Help For Your Intimate Relationships

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

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Why I Wrote Orgasm For Life

40% of women struggle to orgasm their entire lives. 

Over 50% are dissatisfied with their sex lives.

26% of women fake orgasm EVERY SINGLE TIME!

28% of men fake orgasm
35% orgasm every time they have sex
40% of women have some kind of sexual dysfunction

10% of women NEVER EVER EXPERIENCE ORGASM!

Most women are afraid to ask for what they want because they don't want to hurt their partner's self-esteem.

What Will You Learn?

Orgasm For Life will help you understand men better. Orgasm For Life will help you understand women better and what they need to orgasm. You will learn how to get a woman to want to have sex more often. 

You will discover things you didn't know about how the human body works. You will discover where the G-spot is. Why is the G-spot so darn hard to find that some Drs. even wonder if it exists?

You will find out how to keep a relationship alive long after the kids have left for college and how to overcome the challenges that will come up with communication.

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Is It Possible To Ejaculate Without Pleasure?

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Question: Jennifer, when I ejaculate, I do not experience the pleasure of orgasm. What is the cause and how do I overcome this problem?

First of all, I have to say thank you for bringing this very sensitive subject up. Having a sexual release without the pleasure of an orgasm can cause concern about health issues and certainly some sadness about the lack of pleasure, which everyone deserves. In this article we'll examine the cause and what you can do naturally to solve this problem without medication. In extreme cases, medication might be needed.

What Is Anhedonia?

An is the Greek term for without. Hedonia means pleasure. The term anhedonia means without pleasure. 

What Causes Anhedonia?

1. A lack of dopamine in the brain is the cause of anhedonia. Dopamine is the hormone responsible for feelings of pleasure. Those with a low dopamine level may feel like they want to die. 
2. Anhedonia is a sign of a major depressive disorder. Energy clearings will help to relieve the blocked emotions which cause this. 
3. Prolactin a hormone released when men ejaculate can be too high. Prolactin gives some men a feeling of sadness after ejaculating.
4. Menopause for women can cause a lack of pleasure. Our hormones get out of whack during menopause, watching for this drop in dopamine and eating foods that boost dopamine will give you relief.
5. A loss of pleasure from things that normally give one pleasure is one of the main clinical features of Schizophrenia. Sadly not much emphasis is placed on a loss of pleasure from sex.  
6. Alcohol can cause a loss of pleasure from sex. Initially, there may be an increase of pleasure, as dopamine increases. However, a high amount of alcohol consumption reduces dopamine levels significantly which decreases the level of pleasure experienced. 
7. Low testosterone levels can significantly decrease pleasure during sex.
8. Spinal chord injury can cut off the rise of the kundalini which is responsible for the feelings of orgasm.
9. Multiple Sclerosis causes a gradual loss of dopamine in the brain.
10. A deficiency of amino acids. Amino acids are required to stimulate dopamine products. 

Three Ways To Boost Dopamine Naturally

• Change your diet to include foods that increase dopamine and amino acids. Eat a variety of foods rather than the same thing over and over. Variety is the spice of life and helps to keep your body in balance and properly nourished. 
• Get to bed early. Sleep is one of the best things for your body and mood. When we don't get enough sleep our body can't function at its optimum level. Serotonin and dopamine are increased when we get sufficient deep sleep to allow our body to regenerate and heal.
• Exercise daily. Daily exercise increases blood calcium which is needed for dopamine production. Do the 5 Tibetan Rites as they only take 10 minutes to perform. Stop making excuses as to why you can't. Exercising once a week isn't enough. 

What Foods Boost Dopamine Levels?

Protein-rich foods like eggs, turkey, chicken, and even legumes eaten with whole grains to form a complete protein will boost dopamine levels.

Vegetables can help boost amino acids that aid in the production of dopamine. Beets, for example, have betaine which is aids in the regulation of neurotransmitters like dopamine. Avocado, artichokes increase levels of dopamine. I eat avocado every day.

