Orgasm For Life: Viagra

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

The following is an excerpt from my book, Orgasm For Life. This book was written to help men and women understand each other better, create sacred sex and more connected relationships. 

Viagra

Millions of men have talked to their doctor about Viagra. Viagra is a pharmaceutical pill which uses five letters from the word vagina, which I find interesting. This little blue pill was created so that men with difficulties in the cranking department would be able to get hard enough to participate and enjoy penetrative sex. 

 Men have used the little blue pill to improve their sexual experiences where an erection is challenging or impossible. Of course, there are side effects, the worst of which is death. To think that a man would risk his life to experience coitus is telling. Sex is an important part of life. Completing the sex act is imperative, especially for men. Men have been having orgasms for thousands of years without major issues. Why is it so different today?

Women have suffered from frigidity for thousands of years, with the inability to complete the sex act. If sexual dysfunction was as prevalent in men as it is in women today as well as historically, a little pink pill would have already been created. This little pink pill would change the way millions of women experience sex. This pill would use the word penis to derive its name. This magical pill would be called, Piñata! 

As you can see, Piñata uses only two letters from the word penis, because women can have almost as much fun without a penis. Like a piñata, once you crack open a woman with an orgasm, she is full of fun, surprises and lots of sugar. The mystery is solved! When women have orgasms through love-making, they return

for more. This is an amazing concept! Instead of women existing in non-orgasmic relationships for twenty, thirty or forty years, we could be enjoying orgasms! It is up to women to know what they like and to have partners that will lovingly and patiently get them there before they do.

Given the popularity of Sex In The City and 50 Shades of Gray, the time is ripe for a fun, educational book about sex. Remember the Joy of Sex? Written in 1972, it sold over 10 million copies. People want more information while morals and society have changed.

I am an empowerment and sex coach for women. What I have found is, most people are ignoring the issue because they don’t want to hurt their partner’s feelings. Sex is a delicate subject. I have a knack for being irreverent and unorthodox, which makes me an excellent candidate for a book about a delicate subject. I take the “ahem,” out of sex by demystifying it. I don’t sugarcoat it, and I am fearlessly open. Sex, to me, is perfectly natural with nothing to be ashamed of. I also feel that sex has a deeply spiritual component to it. After all, who created sex anyway?

Thankfully, there are strong women on this planet that are heralding a new society, where men and women can become each other’s sex slaves, and women are touted for standing with one foot poised on their partner’s chests wearing stilettos and doing fist bumps with their “sistas.” Oh, wait.  That was just a dream I had recently. What was I thinking? 

Seriously, to really have the kind of sex you fantasize about, you need to revere your woman and your man. Love, respect and admire who they are. Men, you need to pleasure her until she can’t speak. Men, do you want the ultimate orgasm and sexual

experience? Then give it up first. Give the best orgasm to your woman first. See how this changes the complexion of your relationship. 

Women are capable of having multiple orgasms. It just takes most women longer than men expect to have ours. Thinking that we are the same as men is what created the chasm that is currently between men and women today. Most women don’t experience an orgasm through vaginal penetration. Yet the majority of the men in the world continue to make love to women in this way. 

In India, for example, men take care of their own needs without asking if a woman has had an orgasm. It is not discussed. There is not an alternate method to bring a woman to orgasm because sex is for the man’s pleasure, not the woman’s. To the vast majority of the world, sex is a private, personal matter that is not up for discussion between husband and wife. Whether a woman experiences pleasure or not, rarely enters a marriage discussion. 

Living in the United States, where we are purported to be advanced technologically, medically and scientifically, most men do not know what it takes, or how to bring a woman to orgasm. 
As a healthy, heterosexual female, I have had lots of sex. I have been married and divorced 4 times. During those marriages, sex was an important component in my relationships. It was enjoyable. Sometimes it was very good. However, over time it became flat and cursory. I noticed how truncated, boring and dull sexual experiences became after years of marriage. We often rush through our encounters because one person is less interested than the other, or when babies arrive on the scene. I hear stories of women telling their husbands, just do it and get it over with! Many women do not participate during sex. They lie still, like dead fish, expecting their men to just pleasure themselves. Who wants sex like that? It isn’t good for anyone. 

I have experienced a wide variety of sexual experiences while married and single. A few were more memorable than others. My first multiple orgasm was with a man who was of average size and stature. I mention his size, because many men are under the impression that being well-endowed is the best way to pleasure a woman. That is simply not true. An average sized penis can be more appreciated than a super-sized one. Case in point: my multiple orgasms with an average sized man. I experienced wave after wave of pleasure that went on endlessly. I did not have any of those types of experiences while married. 

