Attracting Love Fast

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Knowing what love is and isn't is important. Often we think we are in love, when it is sexual attraction, or infatuation. A lot of women have the idea that love should be felt the way it is in Disney movies. Where we are the princess and our prince will come and take us away from our debt, problems and issues. Last night on my Love Yourself Fearlessly Radio show, my guest was The Love Doctor from Atlanta, Georgia. Shaneetha and I have talked on her blogtalk radio show about Twin Flames several times. I have provided the recording below for you to listen to. The show was full of amazing insights and wisdom for men and women about love, what it is and what it isn't. I have included some of our discussion for you to read as well. Following is a list according to Shaneetha Akinlana what love is not:

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Attract Love Fast With The Love Doctor

Fallacies About Love

1. Easy
2. Passion and jealousy
3. Everyone has the right to obtain happiness and love.
4. Should be selfish.
5. Based exclusively on finding the RIGHT PERSON.
6. Explosive and overwhelming.
7. Blind. Without power or reason.
8. Euphoria.
9. Dependent on physical beauty.
10. Sexual union.
11. Romantic and fantastic.

How Do We Manifest

1. Through the spoken word
2. Through thoughts
3. Through our emotions
4. With our imaginations
5. With our own energy

We all have lessons to learn in this life. Our relationships are the fastest way for us to learn and grow. Recognizing that everything that happens in our lives happens for a reason, whether it feels positive or negative. We learn. Usually the biggest growth comes from adversities rather than the easy and fun times. When we are challenged the most, we have the most personal growth. Each relationship teaches us a lesson about ourselves. Some of the more challenging relationships teach us the most profound lessons.

What Love IS:

• unconditional
• accepting
• generous
• giving
• kind
• makes life seem worthwhile
• the ultimate nourishment of the soul

You Attract What YOU ARE, not what you want

You may want a wealthy partner. However, if you are poverty stricken with debt up to your eyeballs, you will attract someone who is LIKE you, rather than different from you. You attract what you are. If you are codependent and needy, you will attract someone else who is addicted in some way. Codependency is an addiction. You are addicted to people, relationships and need to have someone in your life to feel whole and complete. Until you feel fulfilled and happy with yourself and your life, you will continue to attract others who don't feel whole and complete within themselves. Those people could be abusive, jealous, controlling and fearful. This is not love. This is the absence of love. When you love yourself completely - you will then attract others who also love and attract themselves completely.

In my 6 week workshop, I assist women and men to love themselves unconditionally. Doing this workshop has helped many people attract a partner either during the workshop or immediately afterward. These are some of the steps I recommend.

How To Manifest Love

1. Get clear on what it is you want. What is important to you in a mate?
2. Write a list of criteria for your partner.
3. Focus on this list.
4. Envision what life would be like with this person in bed with you, drinking your morning coffee together, enjoying life together. Make this vision BIG! Envision every detail.
5. Take a deep breath, hold it and then let it go.
6. Say a prayer with emotion (example below)
7. Release your creation out into The Universe
8. Trust that it will be returned to you in Divine Timing
9. Stop pushing and just BE.
10. Forget it. Don't continue to pull it back and change or add, or try to help God to his/her job.

Manifesting Prayer (Example)

Mother Father God, I desire love and sexual pleasure. I am now ready for my Divine Partner. I am irresistible to my mate. I do not know how this will happen. I just know it will be so. I know that miracles happen every day and I am ready to receive mine! Thank you, Thank you, Thank you! 

• Be grateful for the gift of this relationship
• Unconditional love accepts. It does not try to change or FIX the other person. 

Remember we often ask for a relationship and then reject what we are given. Be ready to accept the love you are given. Many people ask and then are not open to receive. Your heart must be open to love. We often push love away unconsciously. Are you being compassionate to yourself and others. Is your heart open, or closed? Are you self critical, condemning? 

Jennifer is the author of Orgasm For Life. This book was written from her personal experience and includes data from hundreds of interviews with others, married, single, gay, straight and lesbian. Love knows no bounds. 