Anti-oxidant rich vegetables help to reduce free radicals which cause the oxidation (or burning up of dopamine). Deep green vegetables like spinach, kale, Swiss chard, asparagus, broccoli. and beets. Peppers, oranges, strawberries cauliflower, Brussels sprouts, contain vitamin C which helps to fight free radicals. Nuts like walnuts, sunflower seeds, greens, and carrots provide vitamin E which is needed for dopamine and brain function.

Eat Food Rich In Tyrosine

Ripe bananas are loaded with tyrosine to synthesize dopamine. Almonds, meat, poultry, lima beans, sesame and pumpkin seeds, yogurt and dairy products all contain tyrosine which aids in the production of dopamine.

Fruit

Blueberries, strawberries, and prunes trigger dopamine release. Berries are high in anti-oxidants which fight free radicals. Apples

contain quercetin a powerful anti-oxidant which prevents degenerative diseases by triggering the release of dopamine.

Chocolate

Chocolate is a delicious way to uplift our spirits and provide blissful emotions. Dark chocolate is rich in antioxidants and less sugar. It is a go-to food for increasing serotonin in the brain, but it also increases dopamine. Overconsumption of chocolate can have the reverse effect. Remember to eat everything in moderation. 

If you deprive yourself of something this good for you, set up a session with me, you are sabotaging your life and health. 

Herbs

A group of herbs is powerful for aiding dopamine recovery and production they are called the Blessed Maine Herbs. They include fenugreek, ginseng, milk thistle, nettles, red clover, and peppermint. The best way to consume these is in herbal tea.

Wheat Germ

If you aren't allergic to wheat, wheat germ provides you a rich supply of the amino acid phenylalanine which gets converted to tyrosine then stimulates the dopamine release.

Vitamin Supplements

Vitamin B6 helps with dopamine production. Taking a daily supplement of vitamin B complex is helpful for stress, nervousness, and anxiety as well. The amazing thing about Vitamin B6 is that it also acts as a Prolactin inhibitor. Prolactin is released when a man ejaculates. Many men feel deep feelings of sadness with prolactin production is too high. Men often blame the person they are with for the sadness when it is a chemical issue within them.

If you have a problem with a lack of pleasure, there are plenty of ways to shift this serious issue. Do not ignore a health issue as it could become life-threatening later on. Eating a variety of foods and changing what you eat rather than consuming just one type of food will help you significantly. An energy clearing will help to lift depression as well. A lack of pleasure could be a sign of a serious depression. Please get the help you need.

Jennifer is a Certified sex, love and passion coach, healed healer, Certified Hypnotherapist, NLP Practitioner, Master Energy Healer and reads the Akashic Records. She has been on a healing journey for over thirty years. Along the road of life, she has experienced much and uses her wisdom in her sessions to help her clients. If you have experienced it, she probably has also. She meditates several times a day, clears her own energy daily and does the 5 Tibetan Rites twice a day. In this way, she stays clear, youthful and is totally present with you on the phone.  Let's live to be 110! Visit Jennifer's website. Or Send her a private e-mail. 

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5 Benefits Of Semen Retention

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Anyone that follows Rock and Roll has heard that Sting and his wife have been touted for making love for 8 hours in one sexual encounter. Sting recanted his comment 20 years later, with the caveat that he was drunk during that interview. He and his wife do practice Tantra and semen retention. This type of sexual control allows you to make love for hours on end without ejaculation. You can choose when to have an ejaculation. 

Sting and wife, Trudie 

Since that infamous drunken interview where Sting discussed his sex life with his wife on the air, he now describes his wife, he obviously loves deeply as his church. Their sex life is sacred. They have been together for 30 years. Something is working here! Sex is sacred. When we look at sex from this perspective, it becomes an art form, like playing an instrument with your heart and soul.

The Benefits of Semen Retention

Remember the movie Rocky? His coach told him not to have sex two weeks before his fight because it would weaken him. Even in the Bible, it was stated that men should never have sex before they go into battle because it weakens the men's strength and ability to fight.

1. Can make love endlessly without ejaculation. All night long if you wish, without feeling exhausted and falling asleep.
2. Your partner will thank you for your stamina and staying power, allowing her to have multiple orgasms and a whole lot more fun and pleasure!
3. You will have endless energy and feel so powerful.
4. Physical vitality.
5. Stronger libido. Retaining your semen will give you more energy and stronger sex drive. AHA! I had you at stronger! 

