How To Use Spirituality To Overcome Your Problems

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

When we believe that life isn't fair, we are plagued with problems, challenges, and suffering. I know, I have been there worn the t-shirt and given it away to Goodwill! Today, I will share with you the secrets to manifesting in the moment, overcoming what you perceive are problems, finding parking places that don't exist and get more than what you need in life, miracles included!

There are some rules to life. Once you know the rules, understand how to use them you will win, be happy and find you have what you need. The problem is when we focus on our problems we create more of what we don't want. When we focus on not having enough, or not having what we want that gets in the way of being a master at life and manifesting. Below is an explanation of how to use the rules along with my personal truth about how I manifest in the moment. Follow these rules and life will kick ass! I promise. 

Follow these and you can rule your world!

1. The Universe is always and in every way orchestrating your life FOR YOU!
2. Everything that happens does so for a reason.
3. Life is a gift.
4. Gratitude is the fuel for the Universe to give you more.
5. You attract what you are.
6. You only get what you give.
7. Wherever you focus your attention expands.
8. When one door closes, another will open that offers better opportunities.
9. There is always a silver lining. 
10. Faith is always rewarded. 
11. You have a reason to live. You have gifts to share with the world.
12. Everything is subject to change.

How To Have A Kick-Ass Life

If The Universe is always orchestrating our lives for us, focusing on our problems gives us more problems (more of what we don't want). Why? The Universe delivers to us what we predominantly think. The more we think about something, the more energy we give it. The more energy we give something, the faster it manifests. Most people focus on the problem, which creates more problems. 

Every thought is a prayer. Each thought we think goes out into the universe and boomerangs back to us. The Universe then sends us back what we continue to think about. Everything we think manifests especially when we couple thought with emotions. 

Instead, focus on what we want. For example, when I had rent to pay and no manifestation of money in the bank, I would say, "How can I effortlessly and easily have $1,000  by July 1st?

My Personal Story

I misappropriated funds in December 2015. The Universe doesn't like it when we use money that is allocated for rent or bills for other things, like a trip to Canada, in my case. 

I had $1,000 in the bank which was allocated for my final car payment due in December. Instead of using the money to pay off my car loan, I bought an airline ticket to Canada to spend Christmas with my mother. (Buying a plane ticket to do something loving for my mother was unselfish of me.) Giving to others unselfishly without expecting something in return is rewarded. 

I sat on my couch where I meditate daily when I returned to California and asked, "How can I effortlessly and easily have $1,000 for my final car payment by Thursday?" 

Then I sat with my eyes closed and focused on my energy. This is what I said:

1. The Universe is infinite. Therefore, I am infinite.
2. The Universe is expansive, therefore, I am expansive.
3. The Universe is abundant. Therefore, I am abundant.
4. There is nothing lost in the Universe. Therefore, my money is on its way to me NOW!
5. I was in complete faith that I would have the money. 
6. I began acting as if I already had the money in my bank account; giving gratitude which fuels manifestations.
7. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

Within two hours I had $700 that was unexpected from two different clients. It took two more days for $300 to show up. Within two days I had the full $1,000! My focus was on the truth that The Universe is always orchestrating my life for me. I know that I am always taken care of. I had complete faith that I would have the money by the time it was needed.

Don't Focus on Your Problems. 

Every problem has a solution. I didn't focus on not having money. I focused on creating it! I was in complete faith that I would have the money. The result was that I paid my car off by the deadline. I was extremely grateful.

When One Door Closes

Also in December of 2015, I needed a dog sitter to take care of my two dogs while in Canada. I booked one dog sitter but knew they weren't the best for the job. They lived in an apartment which was upstairs and my older dog, Karma had difficulties with stairs. She offered dog sitting for a good price and was kind to animals. I wasn't completely comfortable due to her not having a fenced in yard. I didn't focus on the problem, however.

The Day Before My Flight I Had No Dog Sitter!

Two days before I was about to drop off my dogs, the dog sitter was not returning my calls. I knew she changed her mind. Rather than forcing her to do something she didn't want to do, I looked for another sitter. I messaged one person who looked perfect, but they never responded. I messaged another woman who sounded great but charged more money. The day before I was to drop my dogs off at her place, she stopped answering my calls. I couldn't reach her by e-mail either. 

