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Sunday, January 10, 2016

Your Body Never Lies; Developing Your Intuitive Senses

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Long before I trusted my Guidance, I received messages that I was not aware of fully. Yawns, stomach gurgles, growls, an uneasy feeling, tenseness of the tummy all were my body's messages to me that I ignored. Till one day.....


I was working at GTE Services in Atlanta before it became Verizon, over 25 years ago. Yes, I did work in corporate America for a time. I was recently divorced and had moved with my two young sons into a three bedroom apartment after living in a 600,000 home in Sibley Forest an upscale subdivision with pool and tennis courts in Marietta, Georgia. 

I had been a stay-at-home mother for over nine years till the time of my divorce. I hired a nanny on the suggestion of one of my German friends in Sibley. The young nanny came highly recommended by my friend. She could even drive. The driving wasn't a big deal for me because I only had one car and drove to and from work daily. 

Towards the end of our first summer in the apartment, Adam begged me to let our nanny take them to Sparkles, a neighborhood roller skating rink and McDonald's. They had been confined to our apartment complex and bicycles the entire summer. Truthfully, I felt tremendous guilt about taking them out of their affluent subdivision and away from their father. My guilt led me to ignore strong signs from my body.

Each time Adam begged me, I tapped into the feeling of dread. My stomach dropped, and I felt huge anxiety about allowing them to go with our nanny to Sparkles. It wasn't that I didn't want them to have fun, I had to leave my car with a 20-year old entrusting the safety of my two sons. She assured me she was a good driver. Adam begged me again. Against my better judgment and body signals (huge anxiety and stomach dropping fear) I made arrangements to leave my car with Zonyia and allow her to drive the boys to Sparkles and McDonald's. Zonyia asked if a nanny-friend of hers could go with them. Again my stomach revolted with anxiety and gripping fear, which I ignored.

I got a ride to work early that morning with a co-worker. Before 11:30, my manager called me into his office. He told me that the Marietta Fire Department was on the phone, and my boys had been in an accident. My worst fears were realized. They were being transported to Scottish Rite Children's Hospital on backboards via ambulance! 

I recognized that my body was trying to tell me, no, was SCREAMING AT ME,  "NO!"

My Huge Lesson

My body tells me if I should or not do something. When faced with gripping fear in the pit of my stomach, I listen carefully and ask myself further questions. I never have since this day ignored strong messages that my body gives me. If I meet a man and get a strong message, "NO!" I won't go out with him, no matter how great he looks in his jeans!

The Power of Listening

Yawning is a message that you don't want to look at an issue. Yawning is avoidance personified. It means I don't want to do this, or look at this. I would rather hide away. 

Stomach Growling is another message that can be interpreted in many ways. Yes, it could mean you are hungry. However, the timing of the stomach growl could also be a sign of something else. Pay attention to when your stomach growls. Is it just that you are hungry, or is it a sign to pay attention to what is going on in your world?

Stomach Dropping is a big sign to listen to. If you feel gripping fear or tenseness in your stomach and a dropping as well, pay attention. This could be a powerful sign NOT to MOVE FORWARD in this direction. 

Body Guidance

When you are developing your intuition body messages are a way of learning whether your intuition is telling you something or not. I will say this; your body will never lie to you.

How To Use Your Body As A Human Pendulum

I will have to create a video to explain this, but here goes. I teach this to my clients to help them make decisions and deepen their trust of intuition.

  1. Stand feet shoulder width apart. 
  2. Cross your arms over your chest. Right hand on left shoulder, left hand on the right shoulder.
  3. Ask yourself a question that you know the answer to, like your name? "Is my name _________?"
  4. An affirmative, or YES answer will cause your body to sway forward.
  5. A negative answer or NO answer will cause your body to sway backward. 
  6. A maybe answer will cause your body to sway around almost in a circle.
Light or Aura Around Items

In my book, Odyssey Victim To Victory, I write about how I deepened my intuition and began to develop trust for it's efficacy or truth. When I had my landscaping business in Georgia, I would walk into my barn and see certain tools or tarps lit up with an aura around them. Over the course of a two-year period, I argued or

discounted this Guidance at least 20 times. I was very stubborn back then. I have since given up on this as I know and completely TRUST my Guidance to be truthful always. Yes, I said ALWAYS. I have NEVER received Guidance that was wrong. 