The Power of Semen

According to Taoist monks an ounce of semen is equal to sixty ounces of blood. 

“An ounce of semen is considered to be equal in value to sixty ounces of blood, of which it constitutes an extract of some of its most valuable of constituents.” In Tibetan medicine, it is said that “seven drops of the vital essence of food are required to produce one drop of the vital essence of blood. And it takes one cup of the vital essence of blood to produce one drop of the vital essence of semen.” By this measure, semen is literally more precious than blood!"

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Semen - Nature's Superfood!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

What's in your morning protein shake? Today Huffington Post headlined with an article that semen has as much protein in it as a protein shake.  

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What are the benefits of semen, you ask, besides making the man in your life very happy? There are many. Heather Locklear a beautiful young looking 51 year old actress who looks as young as her 15 year old daughter, says that semen on the skin smoothes out wrinkles. The Town House spa in New York, will put semen on your face professionally for $250.00. I know there are men living with you, who would be delighted to donate theirs for free, for your beautiful young-looking skin!

What is so special about semen? Think about what semen does. It provides fertilizer for the ovum. It is rich with protein to help create a baby. Any fruit with lots of seeds in it is especially good for you as well (papaya, figs, pomegranate). Sperm is exceptionally nutrient rich with the following ingredients in, (I had to say it) one shot!

• fructose sugar
• water
• ascorbic acid (Vitamin C)
• citric acid
• enzymes
• protein
• zinc

Each ejaculation contains between 5 - 7 calories. 200 - 500 million sperm. For those of you who are single, safe sex practices apply. Unless you know your guy is monogamous and STD free, use a condom.

When you are deciding whether to spit or swallow, besides the fact that you will make your guy feel completely loved and accepted by doing so, there are many protein and health benefits!

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is an author, passionate inspirational speaker, radio host, sex coach and educator. She also helps women find themselves and love themselves fearlessly. She is a catalyst

coach, which means just the act of talking to her, shifts you automatically. She is a gifted healer, NLP practitioner, Hypnotherapist and mother of three. She has been married and divorced 4 times. Certified in over 5 different modalities, she works with people in different ways. She is funny, direct and compassionate. Jennifer is a master at helping women overcome shame, guilt and other blocked emotions. Her radio show launched from the BBM Global platform in February 2015. ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE will be found on Tune In and is all about sex. With a foundation of love, connectedness and compassion sex can become a vehicle for your enlightenment and deeper connection with your partner.

She helps men with the following:

• codependency
• boundaries
• ED
• HTP - Hair Trigger Penis or Premature Ejaculation

Jennifer's book, Orgasm For Life, is available on Amazon. It is a no-holds barred guide for sex, pleasure and conscious sacred sex.

The Art of Semen Retention For Vitality And Power

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Louis Smith - Olympian

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Any athlete who has ever competed knows that sex before a competition will deplete you. As a matter of fact, many prize fighters and other athletes will forgo sex while in competition. The eastern world has known that ejaculation causes the body to be depleted of strength, vitality and even mental concentration.

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However, orgasms will deplete your life force and over time can even cause challenges with kidneys and other physical issues. Taking a little pill to get it up, only increases physical ailments to the point of risking death, if you have heart or blood pressure issues.

Why then is the western world so focused on orgasms? Simply put, PLEASURE. An orgasm feels good. It relieves stress and can help you sleep better. Women receiving the gift of semen

internally become energized, giggly and happy. Your loss is our gift

There are ways to change the loss into a gain. Tantric Sex is definitely one of them. Holding onto your precious life giving semen up to an hour or more is enough to change the tables from a deficit to a amazing energetic increase.

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I have consulted a long-time friend and Tantra teacher for this article. Being a man, he is much more able to translate what happens in the man's body than I am. Prem Sarovara agreed to assist with the details of this article. He is a teacher for Ipsalu Tantra in Atlanta. 

The Origin of Sex and Ejaculation

Primal man wants to survive. In his innate nature, he has a built in desire to procreate. He does this by wanting to inseminate as many young fertile women as possible in his lifetime. We cannot fault men for something that is a natural state within them.

