Tired of Feeling Sad, Depressed and Lonely?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

If you are tired of the struggle of conflict, negativity and challenges of life you are not alone. Challenges will always come up, it is how we react and feel about them that causes us suffering. If you want to change your life for the better and leave suffering in the dirt, read on. I have many great proven ways on this post. Eliminating mind chatter is one of the things people come to me for. If that or loneliness, unhappiness or depression are your issues, I can help you with those too. Permanently!

When we focus on the negative side of a challenge, that is all we can see. We can't see the fact that we created it in the first place. To take your life by the horns and ride it with the wind is what I am talking about. I do it and will teach you how to also. 

How To Change Your Life FAST

1. Take responsibility for your creation. "I CREATED THIS!"
2. Change your thoughts. Like any fitness program it takes practice, practice practice. With time, you will train your brain to be positive and your unconscious mind will be also. Having a positive mantra playing in the background helps with this. Choose something simple and easy to remember when things get tough, like: I LOVE ME!
3. You must have a daily spiritual practice. Meditation, sitting in silence, being quiet. You need to eliminate distractions, turn off the radio, cell phone and focus inward. Turn your focus inward and listen. I have several ways to quiet the mind chatter. One of which is getting your energy cleared. See below for details.
4. When things get tough or challenging, remember this is your creation. Breathe. Allow the energy of the moment to move through you. Try to look at the situation from an eagles' perspective - higher up. Know it will pass. Remember your mantra: I LOVE ME! Use the mantra silently in the background of your mind all day long, while you work, drive and watch how your thoughts become more positive.
5. When you forget to think positive thoughts, do an auto correct, like on your cell phone: Cancel Cancel! Then say something loving and positive out loud. I AM SAFE. My LIFE IS FILLED WITH EASE AND GRACE.

PRAYER IS ONE OF THE MOST POWERFUL THINGS

I was not raised in a holy household. Holy Hell maybe! It took me into my 30s to recognize that God really did exist, but just not the fierce angry God we were taught in grade school and church. God is not a man, that seeks revenge or punishes. God does not cause us pain or suffering. 

God does not DO ANYTHING TO US! (Except love and accept us) God does not punish us. God does not hurt us. We do it to ourselves. We think it and it happens. Oh OUCH! Yes, it can be difficult to recognize that we have created the things that have occurred in our lives. I could get into the whys and wherefores, but that would take me too long. Suffice it to say, that this is true and move on. When I began changing my thoughts from negative to positive, my life transformed. I had been sick, depressed, angry negative and I was sick sick sick as a result. I have healed breast cancer, without chemo and radiation or surgery. I have healed Epstein Barr an auto immune disease and I have healed depression, Fibromyalgia and arthritis from my body all by changing my thoughts from negative, criticism and condemnation. This applies to our thoughts about others. What you send out comes back to you 1,000-fold. if you think it - you create it!

Loving thoughts begets a loving life. Loving thoughts heal the past. Forgiveness of yourself and everyone is a must. If you have to begin somewhere, begin with Forgiveness.  Use the Kahuna healing Ho'oponopono Prayer. Begin with you!

I am sorry
Please forgive me
I love you
Thank you.

ASK QUESTIONS

Asking questions of The Universe is one of the fastest ways to get what you want. Here are some ways to ask the best questions for your situation.

1. How can my life get any better?
2. How can I effortlessly and easily get __________?
3. How can I effortlessly and easily create ________?
4. How can I effortlessly and easily be healthy.
5. How can I effortlessly and easily heal __________?

The use of questions will bring you what you want quickly. Belief is important. If you ask the question and then say to yourself, "This will never work!" You will be correct. 

Instead. I open up to the infinite possibilities of The Universe and all creation. 

SAY THE FOLLOWING AFTER YOUR QUESTIONS:

I know this will come to me, I don't know how, but I know it will. Thank you!

Our thoughts create, instantly. What you are thinking today is creating your tomorrow. What you thought yesterday is why you are in this mess in the first place. Clean up your thoughts today, for a happier and better tomorrow. 

WANT A MIRACLE?

When we expect NOTHING, we get NOTHING. When we expect a miracle, miracles unfold for us. Here is a miracle prayer that works. I have prayed this miracle prayer for hundreds of people to manifest miracles for them. I do this privately as well. Contact me if you want me to provide a miracle treatment for you and your situation.   JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com

Here is the link to my meditation. I recommend you do it daily. It will change your life, it did mine. 

Jennifer is the author of two books, Odyssey Victim to Victory, the story of her awakening and Orgasm For Life. She is an inspirational teacher, speaker and amazing healer. She has healed thousands of people all around the world with her prayers, and healing gifts. As a life coach, she is like no other. She is connected, experiences the Divine, and hears messages for your life from your angels and God. She is a mystic and visionary. Her website is http:www/JenniferElizabethMasters.com

If you are wondering, Jennifer no longer experiences loneliness, depression, insomnia, illness, aches or pains in her body. She is the real deal. 

You can e-mail her for a private session or to ask questions HERE!

Want an energy clearing? Want to get rid of mind chatter, negativity or chaos? Are you ready to be free of loneliness, sadness and depression? Are you ready to have the LOVE OF YOUR LIFE?

Working with Jennifer weekly, daily or for one session is an e-mail away. Connect with her here to set up a session for yourself or a loved one. Miracles do happen. Are you ready to receive yours today? If you don't expect, you won't get. Intend for yours now.

JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com

You've Got To Move It Move IT!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Whether it is taking a walk, a mountain hike or a swim in the ocean, moving our bodies does a lot more than just make us fit. Exercise enlivens the brain. It makes us feel good. Exercise releases endorphins

and oxygenates our brains and bodies. Exercising outside is even better. Being outdoors provides us with God particles (Adamantine particles) that clear our energy and make us feel good. Being out in nature gives us many added benefits. Anything that makes us feel good without taking drugs, medication or alcohol is GREAT in my book! Moving helps to relieve depression or stress and can make us feel happy and alive. 