The best sex I ever had was when I was not married. There is something to be said for the excitement of illicit sex. Sex without a contract for it. Once we sign our lives away on the dotted line, it seems we are being sentenced to death: the death of great sex, play, and fun. We have to fight the urge to repeat the same position in the same room, at the same time of day. Sex in marriage can be fun and exciting; we just have to be more innovative. 

I am committed to help women heal their lives and love themselves fearlessly. Fearless living and loving is our birthright. I help women heal their sexuality as it is a part of who we are. If you don't love yourself enough to have sex with your partner, there are self-esteem issues involved. Loving relationships involve sex, compassion, acceptance, loving touch, appreciation, respect and trust. 

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Addyi: Female Viagra Fact or Fiction

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Medication to cure erectile dysfunction has been on the market for men since 1998. After several trials of the drug Flibanserin, (Addyi) a little pink pill has finally been approved by the FDA for women. Scheduled to be on the Market, October 17th, 2015, the real question is, does Addyi cure low libido or just fill the pockets of big pharma? 

After two unsuccessful trials and efforts to bring Flibanserin to market in 2010 and 2013, Sprout Pharmaceuticals has purchased the rights to market Addyi.

Cardiologists are already warning women about the five signs of heart attack. If the most activity you have is climbing onto the top of an erect penis, you had better heed the warnings. Leading a sedentary lifestyle and having a vigorous sex life could be detrimental to your health. You might die with a smile on your face or a slight grin. 

The (Sort Of) Good News

The trials of Flibanserin found that women had a slight increase in thoughts about sex and a warming sensation in the genitals. The drug increases blood flow to the genitals. There was a "significant movement" toward orgasm (whatever that means). Women found an increase of 0.7 more sexual exploits in a month period. 

The Bad News

Side-effects include nausea, dizziness, fainting and low blood pressure. You cannot drink alcohol while taking Addyi. Alcohol severely increases the risks of nausea, dizziness, fainting and low blood pressure. You may not want to drive while taking this drug. It must be taken twice a day to achieve the possible 0.7 % improvement. If no results have been achieved in eight weeks, it is recommended that you stop taking the drug.

My Personal Preference

I am a health nut. I avoid doctors like the plague. I also avoid taking any kind of medication 106,000  (2013 statistic) people a year die accident taking prescription drugs, in the United States. To further illustrate this point, when you look at the daily deaths the number is nearly 300 a day. My aunt who was a medical doctor expressed this sentiment, "Only go to the doctor if you need to. Take only those prescriptions that are absolutely necessary for life."

Some of this is due to over prescribing, where drugs interact with one another. Other deaths are from sensitivity. My mother and father taught us early, don't take drugs or medicine. Unless I have a broken bone, I don't go to doctors. Doctors want to give you a pill if you get teary eyed about your old dog maybe dying. I don't like to take prescription medication. I don't even take over the counter meds, like ibuprofen, Advil or cold remedies. I prefer to make food my medicine and am healthy as a result. 

My Libido Booster

I love the Irwin Naturals Steel Libido. I used it recently over a five- day-period and found it incredible for boosting my excitability, drive and sensitivity. It even increases lubrication if taken daily. I found no negative side effects at all because it is plant based. 

The only drawback was the cost. The recommended dose is four capsules daily. You can skip taking it if you and your partner are away from each other for an extended period. It took my body about three days to catch up to the "highly excitable" stage.

I found this product on-line for as little as $22.00. Vitamin Shoppe and GNC both carry it in their stores. I prefer something that is proven to work with no side-effects versus something big pharma is touting that might come with a serious risk of heart attack or fainting. Fainting itself doesn't feel good, but hitting a toilet, sink or tile floor when you fall could cause serious damage to your head to the point of concussion or death. 

What's In Irwin Naturals Steel Libido? See label above. Nothing harmful or toxic.

Foria is another interesting option if you live in a marijuana-friendly state. I wrote a blog post about this amazing sexual stimulant that can give a woman a 7 minute (or longer) orgasm. You just might want to try this one! Colorado, here we come!