Primal women have an internal desire to find the strongest male with the most resources to impregnate her. You cannot fault a woman for having the need to find a man who will be strong and able to take care of her and her children. It is programmed into her DNA and therefore innate.

Rising Above

Retention of semen rises above the primal urges and imprint. There are distortions of the primal urges, where men continue to sow their seeds long after they have procreated a-plenty. There are also women who continue to look for the most handsome and well financed man to support her long after her children are out of nursery school.

When Ejaculation Begins

Semen retention is not about stopping the process once it begins. That is not healthy and can cause pain in the testes and abdomen. There are several methods that people use for this like pinching the top of the penis, OW! Or pressing on pressure points in the perineum. What's a perineum, you ask? I will get to that. Neither of these are what we are discussing here. You can breathe a sigh of relief!

A Man Post Orgasm

Man post ejaculation

After 2 - 7 minutes and an ejaculatory orgasm it is over. After an ejaculatory orgasm that occurs too soon, men feel depleted, sadness and even a little depressed. Their energy wanes. They usually fall asleep immediately after sex. Men may even feel exhausted for several days afterward till their life force is regained. For this reason alone, athletes refrain from sex before try-outs, competitions and races.

Question

Why would you want to retain your sexual energy by non ejaculatory sex?

Answer: To transmute it.

Think about rising above the primal man's urges. This will match with the female rising above her primal nature. Primal man doesn't want to prolong lovemaking - he wants to ejaculate.

What Tantra Will Do For Your Relationship

• allow more time for stimulation of the woman
• give you both higher heights of ecstasy and pleasure
• longer lasting sex allows both partners to reach multiple orgasms
• allow the man to keep his vitality and energy
• no depression or sadness after orgasm
• better concentration
• more power
• deeper intimacy and closeness

The 3rd Chakra - Power

Tantra moves and transmutes sexual energy upward into the higher chakras. Rather than allowing the energy to remain in the genitals it is transferred upwards first into your 3rd chakra, the solar plexus or power center. 

Once you have moved the sexual energy up into the third chakra your sexual energy amps up your power center. You are retraining the energy. Rather than allowing your sexual energy to stay in the genitals through the use of breath (instructions below) you move and transmute the energy upwards. After sex with non-ejaculatory orgasms OR orgasms after 1 hour or more: you will feel empowered instead of depleted. One day later you feel empowered and vital. Two days after sex you will still feel strong and empowered. There is no recovery time.

When you retain semen you feel empowered. Giving your woman an orgasm will also make you feel empowered. 

Heart

Retain your sexual energy (semen) a little longer and you bring the energy up into the heart chakra (the center of your chest). The energy can be circulated through all the chakras to achieve balance. 

The man receives through the heart as she pours that energy back

into him, through her heart and breasts. As she pours her energy into him, the relationship is deepened. A stronger connection is achieved.

The longer you retain your semen, the higher you can circulate your sexual energy. Moving the energy up into your throat chakra you lose all concepts of self. This is where the two of you blend into one. A blissful union of ONE. The feeling of bliss at this point is incredible and may last minutes, rather than the seconds of a "normal ejaculatory orgasm."

The ultimate is achieved when the energy is moved above the heart chakra. This is where you disappear into blissful oblivion.

IMPORTANT RULE

Maintain an erection and sexual energy for at least an hour; your sexual energy is maintained, even if you do ejaculate.

The penis (lingam) may become softer and then become hard again, from moving your sexual energy upward, but the woman can contract her internal muscles to build and transmute the sexual energy and heat within the vagina (yoni). 

Soft Penis - 

The penis (lingam) may become soft, and then regain it's vigor again. This it temporary and still pleasant and enjoyable for both. The energy becomes a full body experience, rather than just a genital one. The woman can contract her PC muscles and her vaginal muscles which can heighten pleasure for both parties. The advantages of extending pleasure beyond 2 - 7 minutes are exponential. Both may experience multiple orgasms through extended pleasure and transmutation of the sexual energy.