I know a lot about depression. I had chronic depression for over 20 years. I had insomnia as well. My thoughts were negative, I created illness in my body with the thoughts I was thinking. I know what a difference getting outdoors can make for the way we feel. Getting outside and just walking can change your mind and improve your mood. Why not start today? Moving your body moves stuck energy. See those stairs on the left? I walked all the way up to the top. 12,000 feet to the summit. My 18 year-old daughter sat in the car, while I walked it with her boyfriend. It made me feel accomplished. It made me feel positive. I did it for me, not for anyone else. 

Today, I went to the gym ostensibly to do a yoga class. The yoga instructor got sick at the last minute. Rather than leaving the gym, I stayed and ended up having a private session with a very fit young man who taught advanced yoga for years. How fortuitous, I thought! The class is cancelled, and I get a private class instead. We were still doing yoga as a group of very lively women began to enter the studio. I asked what class they were arriving for and was told "Zumba." I have watched people hooting and hollering outside of the classroom on more than one occasions. I have to admit I judged it. 30 years ago I remember doing a fitness dance class in England to get my big old butt back in shape after my second son was born. I knew it worked! Two of the women immediately suggested I stay. Being a white woman, and anything but graceful on the dance floor, I moved outside of my comfort zone and decided to stay for the class.

Although I was usually behind the instructor by a step or two, I kept up with the class however clumsy I was. I stayed because things happen for a reason. This lively group, the music and the movement made me feel good. I didn't focus on the fact that I couldn't do the dance steps perfectly, or the fact that I sweat my butt off. The bottom line was I was doing something new and adventurous. 

Doing something new can bring more happiness into your world. Stepping out of your comfort zone can be just what you need right now. Moving your body will help clear depression, and improve your sex life. Unlocking your hips, pelvis and body can help you enjoy sex more. Just walking actively for 30 minutes every day can be enough to make you feel better and get your heart in better shape. If the weather is bad, you can always do laps in the nearest mall.

I have added one of my favorite Disney songs from Madagascar. They have the right idea: I like to MOVE IT!

More about exercise and depression here on Webb MD: http://www.webmd.com/depression/guide/exercise-depression

If you are unhappy with your life, love, relationship or sex life, filled with drama, uncertainty and chaos, it is probably time you gave me a call. I help women create a life that they love, so that they can choose whether they want to be in a relationship or not. When you are happy with you, you will radiate your inner beauty out. You look better, feel better and look younger. I will be 60 in October. Not only do I not feel it, I have been told, most would place me in my 40s. 

The happier you are with yourself and your life, the healthier and more radiant you will be. When you are happy with you, and have inner peace, synchronistic events begin to happen, you move into the FLOW. Life then is no longer a struggle, but effortless. Join me in living a life of ease, grace and happiness - every day. Buy my book! or Call me (770) 480-5500. Jennifer's website is: http://www.JenniferElizabethMasters.com If you are wanting to hear Jennifer, check out some of the recorded radio shows on the blog Jennifer On The Air. She has been on hundreds of radio shows talking about her work and her books. This is a good way to find out more about her and how she thinks and what she does in her sessions.

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Dating Before The Divorce

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

 If it looks like a duck, and walks like a duck, it's probably a duck!

If it looks like a duck and walks like one, it probably is one

Men and women are sometimes choosing to begin dating before their divorce is final. What are the pitfalls of dating before you are divorced? What is the downside of dating someone who is not yet divorced? 

You've met someone. They are delightful, attractive, kind, even loving, but they aren't divorced - yet. When someone is thinking about divorce or involved in a divorce, they are clearly emotionally unavailable to you. They are dealing with issues every day of hurt, remorse, guilt, and have not begun to heal from the marriage that has not yet ended.

They Are Leaving Their Spouse

Humans have a tendency to believe what we hear rather than paying attention to what we see. We want to be loved. We want to believe that things are a certain way. However, if a divorce has not been filed - there is no divorce. Your boyfriend, or girlfriend is legally MARRIED. The courts consider a person married until a divorce is final. You are having an affair with a married person. Which means you are out of integrity.

Divorce takes time. There usually is property to sell, CD's to divide, furniture and often children involved. Settling a divorce can take years, especially when there is property or minor or children. The average divorce takes two years complete. Healing does not really begin until after the divorce is final. Even if the person has been dating all this time, real healing does not happen until the reality of the divorce sets in.

Even if their intention is to leave their spouse you could be waiting years for this process to be complete. It is unlikely that they will be emotionally available to you completely until after they heal.

Healing From The Hurts

Dating a man or woman that is going through divorce means that you will need to be compassionate, understanding and patient with them while the discuss their hurts, from what they are experiencing. You could even become the distraction, from their woes. Count on the subject of their soon-to-be ex to come up in conversation often. They need a shoulder to lean on, cry on and someone to make them feel loved, appreciated and cared for.

How Long Does It Take?

Professional therapists, psychologists and psychiatrists say it takes one year for every year married to heal from a divorce. In other words, if you have been married 20 years, you need 10 years to heal. From personal experience, I had 10 years between marriages. In retrospect, that was not enough time, as I still attracted similar people to the one I had left. Patterns need to be cleared and changed. If not, the tendency in humans is to attract someone just like the one you divorced. You may find they have a different face, but the relationship is very similar.

Men Are More Likely To Remarry Than Women

Men are much more likely than women to remarry after a divorce for several reasons. Men feel they will have more regular sex when married. Men are used to being taken care of, often having their laundry done, meals prepared and sometimes even the yard work done by their wife. Women on the other hand are more likely to remain single after finding their new found freedom for the opposite reasons that men tend to remarry. Women are often fed up with taking care of a man and prefer the freedom of single hood. 