If you are looking for better sex, and a deeper connection, this book is for you. Wise, witty and inspirational. This book will turn you on and fire up the passion in your bedroom. Jennifer is a catalystic life, love and sex coach and educator. She is available for private sessions, Intuitive counseling and healing sessions. Her expertise is in sexual dysfunction. Her phone number is (770) 480-5500 to schedule your 30 minute private discovery session, to see if her work is right for you. Jennifer works with committed individuals who want to grow and evolve profoundly. If you prefer, you can reach her through her website JenniferElizabethMasters.com or E-mail her HERE:

Looking for LOVE?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

LOVE IS.......patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud.

Love is one of the most talked about subjects, yet so difficult to define. Can you feel love without being with another person? It is possible to have love for a platonic friend? Is it possible to love someone without jumping into bed with them? Is it possible that long after death and divorce that we can still love these people?

True Love comes from within. Until we feel complete love and acceptance for ourselves true love will continue to allude us. We will attract relationship after relationship that will be empty, abusive and unfulfilling. When we don't love ourselves completely we have low self esteem and tend towards negative expressions of love like addiction, jealousy, envy and  unrequited love. 

The answer is YES! You can feel love and be alone. Your heart can be so filled and overflowing with the feeling of love and not be in a romantic relationship. Not only is it possible to be in love with someone and not have consummated the relationship, but it is recommended if you want to begin a healthy balanced relationship. Loving someone after they die is not only possible but millions of people do it. Even after divorce, love does not end. Once the anger and resentment dissipates, the underlying feeling is love. Once connected in love, it does not stop. You cannot turn it off. The love still remains.

How you feel about yourself is what you attract

If you don't love and accept yourself completely you will attract others that don't love and accept you completely. They will try to change you. You will not be your authentic self. You will instead be the chameleon changing yourself to please your partner. When you change yourself for someone else you end up feeling empty, resentful and angry. Your partner will wonder why all of the sudden the person they initially fell in love with is no longer there. You can't keep up a phony persona forever.

Longing To Be Filled Leaves You Empty

When you don't love yourself completely you will not feel full, complete and confident. Looking for someone else to fill you, steady you and balance you will net you an incomplete person. Instead you will attract someone else who is coming from a half empty place looking for the other to fill them up. Two half full people does not attract a perfect relationship. 

You Have To BE THE LOVE

I didn't understand these concepts until I loved myself completely. Looking back at the men I attracted and how my relationships prior to self love and self acceptance felt, I recognize that loving me should have been my first priority. Until I loved me with all my warts and faults I could not completely RECEIVE LOVE. I felt empty and broken. I felt that I did not deserve love, not consciously, but unconsciously. I looked for ways to sabotage my relationships. I picked fights because I felt unworthy of being loved. I ran away because I was in fear of love. I dared men to love me. I could not feel their love deeply and receive it because I didn't love and accept myself. 

It has taken me over 30 years of struggle, pain, depression and introspection to finally love and accept myself. Until I completely loved and accepted myself I blamed my partners for my unhappiness. I looked outside of myself for fulfillment and happiness. I was lonely even in a relationship. Loving and accepting myself has changed all areas of my life. From my relationships with my mother, my children and my ability to be fully present for my clients. Creativity flows, I am fully present and able to process emotions easily. Instead of wallowing in self pity and sadness for days, my emotions flow and move, the way they were meant to. I have been where you are. I am not perfect. I know I never will be perfect. I am very happy with me the way I am. This expression of happiness extends to everyone I come into contact with. People can feel it. There is nothing fake or phony about me. I an authentically me. My heart is open and I am able to express myself on a deep intimate level. This means I can share myself without fear. I am always going to be a work in progress. We all are. This is what I have learned about love.

You Have To Get To Know YOU

Most of us put the cart before the horse. We are very quick to learn about someone else, but rarely do we invest this amount of time in ourselves. Before you can love another, you have to really get to know who you are. When we meet a potential partner, what is the first thing that we do? We get to know them on an intimate level. We get to know what they want, what they like, what they don't want. We have to do this for ourselves before we can authentically be ourselves. Getting to know ourselves makes us more available for someone else. The more intimately we know ourselves, the better able we are to have intimacy in our romantic relationships. 

To have the love we want we have to BE THE LOVE. That means we have to completely love and accept ourselves as we are. It does not mean we have to be perfect, it just means that we lovingly accept all our imperfections as part of the whole package. 

