want your day to be? Sit in silence before you begin your day and ask for your day to be filled with joy, peace, harmony and ease. Watch how this changes your day and then your life with consistency.
  5. Recognize the power of your thoughts.  Think of your thoughts as prayers. Each thought goes out into the Universe and brings you back more of what you are thinking of. You create with your thoughts. You are creating unconsciously. Begin to create CONSCIOUSLY.
  6. Notice your emotions. Are you being upset by what others say or do. If so, recognize that it isn't them, it's you. WHAT? Absolutely! When you stop focusing on what others are doing or NOT doing, you will be so much happier. Your emotions come from you. If you feel angry, you are the one that has anger. If you feel triggered, you are the one with the trigger. Your emotions throw fuel on the fire of your thoughts, creating bigger issues for you. Emotions propel your thoughts bringing back what you are focusing on even faster!
  7. Use your emotions for CREATING. Joy, love and gratitude are higher vibrational energies than anger, sadness and misery. Do what you can to shift the way you feel so that you create positive situations for your life. If you want something to happen fast for you, be in joy, feel love, raise your vibration. 
  8. Dance! Sing! Be Merry! Music is a very powerful way to shift the way you feel. Raise your spirits by listening to music that lifts your spirits rather than brings you down. Sing in the shower when you are beginning your day, or in your car while driving to work. Singing opens your heart and makes you feel good. Dance is what I do every day to increase my heart rate, and bring me in touch with my inner joy. I am not a great or professional dance, but that doesn't matter. Do what brings you joy daily.
  9. NO MORE EXCUSES! Stop making excuses for why you can't do any of the above. If you want your life to be different, YOU have to be different. YOU have to change your thoughts. Excuses keep you from having what you desire. Excuses keep you small and give your power away. I can help you do just that beginning tonight for three weeks in a row. 
  10. Say YES! When we are in a negative place, we tend to say no, rather than yes to opportunities. We miss the open door and close the window of new opportunities with our "NOs"
Begin creating the life of your dreams. I will share all of my secrets to doubling my income in a year, manifesting miracles for others and myself and get you creating a life you love!

Manifesting Money and Men begins tonight. You have the ability to stay for all three sessions, or just join me for one. $30 per session, $90 for all three. I would love for you to have the life you desire. I will help you get there. Why not choose YES, instead of NO!

Do you have a question for me, or are your ready to step into the life you have dreamed of? E-mail Jennifer here. 

Friday, November 27, 2015

Give New Meaning To Black Friday

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Your tummy is still feeling full from a delicious home-cooked turkey dinner. The thoughts of sugar plums and bleary-eyed four o'clock in the morning alarms don't excite you today. Why not give new meaning to BLACK FRIDAY?


Avoid the crowds and choose a different activity today. Choosing a different experience might leave you both breathless with smiles on your faces instead of fighting the shopping crowds. Why not stay at home and shop on-line - afterward. 

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The day after Thanksgiving is traditionally a shopping day for many. Although you might get some great bargains shopping you will most likely leave frustrated or in debt. I have a suggestion for you. Stay at home, take some juicy foods to bed with you and have a picnic instead. The aftermath of slow, leisurely lovemaking will certainly leave you far more satisfied than a day of fighting crowds, lines, and spending. 

Spend Time

I ask you, when was the last time you spent a morning in bed with your partner? Or even had an afternoon tryst? Take time to slow down, massage one another and do some eye gazing. Maybe slow isn't your style, but it could give her a chance to enjoy the process, rather than rushing. 

Women need twenty to forty minutes to get warmed up enough to have an orgasm. Black Friday is the day to do it. The kids are probably spending time with their friends. There is nothing worth watching on television. 

Mind Games

Women often end up telling themselves stories like: "I'm taking too long to get there." When we think this way, we often end up faking an orgasm rather than having the real deal. Believe me, after doing so for most of my life, faking it isn't ideal. When we give up and don't let go of our negative thoughts, we can't get there. 

How To Get To Orgasm

  1. Know what feels good for you. Get to know your body. 
  2. Tell your partner what works and what feels best.
  3. Ask for what you want.
  4. Shut off the negativity in your mind.
  5. Keep bringing your mind back to the pleasure.
  6. Focus on the pleasure, rather than thoughts about your partner getting tired. 
  7. Breathe. Your body needs oxygen to function. Breathing with your mouth open will relax the vagina (as above, so below) and help you orgasm.
  8. Squeeze your internal muscles - Kegels using these muscles as a pump to move your kundalini (sexual energy).
  9. Give him a hand. If you aren't getting there with what he is doing for you alone - masturbate to bring yourself to orgasm. Some positions are easier than others to do this; you have to find what works best for you. 
  10. Pump or move your hips rhythmically. The action of moving your hips combined with the squeezing of your internal vaginal muscles (Kegels), bringing your mind back to the pleasure rather than worrying about how long it is taking you should help tremendously.
Nothing Wrong With You

Porn stars may look like they are having orgasms, but are most likely faking it. Women think that because they don't come in two to four minutes that there is something wrong with them. Women are wired differently than men. It's okay. Thinking there is something wrong with you will push pleasure away. 40% of women have difficulty having an orgasm. Most of the problems are mental not physical but mental. Get my book Orgasm For Life for


step-by-step details on how you can get there too. 


