Suicidal Tendencies Cured With Just One Session!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

I am so grateful! I just arrived home from my travels across the US, Colorado, and Toronto. On the final leg of my journey, I received a text from a client who asked me to help her sister who wasn't eating and wanted to kill herself. She was so worried because nothing else had helped. Although she was on medication for anxiety and depression, it wasn't helping her.

I did one energy clearing for her the night I flew from Toronto to Denver. I was tired but knew this woman needed my help. I found many dark energies attached and a slew of programs from her father's suicide when she was a young teen. 

How Self-Hatred Begins

Unwanted In Utero

This woman had been the product of an unwanted pregnancy. Her father was black and her mother white and just sixteen. The girls family didn't want this baby and were embarrassed that she would be bi-racial. These programs of being rejected, emotionally abandoned and unloved plagued her until this clearing. She also felt responsible for her father's suicide, as he confided in her the two weeks prior to his suicide. 

She remembered being filled with self-loathing from the age of seven. (Seven is the age when children split from their soul/connection and stop remembering past lives and what it was like before they incarnated.)

Avoidance of Feelings

She didn't want to feel her pain. She did everything in her power to avoid feeling. Avoidance of her pain created deep depression.

To become a happy person, we have to walk through the pain to get to the other side.

There are many ways to avoid and suppress emotions some of them are sugary foods, carbohydrates, overeating, drugs, alcohol, prescriptions for anxiety, depression, and pain-killers.

I removed the abandonment programs, dark energies, addictive souls, self-loathing, insecurity, unworthiness, and hundreds of programs from her energy field. I cleared thirty trapped emotions which gave her immediately relief.

Today, I received a text that the woman I cleared is so much better that she is able to visit her little girl, something she had not been able to do in over a month. Instead of being completely dysfunctional and depressed she is able to make plans to travel and interact with loved ones. This in itself is amazing! 

How Long Does A Clearing Take To Be Experienced?

Most people feel immediately lighter, have more clarity and are more peaceful, focused and calm - even while I am working on them. Many people feel their anxiety immediately lift, and feel calm
 
within minutes of me beginning the clearing. Many people fall into a very deep sleep right after the clearing and sleep much deeper than is typical for them.

Deep programs and attached energies can take up to five days to lift. Some energies leave gradually, while others leave very quickly. Some people feel the changes on a subtle level. When you have long-standing emotional pain, you don't miss it when it is gone. You just feel better. This was the case with this woman. Many of her issues had been long-standing - since childhood, she is now forty-one. 

The woman I cleared is an attorney in Beverly Hills, California. I am grateful for her recovery and healing. Energy clearings can help more than suicide. They can relieve anxiety, depression, self-hatred, insecurity, trapped emotions, abandonment, rejection.....  money issues, energy blocks, blocks to love, success... 

Many people were the results of unwanted pregnancies. The energy of being unwanted, unloved or abandoned prevails until it is cleared from your energy field and unconscious mind. When a child is adopted they may continue to suffer from inadequacies and low self-esteem from a program created long ago prior to their birth.

Not only did I arrive home in record time, I was greeted with this amazing success story! What a week! Thank you! Thank You! Thank you!

8.18.2016

Jennifer has been an incredible force in my life since the day that I met her. She has done several clearings for me in the past, I knew she was the real deal and my intuition screamed to me, that she was the perfect person to help when my sister began to struggle with severe depression to the point of becoming suicidal.

A month had gone by and my sibling was like a shell of her former self. She was not eating, barely sleeping, and had not been able to work at all. I was able to convince her that an energy clearing would be beneficial for her. 

Jennifer had just returned home from travel right before I contacted her, but she dropped everything to help us within 10 minutes of my reaching out to her. Jennifer had a ton of insight into my sisters' personality and the origins of her struggle, yet half-way through my sister felt she couldn't continue with the clearing, and instead Jennifer continued with me on the phone. Because of this I was a bit skeptical as to whether it would work for her, but I kid you not. Four days later I contacted my sister and she was at Disney with her kid, about to "get some lunch" I couldn't even believe it worked that effectively and within such a short period of time. 

