Don't Make Your Man Your Project

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Love Him The Way He Is

Humans were designed to be in pairs. Scientists have proven that we live longer when married. Finding happiness for many depends on having a relationship to do so. Having someone to curl up with at the end of the day, to share our life with can enhance our lives in so many ways. Regular sex keeps our bodies functioning optimally and helps to fulfill us. Even the way our bodies were formed indicates that we are the yin to our mates yang. We were created like two pieces of a puzzle that fit beautifully together. We were meant to be in relationships.

Today we have more options and opportunities to meet potential partners. Internet dating has changed prospecting for that golden relationship. We have access to endless possibilities and choices. Paying attention early during the dating process allows you to assess how good a fit the two of you will be. Where women go astray is when they deny traits by making excuses or explaining away their partner's deficits. They think they can live with these undesirable traits in their potential partners; then set about to change them after they are married. This is one of the biggest traps for codependent women. When we set about to change our partner, we are sending the message that they aren't good enough and neither are we.

If you have done your own internal work and raised your vibration sufficiently to attract a healthy, balanced man, congratulations! If not, you may find yourself following thousands of women into the trap of trying to change your man or "fix him."

One thing is for sure, if you can't accept him the way he is, move on! The surest way to piss off your partner is to attempt to mold him into something different. What you don't realize is that making a man your "project" is an indication that you are not happy with you. Trying to fix someone else takes the attention away from you and magnifies the warts and faults that your partner has. If you are not happy with your partner and feel the need to change him, look inside yourself instead. 

Let's face it, unless you are the Dalai Lama, or Mother Theresa you probably aren't perfect either. Accepting your partner as they are is the biggest gift you can give them. The more compassionate and loving you are to you, the more compassionate, accepting and allowing you will be of your partner or spouse.

"If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion." — Dalai Lama -

Do You Nag?

Nagging and complaining about your partner's actions will not win you Brownie points either. No one wants to have their faults pointed out to them or to be corrected whenever we make a mistake. This role puts you in the parental seat. Do you really want to be his Mamma? Seriously, would you want to get cozy and make love to someone who is criticising your every move? I don't think so. It you are one who nags and complains you are not happy with yourself. Being in a state of allowing means that you accept others as they are. The happier you are with yourself, the more allowing and compassionate you will be with others.

Keep Repeating The Same Mistakes?

If you find yourself married and divorced several times, you have limiting patterns that are running your life. You can break free of old patterns. Doing so by yourself is nearly impossible. It took me 30 years of deep work and introspection to get to the place of total self acceptance and compassion with myself and others. I use tools like a relationship matrix that helps you see your patterns and how each of your relationships resembles your previous ones in many respects. 

Working with someone who is free of limiting beliefs and is able to help you get to the root of your issues quickly is key. I help you shift your perspective and help you fall in love with yourself, your family, your soul and your gifts. The more in love with you, the more others will be magnetized to you also. Having a deep love and respect for yourself has the added benefit of helping you be successful and more prosperous. Money and love have the same vibration - that of LOVE! 

Money Issues?

If you are suffering from lack consciousness, it is because you don't love and accept yourself they way you are. Through my Love Yourself Fearlessly coaching program I help you let go of perfectionism, control and fear. You will begin to trust yourself. You see yourself with new eyes. You don't change, your perspective does. As your triggers are cleared you become less reactive and more balanced. You sink in to your True Self and step into the empowered you. You won't be ruled by your emotions.

How much have you spent on divorces? How much time have you wasted being unhappy. Don't you think you are worth the investment in you?

Jennifer is a gifted certified Self Love coach, hypnotherapist and energy healer. Her book Odyssey Victim to Victory details her journey from depression, negativity and low self esteem to joy in every breath every day. When you are happy with you, it does not matter where you live or whether you are alone or with a partner you feel happy and grounded in the moment. Call Jennifer now to schedule your discovery session to see if you and she are a good fit. (770) 480-5500. Or email Jennifer .

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5 Reasons Not To Reconcile

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

5 Reasons Not To Reconcile

If you have ever been in a long-term relationship there have probably been instances when you wondered,  "Why did you make the choices you did?" You may even wonder if you could stay with your partner until death do you part. Relationships are not easy. They require much more than love. You need to have patience, great communication skills, and compassion. There is no instruction manual for relationships.

When our relationships break down there may be children, pets and real estate involved. Break ups can be complicated. Having been there myself, I attempted 7, (or was it 8?) reconciliations with my daughter's father before I realized that no amount of wanting it to work would make it work. 

I had unselfish reasons for wanting to give it another try. My sons had already been through one divorce, this was to be their second divorce. My daughter was so sensitive and I wanted her to have her father's input and love around her. Frankly, I missed the "family aspect" of being married. I loved living as a family. Even though my husband had many good traits he was abusive and angry. His anger caused a lot of discord within our family. I had a tendency to forget the bad times and focus on the positive once the pain of the last argument evaporated. 