Food Items In The Grocery Store

I began to see food light up for me in the grocery store that I needed to consume. I have also heard a buzzer in my head, like, "NOPE THAT'S NOT THE ONE!" 

If you can't see auras just yet, don't be concerned, as you begin to use your intuition is will become more pronounced. Like muscles built through working out in the gym, anything you begin to use daily will become more pronounced and developed. 

What Type Of Guidance Can You Receive?

I have received the exact time and date to move out of a house to another state. Read about this here: Manic Move To The Mojave. 

I have received exact times to leave a place to drive home to California from Boulder. This timing saved me from a flood. Read the story here. Surfing Home From Boulder. 

Everyone Gets Guidance

Everyone has an internal compass. Everyone gets guidance through their body. Everyone can develop and trust their Guidance on a deeper level. 

I have had people tell me that this Guidance comes from The Devil. If that is true then why did Jesus have Guidance? Was Jesus from the Devil? How about David, Moses and many others. Humans have an innate guidance system that was God-given. Our gifts can't be bad if Divinely given.

Why Would You Want Guidance?

Receiving Guidance makes life easier. It makes decision-making infinitely easier. Choices, dating, are so much easier when you listen to and TRUST your Guidance. The problem is most people discount their Guidance like I did when my boys had their accident. We need to develop trust for this internal guidance system over time. Mine happened over years of receiving and recognizing that it was never wrong.

Dowsing

Dowsing is the use of a stick to find water, or a pendulum to seek answers. When a dowser is good, they can receive accurate answers to questions. Some of the things you can do with a pendulum is find out how beneficial a situation is for you. Using your body as a pendulum is another form of dowsing.

The Akashic Records

The Akashic Records are considered The Record Book of God. Everything that has ever happened, every thought, word, deed, and emotion is recorded since the beginning of time for each person's soul. 

I had heard about The Akashic Records many times before I decided to go to Bali to learn to read The Akashic Records. Learning to read The Akashic Records helped deepen my intuitive powers and hone my abilities. Now I sense, hear, see, smell intuitively. These are called:

Clairsentience
Clairaudience
Clairvoyance
Clairgustance

My sense is that the smelling part is something that you might have questions about. Following are a couple of ways I experienced smell recently in my sessions with clients.

Last week I did a session with a new client by telephone. I did a clearing for her as well as an Akashic Record Reading. While her records were opened, I did both. Towards the end of the session, I smelled burning sage. I knew I had not burned it recently, so I asked this client, "Do you have sage in your house?" They responded with a question like they didn't know what I was talking about at first. I knew my senses were never wrong, so I pursued. "I smelled burning sage, have you burned it recently." When I phrased the question differently, they responded, "Yes, I just saged my entire home yesterday!"

During an energy clearing for a woman's deep emotional pain with her father, I smelled dill pickles. She told me that her father's favorite was dill pickles. This confirmed to her that I was indeed communicating with her father. During this same session, I also smelled beef pot roast. She told me she was cooking a pot roast while doing the phone session with me. 

With intuition, there is not space or time. Intuition goes beyond walls, distance or worlds. We are limitless multi-dimensional beings of light. You just need to be reminded!

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Wednesday, June 18, 2014

The Sexless Marriage

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

You know “that look” women get when they want sex? Me neither. —Steve Martin


The quote above is an excerpt from Orgasm For Life - the book.


One of the reasons I wrote Orgasm For Life, was because of the number of clients I had that were not having sex with their spouses. This book was written to bring greater understanding within relationships, so that the communication is better. When communication outside the bedroom improves, communication inside the bedroom improves, therefore, sex also improves. Orgasm for Life, will change your heart, mind and make you laugh. 


Women have many reasons in their minds for saying and emphatic "No!" From feeling that their husband is more like a little boy than a man, to "he's not connected to his heart," these reasons are excuses for a deeper underlying cause.