The Downside

1. The person you are dating may never get divorced.
2. Because they are still married, they are really not present with you.
3. They cannot commit because they are already in a committed relationship with someone else. See the dilemma?
4. There is no guarantee that they won't reconcile.
5. If they are having an affair with you, what makes you think they won't be unfaithful to you also.
6. You can't completely trust someone who has had an affair.
7. They may say they are sleeping on the couch, but they are still co-habitating. They had sex before. They know each other intimately. The chances are they will have sex again, and again and again before they divorce.
8. You are out of integrity. Since integrity is really all we have got, this is a really big deal. 
9. There is karma. If you are sleeping with a married person, the chances are that this karma will come back around and bite you in the butt when you really don't want it to.
10. You are providing a distraction for them during a difficult time. You are distracting them from their pain, their problems and what they really need to be focusing on: getting out of their marriage.

The Upside

1. You have a duck. Well sort of, you are really sharing a duck.
2. You will have lots of free time.
3. You won't have to worry about spending time with your boyfriend or girlfriend's family during the holidays because they will be with their family. 

Don't get me wrong. They may be a really nice person. However, you could be waiting until pigs fly, or the sun burns itself out before their marriage if final - if it ever is. Many people SAY they are getting a divorce and never leave their spouse. Think carefully. Choose wisely. 

Married Looking For An Affair?

If you are married and looking longingly at someone else, you are not fulfilled and happy with you. Until you are happy with yourself, no other person will change the way you feel about yourself and your life. You are the source of your pain and suffering not another person. Therefore, getting right with you - becoming happy and fulfilled FIRST is imperative, or you will do what I did and have four marriages and divorces before you come to a place of complete loving acceptance and total fulfillment on your own.

Happiness is a choice. It does not come from another person. It comes from you. It comes from you recognizing your soul purpose and mission in this life, giving back in some way, knowing without a doubt who you are and what you are here to do. I can help you come to this place. I did it and now I help others do the same. When you feel completely fulfilled on your own, you can take your time, date, or stay single. You will be happy no matter what. You don't NEED to have someone. Certainly you can choose to, but you won't be needy. 

Connect with me via e-mail to find out if you are a good fit to find your true purpose, happiness and soul mission. Here:

 JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com

Interested in my books? http://www.amazon.com/Orgasm-Life-Jennifer-Elizabeth-Masters/dp/0692227172

 

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Why You Need To Read Orgasm For Life

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Feeling Sexy in Atlanta 

Orgasm For Life is about love, relationships, communication and making sex sacred. Divorces are happening at an alarming rate. 48% of women are unhappy with their sex lives. 46% of men are unhappy with theirs. The divorce rate in the US hovers around 51%. In other countries like Russia, for example it is almost 70%. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to recognize that something is rotten in Denmark. Marriages are void of sexual connection. Women and men are at war with each other instead of in love. As a result of our disconnection from each other, sex becomes dull, boring and many women just say, "NO!"

This book was written to help bring people closer together. Sex is the glue. Sex is NOT the foundation, but it is the glue. When couples are engaging in regular sex, they communicate better. Their conversations are deeper and more meaningful. They have a deeper connection and bond that allows them to weather the storms of life as they come up, and they most certainly do.

Sex can be wonderful when it's great and horrible when things don't go well. I wrote this book to help men understand women better and women to understand themselves AND men better. Women can be confusing at times. One day we like one thing and the next day, we yell at you, "Don't touch me there!" Orgasm For Life explains the whys and wherefores. I demystify sex. Since I am a woman, and have had lots of sex I know what works and what doesn't. 

I am a triple Scorpio. For those of you that don't follow horoscopes, Scorpios are noted for being extremely sexual and sensual people. We are often driven by sex. We have a tendency to explore what we are interested in. I happen to have 5 planets in the sign of Scorpio. Ask my astrologer Cheney Hall what that means. He will tell you. What I will divulge is that I have had lots of sex. I have had sex in public places, like airplanes and under the Eiffel Tower. 

The data for Orgasm For Life was not garnered from a sterile laboratory, or loaded with reports and studies. It was written from personal experience. MINE!

Most people are unimaginative when it comes to life. I have included fantasies to help turn you on. I have written erotica for you to read together or alone. There are tons of different solutions to people's issues in this book to help bring back the magic and the fire in your relationship.  I am a lover of life and I enjoy all aspects of it. Because I am fearless, I have written about sex from a fearless place, without shame and guilt. The way sex was meant to be. I wasn't always fearless. That change occurred in 2012. 

Women can't have orgasms when they are in fear. I know this, because I was one of them. I never knew if my husband was going to hit me, shoot me or hug me. I was terribly afraid of him. When there is abuse in a relationship, we are afraid of the men. We can't let go and enjoy ourselves, because we never known when it is safe to let down our guard.

I have been married and divorced four times. I have had lots of sex. Some of it was good. Some of it wasn't so good. Over time, in a long-term relationship, sex can become dull and cursory. The sex I had when I was single was decidedly more exciting, usually because it was new. Although, I have to say, having a partner that knows you well can be the biggest turn-on of your life. When your partner knows you and what you like, sex can be better. It can be more meaningful with the depth of love, intimacy and connection of a long-term marriage or relationship. Sex is so much better when there is mutual respect and trust.

Orgasm For Life was written because, I had an issue with sexual dysfunction most of my life. After interviewing hundreds of men and women, I discovered that I was not alone. Many women do not have orgasms through penetrative sex. I thought I was the only one! I discovered I wasn't. Many women have difficulty reaching an orgasm and their partners have no idea. I knew this needed to change.

