Self Pleasuring is natural. Ask any monkey. Humans however, have shame, guilt and regret programmed around self pleasuring. Most people don't talk about it.
But ask most men and they will admit they love it and do it with gusto! There is a little known phenomenon about masturbation and orgasm. Your sexual energy (kundalini) rises, traveling up the central channel (along the spinal column) which can give you a touch of enlightenment. It may only last seconds, but this exalted, incredibly euphoric feeling of bliss is real, a close encounter with something greater than yourself.
At a recent event, where I gave a talk, a woman approached me afterward. She excitedly shared what wonderful experiences she had masturbating. She felt free, empowered and powerful with the ability to pleasure herself to orgasm. For many women, however, the subject makes them feel uncomfortable. They are a little more reticent to admit to self pleasuring. Some women just never masturbate. Women and men are different.
with a partner, or alone. When you show a partner what you like, mutual masturbation can be the scene for a change instead of having penetrative sex.
For those who are alone, or in between partners, self pleasuring is a way to keep your hormones regulated. If you are in between partners and NOT self pleasuring, your hormone levels can drop. The old, "If you don't use it you lose it adage," is true.
Masturbation can be the only way that some women have an orgasm. If you don't show your partner how to get you there, you may never.
In Sickness and In Health
Pleasure is a multi-dimensional experience. It is more than touch. Talk to your partner about what you are doing or what you would like to do to them, while self pleasuring. Hold back on your orgasm a little allow the level of excitement to drop back and allow your sexual energy to circulate upward into your chest. With conscious thought you can do this. Or have your partner trace the journey of the energy with their finger tips.
There are gurus in India that have masturbated their way into enlightenment. Yes, it has happened. It is not a widely publicized phenomenon, but real nonetheless. The sexual energy travels up the central column, culminating in the frontal cortex of the brain. If you
notice the feelings or orgasm while it is occurring, you can become totally present with the energy movement, feeling it culminate in the forehead, right behind the third eye (between the brows).
I have met many women who feel that they are in a higher place spiritually because they are celibate. Each of us has the power of choice. However, I ask you why would you deprive your body of such glorious sensations when it brings you closer to God in the end? It does not make sense.
Addiction To Masturbation - POM
Many men are addicted to porn, orgasm and masturbation, the latest acronym on the Internet. If you masturbate frequently, or rather too frequently, using it to mask emotions, you could be addicted. Sexual addictions have the same basis as any addiction. You don't love yourself. I work with men addicted to masturbation and porn. Self love is the cornerstone for a healthy psyche and relationships. Today, with increased financial pressures, divorce, stress, masturbation can be the go-to drug to change the way you feel. If you masturbate instead of having sex with your wife, or partner there is a problem.
What are you avoiding? What do you not want to look at? What are the feelings coming up, that cause you to want to masturbate? There is no judgment in the work that I do. I have been there too. I had a sex addiction myself that I worked through. It all changed when I began to love and accept myself completely.
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