Since the clearing, my sister has returned to work and although things are not perfect she has returned to her normal, spunky, intelligent, funny, wise, self. 
I thank Jennifer tremendously. She has a true gift, a huge kind heart, and has been an enormous blessing to myself and my family. I would highly recommend her services to anyone and everyone. She's that good!
Sarah 

To book your session with Jennifer while you still can e-mail her at JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com

Jennifer is a healer and love coach that clears limiting beliefs, blocks and self-sabotage from the past so that you can have the life, love and happiness you desire. A healed healer herself, she helps others overcome anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, guilt, shame, insecurities that block you from having healthy relationships and happiness. 

Connect with Jennifer to schedule your free discovery

session to see if her work is a good fit for your happiness. 

Find Jennifer's books on Amazon.com

Jennifer is currently working on her third book: 

Happy Here, Happy Anywhere:

The Step-By-Step Guide to Overcoming Anxiety, Depression, and Unhappiness Without A Perscription!

Stop Attracting Bad Boys Who Cheat With These Tips

Women think that they know what they want. We look for and seek out the sexy, hard edged bad boy. When he treats us badly and sleeps with our best friend, or mother, we wonder what the hell happened? Yet, what do we expect? We picked someone who is a rebel, selfish, self centered and disloyal. 

Why are some women like the moth to the flame? We can't wait to self destruct? Afterwards, we cry to our friends about what an ass hole the guy was. When unconsciously we knew all along that this person would show us his true colors.

Sean Penn

Having been one of these women in the past, I longed for the sexy, hard-edged bad boy. The one all women would be attracted to. Women have a tendency to throw themselves at bad boys, at least I did. When we pick the really HOT GUY, usually there are many women vying for his attention and affection. The problem is that these bad boys are only reflecting back to us, the way we feel about ourselves - self-destructive, self-sabotaging and hateful.

Yes, when we look for the bad boys, we do it because we hurt ourselves with our thoughts. We are self-sabotaging. We attract someone to us that will hurt us the way we hurt ourselves. 

These bad boys are only a reflection of the inner workings of our mind. We feel unworthy for someone who will treat us like a Queen, so we attract a man who will show us our unworthiness. They will prove to us that a man can't be faithful to us. We feel undeserving, and they reflect that right back to us. These men don't apologize and are never at fault, they blame their women for their issues, whether they are alcohol related or sexual indiscretions.

Self-loathing is something we don't like to admit. When we expect perfection in ourselves, we are filled with an inner self-loathing. 

We don't accept ourselves as we are. If you are one of these women who always seems to lean towards the bad boys, this is showing you your own lack of self-worth. We constantly tell ourselves we are not good enough. We beat ourselves up, looking to be perfect but miss the mark entirely. 

Fast Life, fast cars, James Dean consummate bad boy

The truth is we are already perfect as we are. We are perfect in our imperfection. We have nothing to change, nothing to heal. All we have to do is begin to love and accept ourselves as we are. When we let go of our need to be perfect, we recognize we have already arrived. We are already there. We have already WON!

What Others Think of YOU is none of your business!

Worrying about what others think of us shows us our lack of self-love. When you truly love yourself, you don't need to be validated by the outside world, your parents, siblings or friends. You already know who you are and are happy with you. 

Focusing on what others think shows you that you have not stepped into your personal power. Your power is in there, under the insecurities. It needs to be dusted off so that you can see your sparkly interior. Seeing the beauty within you, loving what you see, rather than chastising yourself, or feeling loathing or hatred when you look at yourself naked is key. We have to love all of us, not just a piece or a portion. We can't cut off an arm, leg or a part of ourselves that we don't like. We all have faults, personality traits that aren't stellar and they need some tender loving care. 

Instead of being the tough Mother Superior with the metal edged ruler that beats us every time we don't choose well, soften your gaze. Look at yourself with eyes of love. Treat yourself like a newborn baby.

Instead loving acceptance and compassion for who we are leads to fulfillment and internal permanent happiness.

Eventually......We Begin To Learn

I used to go for the bad boys. They were not faithful. They treated me badly. They treated ME the way I treated myself inside. 