Transmutation Breath

Contracting and relaxing the anal muscles generates heat. Breathe in and touch your tongue to the roof of your mouth to complete the

circuit. Contract and then relax the perineum for men. Men sometimes tease their mates by making their penis move by contracting muscles. These are the very muscles that you want to contract and relax, as well during this transmutation breath.

In women, it is the back wall of the vagina (yoni) contracting and relaxing the vaginal wall muscles. Contract and relax the clitoris. This one really requires some introspection to accomplish.

OBO - Orgasm With Bliss and Oblivion

Once you have mastered the breath and transmuted the energy, doing your contractions simultaneously, you will be able to move your sexual energy upwards into your throat chakra. the energy will just take over. What this means is that your orgasmic state can last as long as it wants to, rising and peaking then reaching a plateau, subsiding into a high plateau, rising again. The prostate will contract automatically, giving you multiple orgasms, similar in intensity to a woman's multiple orgasms. This state can be maintained for hours. What a trip! 

Benefits of Tantric Bliss

• a deeper connection
• higher plateau
• you are no longer moving the energy
• beautiful state of ecstatic bliss
• a man will experience what a woman does when she has multiple orgasms
• great for prostate health
• increased energy and vitality
• increased mental focus
• tremendous feeling of empowerment

This energetic state will take you to places you have never been before. This is a great time to have the kids visiting their grandparents and your cell phones off. You will not want to be interrupted for anything!


Cobra Breath

This breath work has been secret for a very long time, in fact my friend could not share it with me. The Ipasalu Tantra Institute teaches the Cobra breath when the student is ready. The purpose of Tantra is enlightenment. Great sex of course is a result of Tantra. The breath that is taught awakens the kundalini when the student is ready.

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is an enlightened and self actualized being. What does this mean for you? She doesn't take anything personally. She lives in her heart, rather than her ego. She is in constant contact with her High Self and The Divine. 

Jennifer is a natural catalyst for your growth and healing. Being in her energy whether it is in person, on or phone, you will shift without doing anything. She intuitively gets mantras for you to heal

the issue you are encountering in the moment. Keep repeating the same relationship with different people? Jennifer is amazing at helping people find real love, rather than the addictive self destructive kind. 

If you are depressed, lonely, angry, anxious, feeling stuck, disempowered, feeling small and want to meet and step into your Divine self, Jennifer is the one to guide you there. As a Spiritual Pathfinder, she will help you find your way. 

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The average woman needs more than the two minutes of sex she is currently receiving to have an orgasm. Even if you manage to go the distance of SEVEN minutes, you are on average 33 minutes shy of arousing most women enough to even get close to having an orgasm. 

Most women need 20 - 40 minutes of stimulation to get close to an orgasm. The sad thing is that 70% of women rarely or NEVER have orgasms with intercourse. Why? Because it is over before they have gotten enough stimulation to get there.

For those men out there that feel they are doing their job right and this paragraph does not apply to you, think again. A recent study found that 85% of men think that they did a good deed and got her there, when less than 64% did. 75% of men climax every time. Maybe Tantra is the answer to get more women to the pleasure zone that men are enjoying all by themselves?

You have to read my book. As it details the issues facing men and women today. Women want more intimacy. Men want more sex. Men become more intimate after sex and need sex for intimacy to occur. We have a stand-off. No one wants to budge. This is causing a huge rift. Love involves giving and receiving. Men feel loved when their women love and accept them through sex. Women need to feel loved to have sex. We are wired differently. 

In over 16% of long-term marriages today sex is a serious issue. To the point that men are not getting sex at all. This is sad. Read my book to help overcome obstacles standing in your way of healing your relationship and call Jennifer for a session. 

Hanna Katz-Jelfs has a wonderful video which talks about Tantra and pure bliss which goes far beyond what the regular sex act can achieve. Her description is beautiful.

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Awakening The G-Spot

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Orgasm For Life was written as a guide to teach, inspire and awaken your passion and bridge the chasm between men and women. Learning how to navigate our differences and draw closer together through communication, understanding, acceptance, respect and unconditional love is the way. Orgasm For Life is THE SEX BIBLE. Devi Ward, sex educator and Tantra teacher, from Better Love, Better Sex radio show, agrees.