I heard complaints from men, not having enough oral sex. Yet I also heard that men wanted oral, but many don't reciprocate. You have to give to get. Sometimes it is better to GIVE than to RECEIVE! Maybe, the best Orgasm For your Life is the one you GIVE, rather than the one you receive!

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a life, love and sex coach. She is a inspirational speaker, author and workshop facilitator. Her private coaching sessions are like no others. She is a catalyst for healing. She has a gift for causing other's issues to come up to be healed. Sometimes people cry as soon as they get into a session with Jennifer. Crying is healing. It softens your pain. It allows you to move what is stuck. Jennifer's website is JenniferElizabethMasters.com You can contact her via e-mail here.  

Addicted to Love?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

When does making love too much become an obsession or addiction? How do we know we are not in a balanced, healthy relationship? What is the difference between sex addiction and a "normal sex drive?"

If you are finding yourself consumed by sex, or the need to have sex, you might be addicted. I have had sex addicts tell me that there is no such thing as a sex addiction. Which proves the point that denial is a huge part of any addiction.

Who Can Be Addicted?

Remember Robert Palmer? "You like to think that you are immune to the stuff? You might as well face it you are addicted to love!"

Sexual Addiction is Progressive

You might have to increase activities, take bigger risks to get the same rush you used to get with what most people would call "normal sex." Sex feels good. It is natural and normal to have sex and enjoy it. That in itself is not harmful. When sex becomes a compulsion that causes suffering to others, then it has become addictive. If you have to keep amping up your behavior and risk taking to keep things exciting for you, or you are disconnecting from intimacy through your experience, you have a sexual addiction.

Does This Apply To You?

1. Are you preoccupied with sexual thoughts, desires or compulsions?
2. Are your sexual behaviors getting in the way of productive work, or financial obligations?
3. Are your sexual behaviors keeping you from having a deep connection with your partner?
4. Do you feel desensitized to sex with a partner?

If you find that you are unable to have an intimate connection with your partner, then you have an issue. When sex becomes an escape but does not give you the satisfying and gratifying experience that an intimate encounter does, then compulsion or addiction is involved. Shame often enters into addictive sexual behavior as well, leaving you feeling negative and often depressed, rather than satisfied and fulfilled.

There are many different types of sexual addiction. Here are a few:

1. Have a compulsion to masturbate and it interferes with your life or work.
2. Addicted to porn.
3. Have to watch porn to get off.
4. Feel desensitized to sex with a partner.
5. Fantasies pervade your sexual experience with a partner.
6. Paying for sex.
7. Voyeuristic sex. The need to look on while others are performing sex acts.
8. Dangerous sexual experiences, looking for the latest rush or charge.
9. Have the need to be humiliated during sex, before sex or humiliation is part of the stimulation prior to sex.
10. High risk sex. Either dangerous and life threatening or situations involve high risk.
11. You need to exploit the person you are having sex with.
12. Boundary violation is part of your arousal.
13. You may be an exhibitionist, needing to expose yourself as part of the arousal process.

Tonight we continue our discussion about addictions with Dr. Winn Henderson. Tonight's podcast is specifically sexual addictions. We will address the cures for addiction, as well as the causes.

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Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a life, love and sex coach. She is the author of Orgasm For Life, available through Amazon. Her website is JenniferElizabethMasters.com

The Ladies Are Getting Bored!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Feel that sex is just ho hum? Maybe minus the HUM? If so, you are not alone. I just finished a radio show with Charlotte Howard on the Success and Beauty Show where the listeners are predominantly women. They are bored! Three callers asked how they could get their men to use a different position and do something different in bed. They complained about their partners being tired all the time and not interested in sex.

If you are doing the same ol' same ol and expecting your woman to be happy, I have news for you. You have to add some excitement. Make it thrilling. Read my book! I have plenty of ideas for different positions, dress up, roll playing (yes I know, it was intentional) erotica to read together and even fantasy ideas to use to make sex exciting again. You have got to wake up and smell the cold coffee. 

Listen up men! You need to change it up. Buy my book and get some new moves. Your lady is not happy with you! I am not kidding. Change can be scary. It can also build excitement and anticipation. We like excitement. We like movement and we don't like sex the same way day after day. If you think that having your woman lie on her back while you do the old hammer and nail move, every time, is exciting, it just isn't cutting it! You might be enjoying it, but your lady is looking at her watch! Women this goes for you too. If you just want to lie there while your partner does all the work, that doesn't work either. It takes two to create passion and excitement.

The time is NOW!

Choose something different. Get creative. You have a shower, a kitchen, a dining room table, a couch. There are plenty of rooms in your home. Use a pre-amble. Work up to sex. Begin in the living room. Move into the kitchen and then carry her up to the bathroom. Wait, you might want to use the stairs. Doing things in different rooms, in different areas of your home, in different ways can create some excitement. Remember how it was when you were dating? You didn't sit on the couch until you fell asleep, then stumbled up to bed. You made love on the couch! You kissed and held each other. You might have kept your clothes on a while longer. Try going back to those scenes that were so hot earlier in your relationship. What was so different? Can you re-create that excitement, even in part?

Heat things up in the kitchen! You have a counter, stove, table. Just don't turn the stove on! Things will heat up quickly enough without that inferno. Within the kitchen there is a refrigerator. You could take out some chocolate sauce and drizzle a little here and there. You know what I'm talking about. Chocolate is not just for breakfast anymore!

Remember what it was like when you were a teenager? You did it in your car, your parent's basement (well some people did!) It can feel a little naughty to have sex in your car. Even in your garage! The thrill of doing something that feels a little naughty can make regular sex feel a lot more exciting. 

Life is short. Make it exciting. Try something new. But practise safe sex, park your car first!