I didn't respect myself and they were disrespectful to me. It was all mirrored right back to me. All they were doing was reflecting back to me my internal circuitry of insecurity, lack of self-worth and self-hatred. 

I thought I loved myself. I didn't. Loving yourself is not just saying, "I love me." It is feeling it in the depth of your soul from the deepest part of your being. 

When you love yourself, you love life. You have a passion for living that makes everything come alive. Your purpose is evident. You live on purpose each day in every moment. You live in the present connected to your own Divinity within you. You feel connected to everything and love everyone. Loving acceptance of you, means you stop judging and CRITICISING  yourself and everyone else as well. 

When you love yourself you see the beauty in others as well as within.

It is So Much Easier To See Fault In Others

When our self-esteem is low, we easily see fault in everyone else. We point out other's mistakes. We try to change others. This focus on others takes the focus off ourselves. Seeing fault in others means you are in denial of your own issues. 

When We Are In Denial We Attract Liars and Cheaters 

Denial is one of the underlying signs of addiction. Codependency is an addiction. Being addicted to relationships - needing to be in a relationship because of neediness is the worst reason to be in one. Instead, love yourself first. When you love you completely accepting all of yourself you will begin to radiate that light of love out into the world. When you do, you will attract healthy balanced men into your life, rather than one who is addicted, abusive or will cheat on you. 

Until we heal and turn the page on our past, we keep bringing it into our future. JEM

When we attempt to find someone else to fill ourselves up and complete us, we end up attracting another person who has low self-esteem. People with low self-esteem are usually wounded. 

Wounded people hurt others. JEM

I did not have to control everything and everyone. I didn't have to try and change my partner, my children or my mother or make anyone better. I was in denial of my own sense of worth. It was far easier to look at others and see all their imperfections thinking that I was helping them. 

The Big AHA - We Mirror Each Other

When I began to realize that every relationship I had was just a reflection of how I felt about myself, my world began to change. JEM

I realized I was not a victim. Everyone was not out to get me, as I previously thought. The Universe was not hateful. It was just boomeranging the thoughts that I had about me. 

When I began to focus on positive thoughts and asked questions instead of making closed-ended statements, it was like magic. 

Good things began to materialize for me in all areas of my life. Instead of saying to myself life is hard, I began to see how life worked FOR ME! I began to manifest in the moment when I asked: 

"How can I effortlessly and easily attract someone who loves me unconditionally?"

What Are Closed-Ended Statements?

1. Life isn't fair.
2. The world isn't a safe place.
3. Men/women always cheat on me.
4. Everyone is out to get me.
5. No one will ever love me.
6. I am too old.
7. I am too fat.
8. I am not attractive.
9. There is no one out there for me.
10. I am always alone.
11. I will always be alone.
12. I will never find love.

Let go of what everyone else is doing and focus instead on yourself. Look within to see why you are triggered by something someone else does or says? You recognize that the reaction you had is YOURS! Hence when you are angered by something - you are not a victim, you are just experiencing an internal issue of your own surfacing. 

When someone cuts you off on the road, if you get angry it is not that they are doing something TO YOU, your internal issues of being powerless are coming up for you to see. You are not powerless. Obviously, that person was in a much bigger hurry and needed to get where they were going faster than you. That is all. Take care of you. Give to you, rather than everyone else first. Often people-pleasing women are the ones who keep attracting men who cheat, lie and leave. Give yourself acceptance and forgiveness.

The next time you look at a hot guy that you know in your heart will screw around on you, have compassion for you and love yourself some more. Look at where you have abandonment issues. Remember how Jennifer Anniston felt when Brad had an affair with Angelina Jolie. Awful! Sure he was cute. Yes, he was hot, but he broke her heart. Is this what you want for yourself?

Love is not supposed to hurt. Love does not ridicule, disrespect, abuse, abandon, or cause harm. 

Begin Loving You Right NOW!