Understanding the opposite sex is important. The problem is that while women are nagging at their husbands for other issues, the men tune out their women and no longer hear what they are saying. An example, of not listening is what I was recently told by a client. Her husband of over 20 years sends her red roses for Mother's Day and her birthday. This sounds sweet, considerate and thoughtful. Her children however, have listened. They know what she likes. She loves pink roses, not red. If your husband does not listen to what you say and like, how is he going to hear what you want in bed? Would he even care? If your husband is so disconnected and unaware of his wives' wishes, why would you want to have sex with him? There is a huge lesson here for men.

Being a woman myself, it is a rare man who treats a woman with respect, opens doors, walks around to the car door to open it for her, treating her like a lady. After years of marriage, this chivalrous behavior is often long-forgotten. Women begin to feel like yesterday's news rather than a gem, or a Goddess who is revered, adored and loved. Take a good look at how you treat each other, before you complain about not having sex. What could you do differently. How could you treat your partner with more caring, respect and honoring? Is your partner having orgasms with regularity? Do you even know or care? Sex is an act that is two-sided, both parties give and receive pleasure. If only one person is receiving the ultimate pleasure of an orgasm, something is amiss. 

Asking questions outside the bedroom is important. What feels good to you? What can I do differently? How can I pleasure you differently? Have you ever had a conversation about how the sex is? If not, why not? A marriage is supposed to be one of deep intimacy and connection. Intimacy is deepened when both parties are able to love and accept the other unconditionally, be completely transparent (authentic) so that trust is developed. Respect figures prominently for both parties. When one of the other is constantly being critiqued, bashed, or abused, sex is the furthest thing from their minds. 

I often hear that sarcasm is used to communicate an uncomfortable issue. Sarcasm has no place in a loving relationship. It is a passive aggressive move, couched in humor. Saying afterward, "I was just kidding," does not negate the slight or put-down. Humor does not soften the blow. If you are using sarcasm or "humorous put-downs" take a look at why you can't speak the truth openly. Is your comment necessary, or are you putting down your partner to make you feel better about yourself? 

Women need intimacy to have sex, Men need sex to have intimacy.

There is no doubt that men and women are wired differently. Women need romance, thoughtful gestures, and to be told they look beautiful. I have interviewed hundreds of men and found that many will never tell their wife they look beautiful out of their own fear that she will then have an affair. This is the man's insecurity, rather than an issue with the woman. In one particular case, this husband was complaining about his wife not wanting to have sex with him after 36 years. I asked him when the last time was he told her she was beautiful? He replied, "Never!" He was so insecure about himself, he would never tell her she was beautiful.

The opposition of our wiring can lead to mis-understanding and stand-offs. Where one person is vehement in their perspective and the other perpetuates theirs. We can win the battle with this thought process and lose the marriage. Think about your perspective and thought process. Is being right, worth it? As yourself is this issues something that will matter in 5 years? If the answer is NO, go ahead and make love, it is a lot more fun than fighting!



Sex Is Not One-Sided

Historically, sex has been an act where men pleasure themselves with women, while women just lay there. A woman's pleasure was the last thing on most men's minds. In many cases, not much has changed. Women need to be warmed up to the idea of sex. Women are not usually ready to go, just because they are wet. Women need foreplay, touch, caressing. Most women need 20 to 40 minutes of stimulation to get to the pleasure palace of Disneyland - the BIG O. After 20 years of not having what they need, many women are signing off from doing the horizontal mambo. Women need to have at least one orgasm before penile insertion occurs. If this is not happening, many women spend a lifetime not having orgasms. 

Reasons Women Say No

  1. Fatigue
  2. Lack of Romance, Intimacy, Deep Conversations and Caring from their partner.
  3. Lack of Interest due to low hormones.
  4. Past hurts, insults or abuse.
  5. Lack of consideration for their feelings.
  6. No Heartfelt Apology from spouse for number 5.
  7. Tired of not having an orgasm - "What's the point?"
  8. Does't feel heard, or understood.
  9. Feels man doesn't listen when she says what she needs or wants in bed.
  10. Issues unresolved outside the bedroom, interfering with thoughts about sex. Women can't have sex when angry or upset with their partner. (Men on the other hand can and do.)
  11. Too much stress. Women need to get out of their heads to have sex. Stress and too many things undone in the household, or work can interfere with thoughts and feelings of letting go.
How To Overcome A Sexless Marriage

