Does Size Really Matter? Penis Envy

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Penis size is a subject of women's magazines and men's health forums. Does size really matter? Do women prefer large penises, or medium-sized members? What if your Johnson is very small? What do women really think about men's penis size? If you have thought it, I have probably heard it. Your burning and throbbing questions are going to be answered here.

A study published in the British Journal of Urology International suggested: 

"Even though most women are satisfied (85%) with the size of their partner's penis, most men have anxiety and insecurity about their size."

Famous People With Large Penises

The tabloids are filled with articles regarding who's penises were the largest. Liberace was said to have a fourteen inch penis. 

Teens And Twenties Measure

As soon as a teen's penis has finished growing, the rulers come out. How long is it flacid? How long is it erect? Men mark their masculinity by the extent of their packages. Our sexuality is the core of who we are. It is understandable that men would focus on their genatalia wondering how they measure up.

What Is Average?

• Average length for an erect penis is 14.2 cm (5.6 inches)

• Average circumference of an erect penis is 12.2 cm (4.8 inches).
  

There Is A Problem With Huge Penises

If you talk to women, like I have, huge penises can be problematic. It is more difficult to perform oral sex comfortably. It can actually be painful to have sex with someone with a huge penis. 

After Menopause

As we age, a huge penis can cause such pain that intercourse may become impossible as vaginal tissues become fragile. Women complain that men with large Johnson's feel that all they have to do is show up! Having a large penis does not mean you know how to pleasure a woman. There is an art to bringing a woman to orgasm and giving her pleasure. Be sure to use an organic lubricant without heat. 

Just having a large member, isn't enough. If you are a man who has both, kuddos to you! You have one very lucky partner!

What Do Women Say About Penis Size and Satisfaction

Most women (45 out of 50) are more concerned about the width, rather than length, according to one study. More important than size however, is how long can a man last? Is he able to give a woman pleasure? Can she attain an orgasm with her man? These are more important than the size of a man's penis. For more information about giving a woman pleasure, read my book, Orgasm For Life. 

Women often refer to very small penises as "pencil dicks." What is medically considered so small that augmentation surgery is recommended? 

When Is A Penis Too Small?

Very small penises are rare. Most men are worried about size when it has more to do with self-esteem. Below, I have a remedy for you.

Researchers concluded in The Journal of Urology, after studying 80 normal men that; "Only men with a flaccid length of less than 4 centimeters [1.6 inches], or an erect length of less than 7.5 centimeters [3 inches] should be considered candidates for penile lengthening."

My Advice To You Men That Are Worried About Your Size

Self-love is paramount to a happy life and relationship. If you pick apart your body, tell yourself you aren't enough, you have an issues with confidence and self-esteem. I do hypnotherapy over the phone very successfully with issues of confidence, worry, anxiety, fears and limiting beliefs. Never compare yourself with others. There will always be someone with a bigger, prettier or more satisfying looking penis. Don't do it!

I also do Neurolinguistic Programming to shift you quickly, usually in one or two sessions for fears. I have worked with men who had erectile dysfunction that was an unconscious issue and remedied their issue in two sessions. Book your session with me here and get over your anxiety. 

Your unconscious mind believes what you tell it. Instead of saying negative things about yourself and your body, affirm your power. Affirm your success and watch your thoughts about your penis shift!

I am big, not small!
I am powerful, not weak!
I am virile.
I am healthy.
I love my body.
I love my penis.
I am grateful my penis is so beautiful, strong and powerful!
I love my life. I love my body!
I am whole, perfect, strong, loving, harmonious and happy!

I Am Grateful for my vibrantly healthy body!

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Less Endowed - Less Confidence?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

As a young woman we look at ourselves and our breasts and wonder, when will mine grow? Will I ever look like _______ (fill in the blank). Many men have issues with lack of confidence from being smaller in the package department than their peers. Breast implants, penile implants, facial surgery is a multi-billion dollar industry for a reason. People don't love what they have and don't love who they are. The issue of confidence still remains however, because it is an internal issue, rather than external one. Focusing on the inner rather than the outer is the way to remedy this issue. Hiring a coach can help you move beyond not feeling enough. You are already enough, you just aren't aware that you are.

If your confidence is based on lack of something you are barking up the wrong tree. I dated a man who was a little smaller than average. I did not have an issue with this, but he did. At least once a day he would say to me that he had to make up for his size by performing better than average - or being a better lover. He was creating a mountain out of his mole hill. He made his issue bigger by focusing on it. A size issue is usually related to inner self worth, rather than a physical issue.

Have you ever noticed that when people have their stomach stapled they have a different issue crop up somewhere else. This is because they were focusing on a physical issue when the REAL problem was how they felt about themselves. Often the plastic surgery is done - and the low self esteem remains.

The key here is how we feel about ourselves. If you keep looking at your penis and saying, "It is too small!" you are perpetuating a myth. Most women are happy with the size of their men. It is the men who are not happy with their size. 

Focusing on something repeatedly, that you feel is lacking creates low self esteem. Instead focus on being enough. What most people don't realize is that when we feel we are not good enough, not worthy or not big enough creates a blocked root and second chakra. Our root chakra is the source of our security they way we are seen out in the world. The second chakra is all about manifesting. If these two chakras are blocked you will create or already have also created issues with money.

The root chakra is associated with the color red and is located in between the perineum and the base of the penis in men. In women between the anus and the vagina. The second chakra is located in between the pubis bone and the navel. For women it is associated with ovaries, reproduction and menstrual cycles. If your second chakra is blocked you may have issues with cramping and money. 

Here are some ways to create confidence and raise your self esteem:

1. Repeat this mantra upon awakening and just before going to sleep and any other time your mind is in neutral:   I AM WORTHY. 
2. Focus on being enough. I AM ENOUGH! 
3. Love what you have. I LOVE MY BODY! Stand in front of the mirror every day, look into your own eyes and tell yourself - I LOVE MY BODY!
4. Join me Wednesday night for my podcast to clear the first two chakras. (605) 475-4000 PIN 939401# at 5:00 PM PST and 8:00 PM EST. Its FREE!

Remember if you don't mention it most women will not even think it is too small. However, if you focus on it, speak about it you are creating an issue. This issue is one of self esteem. It is an internal rather than an external issue. When you feel good about yourself, it will cease to be an issue. Hire a coach to help you work through your issues of worthiness. Instead become great at oral sex. Learn how to bring a woman to orgasm manually - rather than through intercourse. Most women don't orgasm through the vagina - learn to do things differently. There are ways to be a better lover. Read my book: Orgasm For Life ..... The No Holds-Barred Guide To Creating BLISS  out on May 20th, 2014.

Jennifer is a certified Life, Sex and Empowerment Coach. She is the author of the forthcoming book: Orgasm For Life: The No Holds-Barred Guide For Creating BLISS.  JenniferElizabethMasters.com