Sign up for my Manifesting Money and Men webinar that begins 12.2.2015. A three-week program that will teach you all my secrets to manifesting love, marriage, houses, vacations, cars and ease in your life. 

The following interview with The Love Doctor contains information about my personal sexual healing so that I could be orgasmic.

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Thursday, November 26, 2015

The Things I Am Grateful For

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

As I sit here this morning reflecting on the past year, I am grateful for the late night clearing for a dear client in New York. I am grateful for so much. You are the reason I sit at my computer each day and write. You make my life fulfilling. The fact that you find something in my articles to help you gives me much to be thankful for. For those of you who celebrate Thanksgiving, Happy Thanksgiving to you. I wish all of you much love and joy today and every day. Perhaps my little foray into my personal gratitude list will help you to find something for which to give thanks.


A day without GRATITUDE is like a day without sunshine. You can quote me on this one!

Each day I wake is another day to enjoy walking and dancing in the desert with U2, Foreigner or Journey, and my dogs. 


This morning while I whipped fresh cream for the top of my pumpkin pie, my biceps began to burn from the action of using the hand-held whisk. No electric beaters for this woman! I was grateful for my regular clients who pay me so that I have food on my table and a roof over my head. I am grateful for my pumpkin pie!

I am an advocate, cheerleader, and guide for those working through their relationships, business challenges and boulders on the road of life. Life is so much better with someone guiding you. I am that light for those who are brave enough to dive deep into their emotions, beliefs and programming that doesn't serve them any longer. 

I love this picture, taken circa 2004

  1. I am grateful for my adult children. Though I am alone this Thanksgiving, my progeny are the primary focus for my life. They have taught me so much about myself. I had learned where my boundaries need to be shored up, where I had enabled and need to clean up my act and also the areas where I have excelled, giving my children the guidance they needed, the support they desired and kept my mouth shut when all they wanted was to know I love them.
  2. I am very grateful that my mother is still living (93). I am so grateful that her health has been so good for so long. This June, she had a heart attack in front of me at my niece's wedding. I am so grateful that she spoke up and had me take her to the
    hospital. I am grateful that we have healed our relationship andthat I am no longer triggered by anything she says to me. That is something to be grateful for! We talk almost every day. I am grateful that I found the love in my heart for her. 
  3. I am grateful I am no longer a victim.
    I am grateful that at 61, I look younger than I did ten years ago.
    I am grateful that I found happiness, joy and peace within. Happiness is something I worked on diligently. I have to share what I did with others; it is where I find my bliss.

  4. I am grateful for my vibrant health. I am grateful that I did not give a doctor the responsibility for my health. I am grateful that I don't take prescription medicines. 

  5. I am grateful that my car is almost paid off. I am grateful for the flow of money that has allowed me to do this. I love my little Honda! 