Even with counseling,  old patterns can re-emerge quickly. Leopards don't change their spots and you can't remove the stripes from a tiger.  If you are looking to change your partner, they have to want to. Often going back with someone who has been abusive or had an affair will lead to further abuse and disrespect of you.

5 powerful blocks to reconciliation are below.

1. Your partner was dishonest, inauthentic or out of integrity. No amount of counseling can overcome this.  
2. Your partner has been abusive. This will not change with any amount of counseling.
3. Addictive or compulsive behaviors. Even if apologized and acknowledged still continue. Denial is a big part of this.
4. You have outgrown your partner. 
5. You no longer feel sexually attracted to your partner.

Energy healing is a powerful tool to help you overcome self-sabotage, programs, patterns and beliefs that cause issues in your relationships and hold you back. 

Before you begin a new relationship Call Jennifer Elizabeth Masters at (770) 480-5500. Schedule your DISCOVERY session with her to find out if her coaching style is a good fit for you. Her direct approach moves you quickly forward so that you can live the life of happiness and fulfillment sooner rather than later.  

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GODFLICK - A FIGHT WITH GOD

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

A Godflick - A fight with God

GODFLICK

Lately my words are not my words. They tumble out of my mouth and I am not saying them. Words are being combined in my energy clearings like "VORTALS" instead of vortex and portals. Time must be really speeding up for God to be wanting these things combined. These are new words that I did not create - like GODFLICK.

I was in the middle of coaching a client who is recovering and healing from breast cancer. We were talking about her inner conflict being a fight with God. Instead of "conflict" the word GODFLICK spilled out of my mouth. She had Godflick. 

What is a fight with God? Remember the movie Caddie Shack with Bill Murray, Rodney Dangerfield and Chevy Chase? A senior golfer is having an absolutely perfect round, the best in his life and a lightning storm begins. He wants to finish  and continue to play even after everything was telling him to stop. He stands on the green insisting he needs to finish this round with wind ripping at the flag lightning and rain all around, on the 18th hole and he raises his arm and shakes his fist to God with rage. A huge bolt of lightning hits him striking him dead instantly. The moral of the story is, "If you go toe-to-toe with The Big GUY you very well might end up dead!" The clip below is Bill Murray's story about The Dalai Lama.

"So I got that going for me!"

If you have ever tried to go toe-to-toe with the BIG GUY/GAL (as God is sexless) you most likely wondered "Why you thought you could win?" After all God is everywhere all the time. You can't escape GOD. You can't run away fast enough, because God is already at your destination. What then is the point?

Truly you cannot have a fight with God without having an internal fight with Ta-da-da -da! YOU! Yes every time you have a fight with yourself it is also a fight with GOD. How interesting. Every internal battle, every diss, every put down to yourself is also a fight and diss of God. It makes a good case for Self Love which does not involve bashing yourself with a verbal sledge hammer every time you are not divine perfection. 

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Are you ready to get to the LOVE? Do you want intimacy and authenticity and love? Has real love escaped you till now? Have you had enough pain, suffering and failed relationships to last you a lifetime? Have you been married and divorced multiple times? It is time to work with someone who has been where you are and understands the emotional debris and the difficulties of emotional trauma.

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a Love Yourself Fearlessly certified Life Coach Author, Speaker and Hypnotherapist. She empowers you fall in love with you, your family, your soul, and your gifts. Jennifer moved the emotional debris out of the way for you so that you can love yourself compassionately. She has cleared 1,000s of people of their patterns and beliefs that no longer serve them. Work with a coach that has healed herself of codependency, and all addictions. She has healed herself of shame, guilt and fear. She walks the walk and has been where you are. Through direct experience Jennifer helps you move through yours. Her compassion and intuition are unparalleled. The guidance she receives on your issues is loving and moves you faster because no time is wasted. Therapy did not work for Jennifer. It was energy clearing, deep introspection and the powerful tools for discovery that Jennifer used on herself to become free of fear, control, manipulation and lack. Why not hire someone that has been where you are and is not faking it till she makes it. Jennifer is Self Actualized and Enlightened. You can leave a voice message for Jennifer at (770) 480-5500.Ask Jennifer if you are a good fit now

PEACE PORTAL MEDITATION AUGUST 25

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters 

Peace Portal Meditation August 25th

It is a Scientific fact that prayers in unison have a positive impact on people, conflict, countries and wars. Join me this Sunday to meditate and send peace to all the places of conflict in the world. This includes Syria, Russia, Korea, Israel, Egypt, United States, Afghanistan, Kuwait and anywhere else that peace is needed.