1. Let go of trying to be perfect.
2. Ask yourself, "How do I lie and cheat myself?"
3. Stop worrying about what others think about you.
4. Stop trying to please others. You will end up resentful and angry.
5. Look at yourself with eyes of love.
6. Stop beating yourself up with thoughts and words.
7. Soften your focus. Think of yourself as a newborn baby. You would not beat up, or think negatively about a newborn baby, neither should you of yourself.
8. Know you are already ENOUGH!
9. You are WORTHY!
10. You are lovable!

If you continue to attract men that treat you badly, it is time for you to hire a coach that can help you clear your unconscious patterns and change your perspective. You don't have to change. Instead, begin to look at yourself with a softer gaze. 

Let go of the baseball bat and the magnifying glass that you view yourself through. Jennifer has healed her own self-loathing and low self-esteem. She has been where you are and has compassion and understanding for you. At the same time, Jennifer will be direct, clear and help you see things differently. If you are ready to have permanent and lasting happiness, positivity in all areas of your life and live your soul purpose, you have come to the right place.

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is the author of two books and is working on her third, Happy Here, Happy Anywhere The Step-by-Step Guide To Overcoming Anxiety, Depression, and Unhappiness Without A Perscription!

Her latest is Orgasm For Life available on Amazon.com. Jennifer is a healed healer, having healed past childhood trauma and sexual abuse, sexual dysfunction, and depression. When she began to love herself, her pain, illness, diseases - Fibromyalgia, and Epstein-Barr syndrome magically disappeared. Your thoughts create illness and pain in your body. Healing self-loathing can heal the pain in your body as well as change your life. 

Schedule your FREE 30-minute session with Jennifer to work through an issue, or see how working with Jennifer will change your life for the better. Live your purpose with PASSION. Live a passion filled life. Have a book within you that is bursting to come out? Jennifer is holding a retreat this fall to teach aspiring authors to channel their own book. E-mail Jennifer NOW: JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com

Jennifer's website is: AphroditeEffect.com

I would love to hear your comments below. How attracting bad boys affected you and your life? Have you given up on men? If so why?

10 Things Happy People Do Daily That Attract Love

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Envision yourself laying in bed, smiling at your lover wondering what new event the day holds for you. Tap into that expanded feeling of being happy, blissfully in love, and confident that your partner loves you back. 

Many women come to me looking for a relationship. The following are issues that come up consistently with women who have difficulty attracting someone to them.

• they focus on the fear of being hurt abandoned or rejected
• they think they won't be attractive to men
• they focus on what is wrong with them or what they want to be different

What I direct women to do is the following:

1. Know you are unique and special in your way. There is someone for everybody. There is someone who is looking for you right now. You are perfect the way you are. You are worthy of love. You are worthy of having someone to love you. You deserve love.Your perfect match is already out there. Be grateful for him.
2. Focus on what is wonderful about you. Notice your beautiful eyes, skin, nails, feet, legs, loving heart. Continue to focus on what is good about you every day.
3. Know your value. When you know your value, you won't allow doors to slam in your face, or people to walk over you. You won't try to be what you think someone else wants. You are confident of who you are and you are the best YOU that you can be. 
4. Don't compare yourself to others. Yes, there will always be someone with better hair, a better body, a smarter brain, more talent. Comparing yourself to someone else makes you feel small and inadequate. Is that what you want? I don't think so. So stop it!
5. Walk tall. Stand up straight be confident in who you are. 
6. Create happiness. Do things every day that bring you happiness. If it is walking out in nature - get out there as often as you can. Do what brings you joy daily!
7. Stop. Stop doing things you don't want to do with other people. Stop agreeing to be with people who bring you down or are anchors instead of sails. Stop complaining about not having someone who loves you. Stop complaining about always being alone. Thoughts create and this only confirms you will continue to be alone. 
8. Be present with you. Spend time daily in silence. Sit quietly focusing on love. Love yourself. Know that you are already loved. I love you. The Universe loves you. Nature loves you. The Divine loves you. Instead of worrying about what others think of you, sink inside of you. Spend time with yourself. Enjoy your own company. If you don't like spending time with you, how can you expect anyone else to want to?
9. Be spontaneous. Do something on the spur of the moment that brings you joy. I started dancing in the desert. Crazy as it sounds it brings me great happiness and bliss. I get exercise and joy dancing with The Divine, the plants, the sun, the moon and the stars. 
10. Love your past. Know that everything that happened thus far was to spur you onto bigger and greater things. Be grateful for what you have experienced as it has prepared you to even more amazing love and experiences. Forgiveness is a part of letting go of the pain, hurt, and suffering of past experiences.