  6. I am grateful to my clients in Colorado that I recently visited. I love my clients. I am so grateful to all of you!
  7. I am grateful to Javier Silvestri, who worked with me for years with For Heaven Scapes. He was loyal, committed and the hardest worker I have every had. Yesterday I drove three hours each way to see Javier near Santa Ana where he was visiting his brother and family. He lives in Georgia. Javier and I have stayed connected; there is deep love there that will never die. He is like Mi Hijo, ~son.
  8. I am grateful to William, who worked for almost three months on my website this fall. He did a beautiful job creating Aphroditeeffect.com my branding and the new message.
  9. I am grateful to Meredith Loos, who has stepped up and into the role of my right-hand woman offering tech support. Meredith has been working behind the scenes creating new landing pages, promotional pages and signup forms for my programs. Meredith is a beautiful woman, web designer, and great asset. I am very grateful for Meredith.
  10. I am grateful for the sun that shines on me almost every day, filling my body with life, love and vibrancy. 
  11. I am grateful for my dogs that love me, are patient with my work and get me out of my office to dance, play and enjoy life. 
  12. I am grateful for nature. I am grateful for the beauty of this amazing earth. 
  13. I am grateful for the beautiful full moon this Thanksgiving. The moon is so powerful shifting tides, emotions within us and giving us light at night. 
  14. I am grateful for the stars that shine so beautifully every night. 
  15. I am grateful for the trees that provide shade, screen the wind and offer their beauty for my enjoyment. 
  16. I am grateful for the powerful ocean. 
  17. I am grateful for the soft sand as I walk on the beach. 
  18. I am grateful for the earth and all it supports, the vegetables grown, nuts, fruits for me to eat. 
  19. I am grateful that there is a homeless shelter for those who have nowhere to go, can sit down today and enjoy a hot turkey dinner.
  20. I am grateful for my life. I am grateful that I have come out of the darkness to see that each experience I have had has only served as a lesson and a gift for my soul's growth. 
  21. I am grateful for this body that allows me to experience life on this planet fully. I am grateful that it has held up so well, that it can move like a thirty-year-old and provide such pleasure for me.
  22. I am grateful for the soft bed in which I lay my head to rest each night.
  23. I am grateful to be alive today. 
  24. I am grateful for the love that surrounds me. 
  25. I am grateful for the support of The Divine and The Universe. I know that I am always loved, guided and shown my next step.
  26. I am grateful that I had such an exhilarating drive home along the Angeles Forest Highway under the full moon last night. I felt like Mario Andretti driving in the Indie 500. I was alone on the mountain roads racing at the highest speed of 40 mph, which felt incredibly fast because of the switchbacks and
    hairpin turns. I felt alive, young and full of life. A series of small events that comprise the tapestry of our lives. I am so happy to be alive, well and creative. 
  27. I am in love with you, with life and me! I am grateful for you. 
Love the ones you're with. If you are alone, send me an e-mail I promise to respond individually to support you today. 

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Monday, November 23, 2015

Bitch To Bliss

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

I love women. I can appreciate beauty in another. I admire a beautiful body, jacket or handbag. I tell women that they are beautiful when I meet them. I didn't always feel this way about other women. I have been on the receiving end of criticism, jealousy and rancor from women. We begin to truly appreciate others when we accept ourselves as we are. Until we do, we might feel jealous, or less than other women.  


Women are powerhouses. Women give life, feed, care for and lovingly nurture children, pets, husbands and all manner of critters our progeny bring home. We create homes out of houses. Women keep households running. They take care of the sick, heal, bathe, clean and keep the laundry up to date. 


Don't get me wrong, women can be bitches. We can be viciously jealous of others, complain, nag and strive for perfection. We say no when we mean yes then wonder why we didn't say yes afterward. Women are difficult to understand. In fact, for the opposite sex we can be confounding. When upset or angered most women can castrate their men with a piercing look or a simple word. Yes, we can be bitches. But do we have to be?


Power Through Softness

I maintain that women opt for bitchiness because it is scary. We tend to appear more powerful when we are bitching. Often our bitchiness moves mountains. Most men would rather get the job done, than endure another moment of scathing looks or words. Scaring our offspring and lovers does not endear us. In fact, bitchiness can make our men run for the hills, or softer, more nurturing pastures. 

There is another way to get our point across or the job done. A smiling face and welcoming hug are certainly more appealing than our arms crossed across our bosom as if to say, "No one shall enter here!"

I know what it feels like to be or act like a bitch. I used to be one. My emotions were out of control. The only female role model I had been imprinted by was my mother. I witnessed her wrath on many occasions. Nagging was a way of life. We all tuned her out. Silence was my mother's go-to punishment for my father. I am not sure whether he preferred the silent treatment over her bitching wrath? I do know he found a way to tune her out. He found a hobby that kept him busy for hours. His hobby was one that involved winemaking, tasting and bottling. For years, my father retired to the basement where he stirred, watched, sniffed, filtered and tasted his fine wines. Alcohol was his way of avoiding my mother. It soothed his soul, mind and calmed his nerves. It also pissed our matriarch off.

Bad Behavior

Our negative behavior or unbridled anger only pushes our partners away. Anger is a way of showing disapproval without really conversing about the subject where we object. Anger is avoidance of the truth or emotions. Anger is the only emotion that most of us can experience or express, due to our family of origin. New behaviors must be adopted and learned to move beyond avoidance, bitching and nagging.

Why then do we continue to act in this way, if it doesn't work? What are other ways of getting our brood to hear us and do our bidding? It is what we want, right? What most of us want is to have others do what we want.

Manipulation As A Maneuver

Getting another to perform a task or do what we want is manipulation. Giving sex as a reward for household chores or duties provided makes sex transactional. We become little more than married prostitutes when we use sex to get what we want.

Over the next few weeks, I will explore a variety of communication styles and the results you can hope to receive. No one wants to be called a bitch. So why would we act like one?

To be continued....

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