The dates when there will be a very special astrological event where the planets align creating a Grand Sextile. (Grand Cross.) This is a huge opportunity to connect with Your Divine (GOD) in a deep and profound way. Your senses will be heightened during this time. Your vision will sharpen, your hearing will significantly improve. Each word that you speak during the next three days will have tremendous power.

Watch this video to find out more information on You Tube.

The celestial event that is occurring this weekend will create a six pointed star. A large heavenly portal will open which will infuse the earth and all its inhabitants with Light. You will be able to consciously connect with The Divine. The video link above will give you the details of the meditation.

We have the tremendous opportunity to send love and prayers for healing our war torn planet. Our energies combined together will assist the breaking away of old systems that no longer serve us. This light coupled with masses of people meditating together has tremendous power to heal planet earth (GAIA). 

If you desire great change in the world, connect to the divine and allow your body to become filled with light so that we can dissolve all that stands in the way. This light energy holds peace, love, serenity, tranquility and understanding which will pass into the depths of the earth. Focus on feeling love, compassion, understanding, purity, truth, joy, confidence and bliss. 

Jennifer is an extraordinary transformational Self Love coach. Jennifer helps you find your way into love in all relationships, as well as shifting your perspective and catapulting your personal, spiritual and emotional growth. Through her processes you learn to fall in love with yourself, your family, your partner, your soul and your gifts. She has been told by her clients that just speaking to her shifts their energy. She is a catalyst for your evolution. 

Listen to her on The Love Doctor here on Blog Talk Radio talking about Twin Flames. What do you do if your Twin Flame is sleeping with someone else.

The Power Of An Open Heart

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

The Power Of An Open Heart

In Love

If you have ever been in love, you have had your heart broken or hurt. When we have expectations in our love relationships we experience disappointment and pain. When we risk it all, we also have the opportunity to have it all. Opening our heart completely to someone can also bring up tremendous fear. Allowing someone to see our vulnerable side and our insecurities can be challenging. When we don't open up completely in love we miss grasping the Holy Grail. Yet even when love, commitment and respect are present in a relationship, we can still get hurt. 

Why then do some of us extend the olive branch and try love again and again, when others are too afraid to? It is because it feels so incredible and amazing, that's why. Love simply expands us. We are the better version of ourselves when we are in love. Everything in our lives works better with someone who loves us unconditionally stands by us when we are down. After experiencing the deep connection of a mind, body, spirit relationship we want it again and again!  To be in love and attracted to someone with our pheromones in alignment can gift us with the greatest of experiential highs. This is where the expression, "I saw God!" comes from during sex. The act of love making can awaken our kundalini, enliven us and bring us to ecstasy. Regular sex increases our oxytocin and 30 other feel good hormones that help us maintain optimum health. We were created to fit together like two pieces of a puzzle. To feel shame about something so beautiful, which was given to us by Our Creator is simply misguided. Once experienced, we want to re-create it. Having someone love us back is one of the greatest gifts we humans can experience. 

The flip side of ecstasy in love is a broken heart. Sometimes the hurt is so deep that we never know how to get beyond it. Many women live out the last 20 or more years of their lives alone because they simply have been hurt so deeply that they choose to live alone rather than experience deep hurt again.

Ecstasy Through an Open Heart

I am a fearless person and know the power of love that can find us when we least expect it. I have experienced the love of a Twin Flame. He showed up when I was working on myself, and certainly NOT looking for love. When we are looking for love, it alludes us. Why is that? To understand this reality you have to understand the way energy moves. Wherever you focus your attention on a thought the energy about that thought grows. When we keep looking for the love we want, we are recreating lack. We are focusing on the not having of it. I am a fearless person and know the power of love that can find us when we least expect it. I have experienced the love of a Twin Flame. He showed up when I was working on myself, and certainly NOT looking for love. When we are looking for love, it alludes us. Why is that? To understand this reality you have to understand the way energy moves. Wherever you focus your attention on a thought the energy about that thought grows. When we keep looking for the love we want, we are recreating lack. We are focusing on the not having of it. I have a system that works for helping women find their True Love. It has worked for me 3 times. What I will tell you about this is, if you don't do the work BEFORE you attract your mate you will get the partner that is the exact energetic match for where you are.

The work I speak of is coming into alignment with your True Self (High Self, Divine Self). In the 8 week program we begin to excavate down into your deepest fears about you, life and love. We eliminate them. We decreate them and then we begin a powerful program that allows you fall in love with YOU! When you fall in love with yourself, others can't help falling in love with you also.  What most people do not realize is that their sense of lack of money is a direct reflection of their lack of SELF LOVE. Money is the energy of love. How can you attract money when you don't love you? You are in a state of LACK. 