If you are struggling with love, you might want to purchase my Aphrodite Effect program for $98.00. It includes healing your past love story, implementing a new blueprint for expanded love, becoming amazingly irresistible to the opposite sex. You will learn why your relationships have ended, how to be ALL IN, then finally how to Co-create your new love in the last hour of the program. 

There are mantras to shift your unconscious programming, a clearing in each hour audio to remove anything that you might have stuck in your energy field, like:

• hate of men programs
• love to hate to love to hate programs
• resistance to love
• fear of love
• vows to never love again
• any self-sabotage

If you have further questions, you can e-mail me here: JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com

CLN - Post March 31, 2015

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

I wrote this article for Conscious Life News today. I thought I would share it in case you don't yet subscribe to this amazing newsletter. Just click on the title: Wound Too Tight For Love? below

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Waiting For Your Soul Mate

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

You want to have someone to share your life with. You know you are ready for love, but can't seem to find it? Have you been looking through the forest of people out there, but are you unable to see the ONE that causes your heart to flutter, your pulse to quicken or you to KNOW, without a doubt that he (or she) is IT?

Those that have worked with me, know that one of my gifts is helping women get the guy. They may have dated, been married, had relationships in the past that either ended through death or didn't work out, or weren't what they wanted. I help you focus on you, get clear, laser focused while re-directing your thinking so that you are open to finding love AND (the key here) open to RECEIVING LOVE. Many women and some men are closed to receiving love. If you are closed to receiving love, you may long for it, but never find it. This gets cleared in the process too. 

I have done it, helped women find love with great success. Yes, I have a system that works. I manifest in the moment for myself. My adult children come to me on behalf of friends, asking me to manifest their wishes for them. Here is a link to some of the things I manifested last summer. Since then I asked for a free week in Colorado so my family could all be together at Christmas time. A tall order? Not tall enough for The Universe! It happened. 

When family members see the evidence, through their own experience that is proof. My son recently asked me to help his girlfriend get the exact car she wanted, "Mom, do your thing!" My daughter called me yesterday stuck in an icy parking spot in Boulder, Colorado, over 1,100 miles away. I told her to get off the phone and call a friend. While she was occupied, I said a prayer. Within minutes a guy she didn't know showed up with kitty litter and helped her get out of the spot. She called me back all excited, "Mom, you are amazing, it was like a miracle! It happened so fast!" My family knows this is how I live my life. Some things take a little longer, because there is something that we need to do, or heal before we get the guy or girl.

Here are some of the things you will get from my coaching experience.

1. Happiness. What? Yes, if you do the homework, follow the directions, and stay with the course, you will find happiness. I did, and my clients do. 
2. Shift your focus because the way you are currently thinking isn't working for you.
3. Focus on you. I help you come to loving acceptance of yourself, so that others will lovingly accept you the way you are. How many relationships have you had where either you tired to fix your partner, or they tried to fix you. This never works out.
4. If you keep attracting love that isn't love, is abusive, lying cheating partners, I help you by clearing those limiting beliefs that are stuck so that you can get into a new groove of receiving a healthy love, that is balanced, accepting and nurturing. 
5. A better life. There is no doubt that when you work with me your life will improve in all areas. Go to my website and check out the testimonials. Set up a time to talk to me for 30 minutes for free, not everyone is committed to making the changes that will change their lives, but maybe YOU are.

