Is Someone A Pain In Your Ass?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Yoda and me, January 2014

Problems? Do you bitch, Moan or Complain?

If you have been reading my blog for any time, you would know that this little guy, Yoda in the photo above trotted into our lives
and our household has not been the same since. I used to be able to meditate with Karma, our older Border collie mix laying next to me quietly whether it was in my office or out in the desert. I could create videos with Karma in the room or even on location without any problem. I also used to be able to focus on my writing for hours on end without a break. Karma is 14. She is the most intelligent four-legged friend I have ever had. She is also the most well behaved. CONTRAST helps us recognize how great we had it before.

Yoda has shown us the contrast between himself and Karma. We recognize what a wonderful well-behaved dog she is. She doesn't mess in the house. She doesn't pee on the carpets and she doesn't yap. We loved Karma before, but we love her and recognize how wonderful she is because of the contrast between her and a much younger puppy. 

I am in the middle of writing and completing my book: Orgasm for Life. This book is shaping up to be a great resource for anyone wanting to be a better lover, husband or wife. Writing a book takes focus, concentration and attention. Yoda has made that very challenging. 

Yesterday while I was writing, he let me know he needed to go outside. The puppy came back to the door and scratched to let me know he wanted to come back in. He often returns indoors and promptly pees on the carpet. That is when I say "he is a pain in the ass." He likes to have someone stand outside with him watching him pee. I continued to write, knowing I had to get Ariel to school and had only a few more minutes to finish a chapter. Ariel began loading her school bag and belongings into the car and gathering keys to lock up our house. She put Karma in the car and I asked where Yoda was. Ariel said he was inside the house. I knew that was not the case. I looked all over our fenced in yard. Yoda was not inside the fence. All of a sudden I was flooded with anguish. We live near a busy road. The post office is just down the street. Yoda has never been allowed outside of our fenced in yard off a leash. He had absolutely no street sense at all! I ran out of the gate asking the first man I saw if he had seen a little black puppy. He nodded he had and pointed towards the post office.

I ran to a pick-up truck I was guided to. I felt Yoda's energy there recently. I rapped on the window just as the driver was rolling it up. He looked at me and nodded when I asked if he had seen a little black puppy. He said he had him in the back bed of his truck for about 15 minutes. He commented further that a woman dressed in business attire had taken him with her to find his owner. 

He accompanied me into the post office and we asked the post master about the woman. He kindly gave me her address (off the record - this was amazing!) He could have said no way Jose!

I ran home, got the Honda and Ariel and I drove immediately to the woman's home. She was a delightful woman who had her own dog. She had given Yoda some water and said he was absolutely not afraid of her dog. She knew he had an owner - even though there was no collar to give her this information. She had called her son asking him to come and help her to find his owner. To say I was relieved was an understatement.

I recognized that my grumbling about Yoda being a pain in the butt created this situation. Did I really want him? Yoda was saying to me, if I didn't want him he would find another place to be where he was wanted. The Universe was offering a solution. He could have ended up at the pound and in the arms of another little girl. 

Grumbling and complaining causes our worlds to be in chaos. Complaining about those we love could cause them to go somewhere else. Do you grumble, complain or bitch about your wife, lover, husband, job or children? Do you ever wish for freedom? Where do you find yourself grumbling or complaining? Complaining could mean that The Universe will offer a solution to your complaining. The solution could be one that you don't like. (Comment below about where you have a similar issue.)

Did I learn my lesson? You betcha! I will be much more careful about my thoughts and words. We all know this stuff, we just need a reminder. I am glad to be of service in this way (tee hee).  Be careful because complaining could cause what you are complaining about to GO AWAY! Appreciation and gratitude for what we DO HAVE brings us more of what we want.

Thank you God! Thank you Universe! Thank you kind neighbors!

Jennifer is a Bliss Coach, helping women and men live happier more joy filled lives. She is also a sex educator working with clients committed to create empowered lives that are BLISS filled. Her book, Orgasm for Life is due out in early February.

You can contact her at: JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com

Divine Presence Process Meditation

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Open your heart to receive

The Divine Presence Process Meditation connects you to Source energy within, fills your heart to overflowing and fills you with peace that surpasses understanding. I did this meditation consistently in 2012. I had a multitude of personal break throughs and mystical experiences during this time. 

Mala Beads

Mala beads are prayer beads that allow you to focus on the mantra rather than counting how many mantras you have chanted. When you are able to let go of the mind you go deep within. Your energy is raised to a higher vibration. In the place of expansion there are no walls, no limits and amazing stillness and peace beyond anything in the physical world. You will feel fulfilled, connected and all encompassing joy. Meditating each morning before you begin your day gives you order out of chaos and an ease to your day. Instead of having to push to make things happen, they happen automatically. 

Thoughts

Anyone can meditate. I had the hardest time using other methods in the past. Thoughts kept taking me out of my meditation. When I stopped worrying about the thoughts and instead focused on my breath and the mantras the thoughts quieted. My mind became peaceful. When I stopped resisting the thoughts, I relaxed further and my mind quieted more.