Horny Goatweed

Horny Goatweed was found when shepherds saw what it instilled in their goat herds. The farmers tried it too and found it worked for both men and women. I have used Horny Goatweed as well and was delighted with the results. Again, I recommend using something plant based before a pharmacy prescription that might cause your heart to fail, dizziness or you to faint. Nothing makes me crazier than to be in the middle of an orgasm and faint dead away! It takes me out of the moment. 

User ratings can be found here: Ratings For Horny Goatweed

Articles about Horny Goatweed and use: By James Reedy, Vanderbilt University

Don't Take My Word For It

Do your due diligence. Research for yourself. Here are several articles about the controversial doctor behind bringing this drug to market.

Mother Jones: Controversial Doctor Behind Female Viagra

Long Overdue or Big Time Overkill? Chicago Tribune

Washington Post: Female Viagra

September 3rd, broadcast LIVE
Why You Don't Need Addyi. 3 at 7:00 PM PST, 10:00 PM EST

Orgasm For Life Review By Gynecologist:

I have read your book that is well done and should be a best seller. I have not seen a book like yours since the classic work that celebrate human physical intimacy with such authority and clarity that a whole generation in the 70's felt empowered to enjoy sex. It was groundbreaking and unique in a wide range of subjects it discussed and in its reassuring authority and sense of fun. No other book has come close except yours in providing such a wise, witty, uninhibited - sometimes delightfully eccentric - guide to lovemaking. Dr. Fred Parrot MD.

Erectile Dysfunction: Natural Cures

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Sexual dysfunction can occur with both sexes. Women fail to have orgasms, men can have issues with erection, or having orgasms too quickly (HTP - Hair Trigger Penis). For men, the latter is preferable, to not being able to either stay erect during the sex act or even get erect in the first place. 

More than 30 million men suffer from erectile dysfunction in the United States. 

This statistic is enough to have other parts of your body sit up and take notice. Something is wrong in our society for so many men to have issues with erectile dysfunction.

Being a woman, I have experienced my own sexual dysfunction. It can leave you feeling frustrated, empty and even angry. Knowing the cause, and how to work around the issue can help.

Erectile dysfunction is a common occurrence. It can be caused by both physical and psychological issues. By age 45 most men have experienced ED at least one time in their lives. Following are some of the causes of erectile dysfunction.

1. Cardiovascular disease
2. Diabetes
3. High Cholesterol
4. Advanced age - being more than 60 years of age
5. Kidney disease
6. Extreme fatigue
7. Alcohol - drinking two or more drinks daily
8. Being with the wrong person (you know you shouldn't be doing this and your mind is telling you so)
9. Obesity - penis shrinks due to weight gain
10. Taking Statins, Blood pressure medicine   (over prescribed meds - in healthy people, know your body!)
11. Surgery to remove prostate due to prostate cancer
12. Low testosterone is not a result of, but can lead to ED
13. Can be a sign of high blood pressure
14. Coitaphobia - fear of having sex
15. Performance anxiety - focusing too much on the mental issues

High Fructose Corn Syrup Will Kill You

One of the food additives that I absolutely do not consume is High Fructose Corn syrup. Look at your labels. It is in everything from soda to juices, breads to burger patties. Cooking your own food, rather than eating prepared foods will protect you from this menace.

The use of High Fructose Corn Syrup has increased from zero to 60 pounds per person per year! During this time, the incidence of diabetes, heart disease and erectile dysfunction has tripled. This statistic cannot be ignored. Look around at the majority of people you see at the mall or walking around Walmart. They all have belly fat. This is from drinking soda and eating fast food. We have been systematically poisoned by our food, strategically so that we will develop diabetes, heart disease and cancer. Yes, cancer is caused by acidity in the body. Sugar causes acidity, as does white bread and too much meat.

Touted by the corn growers of America as being safe, it leads to high cholesterol blocking arteries and causing heart disease. High Fructose is a deadly ingredient causing untold damage in the body. It turns into a soft fat within the abdomen that is nearly impossible to rid the body of. Instead avoid it. If you consume products with High Fructose - STOP IMMEDIATELY.

Sugar Causes Heart Disease

Remember when the AMA said that fat caused heart disease? Well they were wrong. Sugar is the leading cause of heart disease and it is in everything from "healthy drinks" to our daily bread. I met two women from the UK at Walmart in the bread aisle. They were searching the shelves for bread that did not contain sugar. They could not find a single loaf. In England, bread does not contain sugar. They were dumbfounded.