I knew that everything happened for a reason. Rather than focusing on the problem - not having a place for my dogs the day before I was heading to Canada, I asked the Universe to send me the best possible solution. I knew when one door closed another better opportunity will show up. I had complete faith that I would find a great dog sitter for my two furry best friends.

The Universe loves win-win solutions! JEM

Miracles Happen When You Believe!

I believe in miracles. I know they happen every day. I know they happen for me.  The night before I was to leave, I received an apologetic e-mail from the guy who was perfect as a dog sitter. He was the first one I messaged but never responded till now. He was a single dad with two teenage boys. The dad worked full time and did dog sitting on the side. He assured me the boys were very sweet and capable of taking care of the dogs while he was at work. The teens gave the dogs the love they needed, their father got the money he needed and my dogs were taken care of!

 It was a win-win for us both! He even discounted his rate for me to what I could afford. We all benefited. 

The Universe loves it when many people benefit from one orchestration. This way it is less effort for their team to bring things to fruition for us.

He had a fenced in yard which made it so much easier for the dogs and the sitter. All the boys had to do was open the back door and let the dogs out! Perfect.

Finding The Perfect Parking Spot

I manifest all the time by myself. Sometimes I have had others with me while I manifested. I have changed non-believers into believers just by being myself. This is a story of finding a perfect beach-front parking spot in Santa Barbara on a busy weekend:

I send the parking angels ahead to find the perfect spot close to the beach. One Saturday with my partner I drove straight toward the coveted beachfront parking lot. He pointed to the lot further from the beach, "Don't you want to park over there?" I said, "No, I have a spot over here....." as someone walked toward me and pointed to their car, indicating they were leaving. Not only did I get a great spot, but the people leaving were friendly, smiling at me and made sure they left me plenty of room to pull in as they exited.

My friend shook his head in awe. He is always surprised at how I manifest in the moment and follow the guidance I receive.

Seeing Dolphins Where There Were None!

When I look up at the night sky I most often see shooting stars, because I expect them. I have mystical experiences everywhere I go. 

When I go to the beach I ask for dolphins. My little brother visited me in California with our childhood neighbor. When we arrived at Santa Monica Beach, I said, "We'll probably see dolphins." My brother who is a faithful Catholic doubted me and expressed his doubt out loud. I smiled and said, "Oh ye of little faith!" As I looked over his shoulder, I pointed to the pod close to the beach, "There they are!" My life is magical because I expect it to be so. 

Change Challenges Into Opportunities

Nothing stays the same. Energy moves continually. We change and grow. We need to be flexible and flowing. Rather than getting stuck or fixated on the problem we need to focus on the solution. When we look up instead of down to see opportunities rather than problems. 

When you focus on hate, hate is all you see. 
When you focus on negativity, negativity is all you get.
When you focus on others opinions and what they are doing, you

are missing the point. Life is all about you. Mirrors are everywhere. What you see in others is what is inside of you.

Do Not Do The Following

1. Watch the news.
2. Don't focus on hate or negativity
3. Don't focus on all the problems in the world.
4. Don't complain.
5. Don't critique yourself or others.
6. Don't react.
7. Don't avoid feeling.
8. Don't blame others.

Read The Signs


When we are awake, we notice signs on the outside and feel our feelings on the inside. We are guided by both the outside circumstances and the inside gut reaction (feelings). Just like a check engine light that lights up on your dashboard, your body will give you signs as well. Don't ignore the signs. Pay close attention.

We might be warned by a closed door or a missed opportunity. With increased awareness of witnessing what is happening in our world, we might notice we weren't present, which caused us to miss something amazing! We might notice after-the-fact when we ignored our Guidance we missed out. Learning from past experiences helps us tomorrow. We are always improving and growing, or we are dying.

The more we listen and trust our Guidance, the stronger the messages become. I listen to my Guidance and use it every day. My life is all about TRUST, FAITH, HONESTY, and AUTHENTICITY. When we live by these rules, our life becomes one of miracles and bliss. 

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One of my clients told me today that I have helped him become happier with himself, his marriage and everything around him. He is more focused, present, loving, accepting, non-reactive, kind, caring and appreciative of everything he has. He now can see the signs and knows what they mean. Good things keep happening in his marriage, and in his business.

When we lovingly accept ourselves as we are with all our faults

and flaws, we have healthy self-esteem. 

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is the author of the forthcoming book: HAPPY HERE, HAPPY ANYWHERE The Step-by-Step Guide to Overcoming Anxiety, Depression, and Unhappiness Without a Prescription!


