What is the one thing that keeps people from living up to their highest potential?
Fear blocks us from trying new experiences. It keeps us in worry and judgment. What will you think of me, if I tell you what I really want from you? What will you think of me, if I ask for what I want from you (in the bedroom and out). What will you think of me if I tell you I want you to talk to me, while we have sex, that it ignites a fire inside me and brings me closer to you? What if........_______ fill in your personal blank.
Maybe he would have gotten help and fixed his little HTP issue. Maybe if he learned how to stimulate his wife she wouldn't have wanted to swing. After 26 years, she never told him he didn't do it for her. Which is the case for many marriages. Women need more stimulation than their male counterparts do. Women are afraid to tell their husbands.
HTP - Premature Ejaculation Is A Problem
They could have saved their marriage and made improvements in their sex life that would have brought them closer together. Instead they are both miserable.
If love is present, and both parties want to work on the issue, it can be remedied. But if the women aren't talking how are the men to know?
I wrote about Maria, in Orgasm For Life a woman I met in the gym. Within minutes of beginning a conversation about my book, she told me she had been married for 35 years and she thinks, she may have had ONE orgasm. One orgasm in 35 years. When she brought it up to her husband, do you think he was warm, loving and understanding? Blame is really not the point, is it? No one is a victim here.
Unfortunately, because he was like so many men, a macho man who thought he was a great lover, he beat her up. He put a pillow over her head and called her names. Is it really a woman's fault if she is not coming, or yours? Communication is key. Loving, understanding and compassion is needed for both parties. Working together to have mutual pleasure is the way.
|O is for Orgasm which both parties experience|
works with men and women to empower, heal relationships and create deeper connection and more meaningful, loving relationships. She also helps women who keep attracting guys who are not in their highest and best good, attract men who are The One.