The AMA (American Medical Association) used to tell us that coconut oil, avocados and other fats were bad for us. The opposite is true. We need fats for our brain to function. Our brain is composed of 60 percent fat. It is the fattest organ in the human body. Click here for more information about the brain.

Foods to avoid:

1. #1 Worst Food: SODA!
2. Energy drinks: Monster, Red Bull, 
3. Iced tea 
4. Milk Shakes
5. Lime Aid, Fruit Juices with High Fructose
6. Fast Food of any kind - mostly artifical ingredients
7. Movie popcorn and soda Click here for more info

Longer Sex Act, Sustain Erections Longer

Most men have orgasms too frequently without sustaining their sexual energy long enough. Too frequent ejaculations when you are young, can shorten lifespan and cause your body to age prematurely. The Chinese and Indians believe that sexual energy needs to be harnessed, drawn up into the body and circulated around, rather than just focusing on the genitals. Keeping your sexual energy up for an hour or more before ejaculating can assist by holding and circulating your sexual energy through your body, into your heart center and connecting your emotions and feeling self with the sex act. This makes sex more meaningful, fulfilling for both you and your partner.

How Do You Do This?

Instead of rushing to ejaculate, enjoy the act of arousal. Pleasure your partner, take your time. Allow the energy to move throughout your whole body. Close your eyes, and have your partner place one hand on your genitals and the other on your heart. Envision drawing up this energy into your heart and center of your chest. You will begin to feel the fullness move from your genitals upwards and into your heart. 

Healthy Cures For Erectile Dysfunction

1. Clean up your diet eat more veggies, eliminate sugar, high fructose and reduce alcohol.
2. Lose weight.
3. Exercise regularly - daily walking will reduce weight gently. Walk for 30 minutes at a good pace, and BREATHE.
4. Reduce Stress
5. Swap oil to coconut oil rather than butter or margarine
6. Get enough sleep
7. Strengthen PC muscles to strengthen erection and stamina
8. Eat a plate of sauteed asparagus and drink 1/2 can of coke (once a month to and clean out urethra from build up of years of sugar and other junk foods). When the urethra is cleaned out your stream of urine is stronger and therefore your orgasms will be stronger as well. (Yes this is contradictory to what I said earlier - but only used once a month to clean out the pipes.)

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Orgasm For Life - Viagara

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Orgasm For Life will be available for sale on Wednesday, May 28th. This book is a bold look at men and women with respect, candor and humor. This book was written to assist people to have better sex, better love and healthier more loving relationships. Orgasm For Life,  is laugh out loud funny as well as educational. It is filled with insight, wisdom and compassion for both sexes. The following is an excerpt from Orgasm For Life,  on the subject of Viagra. One of the statistics that needs to be added to this section is that 80% of women fake orgasms. There is a reason they fake it. They are not reaching the culmination of the sex act by the time that their male partners do. They feel it has taken them too long. (More on that subject tomorrow.)

Many women I know stop having sex in their fifties. They have stopped having sex because it was not fulfilling. They didn’t have orgasms and their husbands and lovers didn’t seem to know. Many felt that their partner’s did not care. This is just sad. Many women are disheartened, like I was, about the sex they have had. Just because we have sexual body parts does not mean we know how to make love to another. Or even with ourselves. Many of us need help. Sex can improve as you get older, with some guidance and understanding. Men need education, understanding, and patience with us women. Women, too, need to have better understanding of the male psyche and how it feels to be rejected when we are not in the mood. With new knowledge and understanding more women will be satisfied and happier. 

Viagra

Millions of men have talked to their doctor about Viagra. Viagra is a pharmaceutical pill which uses five letters from the word vagina, which I find interesting. This little blue pill was created so that men with difficulties in the cranking department would be able to get hard enough to participate and enjoy penetrative sex. 
 Men have used the little blue pill to improve their sexual experiences where an erection is challenging or impossible. Of course, there are side effects, the worst of which is death. To think that a man would risk his life to experience coitus is telling. Sex is an important part of life. Completing the sex act is imperative, especially for men. Men have been having orgasms for thousands of years without major issues. Why is it so different today?

Women have suffered from frigidity for thousands of years, with the inability to complete the sex act. If sexual dysfunction was as prevalent in men as it is in women today as well as historically, a little pink pill would have already been created. This little pink pill would change the way millions of women experience sex. This pill would use the word penis to derive its name. This magical pill would be called, Piñata! As you can see, Piñata uses only two letters from the word penis, because women can have almost as much fun without a penis. Like a piñata, once you crack open a woman with an orgasm, she is full of fun, surprises, and lots of sugar. The mystery is solved! When women have orgasms through love-making, they return for more. This is an amazing concept! Instead of women existing in non-orgasmic relationships for twenty, thirty, or forty years, we could be enjoying orgasms! It is up to women to know what they like, and to have partners that will lovingly and patiently get them there before they do.