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5 Ways To Manifest Your Love in 4 Days!

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

(Side note, tomorrow is a powerful day to manifest your desires - Vernal Equinox, Supermoon and a solar eclipse.)

Did you know that what happened way back in your childhood could be still plaguing you today? 

Yes, those traumatic events in childhood lay the fertile ground for emotions to become trapped and stay stuck forever, unless you have them removed. Even after clearing thousands of times, unless you specifically ask for the emotion to be cleared, you will continue to attract all those things that plagued you in childhood. REALLY? Yes, really.

Take The Test Now

Write a list of descriptors for what you experienced in your FAMILY OF ORIGIN. Write HOME at the top of the page.

Now write a list of descriptors of your most significant relationships. See the similarities? I rest my case. I did it too!

How does this work?

Take my latest client who lives in Colorado, I will call her Jade. Jade came to me with a relationship that was broken. Her boyfriend couldn't step up to the plate. There was conflict. They could not get on the same page no matter how hard they tried and what they both did. They broke up, because there was no hope.

After I did ONE session with Jade and cleared the debris, patterns and EMOTIONS from childhood, she and her boyfriend are back together, re-committed and on the same page. She has never been happier. Jade is working on my 6 week self study program that has energetic pattern clearing embedded in it. (More about that program below)

You Are A Magnet

Whether you know it or not, your unconscious mind sends out signals into the ethers and brings you back whatever trapped emotions are stuck inside your body-mind and spirit. 

If you had an alcoholic mother, abuse of any sort, were abandoned in any way or lied to, you will attract people who will not be there for you, will lie and cheat on you abandon or betray you. Our emotions are the biggest source of manifestation for us humans. Emotions are what bring us our desires. Often though, we don't even realize we are sending out unconscious messages of what we DON'T WANT, rather than what we do want.

If you have trapped anger in your body from being molested as a child, that emotion continues to send out a signal into the universe and brings you more events that will cause you to be angry. You may attract angry men or women. You may attract an angry boss. You may experience road rage while driving when someone cuts you off. All these events are signs and signals along your road of life that you have an issue. It is inside of you, rather than the other person. 

EMOTE, RINSE REPEAT

If events keep repeating for you, it is because you have an issue, rather than the other way around. It is so easy to blame the other person for their behavior, when we are the one magnetizing these situations to us. 

This Friday is the Vernal Equinox. It is also a day with two other powerful celestial events, a solar eclipse and a SUPERMOON. A new moon is the best day to manifest your desires. It is a perfect day to schedule your one-hour session and get going on what you really want in your life. 

DO IT YOURSELF?

1. Pray. Ask that your blocks be elliminated. You will get guidance about what you need to do to clear your blocks. 
2. Get Clear and Focused. You can't manifest when your thoughts are all over the place. Focus on one thing at a time. Write down a list of all the criteria of that one thing. Burn it today or tomorrow.
3. Feel It. Believe It. I have already mentioned how your emotions attract. Positive emotions attract positive things. So feel love. Feel rich, prosperous, be grateful. Gratitude will open your heart faster than anything - next to love.
4. Know it is done! Thank the universe, God, The Divine for bringing you what you desire. Remember doubt blocks. Be in faith.
5. Write down each day how grateful you are for having your desire right now, as if you have it. Writing down your gratitude is a powerful way of ensuring your quick delivery!

Within this self study program there is a one hour session with me the first week. This is a great way to experience my work to see if it is for you, while getting what you need at the same time. For $98.00 you get 7 pdf workbooks that guide you through the process, 7 videos to teach you AND a one-hour session with Jennifer! During the one-hour session you get an avatar treatment to release patterns with both parents, an energy clearing, coaching and an assessment of what emotions are trapped. The key ones plaguing you are cleared.

Women that have gone through this program have found by week 5 that they have manifested their dream guy. Amazing but true. The system I have in place steps your energy up week by week. I walk

you through how to manifest your dream relationship by focusing with clarity on what you want. I teach you how to do this on your own. 

For those who find the great benefits of my personalized coaching, but don't are budget conscious, my group coaching may be a great plan for you. I am starting a group program for $297.00 for the entire 6 week program. You receive 7 videos and 7 pdf workbooks to keep and reuse whenever you need a refresher.