Many of us create steel doors over our hearts because we have had our hearts broken. Breaking down the barriers to love will allow more love in. But you can't love someone more than you love yourself. It all begins with loving you. 

You think that you already do. Answer these questions below to find out You

Do you have friends or family members with unfinished business between you? These broken or damaged relationships stop the flow of energy in your own body and can cause illness. Resolving discord in all your relationships helps restore your health and your energy. I can help you with this work also. I teach you tools that clear away the energy of the issue so that you can heal the love between you. You don't even have to talk to the other person to heal the issue.

Why not tell the people in your life how much you love them and let all the rest just dissolve. Is the issue you were upset about still present? Can you let it go? If not, why not? Anytime that you hold resentment or anger on an issue, it creates stress and disease in your body. Forgiveness frees your heart so that you have more space to love yourself and others. You cannot have love without forgiveness. 

One of the issues I help my clients with is opening their hearts. Letting go of control and judgment are part of this process. Many of my clients are plagued with issues from old relationships, most all the way back to childhood. The old energy taints present relationships. Healing the patterns from past relationships is part of healing and opening your heart. When you let go of the pain and suffering of the past it is amazing what you can do with today. Letting go of the past frees you and creates more space for love and the infinite possibilities of The Universe. 

Are you ready for love? Are you committed to doing whatever it takes to have the love you want? Call or e-mail Jennifer to schedule your DISCOVERY session to find out if Jennifer can work with you. I invite your comments and questions below. 

Listen to Jennifer on The Love Doctor BlogTalk Radio with Shaneetha Akilana. The subject of the show is: Is Your Twin Flame Sleeping With Someone Else? Click here to be taken to the archive.

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a Love Yourself Fearlessly certified Life Coach Author, Speaker and Hypnotherapist. She has cleared 1,000s of people of their patterns and beliefs that no longer serve them. Work with a coach that has healed herself of codependency, drug, alcohol shopping and food addictions. She has healed herself of shame, guilt and fear. She walks the walk and has been where you are. Through direct experience Jennifer helps you move through yours. Her compassion and intuition are unparalleled. The guidance she receives on your issues is loving and moves you faster because no time is wasted. Therapy did not work for Jennifer. It was energy clearing, deep introspection and the powerful tools for discovery that Jennifer used on herself to become free of fear, control, manipulation and lack. Why not hire someone that has been where you are and is not faking it till she makes it. Jennifer is Self Actualized and Enlightened. You can leave a voice message for Jennifer at (770) 480-5500.Ask Jennifer if you are a good fit now

The Importance of Friendship

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters On August 20, 2013

The only way to have a friend is to be one.

Ralph Waldo Emerson 

The Importance of Friendship

The term "friend" is used loosely today. We term someone we have never met in person but "knows you" on FaceBook as a "friend." Are they really? With so many social media venues, friendship is underrated.This superficial relationship is not what a true friend is. A friend can help you to be happy with life. What is the true meaning of friendship? 

A friend is a person close to you, but unrelated, that supports you and stands by during difficulties and challenges as well as times of celebration. Friends listen to you boring stories without complaint, and you listen to theirs. People that have strong friendships are happier than those who don't. Friends help boost your self-esteem. They add rather than detract. They are honest with you when others might not be. Friends support you when you are having relationship or financial difficulties. Friends understand your weaknesses and don't poke fun at you when you are down. 

Friends offer encouragement and help you understand your own motivation when you don't. Often a friend will inspire you with a fresh perspective giving you new ideas and confidence. True friends are steadfast and strong when you feel weak. We can't possibly have our needs met by one person - a significant other. A friend offers a different perspective than our spouse or partner. Whether we are in a marriage or partnership, we still need to have friends. 

Quality is more important than quantity when it comes to friendships. As a true friend is one that is a diamond in the rough, often hard to find, and usually with their own baggage.

As with any relationship, friendships take work. They are not one-sided but rather give and take. If your friends are more of an anchor than a sail, as my friend William says, then they aren't your friends. 

Being present with our friends is just as important as being present in an intimate relationship. Kindness, consideration, and love are a part of friendship.  

With clarity about how important each moment is, I ask you the following questions:

1. How often do you tell your friends that you love them? 
2. Do you do so flippantly as you hang up the phone, "I love you too!" These words can be meaningless when repeated without thought, or feeling. 
3. What if you could be present in the moment with your friend or loved one - even for 5 minutes (no multi-tasking)? 
4. What would that mean for you? 

When we are able to let go of the idea that someone is going to hurt us, our heart opens more easily. If we have been hurt repeatedly in romantic relationships, it can feel more safe to open our heart in a friendship. We are able to deepen the bond in our close friendships and we are able to embrace the moment and the love. It may not be romantic love, but it is still love nonetheless. If you are looking for love outside of yourself, a friendship is an excellent proving ground. While we have to love ourselves before we can love another, a friend can be the testing ground for our communication skills and help us love ourselves more in the process. A true friend will let you know when you are full of crap. All of the skills used in a deep friendship are helping you improve your relationship skills. As with any relationship, you cannot take a friend for granted.