Jennifer is a certified life, love and relationship coach and master energy healer. She has been where you are and understands what you are going through. One of her greatest gifts is to cut to the root of each individuals issues quickly. If you have not had success with love to date, isn't it time to make a shift? Are you ready to experience love on the deepest of levels? They key to having the love you want is self love. Jennifer is a master at helping you get there. Her intuition is uncanny. Her compassion and sense of humor and ability to elicit our deepest fears and clear them is amazing. She offers private, group and video coaching.Work with me

FREE amazing Energy Clearings

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Want to raise your vibration exponentially?

This month I recorded three amazing webinars each with its own energy clearing at the end. Each one of these is different, with a specific focus. Each webinar is approximately 58 minutes long, packed with great empowering information. If you found it beneficial, please let me know below. I want to hear from you. Share it with your friends. These clearings raise your vibration, eliminate blocks, attachments and all kinds of negative programming. You will feel lighter, more positive and focused. I used Spiritual Response Therapy to do these clearings. I have cleared thousands of people since I began this work. I am a hypnotherapist, Master Energy healer and Intuitive.  I channel The Ascended Masters. 

TAKING YOUR POWER BACK

The first is about taking your power back, feeling more empowered and powerful. It is called Taking Your Power Back.

Here is the link:

https://www.dropbox.com/s/jvvwhujyhfexxhp/Taking%20Our%20Power%20Back%20Webinar.mp3

MAKING YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE

The second link is for the webinar that teaches you how to manifest. All of the Law of Attraction work, plus my own powerful spin is included. This webinar will help you with manifesting anything you want. You want to Manifest Money? It will help you with that too. Don't forget about vibrant health when it comes to manifesting. Money is nothing if you don't have your health. I give you all the details and leave nothing out. This is the REAL DEAL! There is a clearing at the end AND a manifestation exercise so you can manifest while listening to the webinar. Please leave your comments below about the way you felt, and how it helped you.

Here is the link:

https://www.dropbox.com/s/xayzdj3inandaho/Making%20Your%20Dreams%20Come%20True.mp3

DRAWING LOVE TO YOU

If you are looking for love, have had difficulties with relationships and love, this one is for you. This webinar is a must for attracting your man! I highly recommend everyone listen to this one. There is a clearing at the end as well and a few surprises.

Here is the link:

https://www.dropbox.com/s/blinpkx64t955k8/Drawing%20Love%20To%20You.mp3

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Jennifer is awake and Self Actualized. She is a certified Intuitive relationship coach. Her expertise is in how to get what you want by being laser focused. She teaches women to love themselves fearlessly, clearing away the debris of the past focusing on the positive and helping you fall in love with YOU, your FAMILY, your SOUL, your GIFTS and YOUR LIFE!
You can reach Jennifer to schedule a session or ask questions regarding her work or schedule and interview HERE

The Power Of An Open Heart

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

The Power Of An Open Heart

In Love

If you have ever been in love, you have had your heart broken or hurt. When we have expectations in our love relationships we experience disappointment and pain. When we risk it all, we also have the opportunity to have it all. Opening our heart completely to someone can also bring up tremendous fear. Allowing someone to see our vulnerable side and our insecurities can be challenging. When we don't open up completely in love we miss grasping the Holy Grail. Yet even when love, commitment and respect are present in a relationship, we can still get hurt. 

Why then do some of us extend the olive branch and try love again and again, when others are too afraid to? It is because it feels so incredible and amazing, that's why. Love simply expands us. We are the better version of ourselves when we are in love. Everything in our lives works better with someone who loves us unconditionally stands by us when we are down. After experiencing the deep connection of a mind, body, spirit relationship we want it again and again!  To be in love and attracted to someone with our pheromones in alignment can gift us with the greatest of experiential highs. This is where the expression, "I saw God!" comes from during sex. The act of love making can awaken our kundalini, enliven us and bring us to ecstasy. Regular sex increases our oxytocin and 30 other feel good hormones that help us maintain optimum health. We were created to fit together like two pieces of a puzzle. To feel shame about something so beautiful, which was given to us by Our Creator is simply misguided. Once experienced, we want to re-create it. Having someone love us back is one of the greatest gifts we humans can experience. 