Each week you will have the benefits of my live coaching on a call. Speaking to me by phone, or Skype shifts your energy. I am a catalyst. Ask any of my clients. You can't help but shift! Interested in this program. Send me an e-mail here.  The events will be recorded and you will be given a code to be able to listen again and again. 

Private Coaching

Prefer to have private coaching? My Magnetize Your Man course is $1,300 for 6 weeks of private coaching. In this 6-week course you receive 6 energy clearings, with private one-on-one coaching and emotional clearings. You receive 7 pdf workbooks to keep and use when you need a refresher and 7 videos to watch to assist you when you need a boost. Each week you will gain clarity, focus and deeper connection with you and your Divine Self. For the men in the group wanting a woman, the same thing holds true for you. You can attract what you desire, with this course. It works whether you are a man or a woman.

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a love and passion coach, empowering you to your highest and best. She gives you a leg up and over the challenges that continue no matter what you do or try. She shifts you to a higher, clearer more focused version of you. With love and compassion your anxiety lessens, depression and chaos lifts and a deeper more connected sense of self emerges.

5 Ways To Improve Your Life Right Now

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

When we think life is hard, it will be. When we resist life and life's events, we suffer. When we intend for our life to be positive blissful and  happy we are choosing something better for ourselves. 

When we encounter angry people in our world, it is because we are angry. Most of us are unaware of the emotions lurking in our unconscious mind. When we encounter people who complain, bitch or moan about their problems, it is because we complain about our own. Whatever we focus on expands, whether it is positive or negative. Our thoughts are magnified by repeating them.

Whatever is going on inside of us is reflected in our outside world. If we attract men who control us, it is because we are afraid of being alone. If people show up in our life that are angry, it is because we either have an intense fear of anger, or we have inner rage ourselves. 

Whatever we fear we attract. Whatever we think we attract. If we meet resentful negative people in our outside world, it is because we are resentful and negative. Energy moves in a circle. Whatever we send out comes right back to us. Often we are unaware of the energies we are putting out with our thoughts. Most of us are thinking unconscious thoughts without knowing or being aware of what they are. If we fear it, we will attract it. If we worry about not having enough money, The Universe will brings us more lack to worry about. 

LOOK FOR THE SILVER LINING

There is always a gift and a lesson in everything that happens. Look for the silver lining in each event. When a marriage or relationship ends, there is always 

Life Is Happening FOR You Always

Thinking thoughts that life is not fair, do not serve you. Stop this madness! Life is always and in EVERY way, working FOR you, not against you. Life is being orchestrated FOR you, beautifully. It is your thoughts that are creating the havoc in your life.

Reprogramming Our Thoughts

It is easier to change our conscious thoughts than our unconscious ones. So let's begin with what we are thinking. We have heard it all before, thoughts are things. If we think it, we create it. We need to think about our mind as a pristine proving ground. If we swear, we will lower our vibration and bring more negativity to us. If we think resentful thoughts about our ex, co-workers or children, people who are resentful will show up in our lives. These people are merely a reflection of what is going on in our mind.

Fitness For The Mind

Obsessing about a break-up, the ass hole that cut us off on the road, or the bank teller who seemed rude, all bring more of these things to us. Instead learn to NOT GIVE IT ENERGY. Let it go. When we think one particular thought over again we are obsessing. Sometimes a thought loops and plays like a broken record. This is particularly difficult to stop, but can be done. Coming to me for an energy clearing helps to clear the limiting belief or programming that is playing in your head. The more you think a negative thought about another, the more negativity you are bringing into tomorrow.

Like Attracts Like

Thinking positive thoughts will attract positive people, events and things into your life. Thinking negative thoughts, worrying or doubting yourself will bring you negative situations, lack and more to worry about.

Doing a drive-by to see what your girlfriends' new boyfriend's house is like, does not serve you and is like pouring acid on your heart. What is the point? You are only causing yourself more pain and perpetuating a thought. "She hurt me! Why is she doing this TO ME?...." or whatever you might be thinking.

Here are some suggestions to change your thought process into positive uplifting thoughts that will help you rather than hurt you. 