  1. Listen with an open heart to your partner.
  2. Communicate without blame.
  3. Repair the issues that are outstanding. Sometimes you need to hire a coach, therapist or psychologist to overcome these issues. Choose someone who will be a positive influence and not take sides.
  4. Bring romance back into the relationship.
  5. When both parties are ready, begin with hand-holding, eye gazing and appreciation of each other. Appreciation is one of the biggest issues lacking in marriages where sex is an issue.
  6. Respect each other. Mutual respect must be in place for a healthy sex life.
  7. Build trust. When sex has diminished a breach of trust has occurred. Repairing and re-building trust takes time. Be patient.
  8. Read Orgasm For Life. There are hundreds of great tips for repairing, re-building and re-kindling the fires of passion. Orgasm For Life on Amazon
Want to hear the latest interview with Jennifer on The Love Doctor? Here is the link to the show from Tuesday, June 17, 2014

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/lovedoctorradio/2014/06/18/orgasm-for-life-part-2

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is the author or Orgasm For Life and Odyssey Victim to Victory. Both books are available on Amazon, as well as her website: http://www.JenniferElizabethMasters.com

Jennifer is a catalystic coach, compassionate healer and wise teacher. She is a Spiritual mentor for many and has performed thousands of energy clearings for clients since 2007. To schedule a FREE discovery session to find out if you would be a good fit for her work, you can do so HERE


George Carlin did a stand-up routine on men and women. He said that men are stupid and women are crazy. He sited many reasons why men are stupid. The above example is one of them. Men simply don't care enough about their partner to listen to them. They are so busy in their own heads thinking about themselves, that they can't hear their spouse. Although George was a hard-hitting comic, most people are unaware of the fact that he was happily married. George Carlin loved his wife. She died in 1997. He missed her terribly. Known for a foul mouth, if you listen to this bit, there are a few "F" bombs. However, the underlying truth is eye-opening.


Sunday, May 4, 2014

Moving Out of Fear and Into Trust

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters


Interested in hearing who Jennifer is on the air? Join her this Friday at 1:00 PM EST and 10:00 AM PST as Hollis Chapman, author of the book Pursue Your Passion interviews Jennifer about her forthcoming book: Orgasm For Life.

This is Jennifer's second time on Hollis' show. Our last time was synergistic, laugh filled and very entertaining. Find out what makes Jennifer tick, and more about her book.

Fear is absence of faith. We often control our loved ones. Controlling others, telling our loved ones how to do things, rather than allowing them to just be who they are, comes from fear. Controlling is a waste of our precious life force energy. Letting go of fear allows us to be in stillness, to listen to our guidance. Our own inner knowing is powerful. We have to be quiet and still to hear the still small voice inside of us. Learning to stop the mind chatter and quiet the mind (our ego) so that we can hear this quiet voice is imperative. 


We need to quiet our mind to be able to hear our inner guidance. Fear makes us feel shattered, nervous and then depend on others to make our decisions for us. No one knows better than your High Self - your true God self for yourself. Our gut is our best guide. Ask questions when sitting in silence, waiting to hear the response of our body will help you. Listen to what your body is saying. Is your stomach gurgling? 


Click the link to hear my podcast about moving out of control and fear, so that we can hear our inner guidance and learn to trust ourselves. In this podcast I give exercises to quiet the mind, so that you can get to and hear the inner guidance.




Jennifer is the author of the forthcoming book: Orgasm For Life. This book holds the key to getting to your heart, increasing intimacy and deepening connection with your partner. Jennifer is also a hypnotherapist, Master Energy healer, speaker and radio guest of hundreds of radio shows. She teaches self love, as a means to let go of fear, improve our relationships and deepen our connection with ourselves. Through self love, permanent happiness just happens. Happiness is not something that you get from another. It comes from within. Jennifer is a guide, certified life coach and teacher of Metaphysics. She has been on a spiritual path since she was in her teens. Looking for enlightenment has been her goal since this time. She awakened and became enlightened in 2012 while in Boulder, Colorado.