The flip side of ecstasy in love is a broken heart. Sometimes the hurt is so deep that we never know how to get beyond it. Many women live out the last 20 or more years of their lives alone because they simply have been hurt so deeply that they choose to live alone rather than experience deep hurt again.

Ecstasy Through an Open Heart

I am a fearless person and know the power of love that can find us when we least expect it. I have experienced the love of a Twin Flame. He showed up when I was working on myself, and certainly NOT looking for love. When we are looking for love, it alludes us. Why is that? To understand this reality you have to understand the way energy moves. Wherever you focus your attention on a thought the energy about that thought grows. When we keep looking for the love we want, we are recreating lack. We are focusing on the not having of it. I am a fearless person and know the power of love that can find us when we least expect it. I have experienced the love of a Twin Flame. He showed up when I was working on myself, and certainly NOT looking for love. When we are looking for love, it alludes us. Why is that? To understand this reality you have to understand the way energy moves. Wherever you focus your attention on a thought the energy about that thought grows. When we keep looking for the love we want, we are recreating lack. We are focusing on the not having of it. I have a system that works for helping women find their True Love. It has worked for me 3 times. What I will tell you about this is, if you don't do the work BEFORE you attract your mate you will get the partner that is the exact energetic match for where you are.

The work I speak of is coming into alignment with your True Self (High Self, Divine Self). In the 8 week program we begin to excavate down into your deepest fears about you, life and love. We eliminate them. We decreate them and then we begin a powerful program that allows you fall in love with YOU! When you fall in love with yourself, others can't help falling in love with you also.  What most people do not realize is that their sense of lack of money is a direct reflection of their lack of SELF LOVE. Money is the energy of love. How can you attract money when you don't love you? You are in a state of LACK. 

Many of us create steel doors over our hearts because we have had our hearts broken. Breaking down the barriers to love will allow more love in. But you can't love someone more than you love yourself. It all begins with loving you. 

You think that you already do. Answer these questions below to find out You

Do you have friends or family members with unfinished business between you? These broken or damaged relationships stop the flow of energy in your own body and can cause illness. Resolving discord in all your relationships helps restore your health and your energy. I can help you with this work also. I teach you tools that clear away the energy of the issue so that you can heal the love between you. You don't even have to talk to the other person to heal the issue.

Why not tell the people in your life how much you love them and let all the rest just dissolve. Is the issue you were upset about still present? Can you let it go? If not, why not? Anytime that you hold resentment or anger on an issue, it creates stress and disease in your body. Forgiveness frees your heart so that you have more space to love yourself and others. You cannot have love without forgiveness. 

One of the issues I help my clients with is opening their hearts. Letting go of control and judgment are part of this process. Many of my clients are plagued with issues from old relationships, most all the way back to childhood. The old energy taints present relationships. Healing the patterns from past relationships is part of healing and opening your heart. When you let go of the pain and suffering of the past it is amazing what you can do with today. Letting go of the past frees you and creates more space for love and the infinite possibilities of The Universe. 

Are you ready for love? Are you committed to doing whatever it takes to have the love you want? Call or e-mail Jennifer to schedule your DISCOVERY session to find out if Jennifer can work with you. I invite your comments and questions below. 

Listen to Jennifer on The Love Doctor BlogTalk Radio with Shaneetha Akilana. The subject of the show is: Is Your Twin Flame Sleeping With Someone Else? Click here to be taken to the archive.

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a Love Yourself Fearlessly certified Life Coach Author, Speaker and Hypnotherapist. She has cleared 1,000s of people of their patterns and beliefs that no longer serve them. Work with a coach that has healed herself of codependency, drug, alcohol shopping and food addictions. She has healed herself of shame, guilt and fear. She walks the walk and has been where you are. Through direct experience Jennifer helps you move through yours. Her compassion and intuition are unparalleled. The guidance she receives on your issues is loving and moves you faster because no time is wasted. Therapy did not work for Jennifer. It was energy clearing, deep introspection and the powerful tools for discovery that Jennifer used on herself to become free of fear, control, manipulation and lack. Why not hire someone that has been where you are and is not faking it till she makes it. Jennifer is Self Actualized and Enlightened. You can leave a voice message for Jennifer at (770) 480-5500.Ask Jennifer if you are a good fit now