5 Ways To Improve Your Life Right Now

1. Forgive yourself for attracting this situation into your life using the Ho'oponopono Prayer below.
2. Let go of the negative past. Thinking about it is only giving it power. Each time you think a negative thought you are creating a ball and chain of negative energy which you are dragging around. This ball and chain gets heavier with each thought. It is not serving you. Let it go. Use a mantra to change your thought processes. I have some suggestions below.
3. Replace the negative thought with a mantra pick one that works for you, use one for a week and then change it up: I LOVE ME! I AM SAFE. GOOD THINGS ARE COMING TO ME EVERY DAY. ALL IS WELL IN MY WORLD. I AM BLISS. I AM LOVE. I AM BLESSED. I AM JOY. I KNOW THAT MIRACLES HAPPEN EVERY DAY AND I EXPECT MY MIRACLE TODAY!
4. Meditate each day. 
5. Raise your vibration every day. Guilt, shame, fear are all very low vibrating energies. Joy, peace, love and gratitude will raise your vibration. Gratitude is one of the easiest ways when you feel low to bring up your vibration. You have eyes that see, legs that move, a mind that thinks, food to eat, a roof over your head. The more you focus on the things you already have, the better your life will become. Gratitude gives everything fuel to manifest more good into your life.

The Ho'oponopono Prayer

This prayer although simplistic, is very powerful for healing the past hurt you have had. Always forgive yourself first for attracting the situation into your life. Then spend some time thinking about the other person. This does not mean you condone the other person's behavior. But NOT forgiving is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.

I am sorry

Please forgive me

I love you

Thank you

Spend at least 20 minutes doing this prayer for you first. Then spend about the same time forgiving the other person. You will feel better as a result. It releases you from the resentment of the other. Resentment can cause cancer. It does not serve you in the least. Talking about how much the other person did to you with everyone you come in contact with does not serve you and perpetuates negative energy, creating the negative events of tomorrow.

Set An Intention For Each Day

If you don't ask, you don't get. If you don't intend, you can't bring it forth. So each day, decide how you want to feel for the whole day. Make it BIG! Intend to feel one of the following:

Powerful

Fully Alive

Positive

Expansive

Joyful

Grateful

Loving

Strong

Join Jennifer tonight for Love Yourself Fearlessly Radio. Tonight's show is about THE MOLECULES OF EMOTION. How our emotions create havoc within our bodies when we hold on. How to release emotions safely. How to create more joy, peace and love in your life. 

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Jennifer is an author, life, love and sex coach. She empowers men and women to love themselves fearlessly, creating positive loving, healthy and balanced relationships. Trust, intimacy, and respect are the cornerstones for a great relationship. But first you must give love to yourself. Without self love, you will attract lack: lack of respect, lack of love, lack of trust, lack of commitment. Self love is the cornerstone to all healthy realtionships. Loving yourself is the first and foremost focus for healing your life, your world and bringing you permanent lasting happiness.

Jennifer is a healed healer. Working with Jennifer will cause your issues to come up. She is a catalystic healer. It is natural for her. It is not anything that she does. It is who she is. 

You can e-mail Jennifer here: Or visit her website:  http://www.JenniferElizabethMasters.com

Why I Don't Do Internet Dating

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Online dating is everywhere. There are thousands of sites to choose from. From Match.com, Zoosk, or E-Harmony as paid sites, Plenty of Fish, Adult Friend Finder, are any of them safe? There are pitfalls meeting on-line. 

Strange Masked People

My recent experience with Match.com earlier this year was eye opening. I signed up for a three month membership. After three weeks on line, I closed down my profile and ended my membership. Find out why.

I spent hours creating a profile of myself. It was clear, honest and forthright. I was not looking for marriage, but wanted someone I could trust and enjoy spending time with. I was not interested in a hook-up, or "hang-out." I wanted to take my time and get to know someone, slowly.

Though I set my profile for people within 250 miles, I had men messaging me from across the country. I had people tell me they would move to wherever I was. I knew that was not a good idea. Pressure to choose or make a decision can cause you to make a snap decision and choose the wrong person. When someone will move across the country without even knowing you, you have to wonder about their life there.

Being Intuitive Has Advantages

I sense energy. I can tell the difference in an e-mail from the "voice" of one person and the "voice" or energy of a different person. 

Immediate Chatting?

The people that wanted to "chat" immediately were masked and fake. They immediately wanted to move to private e-mailing rather than staying on the site.  Often the excuse was that they didn't want to discuss what they did for a living on the dating site. If someone can't tell you what they do for a living, you have to question why they would want to shift you to private e-mailing.