If you have never seen this face on your partner, it is probably because she is not having orgasms. 

According to research, to this day, the male dominated Scientific community is still arguing that the highly sensitive area, donned the "G-Spot" does not exist. Ask a woman who has found her own G-Spot (like me) and we will tell you otherwise.

The Grafenberg Spot, was found by  German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg who studied this erogenous zone in his work with the urethra. Other doctors doubted the validity of it's existence because most women did not have this type of orgasmic experience with ejaculation. His research found that the excretion of fluid from this area had many health benefits. Dr. Paul Tinari has done research and validates his findings regarding alleviating cancer and other diseases.

Usually, penetrative sex between a male and female lasts between 2 and 10 minutes. This is barely enough time for a woman to become aroused, never mind get her G-Spot stimulated. If your sexual encounters are lasting 10 minutes or less, change it up, use other methods to stimulate your partner. A woman needs at least 20 minutes to awaken the G-Spot, which is why this erogenous zone is so elusive.

Since most sexual encounters are over in less than 10 minutes, you see the problem?

Penile penetration inside the vagina is not enough for most women to have an orgasm. Most women need clitoral stimulation, through fingers or a good tongue lashing to be able to achieve an orgasm. Oral sex is certainly the best way as well as the fastest way to get your woman to orgasm.

Why Would You Want To Achieve A G-Spot Orgasm?

As a woman, there is no greater pleasure than to receive a G-Spot orgasm. The intense waves of pleasure that surge through a woman's body with a longer period of manual stimulation make it one she will never forget. When this occurs, many men shame their women saying that she peed. An orgasm with ejaculate for a woman is the most intense type of orgasm she can have. Be sure to enjoy the moment rather than cause her shame. You have done a GREAT JOB here, both of you should celebrate!

So Where Can I Find It?

The G-Spot does indeed exist. It is located on the upper wall (anterior) of the vagina. It is located approximately an inch and a half to three inches inside, towards the navel from the vaginal opening. It becomes engorged, becoming raised and enlarged with stimulation as it contains erectile tissue, like that of the clitoris and penis. It feels spongy to the touch. It is said to be the root of the clitoris, hence the intensity of the pleasure. The clitoris has twice the number of nerve endings than a man's penis, which means that the root (or G-spot does also). The G-Spot is incredibly sensitive and will respond to direct stimulation. The G-Spot is said to be the female version of the prostate gland.

Ways To Create A G-Spot Orgasm

1. Bring your female partner to orgasm through oral sex. Once she has experienced an orgasm and recovered you can begin.
2. Digitally stimulate the G-spot. Use a come hither motion with an upturned finger.
3. After 20 minutes of stimulation, the G-Spot will be in evidence. (This is why the Scientific community has failed to find it - they don't stimulate long enough). 
4. What works wonders is five minutes of amazing oral sex, followed by thrusting, pulling out and then 5 or 10 minutes of more oral sex, a few more thrusts and more oral sex. The arousal she will feel with these alternatives can bring her to a G-Spot orgasm.
5. Using a G-Spot wand, or G-Spot vibrator can save your energy for more sex play. Because you have to torque your hand upward, this can be fatiguing.

For Those Who are Smoking Their Post-Coital Cigarette 

If you have never lasted 20 minutes find a way to do so. Pleasure your woman first. It will be so worth it for both of you. Watch my video, read my book, check out the chapter on Sexual Healing. Most women who have been molested, raped or sexually assaulted have the trauma stored in the G-Spot. This requires care, sensitivity and time to heal it. I go into great detail as to why women can't experience orgasm until this area is healed. 

The Scientific Community Findings

Knowing what we know as women, that we can have an ejaculatory orgasm and have felt our G-Spot, we don't need to have a urologist to confirm or deny that it exists. God isn't seen and many believe in God's existence. For those interested in hearing what this urology student and his team of researchers found I have provided his theory for you. Dr. Michal Kilchevsky did his research in a sterile laboratory, under the scrutinty of his watchful medical team. They found no such spot in the female anatomy that resembled what we call the G-Spot. Kilchevsky's study was published in the January 12, Journal of Sexual Medicine.  