Why You Need To Read Orgasm For Life

Orgasm For Life is about love, relationships, communication and making sex sacred. Sex can be wonderful when it's great and horrible when things don't go well. I wrote this book to help men understand women better and women to understand themselves AND men better. Women can be confusing at times. One day we like one thing and the next day, we yell at you, "Don't touch me there!" Orgasm For Life explains the whys and wherefores. I demystify sex. Since I am a woman, and have had lots of sex I know what works and what doesn't. 

From a male friend who is in the middle of reading Orgasm For Life:  

A page turner, full of insight, but delivered in such a playful way!" B.L. Atlanta Georgia

"The chapter about oral sex for men is HOT HOT HOT!"

Women are different. What works for one woman might not work at all for another. Women differ from day-to-day because of our cycles, hormones and moods. We can be very difficult to understand. I have written this book in a playful, fun but informative way. I am not afraid of you, or sex or what people think. It is an honest, open look at men and women, relationships and the glue that holds our relationships together. I didn't say foundation, but I did say GLUE. Without sex, you are just room-mates. 

Orgasm For Life is funny, sexy, playful and full of inspirational wisdom. Written from personal experience with lots of stories from real couples, real clients. I interviewed hundreds of couples and singles and shared their experiences. 

If you are looking for a wise, sexy book to help you ignite the fire of passion while building intimacy, trust and mutual respect, Orgasm For Life is the book.

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a catalystic coach. She is different from other coaches in that she receives Divine guidance, she steps out of the way and does not filter the information she receives. She is authentic, compassionate and funny. She delivers information in such a way that you receive it easily. She seems to know you better than you know yourself. She gets who you are.

Her website is: http://www.JenniferElizabethMasters.com

Jennifer is a hypnotherapist, Shaman, Master Energy healer and also uses Neurolinguistic Programming, Past Life Regression. You can schedule your Discovery Session of 30 minutes HERE.

Orgasm For Life:Oral Sex

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Interested in oral sex? Most people are. I have talked to many men and women. What I have heard from both sexes is that many don't want to reciprocate. The key is if you want oral sex, you have to be prepared to give it also. For many it is better to GIVE than to receive!

A dear friend of mine ordered Orgasm For Life. He is recently divorced. His Amazon account had his former address on file. The book was delivered to his former wife. When he arrived to pick up the book, he found she had opened it and left him photos of his children in the chapter on ORAL SEX! Which of course, was the first chapter he read. He said it was HOT! HOT! HOT! 

If you are looking for guidance on how to give the best oral sex. I suggest you purchase my book. There is a link above. I leave nothing out. It is descriptive and exciting, for both sexes. I put the ooh back in ORAL! I have offered a little taste for you below. This should give you enough to go and buy the book. If you haven't yet, you need to. I just sent this book to a man who has a website: Clitoris.com. He said to me that I have a BEST SELLER! I knew that. I was told that. You need to buy it and you will see just how hot it is!

Excerpt from Chapter 11, of Orgasm For Life:

Front Door, Backdoor and Playground

Sex is not the answer: Sex is the question. "YES" is the answer - Swami X

Oral sex is an alternative or additional mode of pleasuring your partner. The wonderful thing about the mouth is that we can increase or reduce pressure, speed, and sensations quickly. We can get wildly creative at the same time. Oral sex is one of the experiences that I have to be in the mood for, both to give and receive. I don't appreciate having my head shoved into a man's crotch to force me to give him head. Forcing someone to do anything is not respectful. It is not cool!

Men love to receive oral sex. For most men, it is the most intense sexual experience he can have because of the slippery wetness of our mouths. The types of wonderfully creative things that we can do with our tongues. My style may not be yours. You can use what you like and discard the rest. What I will tell you is that your partner will really enjoy this. I have never had a complaint but rarely have to use my hand to assist. The great thing about blow jobs is that you can really suck at it. It will still be really great, because sucking is what it is all about. So have no fear and just relax. The caveat for men is, "reciprocating" is what love making is all about. In case you don't know what reciprocating means, it means to give back what you receive.

Some of the reasons that blow jobs feel so good are obvious. Our mouths are soft, moist and sensitive. The skin on our lips is similar to that in the vagina and anus. Following are my best secrets for giving the best fellatio in the world to your man.

Get comfortable. Make sure you are hydrated. Hydration is always an important part of any type of sex. If you are dehydrated your vagina will be dry. If you are dehydrated your mouth can be sticky and dry also. So always drink plenty of water. You never know when you are going to have the opportunity to have great sex!

Have a glass of ice water with lots of ice, mints and a towel nearby. Coconut oil is good if your mouth is dry, it's slippery but doesn't taste bad. I don't personally use anything but saliva, but you might want other options. You want to make sure you have constant moisture on his penis, or the skin could chafe or become tender. We don't want a sore pecker. No, no, no! Melted chocolate is an exceptional addition as well for those who have an aversion to swallowing semen. You could even make a banana split then add some whipped cream in a spray can.

I like to begin with a clean body-- mine and his. We never know where this will go once we get going, so be prepared for anything. I like to wear something acy and sexy that barely covers the tops of my thighs. Giving him a visual turn-on will make him happy on so many levels. Men love to watch so give him a show. Make eye contact with him from time to time; he will love that. Remember we have more than 5 senses so stimulate them all!

I love the scene in Father of The Bride where Steve Martin gets a blow job from his wife, while driving home from a party. They, of course careen into another car as his wife attempts to "relieve her husband's stress." They sheepishly explain to the cops what happened.

You can perform fellatio in a car; you can perform it on a star. Although I don't recommend it; it is very exciting though. The very fact that you are driving in a car brings in the element of danger as well. At the point of orgasm most guys close their eyes until their brain boinks out of orbit. If you have your head in his lap, you can't see what's going on down the road either. Better to be safer in a chair or on a bed.