The beautiful and loving letter below was written to me by my dearest friend, William. I include it because this speaks of what a true friend is. Giving from your heart can bring you untold gifts. Remember life is short, don't wait to appreciate those in your life that love you. We never know what tomorrow may bring.

Writing this loving letter to me had the gift of amazing results for him. I could not read the whole letter without crying myself. Thank you dear friend. (The link to my podcast is below.)

A loving note that blew my friend's heart open

Dearest Jennifer,

This is a letter that I am blessed to write and even happier that I am able to do it now. You see, how often do we wait, or even ignore the opportunity to really share from our heart. We say, “I love you.” And more often times, we reply, “I know, I love you too.” But do we? We know the emotion and the energy, but rarely do we really see the depth of it. So today, I claim my right to share my heart with you.

We have come a distance you and I. Sometimes it has been smooth sailing, other times I have felt shipwrecked on the rocks. You have been there for me, and I you. We have cried and laughed together and I have known your pain and frustration. And regretfully, you have known ALL mine. I think I have been the carrier of much sorrow and anger... yet you have been there to listen and acknowledge and ever so gently (most times) encourage me back on track. We have both wielded that spiritual 2 x 4 with masterful strokes into each other… On occasion even a 4 x 4 for those “special events.” We have talked, and we have been silent what I have never known is a day without your love and support. Even when I wished to separate from it… And that is a monumental task. Your support has been unfailing and inviolable. You have always been there. In the depths of my darkness you would take my hand and we would walk through the darkness and you would explain each and every point, share the perspective of 360 degrees… To really walk around an issue ever before draw a conclusion or emotion. You would make suggestions and offer prayers, blessings and wisdom at every turn. Even in the midst of going one on one with God you stood with me, maybe not my beliefs, yet you stood with me. And when God took me in the first few seconds of the first round, as he placed his foot on my chest – to claim absolute victory… You were there.

I can’t tell you how much you have meant to me. You have modeled so many things and offered your treasure to me in every circumstance. You loved me even when I did not love myself and you wouldn’t let go. You would never let go. You loved and loved and loved. I firmly believe that we cannot master something we have never seen or felt… All the blessings and gifts are only transferred from one generation to the next when we give them… Not talking, not praying, not even instructing… We need to be the divine witness and demonstrate them. You have done this to me, over and over.

Be faithful, trust, love these are all words you have whispered into my heart and always, with a deep abiding love. Thank you for every breath we have shared, for every tear and every embrace and most of all for the faith and trust to walk this journey together.

I wish you every blessing, every abundance, and perfect health. If anyone deserves the love and trust of the most high it is you dear friend. So ever if you are called into the throne room, please know I will be there, I will call out your name and before the most high I will proclaim my love and admiration for this spirit that has been with me. Your spirit and countenance will be known ever before you meet them. Your heart will be coveted as a friend and beloved. Your wisdom shall be treasured for it’s timelessness and your truth will flow like a soft summer breeze yet thunder as the waves of a tsunami. That is my dearest Jennifer and there is not a day that goes by that my heart does not skip a beat thinking of the gifts of my dearest friend Jennifer has given me.

Even now, I see God himself whisper your name and smile. Well done good and faithful servant…. Now go forth and prosper!

With all my love

William

in·vi·o·la·ble
/inˈvīələbəl/
Adjective
Never to be broken, infringed, or dishonored.
Synonyms
sacred - sacrosanct - infrangible - irrefrangible

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Jennifer is a certified Self Love life coach, a hypnotherapist, and energy healer. She is a catalyst that changes lives. She works with committed women who want to live the rest of their life HAPPY! Is this you? Are you ready to take the first step towards living a blissfully happy life in the Divine Flow? 

Jennifer offers DISCOVERY SESSIONS to see if we are a good fit. Jennifer only works with individuals ready to do the work to free themselves of the fear, limiting beliefs, and suffering that has kept you stuck. You can leave Jennifer a voice mail message here (770) 480-5500.

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The Gift of Cancer

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters, On August 12, 2013

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters in Santa Barbara with Karma, 2013

My Bucket List

In loving every moment of life death holds no power. Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

On July 31st, while taking a nap, I was taken along a tunnel of light.

