5 Powerful Reasons Not To Have Sex With Everyone Who Wants You

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

A large portion of the world has low self-esteem. When we don't feel good about ourselves, we can give ourselves away to others carelessly because we don't love ourselves. I know all too well how easy it is to be promiscuous when we have been molested in childhood or mistreated by a partner. I have good news for everyone out there. Anything is subject to change. 

For over thirty years I have worked diligently on myself, healing my emotional, physical and spiritual self. In the process, I have come to know myself very well, something that I didn't do before I became happy with me. I used to feel broken, now I feel completely whole, with healthy boundaries, respect and strong faith in me. 

I haven't stopped growing, clearing myself or learning, in fact, I am in the process of reading six books simultaneously and assimilating this information for you. As I grow in consciousness, wisdom, and knowledge, I can be better able to help you heal yourself and life faster. 

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Sex is a part of our human experience. Whether we have sex for one, or as a couple it is completely natural and nothing to feel guilt, shame or regret over if you follow these guidelines. When we feel these low vibrational emotions we can't manifest sh*t!

5 Reasons Not To Have Sex 

Let's just say you are kissing someone you have just met while on a date. Wonderful! Experience it fully. Check in with yourself. Is this someone you would regret having sex with? If the answer is yes, just say no. Our inner guidance system is nothing to be trifled with. Trust what you feel. The more you trust yourself, the better you will feel about your decisions. 

Here are the 5 reasons why not to engage in the horizontal mambo:

1. It feels yucky. If you feel bad, the sex will be bad. You will have regret later. Whatever it is, their smell, the way they kiss, the timing, trust your instinct.

2. They are pushing for something you don't feel works for you. Maybe things are going along well, then all of a sudden there is a change in activity. If he shoves your head into your crotch and you don't like it say so. You'll be surprised how much respect you will get when you say "I don't like it when you do that!"

3. You aren't ready. There are many reasons to not feel ready for sex. It could be the wrong time of the month, it could be it is just too soon, it could be you don't feel your best. Whatever the reason don't do it. Pushing a bad move will leave you feeling regret. Regret is a terrible thing! Standing up for what you feel is right for you is empowering. Having sex when you really aren't up for it is disempowering. Choose wisely.

4. You value yourself. Maybe your date thinks you are really hot, but you don't have the same feelings about them. Maybe the situation is uncomfortable due to a lack of privacy. The first time you have sex with someone you want it to feel good, not bad. If your gut is trembling with fear, trepidation or distaste, stop. Tell them you aren't ready. Maybe tell them you will never be ready for them, but be kind. 

5. You respect yourself and it doesn't feel right. Self-respect is a tenuous thing. When we don't trust ourselves and do something anyway, we are not respecting us. Respect is one of the cornerstones of a healthy, loving relationship, starting on the wrong foot will make the whole thing just wrong. My book Orgasm For Life will help you discover yourself, and your partner in a new and loving way.

You have value. You deserve to be loved. You are worthy. You are loveable. Now turn this around and say these things to yourself over and over until you believe them. 

I deserve it!

I have value

I am worthy

I am enough

How To Create Positive Change With Affirmation And Prayer

Using mantras in the background of your mind when your mind is in neutral works best: while you are showering, shaving, putting on makeup, driving, walking, right before sleep and upon waking will slip past the gatekeeper of your unconscious mind.

Now go forth and date! Go to meetups, but get yourself out there. You won't find a partner sitting at home on the couch stuffing yourself with ice cream and Cheetos. 

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The Attraction Switch

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

People come to me because they want to love and be loved. They come to me because they lost love. They come to me because they can't find someone to love them. The bottom line is that I am in the business of LOVE! We are all happier when we are in love. We are happier when we love and respect ourselves. I assist people with self-esteem, codependency, emotional trauma, sexual abuse, sexual dysfunction and relationship issues so that they can find love.

As a coach, I have heard it all. People come to me because they are in pain. Their wife doesn't have sex with them anymore. Their husband doesn't act like a man. Some people come to me because of their addictions. I understand people. I recognize and empathize with others because I too have had so many similar experiences. I used to jump from relationship to relationship because I thought a relationship would make me happy. It didn't.

Happiness comes from within. If we are miserable being us, we won't be much happier being in a relationship. We think we will be happy because of the depiction of relationships in movies or television shows we see and societal programming. 

The Purpose of A Relationship

Relationships are here to help us grow and evolve. Relationships teach us about love. Without sacrifice, there is no love. You might sacrifice your dream of dancing ballet, for your lover with whom you share a child. That is sacrifice. You may sacrifice your dreams of being an architect to stay at home with your newborn baby instead. With any luck, we can find someone that loves themselves enough to love us this way too. 

How To Turn On Powerful Attraction

Vulnerability

We don't get very far if we don't open up and allow another person in. We have to risk everything to be vulnerable. We have to let go of the dock and float out into the ocean of love without any mooring. Floating in an ocean of bliss we let go of control, surrender to love and allow our partner to see us naked, unmasked and open. This can be a scary place. When you have the courage to go to the place of vulnerability, you can also explore unbounded love. Limitless love happens when we are completely vulnerable, authentic and totally transparent with our lover. Limitless love is a real possibility when you stop worrying about what others think of you.

If they make us a little bit happier than we are when we are alone, we are very fortunate. If a relationship is amazing and raises us to a new level of being, that is an incredible gift. Most people have challenges in relationships and blame their partner for them. Our partners only heighten our issues that we need to notice.

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Love of Self

When I was in the middle of my codependency, I had many spiritual teachers tell me, "You need to be alone." I was so needy and codependent, I was restless without a man. I needed to have the stability of another person to feel like I was whole. Once I began doing energy work, hypnotherapy, this restlessness calmed down. I became more grounded. This grounding gave me the courage to be alone. It truly was what I needed. When I was  alone, I began to know and understand myself better, because I was becoming authentic. In a relationship, I was not me. I was a shell of my real self. I felt so insecure, that I felt if I acted like myself, no one would want me.

When we don't love ourselves, we are unhappy with our lives. Things don't work properly because we are out of balance. We may work too much, too hard, or shop like a crazy person. We often have addictions when we don't love ourselves. I certainly did. We may even cascade from one addiction to another while we heal.

Self-Respect Is A Turn On

To be happy in a relationship, we need to have self-respect. Without self-respect, others won't respect us. When our partner doesn't respect us, they usually treat us badly. They may cheat, lie, or treat us with disrespect. 

What Is Self-Respect?
Self-respect means we are not afraid to stand up for our beliefs. When we have self-respect, we say what we feel and do what we say. We speak our truth, instead of trying to please others by agreeing with them. When we have self-respect you often make decisions that are unpopular with others. Without self-respect you may fear that others won't like you if you go against what they believe. People might even become angry with you for doing so. However, when you stand up for what you believe, you will be respected, rather than disrespected. You will not feel that you are supressing your truth. Being authentic means that you speak your truth and stand up for your beliefs.

You Are So Sexy!

When you can stand up confidently for what you want, believe  and feel, you will find someone who is turned on by your confidence. A confident person is infinitely more sexy than a needy one. 

A needy person can never be made happy because they don't love themselves. Their love-tank is empty. It can never be filled by someone else. This is where I come in. I help you begin to love yourself fearlessly. Along this journey you being to recognize your

gifts, your beauty, your worthiness and your inner strength. Through my courses and coaching you will grow, and shift your perspective recognizing that you are worthy and already enough. You each have what you need inside you, I just help you uncover the truth of your being.

Much Love to you,
Jennifer

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