As with anything in the bedroom, I prefer to dance around a little, tease, kiss, nibble his ear, bit his neck, and gently draw my fingers or even nails across his abdomen. Most men will jerk upright a little, as it tickles. No matter it is part of the game. This is supposed to be pleasurable for both of you. Anticipation is the key to building excitement. So, make him wonder what you are going to do next, rather than doing target practice going straight for his penis and balls.

Nibble his stomach to gradually make your way down to his pelvic area. With your dominant hand, grab the shaft of his penis to hold it firmly, but don't choke his junk. With the other hand, cup his balls and stroke them from the perineum upwards. This can be very exciting. Watch for his reaction. then focus on licking. Begin at the base of his shaft (although there is very little sensitivity there) lick upwards to the tip or glands. Swirl your tongue around the underside ever so slightly. Then open your mouth wide to take him completely in your mouth. It's like a dive down to his whole shaft. Grab a little sip of ice water in your mouth and then go down on his penis taking him all the way in your mouth. For a change of pace grab a mint and suck on him with a mint in your mouth. The mind may be too much for some sensitive guys, but it does give a different experience. Buy Orgasm or Life NOW!

This is just the beginning. Orgasm For Life will turn you on. It will teach you things you didn't know. It will encourage you to be a better lover, and encourage you to be a better person at the same time. Orgasm For Life will bring you to heights you had only thought of experiencing. This is a sexy book. It is funny, intelligent and did I say, TURN ON????

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Twin Flame Lessons

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Twin Flames come in for a very short time. to teach us something profound. Often our Twin Flames are married to someone else, which means we can't be together. A Twin Flame relationship is very different than a Soul Mate relationship. A Soul Mate relationship can last years. A Soul Mate relationship is often tumultuous, bringing up your deepest issues. 

The connection of a Twin Flame relationship is unsurpassed. A Twin Flame connection can be felt coming for years. You know the instant that you meet that there is something very special. When you finally embrace, magic happens. The love overwhelms you.

I have had many women and men ask me, "Why would I meet my Twin Flame if I am not to be with them?" Usually, your Twin Flame comes in to teach you how to love and accept yourself AS YOU ARE! 

John Armbruster was charismatic, sexy, intelligent and loved me unconditionally. I found out after his death that he was with another woman when he traveled north to meet with the Native American council. This confirmed my suspicions. There was some missing time in John's travels. I felt something wasn't right. I asked him about it at the time, but he hedged and avoided.

John Armbruster admitted to being a sex addict. Although he had worked on this issue, it still plagued him. He couldn't be faithful. He lied about other things as well. I caught him smoking while we were on the phone. He told me he only smoked the ceremonial pipe. I knew he was smoking other things. He thought I couldn't tell. I was very aware and observant. It was difficult to put something past me. He commented on that fact many times.

He did not overcome his issues with his children. He had difficulty with forgiveness. John was very evolved. When I brought up an issue with him, he listened. He would admit his faults openly. He knew himself well. He had daily spiritual practice, which helped me recognize that I needed to meditate daily, pray more and be in touch with the earth and God's creatures for messages. Birds, deer and other animals give us messages. John reminded me to be observant, notice and feel what they were telling me. (I was already doing this, but his teachings took it a step deeper.)

For two years after John's death, Blue Herons would be present in the sky, on my pond and around the places I traveled to. He continued to send me messages through the Blue Herons.

What Does A Twin Flame Teach Us?

1. They often help you see what your path is.
2. They teach you loving acceptance of self.
3. They teach you that although they are very special, they aren't perfect. No one is.
4. They teach you that we all have issues, but you need to love yourself anyway - ALL OF YOU. Not just the parts that are easy to love and accept. 
5. We all have a shadow self. This part needs special love and attention to be completely integrated within the self, rather than cordoned off and segregated.

Read the entire story here.

My Twin Flame Part I - A True Story of Profound Love
My Twin Flame Part II

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a catalystic coach. She helps you see your issues and come to loving acceptance of the self. She is self-actualized and awakened. You can reach her for a discovery session or interview here. Visit her website: AphroditeEffect.com

Buy her books here: 
Orgasm For Life on Amazon.com

Odyssey Victim To Victory on Amazon.com

My Twin Flame Love: Part II

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

This is a true story. The first part is also on this blog. If you have not read the first part, I suggest that you begin there. You will miss the meeting, the initial connection and so much if you begin here. 

This is my story and 100% true. If you long for a Twin Flame, you need to read this. This post is being written to educate, highlight and emphasize what a Twin Flame relationship is and isn't, all about. After 11 (my math is really bad) years, although detailed in an obscure book, (Odyssey Victim to Victory) I am going public with this story. For purposes of this blog, much has been left out. The longer version is found in Odyssey Victim to Victory.

The parallels and similarities between John Armbruster and I were not lost on either of us. I was a landscaper, he was an earth-keeper. I did Feng Shui in the garden, he did it for the earth. I was born in Toronto, he was born in Cincinnati. I had a theory that northerners did better with northerners. 
We just understood each other better. There was something about longitude and latitude as well, that I felt intuitively. He cleared people's energy with his radionic dowsing rod. I learned to clear people with a pendulum. We were both healers. We both cleared people's energy. Both of us had issues with addictions. We both had issues with our children and exes. 

John's visit to our home in November, coincided with my week to have Ariel. I didn't want to NOT have Ariel. At the same time, there was a risk in her being in the house, at the same time as John. Rich was a very jealous man. He was also very controlling. Due to John's travel schedule, I made the choice to have him come and stay anyway. I would pay for this for many years afterwards, in many ways.