Given the popularity of Sex in the City and 50 Shades of Gray, the time is ripe for a fun, educational book about sex. Remember The Joy of Sex? Written in 1972, it sold over 10 million copies. People want more information, while morals and society have changed.I am an empowerment and sex coach for women. What I have found is, most people are ignoring the issue because they don’t want to hurt their partner’s feelings. Sex is a delicate subject. I have a knack for being irreverent and unorthodox, which makes me an excellent candidate for a book about a delicate subject. I take the “ahem,” out of sex by demystifying it. I don’t sugarcoat it, and I am fearlessly open. Sex, to me, is perfectly natural with nothing to be ashamed of. I also feel that sex has a deeply spiritual component to it. After all, who created sex anyway?

Thankfully, there are strong women on this planet that are heralding a new society, where men and women can become each other’s sex slaves, and women are touted for standing with one foot poised on their partner’s chests wearing stilettos and doing fist bumps with their “sistas.” Oh, wait. That was just a dream I had recently. What was I thinking?

Seriously, to really have the kind of sex you fantasize about, you need to revere your woman and your man. Love, respect and admire who they are. Men, you need to pleasure her until she can’t speak. Men, do you want the ultimate orgasm and sexual experience? Then give it up first. Give the best orgasm to your woman first. See how this changes the complexion of your relationship. 

Women are capable of having multiple orgasms. It just takes most women longer than men expect to have ours. Thinking that we are the same as men is what created the chasm that is currently between men and women today. Most women don’t experience an orgasm through vaginal penetration. Yet the majority of the men in the world continue to make love to women in this way. In India, for example, men take care of their own needs without asking if a woman has had an orgasm. It is not discussed. There is not an alternate method to bring a woman to orgasm because sex is for the man’s pleasure, not the woman’s. To the vast majority of the world, sex is a private, personal matter that is not up for discussion between husband and wife. Whether a woman experiences pleasure or not, rarely enters a marriage discussion. Living in the United States, where we are purported to be advanced technologically, medically and scientifically, most men do not know what it takes, or how to bring a woman to orgasm. 

As a healthy, heterosexual female, I have had lots of sex. I have been married and divorced 4 times. During those marriages, sex was an important component in my relationships. It was enjoyable. Sometimes it was very good. However, over time it became flat and cursory. I noticed how truncated, boring, and dull sexual experiences became after years of marriage. We often rush through our encounters because one person is less interested than the other, or when babies arrive on the scene. I hear stories of women telling their husbands, just do it and get it over with! Many women do not participate during sex. They lie still, like dead fish, expecting their men to just pleasure themselves. Who wants sex like that? It isn’t good for anyone. 

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is the author of Orgasm For Life. This book was written to help people improve their sex lives, deepen intimacy and have happier, healthier relationships. Sex is the glue. Love is the foundation. 54% of Women are unhappy with their sex lives. 46% of men are unhappy with theirs. Marriages are failing at over 50% for first marriages and over 60% for subsequent marriages. This book was written to bridge the growing chasm between men and women, so that we understand each other. With understanding, compassion, appreciation and trust sex lives improve, communication improves and we get back to why we fell in love in the first place. Instead of being at war with our partners we need to revere them. As that kind lady married 60 years said, "We need to have as much respect for our spouse as we would for a complete stranger." Very wise words. This is not the case in most marriages today. Disrespect, complaining and irritation result from the smallest of things. We treat our spouse as if they are the enemy. This is not love. This is hatred. 

Orgasm For Life is available on Amazon, Kindle, Smashwords. I would love for you to purchase your copy on Wednesday, hump day - yes, my crazy sense of humor. Then write your review on Amazon. This will help others to make their decision to purchase the book. I appreciate your review and look forward to hearing from you about what you think of the book. I am open to hearing your suggestions for my next book, Heart's On Fire.

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Jennifer is an intuitive life, love and sex coach. She empowers women to love themselves fearlessly and heal sexual dysfunction. Her passion is helping women and men heal past trauma and sexual dysfunction. You can schedule a private session with her through her website, or e-mailing her here.