Last week on Jamillah A. Shabazz radio show I ruffled quite a few feathers by saying that being celibate was ego centered.
Jamillah A. Shabazz a channel of John Christopher in LA, asked me to return today. There was a flurry of e-mails, requests and a bunch of upset women, who preferred that I not return to her show. She told me, nobody was going to tell her what to do. We talked about celibacy, spirituality and tantra.
Holding Out For THE ONE?
Are You Missing The Boat, The Helicopter and The Rescue?
There was a joke about the man who's house was flooding. He prayed for help. He climbed up onto the roof and refused to climb into a boat that came by to assist him. He also refused the helicopter when it was offered, thinking that God would rescue him. He also refused to climb into the life raft that came by. The waters continued to rise. When he reached the pearly gates of Heaven, St. Peter asked him, why did you not get in the boat, helicopter or life raft. The man said, I was waiting for God to rescue me. St. Peter asked him, "Who do you think sent the boat, the helicopter and the life raft?"
It has been my experience that many women often bypass the best men, thinking that the bad boys are preferable. Then later wonder why these men cheated on them. Sometimes the best men are right in front of you, but you pass them by thinking that they are not perfect or right for you.
Sometimes, we are sent just the person that we need to open our hearts, allow us to soften and grow and maybe have some fun along the way. Yet, we fail to see these people as "right" for us. I have witnessed women who go through my Love Yourself Fearlessly program and after week 4 notice the man that was right in front of them the whole time. When they love and accept themselves they begin to open up to accepting others more easily as well.
Being Right and Losing Out
Acceptance is Loving
Lighten Up And Enjoy Life A Little More