Dr. Barry Komisaurek who also studied female orgasm says the G-Spot should be called the G-Zone, rather than just a spot. The entire area of the anterior wall (towards the belly) is full of delicious and sensitive nerve endings and tissue. He feels that there is no sense in looking for THE ULTIMATE in orgasm, but rather just enjoy it all.

Better Love Better Sex Show Interview with Jennifer and Devi Ward

Here are clear directions on what to do for a G-Spot orgasm to occur. 

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is the author of the Ultimate Sex Bible: Orgasm For Life.  It is available here through Amazon.comOrgasm For Life on Amazon.com Jennifer is open, warm, direct and cuts through the bull that can stand in your way of having a loving, connected relationship. She sees through to the root cause of the issues quickly. As an Intuitive and catalystic coach, committing to work with Jennifer will help you get unstuck, empower you and help your sexual dysfunction. If you want instruction, guidance or teaching, she is available for private functions, speaking engagements and workshops. Her website is: JenniferElizabethMasters.com You can reach Jennifer for questions or to book your confidential appointment at: JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com

Orgasm For Life: Preventing Cancer Through Orgasm

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

For the last six months, I have spent my Wednesday mornings on WRN radio with Eric Jones, broadcasting across the western United states, Jamaica and Manchester England. Each Wednesday morning we talked to hundreds of people across the world about sex. The burning question in the minds of men AND women is, can women have a G-spot orgasm? Not only is it possible for all women to have an ejaculatory orgasm, but for their own health and prevention of disease - they should! 

Experiencing this type of orgasm for our health, prevents cancer and other insidious diseases. A recent episode of Devi Ward, Better Love, Better Sex included an interview with Dr. Paul Tinari. Dr. Tinari lost his life partner through cancer. His loss, led him to research ways that the human body releases toxins. The ejaculatory orgasm is one of the ways for women to do so. Here is the link to this amazing interview:  Devi Ward, Better Love Better Sex

Devi Ward is a respected Tantra teacher and sex educator. I will be on her show on September 5th talking about ORGASM FOR LIFE. Women need to be having regular orgasms as often as men. They are certainly capable of having two, three or more to every man's one. If you are a woman and are not orgasmic, you need to read ORGASM FOR LIFE. This book will help you understand how to get there and teach your partner how to get you there as well.

Dr. Tinari's premise is that the lymphatic system drains through the skene's glands where women ejaculate from. Listen to this interview for more information. The link is above. 

Jennifer's book is inspired, passionately written and laugh out loud funny! If you would like a guide that will turn you on, teach you, inspire you and ignite the fires of passion in and out of your bedroom, then this is the book for you. Written from Jennifer's personal experience and with the addition of hundreds of interviews from men and women, gay and straight, Orgasm For Life will teach you, open your eyes and hearts as well as help you relate better to your partner. With deeper understanding it is Jennifer's hope that there will be fewer divorces, more sex and deeper intimacy for ALL!

If you have questions, need assistance or just want to talk to Jennifer. Feel free to e-mail her here. She will be glad to connect with you to answer your questions or set up a 20 minute session to discuss your issue. 

YES! The G-Spot Does Exist!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Nothing leaves you feeling more broken, dysfunctional and left out than having sex for hours without an orgasm. Yet for millions of women all over the world, orgasm continues to allude them. We have been damaged, raped, assaulted and molested. All of these transgressions have left their toll. From frigidity to not wanting to have sex at all, sexual dysfunction can leave you feeling something is really wrong with you.

I have been there myself. For years I had sex without orgasms with partners who got frustrated and left, saying, “Its just not fun for me.” 

A New Study?

I find it quite humorous that after 60 years of study, a male urologist has researched the G-spot himself,  and determined that it does not exist. "Without a doubt, a discreet anatomic entity called the G-spot does not exist," said Dr. Amichai Kilchevsky, a urology resident at Yale-New Haven Hospital in Connecticut, and lead author of the review, published Jan. 12 in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. I would like to show him mine! How would he like it if a female urology resident told him that the prostate gland did not exist? 