Ariel and John Armbruster, Stone Mountain, GA 2003

We had fun cooking together. I found out that John enjoyed cooking and we both shared a love for Chinese food. My son, David and his girlfriend at the time came for dinner one evening. They both really were enthralled with him. This was when I began to recognize the brain that he had. He remembered every book and every article he ever read. When I commented on the detail that he could recall he told me he had a photographic memory. I knew not many people had this ability. I later found out that only 2%- 15% have what is called an eidetic memory. It is more common in children than adults. Kim Peek the person modeled for the movie Rain Man was said to have an eidetic. It was another thing about John that was amazing.

I eventually had to go to do a landscaping job. Ariel took the bus to school. I asked them both if they were okay with John being home with Ariel after school. Ariel was delighted to have John all to herself. I knew she would be safe. 

I rushed home as quickly as I could, thinking that John and Ariel would need some intervention. When I arrived home, I found the two of them standing at the door. John sheepishly holding a single red carnation for me. Ariel standing beside him beaming with her own flower. John was like a live teddy bear. He did everything she asked him to. John even played dog and bird on the trampoline. This was a game Ariel made up. Ariel won every game. John had a boyish charm, even though he was no longer a boy. When he smiled he lit up the room, garden or place he was standing in. 

Ariel had a secret. She could not wait to tell me. John had made a wonderful Chinese dinner. While eating the wonderful repast Ariel burst out "John ruined one of your pots!" He had placed a copper-bottomed pot on a burner and forgot it was on. The bottom fell completely off! It was to be their little secret. But Ariel couldn't keep secrets, she was a child. 

Ariel was not the least bit hungry. I asked why? Ariel squirmed a little. She looked at John. He said, "I let her have her Halloween candy, she said it was okay with you." "ARIEL!!!" I admonished her. She hoodwinked John into giving her the whole pumpkin full of candy! John grinned, looking up at me, with an, "I'm sorry" look on his face. I couldn't be angry. He took a nap on the couch while Ariel watched a movie and entertained herself with her Halloween candy! It was alarming to me how she had him wrapped around her little 7-year-old finger. It delighted her. These days, not much did. Ariel cried every Sunday night, knowing she had to spend a whole week with her father, every other week. 

Rich became very protective of Ariel. John was not allowed to see her. She was not allowed to come and visit me while John visited me. This made John extremely sad. When he realized he would not get to see her on his second visit at all, I was surprised to see him weep. 

After six weeks in Georgia and the west, John had to return to Sedona to make some money. We both knew this time was coming. It was a very difficult parting. While he was back in his RV working he suggested we have a date. We would both go to see the same movie. John was a bit of a liar. He decided at the last minute to see a different movie, I saw Cold Mountain. John had already seen it and knew that it was about his life. 

In the middle of the movie, my legs began to shake involuntarily. I wept knowing that the lead character was going to die. I could not understand at first why my legs shook. Then I realized that I was the woman and John was the man. John was correct. It was his lifetime. He was shot for desertion as a confederate soldier. The feelings I experienced during this movie were so real. Afterward, John and I connected by phone. Our calls dropped as the two of us began to weep simultaneously. Neither of us knew the other was weeping till we re-connected later that night. We compared times, notes and realized that our anguish, our emotion made the call drop. Our emotions were so much more powerful that I ever realized. 

After spending weeks together in November, the emptiness of us being apart was too much. Finally, after two months apart, John flew from Sedona to Atlanta to spend time with me. He looked exhausted when he got off the plane. It was amazing to be together. 

Our third day together, January 22nd was one I would never forget. I told John about hearing an owl right up next to the house the night before. John stopped cold in his tracks. He asked me about the owl. Are you sure it was an owl? I told him I was absolutely positive. 

He explained to me that the native Americans believed that when an owl calls your name, it was time to return to the Great Spirit. You had no more than 24 hours to live. John's skin color may have been white, but he was native in his soul. He traveled with a huge native American Indian spirit. I ran into him one night as I exited the bathroom. Although he was transparent, as I walked into the hall, I could feel a wall of a man's spirit. It stopped me in my tracks. I didn't want to think of what John had said. However, I had a very strong feeling of waiting for the other shoe to drop. It made me incredibly uneasy as I brushed off his explanation. But John looked very grave.

I brought John to visit a Shaman friend of mine in Atlanta who was having an event. John was appalled that she put a CD in her boom box and charged everyone $20. He did medicine wheels in Sedona for free for hundreds of people. He fell asleep on the floor during the meditation. 

When we left her home, John asked if we had a China town, so he could make me Chinese food. It was our favorite. We had fun shopping together and looking at all the interesting spices and herbs. When we got home, we made love and took a nap before dinner. John was very tired. 

John cooked dinner. It was one of the best tasting meals I have ever had. Afterward, he lay on my couch where I could see him and played his flute for me. He was very talented. While finishing up my meal at the dining room table, my legs began to shake involuntarily. It was a tremor like an earthquake in my body. A foreboding overtook me that I could not explain.

John rested and I cleaned up his mess in the kitchen. He was a very messy cook. It didn't bother me, it was just John. He was so easy to love. After dinner, I donned a cream-colored bustier and cream-colored stockings with satin bows at the back. I threw over my beautiful outfit a silk Chinese robe my flight attendant friend from Canada had brought me from a recent trip to China. I looked absolutely beautiful. John's face lit up as I walked towards him. 

For the first time ever, we made love on the couch that Ariel, John and I had watched his favorite movie on "The Lord of The Rings." We made love on the couch that the three of us had watched his second and third favorite movies, "Synchronicity" and "A Christmas Story." After we made love, John told me he loved me. He looked me in my eyes and said, "I will never leave you. 

