Want More Joy?
How about laughter with sex? Women and men want to be happy, joy-filled and have more pleasure in their lives.
If men and women were matched in desire and sexual motivation, we would spend our days wildly, dreamily and passionately devouring our lover's. We would find anything less than love-making boring, and hum-drum. Work? What work? Dishes left in the sink, scattered on counter-tops and half eaten meals would sit on our tables, while we focused on our desire. Our children would go hungry, dirty and unsupervised. Our world would be in total chaos. I understand where God was coming from when he created us so differently. Someone had to be the one to say, "No, I have to take the kids to karate." Or stop and feed the family instead of spending the day with our heels up in the air pleasuring one another.
We are wired differently. Not only do men think differently, but they come from a very different place when they think about sex. Women, on the other hand have many requirements to feel in the mood for sex.