Your Word Is Your Wand

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Florence Schovel Shinn was a Metaphysician in the 1930's

I have read a vast number of books over the years. The one that assisted me with changing my thoughts more than any other was one written in 1925. The Game of Life and How To Play It, is an easy read and one that Norman Vincent Peale praised.

While writing my book about human sexuality and the guide for creating Blissful Sex, I have recently located some affirmations that I would like to offer you from Florence's book. 

My time these days is spent working on my book and blogging is taking a backseat. I have not forgotten you and will be making my announcement about Orgasm for Life, The No Holds Barred Manual for Creating BLISS when it is completed. Thank you for continuing to share my posts and articles with your friends. I appreciate your interest and I look forward to seeing you on my book tour when I am in your city. 

PROSPERITY

(See also The Game of Life and How to Play It.)
Man comes into the world financed by God, with all that he desires or requires already on his pathway.
This supply is released through faith and the Spoken Word.
"If thou canst believe, all things are possible."
For example: A woman came to me one day, to tell me of her experience in using an affirmation she had read in my book, The Game of Life and How to Play It.
She was without experience but desired a good position on the stage. She took the affirmation: "Infinite Spirit, open the way for my great abundance. I am an irresistible magnet for all that belongs to me by Divine Right."
She was given a very important part in a successful opera.
She said: "It was a miracle, due to that affirmation, which I repeated hundreds of times."

AFFIRMATIONS

I now draw from the abundance of the spheres my immediate and endless supply.
All channels are free!
All doors are open!
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I now release the gold-mine within me. I am linked with an endless golden stream of prosperity which comes to me under grace in perfect ways.
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Goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life and I shall dwell in the house of abundance forever.
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My God is a God of plenty and I now receive all that I desire or require, and more.
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All that is mine by Divine Right is now released and reaches me in great avalanches of abundance, under grace in miraculous ways.
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My supply is endless, inexhaustible and immediate and comes to me under grace in perfect ways.
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All channels are free and all doors fly open for my immediate and endless, Divinely Designed supply.
My ships come in over a calm sea, under grace in perfect ways.
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I give thanks that the millions which are mine by Divine Right, now pour in and pile up under grace in perfect ways.
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Unexpected doors fly open, unexpected channels are free, and endless avalanches of abundance are poured out upon me, under grace in perfect ways.
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I spend money under direct inspiration wisely and fearlessly, knowing my supply is endless and immediate.
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I am fearless in letting money go out, knowing God is my immediate and endless supply.

Jennifer accepts private coaching clients wanting to create more abundant and happy lives. She is a Love, Sex and Relationship coach. You can reach her to schedule an appointment or consultation at: JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com

Life Fully Expressed On Purpose

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Every one of us has a Divine Purpose. Living our lives fully, present in every breath and in a state of LOVE is what we are meant to do. 

There are many ways to live a life on purpose. Each of us was given gifts and talents. Some of us are musicians and write beautiful lyrics about pain, suffering, and love. The music touches our soul and pushes us to look at our own pain and suffering improving ourselves in the process. Sometimes the music moves us to cry, another’s purpose can help us to release emotions that would otherwise be stuck. Another’s purpose assists us to grow.

Some choose to be doctors, nurses, and teachers. Each person gives and is in service to others in some way. Others are mechanics and have abilities to fix our automobiles. Without different gifts, our planet would be filled with people all the same, without contrast. 

We see the contrast in other ways. Our relationships can challenge us and bring us personal growth. Moving out of the pain of past experiences into joy allows us to see the contrast of suffering versus joy. If life were a smooth river without twists, turns and challenges we would not recognize the greatness of experiencing bliss and joy when we have healed and let go of our suffering. The contrast in our lives helps us to see how far we have come and what changes we have made. If it were all smooth sailing we would not celebrate the victories and welcome the inner peace and harmony so joyously when it comes.

Many people on this planet have so many gifts that it is difficult to choose which direction to turn. Following our passion is what spurs us on to live a higher life, A purpose filled life with the fulfillment of living out our dreams and assisting others to heal their lives.

For me, my challenge has always been the focus. I have done faux finishing, landscaping, and writing. I have always been a writer, but I did not see early on how that was living my soul’s purpose. After becoming a Master Gardener and owning and operating For Heaven Scapes, Ltd in Georgia for eleven years, I grew tremendously and became more grounded during that time. I healed my life while balancing the landscaping with hypnotherapy and energy healing as well. In 2011, I knew it was time to let go of the landscaping and move fully into healing and inspirational writing. I became a channel and my intuitive gifts opened up after traveling to India and Bali to study and heal. I completed my first book in Bali and published it in early 2011. Odyssey Victim to Victory was my autobiographical account of my life and healing experience; moving out of illness and suffering into joy.

