You know “that look” women get when they want sex? Me neither. —Steve Martin
The quote above is an excerpt from Orgasm For Life - the book.
One of the reasons I wrote Orgasm For Life, was because of the number of clients I had that were not having sex with their spouses. This book was written to bring greater understanding within relationships, so that the communication is better. When communication outside the bedroom improves, communication inside the bedroom improves, therefore, sex also improves. Orgasm for Life, will change your heart, mind and make you laugh.
Women need intimacy to have sex, Men need sex to have intimacy.
- Lack of Romance, Intimacy, Deep Conversations and Caring from their partner.
- Lack of Interest due to low hormones.
- Past hurts, insults or abuse.
- Lack of consideration for their feelings.
- No Heartfelt Apology from spouse for number 5.
- Tired of not having an orgasm - "What's the point?"
- Does't feel heard, or understood.
- Feels man doesn't listen when she says what she needs or wants in bed.
- Issues unresolved outside the bedroom, interfering with thoughts about sex. Women can't have sex when angry or upset with their partner. (Men on the other hand can and do.)
- Too much stress. Women need to get out of their heads to have sex. Stress and too many things undone in the household, or work can interfere with thoughts and feelings of letting go.
- Listen with an open heart to your partner.
- Communicate without blame.
- Repair the issues that are outstanding. Sometimes you need to hire a coach, therapist or psychologist to overcome these issues. Choose someone who will be a positive influence and not take sides.
- Bring romance back into the relationship.
- When both parties are ready, begin with hand-holding, eye gazing and appreciation of each other. Appreciation is one of the biggest issues lacking in marriages where sex is an issue.
- Respect each other. Mutual respect must be in place for a healthy sex life.
- Build trust. When sex has diminished a breach of trust has occurred. Repairing and re-building trust takes time. Be patient.
- Read Orgasm For Life. There are hundreds of great tips for repairing, re-building and re-kindling the fires of passion. Orgasm For Life on Amazon