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In that place of in between, what I call "twilight sleep," neither deeply asleep nor completely awake, I floated along, not really walking. There were two beings with me, and I could sense more at the end of the tunnel awaiting me. I felt completely safe, without any feelings of anxiety or fear. As I continued to move along toward the end of the tunnel, I said to the beings behind me, "I am not afraid to die, but what about Ariel?" My daughter had lost her father July 5th, 2012. She was far too young at 17 to be without any parental support. Although Ariel is a confident, well-adjusted teenager, she has been through a lot. Losing the support of both parents in just over a year could devastate her and could be a huge setback in her life. I chose life. I knew my work here was not complete. I had more people to help, more people to be a catalyst for so that they could have love, happiness and live a stress and disease-free life. Within moments I was out of the tunnel and feeling groggy. It was  an interesting experience. One I will never forget.

I always CHOOSE LIFE! As a channel and medium, I receive Divine Guidance for clients while coaching, but also for my own life. Two months earlier, I had been given guidance while I was meditating to check my right breast for a lump. I immediately did so and found a large plum-sized lump. It seemed to be encapsulated and clicked when I moved it. Two years earlier I had been given guidance to get thermography as I had located a lump then as well. After the thermography I had a mammogram which turned up nothing. I knew that anger and resentment caused cancer. I knew that there was a co-relation between molestation and breast cancer. Women who have been molested have to forgive their perpetrators and those who did not protect them. It can be too heavy for many to do on their own. After thousands of processes and clearings on myself, I still had cancer. I recognized that this was a gift for me and my clients. The better that I understand why we get cancer, even after years of work, the better able I can help others. 

I had done considerable work and felt that I was fairly complete on that subject. You have probably heard me say, "The Universe is always and in every way working FOR YOU." This could not be more true.  God and The Universe was about to show me I had more work to do.

My mother called and triggered a deep anger that surprised me - mid-July. After I told her how well I was doing, she went into a 20 minute diatribe about how I needed to manage my money. My mother historically had been extravagant. She had not worked most of her married life. Had it not been for my father's penny pinching ways. She would not have the financial support she was living on currently. If you have read my book, my mother put me in harm's way hundreds of times during my childhood and did nothing to protect me from molestation. The fact that I was being shown the correlation between molestation and breast cancer was interesting. 

After finding the lump, I recognized the incredible gift that it gave me. I did not go into fear. I found myself letting go and becoming more grounded and relaxed, sinking deeper into myself. I began to expand recognizing how many people I could help with my own story. It did not stifle my happiness, or inner peace. It helped me become so much bigger. I knew that the simple process of having chemo and surgery would not change anything. The cancer would come right back. I had to heal from within. More than I had done already. I looked within to see where I had more work to do. I knew that stress, worry, anger and resentment caused cancer. I was not stressed, worried or in fear. After the phone call from my mother, I knew where I needed to focus. I did an advanced release process I use with my Intensive coaching clients, that works very well for clearing anger, rage and resentment. Rather than doing this clearing once, I repeated the process a total of 18 times. I am letting this energy settle and will return to repeat this process 3 more times. For a total of 21 processes.

I will do everything in my power to heal this disease from my body. My plans are to visit John o God in Brazil for psychic surgery and then undergo whatever additional traditional healing and chemo required, if  required after that. In any event here is what I plan to do for the rest of my life.

What I Have Let Go Of:

1. Judgment
2. Anger
3. Sadness
4. Control
5. Perfectionism
6. Manipulation
7. Coercion
8. Lack
9. Limitation
10. Hatred
11. Resentment
12. Fear
13. Worry
14. Chaos
15. Drama

What I Have Embraced

1. Deep Faith
2. Being Present in the Moment
3. Happiness
4. Deep connection with myself and profound self love
5. Deep Inner Peace
6. Harmony
7. Tranquility
8. Relationships
9. Family
10. Love

My BUCKET List

1. Heal completely so that I am able to accomplish everything on this list.
2. Take my daughter Ariel to India and Bali
3. Have Christmas with all my children and their significant others together in either Maui, California or Aspen, Colorado.
4. Coach as many people through my program as I can who desire to Love Themselves Fearlessly! 
5. Facilitate My Adore Yourself and Be Adored retreat in Maui
6. Take my whole family to Maui for a vacation.
7. See Ariel graduate college and create her Wedding Planning and Catering company.
8. Assist David, Ariel and Adam to set up and contribute to their businesses for their future (and my grandchildren's).
9. Facilitate Intensive Love Yourself Fearlessly retreats for small groups in Bali, and Australia
10. Spend quality time with my mother. Take a trip with her.
11. Finish writing my 2nd and 3rd books.
12. Help other women heal from breast cancer using what I learn along the way and my own processes.
13. Spend time alone with myself meditating in nature in all the most beautiful places on earth. 
14. Travel for fun. I love to travel and find it exhilarating. It really does not matter where I go, but I have several places detailed below. This is important to me.
15. Have a complete spa weekend for myself with every treatment imaginable in Santa Barbara.
16. Be able to hire a chef for a week in Maui so that no one has to cook. (Family Vacation)
17. Take a vacation in Tuscany for a month and eat whatever I want. Drink wine, eat pasta and have someone peel me a grape.
18. Visit Fiji or Bora Bora. The Seychelles could also work.
19. Have a partnership with a Spiritually evolved man who allows me freedom and supports me in my work.
20. Tour New Zealand. Enjoy all the strange wildlife there.
21. Spend time in Queensland Australia and visit the Outback.
22. Return to England and show Ariel where we lived and all the quaint villages that she loves in "The Wedding Date."
23. Visit Ireland and tour the castles and sacred sites. Take my time and visit the best pubs and sample Irish beer. My father loved Ireland. Even though I lived in England I never got to Ireland.
24. Visit the islands of Santorini and Tilos in Greece. I loved Mama Mia and have wanted to go to Greece even before that.
25. Take a full week to getaway and attend a silent retreat. Either Omega, Easlen or a monastery. Ahh silence!
26. Take dancing lessons. I want to be a good dancer and have fun learning.