A Personal Testimonial

I had been struggling with the feeling of not being loved, I felt unworthy of love. When Jennifer and I first worked together I was seeing someone that I didn’t love. I wondered would I ever find anyone for me? I wanted love, but it wasn’t happening. I was very sad, depressed and resentful. Jennifer helped me move through anger, depression quickly. I felt so wonderful after working with Jennifer that I could rise up and feel strong and empowered. I could again feel joy in 

myself. Right after working with Jennifer I met a wonderful man, Jennifer cleared the way 

 so that we are now married and just had our first child! Thank you Jennifer….. Much

 love and gratitude. Love u so much, hugs! Dr. Falak Shaikh, Gujarat, India

More Testimonials

I met Jennifer at one of her workshops that a friend recommended to me.  At that time I was searching, and wanting some help out of my deep depression and anxiety.
Keeping in touch, I joined her on line workshops, and eventually her coaching once a week.

One of my earliest coaching sessions with Jennifer, I felt complete trust, like I have never felt with anyone in my ENTIRE LIFE.  I told her my deepest darkest secrets, and she welcomed me into her loving space.  For this, I will never ever forget, and will be eternally grateful.    

She allowed me to be where I was, no rescue, no high expectation - no pat advice that I have heard over and over - not landing anywhere in me that could really grow.
Her advice was simple and doable, small steps to move forward - with kindness, and no judgment allowed me to open up.

The meditations helped me see my guides and myself in a new light.  
As I grew in compassion and respect for myself as a result from the coaching sessions, vast changes in me occurred.

I feel happier, more peaceful, more truly loving now.

In both my professional life and personal life, the changes though subtle, were highly significant:  I easily am present with people and they sense this.  If nothing else occurs, I feel that this is a huge gift, to be able to connect with people so that they feel heard and significant. N. A, Atlanta, Georgia, December, 2014

Jennifer is a catalystic life, love, sex and relationship coach. She is more than just a coach and author. She is awakened and self actualized. She is in constant contact with The Divine, connected with her Divine high self. Just talking to her will shift you. It is nothing that she DOES, but who she is.

She helps women (and some men) find the love they are seeking. She has successfully helped hundreds of women (and herself) wonderful partners who are exactly what they are seeking. She will teach you how in her Love Yourself Fearlessly Private sessions. She has an uncanny knack for cutting to the root of the issues quickly clearing the pattern so you get out of your rut. Her life experience is vast, giving her deep and profound wisdom. She is compassionate, caring and kind. However, her directness and ability to cut through the smoke means a better coaching experience for her clients. She has a large toolbox of skills from hypnotherapy to energy healing. She empowers her clients to self direct so that when their coaching experience is over, they are well on their way of using the tools given to continue to work on a daily basis on their own.

I met Jennifer at one of her workshops that a friend recommended to me.  At that time I was searching, and wanting some help out of my deep depression and anxiety.
Keeping in touch, I joined her on line workshops, and eventually her coaching once a week.

One of my earliest coaching sessions with Jennifer, I felt complete trust, like I have never felt with anyone in my ENTIRE LIFE.  I told her my deepest darkest secrets, and she welcomed me into her loving space.  For this, I will never ever forget, and will be eternally grateful.    

She allowed me to be where I was, no rescue, no high expectation - no pat advice that I have heard over and over - not landing anywhere in me that could really grow.
Her advice was simple and doable, small steps to move forward - with kindness, and no judgment allowed me to open up.

The meditations helped me see my guides and myself in a new light.  
As I grew in compassion and respect for myself as a result from the coaching sessions, vast changes in me occurred.

I feel happier, more peaceful, more truly loving now.

In both my professional life and personal life, the changes though subtle, were highly significant:  I easily am present with people and they sense this.  If nothing else occurs, I feel that this is a huge gift, to be able to connect with people so that they feel heard and significant. N. A, Atlanta, Georgia, December, 2014

The Love You Take Is Equal To The Love You MAKE

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

I grew up with the Beatles. I sang their songs, I watched them on television and I certainly bought their albums. I have my favorites, of course. The Long and Winding Road (McCartney) is one of my favorites. Let it Be, is certainly one of their greatest songs. Track eight, The End, on Abbey Road album is the one that has the famous quote from Paul McCartney, "The love you take is equal to the love you make."