I was told by God then that Odyssey would not take off until my second book was released. I had no idea what direction The Divine would take me. In early 2012, I was told that sex is the way that masses of people would come to Spirituality and consciously connected living. I was to write a book about sex. I  have to say that after moving in one direction (SELF LOVE) for so many years I wondered what impact this new direction would have on my business. I was assured that I would be taken care of, as always and this was my purpose and new direction. My children were concerned about my reputation, safety and what people would think.

I knew that some of my clients would not understand. I knew that some of my clients that had followed me from the beginning might leave. The Divine knows so much better than we do what we all need. I was told that the ones that left would be replaced with thousands more. My purpose is not to question, but to follow the guidance I receive. It is obvious from my posts here, on Love Yourself Fearlessly and on Ezine.com that people want to learn more about sex and coupling. The posts I have written about sex receive 300 times the attention that my posts about spirituality do. Although there are many books out on the subject of sex, there has yet to be one that is all encompassing. 

Orgasm for Life is about life being lived in bliss and joy. It is so much more than sex. It is about a deep connection in our relationships. It is about love and compassion. Orgasm is about letting go. Letting go of control, manipulation, and fear. The act of orgasm cannot happen if you are hanging on for dear life, it is the act of letting go that allows an orgasm to happen. Sex is the vehicle that will bring people to an understanding that the opposite sex is not the enemy. Sex for men is what allows them to open their hearts and allow us women in. Without sex, men shut down and won’t communicate. They become angry and resentful. Sex shows our men that we love and accept them. Women need romance and to know they are loved In order to be willing to have sex. We need a kiss and a hug through out the day, a phone call telling us that we are loved, and beautiful. We need to be treated like a Queen outside of the bedroom so that we treat our men like Kings in and out of our boudoir. 

Dynamic sex is an art form. We need to have our heads in the game to be open to it. For us women, sex is 80% mental and only 20% physical. If we're upset, the kids are crying or the in-laws are visiting is it very difficult for women to let go and enjoy pleasure. 

Through greater understanding of our differences, needs and communication styles our relationships will grow, heal and thrive. Rather than divorce, marriages will transform. Orgasm for Life will give both men and women the tools to be better lovers, great communicators and happier in our relationships. To be truly able to love another, we need to love ourselves. When we don’t love ourselves completely we are unable to receive love. We give too much and become addicted when we don’t love ourselves. This leads to an imbalance in our relationships. The foundation for a healthy relationship is a healthy and balanced life for each person, grounded in self-love. Without complete self-acceptance, codependency, addictive and abusive relationships result.

The need for sex wanes over time. However, there is no reason why men and women in their 70s and 80s can’t continue to have pleasure. The oldest father known is 91 years of age. I know of women in their 90s that still have sexual urges from time to time.

Women have been suppressed for thousands of years. For the most part, we have put our men first, giving our bodies, and the best years to our partners. We have birthed children, which ravages our bodies and then been criticized for our weight gain and flabby skin. We have given our bodies willingly so that our husbands would have pleasure. Yet most women never achieve orgasm through the sex act. Most couplings last between 2 and 10 minutes and the woman does not have a chance to become aroused enough to experience an orgasm. The average woman needs 45 minutes of stimulation to achieve an orgasm. 80% of all women fake orgasm over 50% of the time. The numbers simply don’t match up. 

DOING THEIR DUTY

Women begin to have sex out of duty rather than for pleasure. After years of unfulfilling sex, resentment builds and our ability to continue to say yes, diminishes. More women are saying, “NO!” instead of “YES!” as the years go by. Orgasm for Life will change this. I will teach you how to romance your woman, outside the bedroom and how to pleasure her and bring her to orgasm every time inside the bedroom.  

Men think they know what women want. It has been my experience that most men don’t listen. I have told a man what I wanted and found he did what he thought I needed. I have as others have had men not stop when we say, "It hurts." Both men and women need to listen to what our partners are saying and believe what they say, rather than think we know better than they do.

Even when women ask repeatedly for something different, their love making style rarely changes from what they learned in adolescence. Fast can be the only speed for some men when women need to allow the pleasure to build slowly. We can ask for something to change, but most men continue to use old techniques and don’t adapt. Both men and women need to adapt to the changes that our bodies undergo as we mature and change. Orgasm for Life will give you interesting and different ideas to change and spice up your sexual escapades. Orgasm for Life is a guide to creating an exquisite conscious life which includes deep intimacy, powerful connection and makes sex sacred. When sex becomes sacred love is profound.

A GLIMPSE OF ENLIGHTENMENT 

The most profound experience a human can have is an orgasm. During an orgasm (prana) energy moves upward from the base of the spine through the central channel and rises ending in the frontal lobe. It lights up over 80 centers of the brain. Nothing else comes close to firing so many centers of the brain. It is a glimpse of enlightenment. It is the closest one can come to touching, feeling or seeing God. 

What Is Your Soul Purpose?

Schedule a focus session with me to find out. We get laser focused in this 75-minute session. Book yours with Jennifer here. JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com    Visit Jennifer's website. 

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Planetary Update - January 2014