I found out that this was because they had fake profiles which would be shut down within days. The responses came from several different people, from several different e-mail addresses. I already sensed that there were different energies and more than one person responding. The photos were of models from catalogues and Internet sites. One such photo was a picture of a gentleman clad in a business suit, carrying a brief case. 

Your Time Is Precious

Taking matters into your own hands can mean you have instant dates. Are the dates you have going to be meaningful, or a waste of your precious time?

We have a tendency to accept dates from people on the Internet because we have spent money on the dating site. We want to get our money's worth. Unless the person has similar interests to you, don't bother. If you aren't a Harley riding Bess, don't date a man with a Harley! You will not be happy when he asks you out on a road trip.

Dating takes time and energy. Meeting in person allows eye contact, a chance to feel the other person's energy and get a sense of whether they are authentic or not. You can make eye contact and watch facial expressions. You can see if they are intent on what you are saying or checking their cell phone or texting while you talk.

On the Internet, you see a photo, but cannot be certain this photo is of the actual person, or a better looking cousin. It is easy to hide the truth on the Internet. 

Even profiles lie. If someone says they are an occasional smoker, they could be a chain-smoking chimney. You have to read between the lines. To one person, two drinks a night could be "a  social drinker." To a health and fitness nut, this could spell alcoholic. The truth can be stretched easily on the Internet for each person's purposes.

Lies, I Tell You! Lies!

There are many ways to lie and hide on the Internet. The photo you see could be 15 years old, and 50 pounds lighter that their current state. I met a man in person who had pictured himself in a tuxedo 20 years earlier when he still had hair! He was completely bald in person. 

Both sexes post photos of themselves when they were younger and lighter. When you meet someone in person, there is no mistake. You see them as they are. They cannot hide how they look. 

What You Are Telling The Universe

Signing up for on-line dating if you believe in the law of attraction does not support you. What you are telling God and The Universe is "I don't believe that you can do your job! I am going to step in and show you how it's done! I know better than YOU!"

Instead, I trust that The Divine will bring me who I am supposed to date, by putting that the person on my path. They will show up like there is a light bulb, or halow around them. Just like when I was doing landscaping, a glow was placed around the object I would need to complete the job. The Universe will send you exactly what you need, rather than what YOU think you want.

Where Can I Meet Someone?

Everyone buys gasoline for their car and groceries to eat. We shop at Costco, Publix, Albertson's King Supers or Walmart. Noticing the people around you in line or in the produce department can open a door for you. Be open. Look up. Notice who is walking beside you, or in line ahead of you in line. Talk to people in the store. When someone walks past you two or three times, maybe you need to ask them a question. Open up the lines of communication. 

If you don't leave your house or apartment, of course there will be no opportunity to meet someone. Why not frequent the places you have interest in, like art galleries, zoos, coffee houses, or even a library? Look around you when you are getting gas for your car. 

Trust

When you trust yourself you will also trust The Universe and The Divine. The Universe will never lie to you. Your body will never lie to you. Notice the signs and sounds your body gives to you when you meet someone. Does your heart go pitter patter, or does your stomach drop as in: Oh Oh? Faith requires that you let go of fear. 

You Attract What You Are

An important Universal Law, you attract what you are. If you are indecisive, you will attract someone who will force you to make decisions. If you are in fear, you will attract someone who will victimize you or cheat on you. If you are in denial of who you are, you will attract someone who will lie to you. 

Be The Love

To have love, you have to give it. The person you must give it to first is you. Start loving yourself today. When we are filled with self love, we attract someone who will accept us, rather than attempt to change us, because we accept ourselves. Coming to the table already filled means your relationship will be healthy, balanced, rather than based on neediness and emptiness. When we are looking for someone to fill us up, our relationship will eventually fail. No one can make us happy, but us. A relationship will bring you joy, and peace, when you already have peace within.

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a life, love and sex coach. She has been codependent, and needy. Jennifer understands what it feels like and can help you recover. She is a gifted healer and coach, getting to the root of your personal issues quickly. She is the author or Orgasm For Life a book to increase intimacy, understanding and communication so that your relationship becomes more connected. With trust, respect and authenticity sex is better and love expands. 

Visit Jennifer's website here. Or E-mail her to set up your 30 minute Discovery session to find out if her catalyst coaching will work for you. She will be on Nazim Rashid's Reconnected show, this Saturday, July 19th at 11:00 AM PST time.