There are many ways to look at this line from the song. It was intended to mean, what you give you get. In other words, as you love, so shall you be loved. When you give generously, love is given generously back to you. When we hold back and are inauthentic, or fake, we can't access the deepest part of our soul. It is in being completely open, and risking it all that we can have it all. Paul McCartney and Linda shared, a deep love. Paul refers to Linda as a loving wife. Of course that love continues even after death.

What About Me?

Can we have deep love and understanding with anyone? I believe so. The key is authenticity, honesty and trust. When we have this foundation, pheromones, attraction, connection opening up to allow the other person in all the way. When we open our hearts and become completely vulnerable with the other, we have the deepest connection. When we are afraid of being hurt, or are wounded, we hold back and don't receive this type of deep connection and subsequently, love.

How Can I Become Vulnerable?

Forgiveness of those who we feel have hurt us is key. When we are hanging onto old hurts and are still suffering we cannot allow another into our inner sanctum. When we turn ourselves inside out in order to please another, we are not being authentic. We are being codependent. Codependency is an addiction on a relationship. We are codependent when we place more importance on the relationship rather than ourselves and our own personal satisfaction with life. Addicted love is not healthy. 

Trust

When we have made what we consider poor choices in the past, we don't trust ourselves. We feel insecure about ourselves and fear that we will repeat the same pattern all over again. Many people do. Even with much deep work, I did. Energy clearings (to clear repeating patterns) and having a coach to help keep you on track helps in a big way. As you have someone to bounce ideas off. You have someone who will support you in your growth process and guide you along the way. When you have a break through you will know it.  Trusting yourself is para mount to opening up completely. Until you do, you won't be able to trust anyone else either.

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is an author, life, love and sex coach. Orgasm For Life can be found on Amazon. She also is wonderful at helping you focus, get organized and become empowered. Her early life was challenging. She struggled with low self esteem and codependency. Now Jennifer is a powerful, strong woman who empowers women and men to get to know, love and accept themselves. This is the source of true happiness. When we love ourselves, our capacity to love and experience JOY grows also. Jennifer can be reached through her private e-mail here: JenniferElizabethMasters@gmail.com  or visit her website:

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I Want A HIGHER LOVE!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

You have done your work. You have created your vision of your dream relationship. 

Why has your dream relationship not shown up in your reality?

You know you can create your own reality. You hear it all the time. You begin to doubt that it is real because this magical relationship is still not showing up! Why is it taking so long?

There are many reasons why some manifestations take longer than others. Perhaps you have a lesson to learn that you have not learned yet. Perhaps you are desiring something that is so far beyond your energetic vibration at this point in time that you need to make specific changes within yourself to be able to bring it into reality. Or, you have doubts about the fact that it will really happen. 

Manifestation works. We do all the right things. We get present, we are connected to Source energy, centered in love. We envision it, we feel what it would feel like to have our dream come true, by experiencing the joy of having it. We really experience it to the point that we can taste it, smell it and it still doesn't happen. 

Usually the reason a manifestation does not come into our reality in what we think would be a reasonable time frame is because the changes have not happened in our energy field that would support this manifestation. What do I mean?

Let's take a Divine Relationships for example. We desire a healthy relationship. We have done considerable work on ourselves, we have meditated, done chanting, toning, cleared our energy field. We have studied, read, become positive and have even stopped throwing hand grenades at our ex. Why has it not arrived?

An orchestration must take place in The Universe for the perfect relationship to materialize. One of the things that we are responsible for is our own energy. If we want to create a HIGHER LOVE, we have to be THE HIGHER LOVE OURSELVES. We have to be sure that we have forgiven everyone, including ourselves. We have to take responsibility for our own finances, be good stewards of our money, love everyone, heal all our personal relationships even with those who are difficult, or we will not be able to energetically support what we are attempting to manifest. If we have not done sufficient work on ourselves it is time to take a closer look to see what is still hanging on. Is it anger? Is it resentment? Is it un-forgiveness? Are we looking for a man or woman who is of elevated consciousness yet we are still addicted to sugar, meth, or some other substance? Do we still have the need to be right all the time? Do we still try to control our family, feeling that we KNOW better than anyone else? If these things are showing up there is still more work to do.  

