Interested in oral sex? Most people are. I have talked to many men and women. What I have heard from both sexes is that many don't want to reciprocate. The key is if you want oral sex, you have to be prepared to give it also. For many it is better to GIVE than to receive!
A dear friend of mine ordered Orgasm For Life. He is recently divorced. His Amazon account had his former address on file. The book was delivered to his former wife. When he arrived to pick up the book, he found she had opened it and left him photos of his children in the chapter on ORAL SEX! Which of course, was the first chapter he read. He said it was HOT! HOT! HOT!
If you are looking for guidance on how to give the best oral sex. I suggest you purchase my book. There is a link above. I leave nothing out. It is descriptive and exciting, for both sexes. I put the ooh back in ORAL! I have offered a little taste for you below. This should give you enough to go and buy the book. If you haven't yet, you need to. I just sent this book to a man who has a website: Clitoris.com. He said to me that I have a BEST SELLER! I knew that. I was told that. You need to buy it and you will see just how hot it is!
Excerpt from Chapter 11, of Orgasm For Life:
Front Door, Backdoor and Playground
Sex is not the answer: Sex is the question. "YES" is the answer - Swami X
Oral sex is an alternative or additional mode of pleasuring your partner. The wonderful thing about the mouth is that we can increase or reduce pressure, speed, and sensations quickly. We can get wildly creative at the same time. Oral sex is one of the experiences that I have to be in the mood for, both to give and receive. I don't appreciate having my head shoved into a man's crotch to force me to give him head. Forcing someone to do anything is not respectful. It is not cool!
Men love to receive oral sex. For most men, it is the most intense sexual experience he can have because of the slippery wetness of our mouths. The types of wonderfully creative things that we can do with our tongues. My style may not be yours. You can use what you like and discard the rest. What I will tell you is that your partner will really enjoy this. I have never had a complaint but rarely have to use my hand to assist. The great thing about blow jobs is that you can really suck at it. It will still be really great, because sucking is what it is all about. So have no fear and just relax. The caveat for men is, "reciprocating" is what love making is all about. In case you don't know what reciprocating means, it means to give back what you receive.
Some of the reasons that blow jobs feel so good are obvious. Our mouths are soft, moist and sensitive. The skin on our lips is similar to that in the vagina and anus. Following are my best secrets for giving the best fellatio in the world to your man.
Get comfortable. Make sure you are hydrated. Hydration is always an important part of any type of sex. If you are dehydrated your vagina will be dry. If you are dehydrated your mouth can be sticky and dry also. So always drink plenty of water. You never know when you are going to have the opportunity to have great sex!
Have a glass of ice water with lots of ice, mints and a towel nearby. Coconut oil is good if your mouth is dry, it's slippery but doesn't taste bad. I don't personally use anything but saliva, but you might want other options. You want to make sure you have constant moisture on his penis, or the skin could chafe or become tender. We don't want a sore pecker. No, no, no! Melted chocolate is an exceptional addition as well for those who have an aversion to swallowing semen. You could even make a banana split then add some whipped cream in a spray can.
I like to begin with a clean body-- mine and his. We never know where this will go once we get going, so be prepared for anything. I like to wear something acy and sexy that barely covers the tops of my thighs. Giving him a visual turn-on will make him happy on so many levels. Men love to watch so give him a show. Make eye contact with him from time to time; he will love that. Remember we have more than 5 senses so stimulate them all!
I love the scene in Father of The Bride where Steve Martin gets a blow job from his wife, while driving home from a party. They, of course careen into another car as his wife attempts to "relieve her husband's stress." They sheepishly explain to the cops what happened.
You can perform fellatio in a car; you can perform it on a star. Although I don't recommend it; it is very exciting though. The very fact that you are driving in a car brings in the element of danger as well. At the point of orgasm most guys close their eyes until their brain boinks out of orbit. If you have your head in his lap, you can't see what's going on down the road either. Better to be safer in a chair or on a bed.
As with anything in the bedroom, I prefer to dance around a little, tease, kiss, nibble his ear, bit his neck, and gently draw my fingers or even nails across his abdomen. Most men will jerk upright a little, as it tickles. No matter it is part of the game. This is supposed to be pleasurable for both of you. Anticipation is the key to building excitement. So, make him wonder what you are going to do next, rather than doing target practice going straight for his penis and balls.
Nibble his stomach to gradually make your way down to his pelvic area. With your dominant hand, grab the shaft of his penis to hold it firmly, but don't choke his junk. With the other hand, cup his balls and stroke them from the perineum upwards. This can be very exciting. Watch for his reaction. then focus on licking. Begin at the base of his shaft (although there is very little sensitivity there) lick upwards to the tip or glands. Swirl your tongue around the underside ever so slightly. Then open your mouth wide to take him completely in your mouth. It's like a dive down to his whole shaft. Grab a little sip of ice water in your mouth and then go down on his penis taking him all the way in your mouth. For a change of pace grab a mint and suck on him with a mint in your mouth. The mind may be too much for some sensitive guys, but it does give a different experience. Buy Orgasm or Life NOW!
This is just the beginning. Orgasm For Life will turn you on. It will teach you things you didn't know. It will encourage you to be a better lover, and encourage you to be a better person at the same time. Orgasm For Life will bring you to heights you had only thought of experiencing. This is a sexy book. It is funny, intelligent and did I say, TURN ON????
This is just the beginning. Orgasm For Life will turn you on. It will teach you things you didn't know. It will encourage you to be a better lover, and encourage you to be a better person at the same time. Orgasm For Life will bring you to heights you had only thought of experiencing. This is a sexy book. It is funny, intelligent and did I say, TURN ON????
http://www.voiceamerica.com/episode/79474/lets-explore-sexuality-on-our-own Airs Wednesday August 6, 2014. You can access the recording after the show airs any time.
http://www.voiceamerica.com/episode/79475/how-do-we-bring-individual-sexuality-into-relationship Airs Wednesday August 13, 2014. You can access the show after it airs anytime.
http://www.voiceamerica.com/episode/79475/how-do-we-bring-individual-sexuality-into-relationship Airs Wednesday August 13, 2014. You can access the show after it airs anytime.