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If you continue to have difficulties in your relationships and life, working with me can save you thousands of dollars. How many divorces have you had? How many failed relationships have you had? Are you prepared to live and Love Yourself Fearlessly? Contact Jennifer NOW! E-mail Right NOW!

Your Attitude Is Everything!

Your Attitude is Everything

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters on August 11, 2013

Loving myself Fearlessly! ! Jennifer Elizabeth Masters, Santa Barbara, California 

The further along this path of life I go the more I recognize that life is what you make it.  JEM

Is your glass half full? Or is it cascading over the top like mine?

Difficult challenges happen for us every day. Do you greet them with open arms recognizing that there is a gift in the challenge or do you feel that God has forsaken you and that nothing but crap continues to happen in your life?

As a channel and life coach I meet all kinds of people in various life challenges. The ones that take life by the scruff of the neck and wrestle it to the ground making it what they want are the ones that have the best success and are the happiest. People that dwell on the negative and complain about how crappy their life is magnify what they don't have. Blaming others for the occurrences in your life creates a bottleneck of energy that stops the flow. Moving forward cannot happen when you are being a VICTIM. This perception won't allow you to move forward and may cause you to consider ending it all, because there is nothing to live for. Remember this is YOUR PERCEPTION. It is not the truth. You are valuable. You have a purpose in the Divine Plan. No one else has your unique skills, gifts or heart. Your perception of your life is what colors and shades the truth. Choosing to wallow in self pity and complain will cause you more pain and suffering. There is hope. If I can do it, you can also.  Buy Jennifer's autobiography: Odyssey Victim to Victory .

Those who are able to see the gift in each moment and recognize that we have a choice of how we perceive the events in our life have greater success, happiness and peace.

Wherever you focus your attention energy flows.........

When we are not rocked by life's events and take for example, a diagnosis of breast cancer as a gift, that show us there is more anger and resentment to let go of. Cancer just shows us there is more work to do. Anger and resentment are the leading cause of cancer. Learning to let go, forgive yourself and others is a big part of healing any cancer. People who have been molested are more than 50% more likely to be diagnosed with cancer at some point in their lifetime. Taking this higher road will create greater success and you will be 85% more likely to heal completely.  How we perceive the events in our life impacts our success, happiness and peace. I help people work through and release their anger, resentment perfectionism and control. (Control and perfectionism both help to create cancer.) This is difficult to do on your own. I did it, but it took me 25 years of study, deep introspection and healing by myself. I have created deep healing processes and work as a catalyst in your life to shift you quickly out of the paradigm of suffering, perfectionism, control and fear. How long do you want to continue to suffer? When is enough enough? Aren't you ready for fun, fulfillment and laughter?

Many are still "faking it till they make it" in business and entrepreneurship, waiting for the stream of money to pour in. I'm here to tell you that until you love and accept yourself the way you are, completely that ain't gonna happen honey!

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters in Santa Barbara, California

Love will continue to allude you until you completely and compassionately accept yourself. If you are ready to move into a place of peace lasting happiness, love and joy, contact me. I am a powerful catalyst for your growth. Because I channel The Divine, we cut to the chase quickly. No monkeying around. While you talk, I receive direct guidance about what your core issues are. You have a choice of 8 weeks of phone sessions one hour a week with assignments that move you forward; or a one-day Intensive which is LIVE and in person with me in Santa Barbara or LA. Your choice. In 2014 I will be doing Intensives in Bali, and Australia. I am also leading A Spiritual Retreat and Tour of Magnificent Southern India in April, 2013.These 5 day Intensives allow you to move out of pain, victimhood and suffering into awareness, peace, harmony and joy and abundance. 

Feel free to post your comments here or like my FaceBook page and leave your comments and questions there. 