Perhaps we still have issues that we have to resolve with self acceptance. Are we in denial? Or it could be that we are unavailable emotionally. This is the biggest issue we have as humans. 

I have found the best way to break down this barrier that we build up to protect ourselves is by watching a program or movie that will cause you to cry, let go and grieve. My favorite program for releasing is Grey's Anatomy. Watching show after show and being able to let go and cry will help you to break down the barriers to intimacy that you have created to protect your heart. You cannot have a deep loving relationship when you have a solid block to love in your heart. This damn has to break. The best way to break it down is to cry. I am not talking about a few tears that roll down your face either. I am talking about slobbering, gut wrenching releasing. Something worth having is worth doing the work to get it.

The problem with most people today is that they are not willing to go the distance to get what they want. Most people are afraid. When you live in fear you can't attract a fearless love. The majority of the population don't want to do the work, but want what they want anyway. It can be difficult to get there on your own. You need to hire a coach who knows how to create intimacy, that loves themselves already.

If you are ready to break through the barriers come to mamma! I am the woman who can help you break through your tough shields you have put in place. I have done it and have helped others do it too. I will help you become fearless and clear the crap that continues to plague you and hold you back. You have got to be fearless and really want it. Don't be afraid to let it all out, you will feel so much better. 

To have it all you have to be able to risk it all. The kind of risk I am talking about is intimacy. Intimacy is not sex. Yes sex can be a part of intimacy but isn't always. Some people have sex and don't connect emotionally at all. Recreational sex, or sex with someone you barely know does not involve intimacy. Intimacy is about a deep emotional connection. You can be married or in a long-term committed relationship and not allow your spouse in completely. The best relationships are founded on deep connected intimacy. To have real intimacy you have to let go of all your fear of being hurt. Focusing on being hurt attracts someone who will feel as you do. You will create a relationship based on fear. It won't work and will not fulfill you. Relationships based on fear usually end up with one person cheating or betraying the other.

To have an open-heart relationship your heart has to be fully opened. To have a relationship where there is no cheating, you have to be completely honest with yourself and others. To have someone who loves and adores you, you must love and adore yourself. To have someone who is gererous with their love money and gifts, you must be generous with your love, money and gifts. You cannot long for your mate to show up, because that creates a state of lack. You have to act like he or she is already here. You have to make room in your closet for another person. You have to feel and be thankful for this person who is in your energy field.

Steps to Finding A HIGHER Love

1. Heal your heart by seeing the gift in the past.
2. Let go of anger.
3. Forgive everyone, including yourself.
4. Accept yourself completely.
5. Love yourself compassionately
6. Let go of control.
7. Let go of manipulation.
8. Let go of the need to be right.
9. Let go of perfectionism.
10. Be grateful for what you have.
11. Be completely happy with you.
12. When you fall in love with yourself you will attract another who loves and accepts you. You will be like a magnet. 
13. Write a list of 100 criteria that you want in your Divine Partner. 
14. Boil this list down to 10 must haves. 
15. Ask for this love to be delivered to you.
16. Say a prayer that you are ready for your Divine Partner to be sent to you. Do not have any doubts. Consider that it is done, say thank you. 
17. Feel this person around you. Feel what it feels like to have them in your life. Be grateful for this loving relationship. 

How long have you attempted to get this relationship on your own? How much longer are you willing to wait? Remember if you have not done the preparation work to raise your own vibration and clear your own energy, you will continue to attract the same kind of person you have been attracting up until now. Hire Jennifer to assist you clear your blocks to love, of yourself and another. She will help you deepen your intimacy in your current relationship and help you manifest your Divine Partner. She has done this successfully for her clients.

Jennifer is a self actualized and enlightened being. She is a master at manifesting love. She has cleared her own blocks to love and healed her self loathing, unworthiness and denial. She knows how to clear emotional unavailability and has helped thousands of people to clear their limiting beliefs and blocks. Working with and asking questions of an enlightened person speeds up the process of healing. E-mail Jennifer now to find out if you are a good match for her work. Order your FREE discovery session NOW!