You are the love of my life." With that, he left my arms and slipped off the couch onto the floor. He urinated. Laying naked on the floor, I knew beyond all reasonable doubt he was dead and that I could not bring him back. I knew that no resuscitation would return his soul to me. I knew calling the fire department that was less than a mile down the road would not help. But I did it anyway.

I heard the sirens coming as they left the station, they were so close. The firetruck, ambulance, and several police cars showed up. I was still standing dumbstruck after attempting to resuscitate John. I had to cover myself up. I was not thinking. I couldn't. I was in shock. I watched as the firemen came in and saw his naked body laying on my hardwood floor. They felt bad for him. At the same time, I could hear, "Lucky bastard!" in the back of their minds. 

I called Diana, she didn't believe me. I called my son, David and he said Ashley would drive me to the hospital. He would meet me there. The hospital scene was horrible. Diana blamed me immediately for John's death. She thought we could clear the patterns and I should have been able to stop this. I knew differently. I knew when that owl called John's name, he had no choice. We had no choice. He had to go. 

The Universe was calling him and needed his gifts and talents on the other side to save the planet. He was needed to do acupuncture for the earth from the other side like he did it here. He was needed elsewhere. I helped him cross over. I helped him go into the light. There was no doubt in my mind, we had contracted for this. Which is why my legs shook in the movie theater. It is why my legs shook right after dinner. It is why we cried together on the phone after our remote date. We both knew our time was short. It was valuable beyond measure. 

David Gates

David met me at the hospital. He was angry beyond belief with Diana's blame. I knew Diana loved her friend. She could not help blaming me for his death. She was in shock. 

David drove me home and as we pulled into the driveway a very strong wind came from out of nowhere. David, a non-believer at the time in psychic powers and such, said, "John is here!" I felt him too. For days after his death, each time I would go outside to feed the horses, a Great Blue Heron would fly overhead and circle around. I knew that John was saying hello from the other side. There would be many such miracles that took place after John's death. David spent the night with me. For the first time ever, he slept next to me in my bed. He was so afraid I would try to join John. 

And I did. Every time I fell asleep, my soul would lurch out of my body in an attempt to join him. It woke me up several times each night. My acupuncturist came to my home and did a treatment to unblock my heart. My heart was so blocked with grief, he was concerned about me having a heart attack.

I came to realize that a Twin Flame was a very special event in one's life. Your Twin Flame came in for a short time to teach you something profound. What John taught me was that I didn't love myself. He loved me unconditionally. He was the first person who loved me as I was, without trying to change or control me. He loved me with all my broken pieces, with all my insecurities and uncertainties and fears. He loved me more than I loved myself. He taught me this one thing, to love me. 

This is a true story. The entire version is in my book, Odyssey Victim to Victory. To this day, John comes to me. He sends me messages. He will always and forever be connected to me through love. I know also, he has moved on. He is living another life and learning the lessons he did not learn in this lifetime. A deep love connection such as this is never to be broken. However, it is a memory to serve to help us to live fully, from our hearts and accept unconditionally our partners, without trying to change or control them. True Love is - Acceptance.

Jennifer is a life, love and sex coach. Her book, Orgasm For Life is the book that will change your life. It will turn you on, make you laugh out loud, teach you to love yourself and to connect deeply with your partner on a level that is profound. Jennifer understands what love is. She knows what is needed to make it work and that judgment and non-acceptance of another will shatter trust and impede intimacy. If you are looking for that deep love and connection, you must love yourself first. 

You must give love to you. Jennifer is unlike any other coach. She is awakened, self-actualized, a catalyst for your healing and growth. She is open to receive guidance from The Divine, your angels and guides. She will help you love and accept you, like no other coach can. She has lived it and done it herself. 

Her website is: Jenniter ElizabethMasters.com

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John Armbruster was born near Cincinnati, Ohio. He was the only, loving son of his piano teacher mother. He was anti-medicine, anti-doctor due to his mother's death and shaved his head at the time of her death out of respect and grieving the loss of his beloved mother. His mother passed on her love of music to John. As a result, he played the cello, Native American flute, sang, did ceremonies on Schnebly Hill in Sedona Arizona. He ran for mayor of Sedona. During this time he felt his life was in danger. There were those in high places that wanted him silenced. He fought city hall to keep Sedona small, below three stories and to keep it from becoming too commercialized. He loved the earth, the planets and all God's critters. 

John had signs that there was an issue with his heart prior to his death. He had pain down his arm when we did the children's honoring in November. He just didn't tell anyone. He refused to see a doctor and certainly wouldn't take more than one vitamin at a time, he was so adamantly opposed to medication. I tried to get him to take Evening of Primrose oil and something else at the same time. He would only take one thing at a time. I felt he could have cleared this, but he didn't want to. All you can do is offer. The other part of this equation is when the owl calls your name, you have no choice, but to go. 

Immediately prior to his death he began having dreams about The Universe and The Earth hiring him to do web design and other productions, promotions etc. He wasn't sure what they wanted of him, but many were contacting him. His dreams were fantastic, vivid prophetic living things. I always had a candle lit and burning when he was in my home. He astral traveled to foreign lands and needed to know where his body was to come back to.

John Armbruster was kind, loving and a visionary. He was an earth-keeper, lover, teacher, guide. Above all else, he was just a man. He would be the first to tell you this. He was just a man. He never forgave his children for taking their mother's side. Although I encouraged phone calls and communication with his children, he could not bring himself to do so. At the time of his death, they had no idea what he was doing, or where he was living. If John had one regret, it would be that he wished he had the guts to call them no matter what their response would have been. At least he would have tried. He didn't even try. His daughter Varsha (Sanskrit for rain) and son, Vajra, (Sanskrit for thunder) were his only children. I commented to John that naming his children stormy names may have contributed to the relationship he had with them, stormy.

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