If you have questions and want honest direct answers listen to my radio show each Wednesday. Post your questions on my FaceBook page here Jennifer on FaceBook. The playback will be up for one week and then POOF its gone~!

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I am a powerful Master Energy Healer, Certified Life Coach through Coach Training Alliance, a hypnotherapist, (National Guild of Hypnotists)  channel, Mystic, and catalyst for your transformation and growth. I choose happiness joy and life affirming Grace, balance and harmony. In 2012 I became self actualized and enlightened. What does this mean to you? As an enlightened teacher channel and coach, I am free of ego. I receive direct guidance from The Divine about your core issues. I spent years in therapy which did not move me forward at all because it kept me wallowing in MY STORY! I have an innate ability to step out of the way. I see right into your core issues, move you quickly out of the story and false beliefs that you think are you, into the BIG empowered you. You will begin to be compassionate towards yourself instead of continue to beat yourself up. I have processes I use in my work that shift you and your perspective quickly. The more you love yourself fearlessly, the more you will magnetize all manner of good into your life including LOVE, harmony and tranquility in all your relationships. 
If you continue to have difficulties in your relationships and life, working with me can save you thousands of dollars. How many divorces have you had? How many failed relationships have you had? Are you prepared to live and Love Yourself Fearlessly? Contact Jennifer NOW! E-mail Right NOW!

Lying, Cheating Bastards!

Lies

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters, August 1, 2013

Translation:

Lying To Yourself, Let Me Count The Ways

"All men are liars! My company is full of liars! My girlfriend would rather lie than tell the truth! My boyfriend lies to me all the time!"

We like to think of ourselves as good people, above the fray. We watch television and see politicians lie under oath and murderers get off Scott free. Lying is the absence of the truth. People lie to protect others. Sometimes we don't trust others with the truth and therefore lie to protect ourselves. Self-denial is when we lie to ourselves. Lying is a choice, but often becomes a way of life for humans and we don't even realize it.

White lies are spoken daily. When someone asks how are you? Our response is rarely accurate. We couch our response in fluff and false positivity. We think nothing of responding, "Oh, every thing's great!" When in reality your husband has lost his job, or you just discovered a cancerous lump in your breast, what's the harm, right? WRONG! 

What's Wrong With White Lies?

Making our morning coffee, we pour in the cream saying, "I'll give up coffee tomorrow as soon as the cream is used up." Or heaving ourselves off our comfy sofas at the end of the day, we lie about the shape our body is in. We "think" we are fit when we are not. When in actuality our fitness program is walking to and from our car and occasionally around the neighborhood mall. 

We think we are eating healthy when we eat GMO foods because they are cheaper. We drink soda and juice with high fructose corn syrup because it was on sale. We have excuse after excuse for doing what we do. Rationalizing our existence we lower our vibration and cast a cloak of inauthenticity around ourselves.

We think we are honest when we lie to ourselves on a daily basis. The Universal Law, "As within, so without, as above, so below," teaches us that as long as we lie to ourselves, others will also lie to us. Our husband may cheat on us, as we cheat on our income taxes. Our children may lie to us about smoking pot, or having sex, while we lie to them about our indiscretions or feelings. 

Lying is Universal. Even when we think we are not lying we are. Looking around your household and refrigerator are you lying to yourself about your family's health, eating habits, or loved one's addiction? 

A woman I know lies to her teenage son about who she is. She pretends to be a good Christian, reading the bible, while at the same time being a practicing Wiccan. She lies to her best friend about her secret practice, yet wonders why the companies who hire her lie to her about their illegal practices. Yet they are a perfect vibrational match for each other. If you lie to yourself, you can bet someone else is lying to you. Being authentic and truthful with yourself is a start. 

Lies we tell regularly

1. I'm fine.
2. I'm not angry with you.
3. The sex was great.
4. Of course, I love you.
5. I would never cheat on you.
6. That dress doesn't make you look fat.
7. (The reason I was late)The traffic was bad. 
8. Strippers don't do anything for me.
9. That didn't mean anything to me.
10. I'm listening.
11. You're fine.

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is an author, inspirational speaker, hypnotherapist, Master energy healer, channel and psychic medium. She is the former host of the radio show "Into The

Mystic,"on Voice America. She has been gifted as a catalyst for people's self-mastery. 

Being in her energy will shift you, open your own gifts and lead you to expansion and greater clarity, success, and happiness. If you have been struggling with love, relationships or money, listening to her show, working with her one-on-one or taking part in one of her incredible all day intensives will change your life for the better. Wanting to live an extraordinary life? Jennifer will help you achieve your goals and kick start your happiness. Her Love Yourself Fearlessly program has been hugely successful in helping thousands of women change their lives, living life in happiness, joy, and Love every day. 

What do you have to lose? You have everything to gain. WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? 

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