The G-spot (originally named for Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg), who described a 1-2 centimeter area on the vaginal wall in1950 set the wheels in motion for Western medicine to prove its validity. The Kamasastra and Jayamangala scripts dating back to 11th century India describe a similar sensitive area, according to the new study. Yet Dr. Kilchevsky could not locate it. 

Could it be that the lab was not a place where a woman could get turned on enough for the G-spot to be in evidence? Or was it simply a matter of cutting out parts of the woman’s vagina that made the G-spot shrink like a shrinking Violet? To think he had to dissect a vagina to disprove its existence is barbaric and pathetic. I am appalled that this man continues to practice medicine.

If he had asked women who knew where their’s was and had experienced an ejaculation, like me, perhaps his study would have come to a very different conclusion. Some day I will meet this man who arrogantly turned back the hands of time to the dark ages for women with the stroke of his ignorant pen. Perhaps I will have the presence of mind, not to knee him in the groin, but I am not certain. Yes, this makes me angry!This is a case of a man not taking his head out of his ass long enough to or do the necessary background research to find out how long it takes for a woman to get turned on enough and under what conditions a woman will experience a G-spot orgasm. The answers my dear Watson are crystal clear.

Very and at least 20. A simple masturbation will barely begin to enlarge the area of the G-spot. This area will swell usually by the time the man is coming or already come. As the head of the penis swells at the point of orgasm within the vagina, the G-spot is beginning to respond. Usually a woman has to feel completely comfortable with their partner, have a deep and profound connection to experience a G-spot orgasm. 

Once you have stimulated yourself to orgasm, that is the time to look for the G-spot. I would hazard to guess that the women in Dr. K’s study were shy, cold because they were under bright lights in a lab and barely turned on. 

Understandably Dr. K would not have found the Shrinking Violet G-Spot. It needs lots of stimulation directly. If they could not even locate it, how could they directly stimulate it? Did he only pick women who had no clue where their’s was? Did he pick women who were non-orgasmic? If I had been his professor I would not have allowed this man to graduate.  To think that he is practicing medicine! Does this give you faith in the medical profession? Or in the ability to train doctors about our lady parts?

Yes, every woman has a G-Spot. Feel along the upper wall of the vagina, approximately an inch and a half to two inches north (towards the navel). It takes a contortionist to reach this area. Most women are unfamiliar with it, partly because of the location is difficult to reach. Men rarely stimulate this area digitally. The G-Spot must be the focus rather than just thrusting a finger anywhere inside the vagina. Just as men have incredibly sensitive nerve endings at the tip of the penis, women have the G-Spot. It is thought to be the root of the clitoris, which explains its sensitivity.

When a woman begins to get really aroused this area will swell and feel ridged and spongy to the touch. The G-Spot is the size of a quarter, larger when aroused. Usually, the G-Spot swells when you are just getting ready to have an orgasm inside her. As the swelling penis begins to stimulate this area the G-Spot will swell naturally. That is usually when their partner is reaching an orgasm.

G-Spot Sensitivity

The first time the G-Spot is stimulated could be painful. It might make you feel you have to pee. Get up use the restroom and begin again. The urge to pee will eventually go away. If your partner has ever been molested, shamed for touching herself as a child, or traumatized sexually at all, this area will need some gentle and loving healing.

Why Most Women Never Have A G-Spot Orgasm

It takes patience and direct stimulation for it to swell. Women that don’t experience vaginal orgasms have very thin tissue in the G-spot, because theirs’ has not been directly stimulated - or they have a block from trauma in this area.

Pain from trauma stays frozen in the G-Spot and has shut down this area. One in three women have been sexually molested. Often they don't even remember, as they were so young when it happened. Even shame from sexual touching in childhood can be enough to freeze pain in the G-Spot. If it hurts, most women don't want to continue with touch in this area. They will shun stimulation avoiding the pain. Moving THROUGH the pain is what is needed. Until you heal the pain and trauma, there will be no G-Spot orgasm. The other side of pain is where the ultimate pleasure is.

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is an author or Orgasm For Life, a woman's empowerment coach energy healer and sex educator. For private coaching sessions: she can be reached at JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com